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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people hide their validations ? With so many fakers about we will always at least try to cross reference the validations. Also, there is an option to make public each validation on an individual basis. Just wondering as we have had mail from cpls that look (and quite possibly are) legit, have a green tick beside their profile but have blocked them from public view. If we can't check the validations we just won't reply and the fakers are to blame for this.

Your thoughts please.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some of the people may have left the site in which case the validation leaves with them but the tick stays on profile also some pref just to display 1 or 2 to show gen but not all of them (thats our pref)

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

We have quite a few and showed few for a long time, and even them all for a while, but hide them at the min for personal reasons! so I guess, people have their own reasons, and others because they may only be phone or cam and don't wish to be viewed as not wanting to meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some if us believe discretion means just that.

If you are chatting to people and you are getting along with them well enough to contemplate a meet, ask to see the veris. I have mine hidden but I put them up for a few minutes for a potential meet to see. Works well for me and many others

No ones else's business who I meet on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some if us believe discretion means just that.

If you are chatting to people and you are getting along with them well enough to contemplate a meet, ask to see the veris. I have mine hidden but I put them up for a few minutes for a potential meet to see. Works well for me and many others

No ones else's business who I meet on here.

"

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a choice to people: a verification is to show if the person is real.

Not how big the cock is or how many times the person cum. Way to much information.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people hide their validations ? With so many fakers about we will always at least try to cross reference the validations. Also, there is an option to make public each validation on an individual basis. Just wondering as we have had mail from cpls that look (and quite possibly are) legit, have a green tick beside their profile but have blocked them from public view. If we can't check the validations we just won't reply and the fakers are to blame for this.

Your thoughts please....."

its everyones own choice if they want to show them or not!just ask them to send u one in a pm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have two up on the profile. No point in any more. Don't even ask people to verify us. Once a couple are up for people to realise we are genuine and how adventurous we like to be that's enough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Agree with all of the above posts. The reason we asked is that we got stung by 2 fake cpls (on another site) and just left a sour taste in the mouth (no pun intended).

Sometimes it just takes someone to state the obvious on how to avoid it happening again...."ask to send veri in a pm".

Thanks for the input peeps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with all of the above posts. The reason we asked is that we got stung by 2 fake cpls (on another site) and just left a sour taste in the mouth (no pun intended).

Sometimes it just takes someone to state the obvious on how to avoid it happening again...."ask to send veri in a pm".

Thanks for the input peeps. "

if i was chatting to sumone tht had hidden verifications unless they pmed me at least of the veries (if they had any at all) i wudnt even consider meeting them!was caught out myself b4!its so annoying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with all of the above posts. The reason we asked is that we got stung by 2 fake cpls (on another site) and just left a sour taste in the mouth (no pun intended).

Sometimes it just takes someone to state the obvious on how to avoid it happening again...."ask to send veri in a pm".

Thanks for the input peeps.

if i was chatting to sumone tht had hidden verifications unless they pmed me at least of the veries (if they had any at all) i wudnt even consider meeting them!was caught out myself b4!its so annoying!

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I wouldn't ask to see a pm of a veri as that can be faked. As them to show them on their profile whilst you are online and go read them. Then they can turn them off again. Much less easy to fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with all of the above posts. The reason we asked is that we got stung by 2 fake cpls (on another site) and just left a sour taste in the mouth (no pun intended).

Sometimes it just takes someone to state the obvious on how to avoid it happening again...."ask to send veri in a pm".

Thanks for the input peeps.

if i was chatting to sumone tht had hidden verifications unless they pmed me at least of the veries (if they had any at all) i wudnt even consider meeting them!was caught out myself b4!its so annoying!

I wouldn't ask to see a pm of a veri as that can be faked. As them to show them on their profile whilst you are online and go read them. Then they can turn them off again. Much less easy to fake"

they can easily copy and paste the veri frm their profile and pm it!any veri can be fake!but if a profile has over 2 verifications frm ppl tht have verified others,more often than not they are genuine!I personally find it easy enough to spot if profiles are fake or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't publish mine for privacy reasons and therefore don't ask for them either.

Occassionally I might 'flash' the few I have if someone asked about it.

The green tick has its uses but I generally don't believe most of them anyway, because I know several for a fact that are not true.

I'm a good judge of character and make up my own mind regardless of verifs.

I also tend to steer clear of profiles with an unhealthy frequency of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My testimony is gone but the validation tick is still there, user has since left the site. Can see why some people feel they need absolute privacy as there's not that many places around the country where you can get lost in population.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some if us believe discretion means just that.

If you are chatting to people and you are getting along with them well enough to contemplate a meet, ask to see the veris. I have mine hidden but I put them up for a few minutes for a potential meet to see. Works well for me and many others

No ones else's business who I meet on here.

"

exactly, I do the same.

I've also received jealous emails from women who asked me all kinds of questions when and where I met the guy who wrote my veri. Or how about the guy who I met a few weeks ago and then sees a new veri on my account and goes all jealous. Better leave them hidden.

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