FabSwingers.com forum: Surely I'm not the only one lol

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am I the only one to notice how ya can sooo quickly go from being on someone's friends list to their block list without actually doin anything wrong with possibly the exception of failing miserably to massage their ego to the extent they expect ?? .. Surely I'm not alone on this ? .. All comments welcome whether positive or negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why get worked up about it just move on,posting negative comments wont help the cause

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only one to notice how ya can sooo quickly go from being on someone's friends list to their block list without actually doin anything wrong with possibly the exception of failing miserably to massage their ego to the extent they expect ?? .. Surely I'm not alone on this ? .. All comments welcome whether positive or negative

if you have to massage their ego,s then your better off without them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We regularly trim our friends list if we havent contacted or had any contact for a bit but wouldnt block someone we removed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cull my friends list sometimes, not because I'm a desperate attention seeker, just cos I want to put new pics up maybe and haven't spoke to certain people for a while, Im too paranoid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont block anyone unless they piss me off or do sumthing to offend me!maybe u said sumthing to offend her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have been here and all i can say is that the longer your are a fabster the more used you get to this sort of thing. ive been blocked twice by people who literally 2 messages before were trying to arrange a meet and to this day i have absoultely no idea why...but the above posters are right...dont dwell on it and get yourself out there and have fun...plenty more fish n all that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have very few blocked. Don't know or care who has me blocked tbh, sure I don't miss chatting to them so they are not important. Maybe a bit harsh but its not real life for me.

I did meet a female of a new couple a few weeks ago for a drink with a view to a meet. No buzz at all for me but when I messaged them to thank her for the drink, and ask if they wanted me to verify them they never had the manner to reply and took me off their friends list......course I cried myself to sleep for several nights I was soo hurt! lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think too often ppl accept friends requests when they haven't met or even spoken by phone or message. We don't consider the person that walks down the same street as us a friend so we are always careful who we accept as friends. As a general rule we only add ppl as friends once we have met them or at very least spoken on the phone.

Maybe that's why we're such loners.....lol !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think too often ppl accept friends requests when they haven't met or even spoken by phone or message. We don't consider the person that walks down the same street as us a friend so we are always careful who we accept as friends. As a general rule we only add ppl as friends once we have met them or at very least spoken on the phone.

Maybe that's why we're such loners.....lol !!"

I'm the same and rarely only add friends if we have chatted a lot and spoken on the phone....a lot just want added to perv private pics I think lol

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