FabSwingers.com forum: single guy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why if you say your interested in single guys does it seem.like an insult that we took time to read profile and say hi and its either ignored or deleted rude

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because there a feeling on here all single guys are assholes even whe you put work into contacting people. I found couplets on here to be the worst for not replying or sending the most pointless emails were ur left scratching ur head as to why they bother even sending such stupid messages.

I suggest not writing people anymore and letting them initiate contact, you wont get branded as an annoying single guy like everyone else. Good luck with it mate

By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

"Why if you say your interested in single guys does it seem.like an insult that we took time to read profile and say hi and its either ignored or deleted rude

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maybe its a case guys that us cpls get so many time wasters on this site we just get sick of looking at mails however there is no excuse for being rude and a simple sorry ur not for mail doesnt cost anything, maybe cpls are afraid that guys will take offence if there told there not for them .

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fair point and going by some of the initial messages guys send I guess I don't blame couples and girls but if its a decent respectful hi x maybe a reply would be nice.Now I just end mine with if you don't reply I won't bother you again apologies for bothering you x

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but looking from a purely statistical point of view a couple will be twice as hard to impress. Generally if one half may be interested but the other half is not its a veto right away.

So that's what I keep telling myself that the couples that don't reply were probably half intersted in me.

Ah self delusions where would we be without them.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair point and going by some of the initial messages guys send I guess I don't blame couples and girls but if its a decent respectful hi x maybe a reply would be nice.Now I just end mine with if you don't reply I won't bother you again apologies for bothering you x"