FabSwingers.com forum: Fave Fab life pro tips? 💁

By *utrageous OP Man
4 days ago

West Cork

They say we learn something new everyday - sometimes trivial, sometimes life-altering.

For example, I only just learned last year the "correct" way to tie shoelaces after chatting with a fellow fabber 😅

What are some hot tips you learned along your Fab journey that maybe you wish you could impart to your former self? Sexual or non- it's all gravy 🤗

Just the tip(s)! 😄👏

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
4 days ago

East / North, Cork

Make friends out of swingers, not swingers out of friends

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By *otownkid1967Man
4 days ago

Portlaoise

Don't be pushy

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By *rchimedes500Man
4 days ago

city

Now Im wondering what is the correct way to tie a shoe lace. Have I been doing it wrong all this time ?

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By *og-ManMan
4 days ago

somewhere

If you dont ask you dont get

Best advice I've been given on fab

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By *rchimedes500Man
4 days ago

city

Maybe I should start asking

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By *s LollyWoman
4 days ago

The pub then supermacs ...

When you send a message delete it then your not going torturing yourself to see if it was read or not😁

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By *om TangoMan
4 days ago

Tedavnet Co.Monaghan

Fab is not only about sex, it’s a great way to meet new friends and connections

You can be open and honest with the community you get involved in without judgement.

You can openly talk about kinks or things you would like to try with the community

You can ask others for advice

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By *rRiosMan
4 days ago

dublin

"I only just learned last year the "correct" way to tie shoelaces after chatting with a fellow fabber 😅"

What is the correct way to tie shoelaces? 🤔

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By *heCatWhoGotTheCream2024Man
4 days ago

Funville

I just assumed shoelaces were meant to untie themselves every few minutes while walking 🤔

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 days ago

Castlebar

"I just assumed shoelaces were meant to untie themselves every few minutes while walking 🤔"

Me too

Im guessing we are tying them wrong. We are moving in the wrong Fab circles clearly

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By *utrageous OP Man
4 days ago

West Cork

Re: shoelaces-

I was pointed to this stellar resource all about knots 😄

This page in particular is what changed my life:

https://www.fieggen.com/shoelace/grannyknot.htm

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By *utrageous OP Man
4 days ago

West Cork

"Make friends out of swingers, not swingers out of friends

A solid rule for sure- need a t-shirt 😄

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By *utrageous OP Man
4 days ago

West Cork

"Fab is not only about sex, it’s a great way to meet new friends and connections

You can be open and honest with the community you get involved in without judgement.

You can openly talk about kinks or things you would like to try with the community

You can ask others for advice "

This is one of my biggest takeaways and a great knock on effect from attending events.

It's not all about just putting things inside other things 😜

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By *heCatWhoGotTheCream2024Man
4 days ago

Funville

"Re: shoelaces-

I was pointed to this stellar resource all about knots 😄

This page in particular is what changed my life:

https://www.fieggen.com/shoelace/grannyknot.htm"

Haha the flow chart on tying knots on this page is more confusing than some of the most complex engineering process flows I've dealt with in work 🤣

(Also I always thought a granny knot was slang for tying up older women 😳👀🤔)

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By *umbleweed.Man
4 days ago

Naas

For guys particularly patience, and be true to yourself try not to be somebody you're not....oh and make sure you tie your shoelaces properly, it's the first thing ladies notice 🤪

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By *rystalsswingCouple
4 days ago

Galway /West / Dublin

Don't be a dick 🙋‍♀️

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By *rchimedes500Man
4 days ago

city

This

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By *he KakapoMan
4 days ago

A nice rock

Fab gave me my first insights into the trans community and the struggles they face and into gender dysphoria in general.

There was conversations and discussions here that just weren't happening in other spaces at the time.

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By *weetpea2000Woman
4 days ago

the back of beyond

"Now Im wondering what is the correct way to tie a shoe lace. Have I been doing it wrong all this time ?"

Same here 🤔

Maybe it's time for comfy slip in and on ones!

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By *affa31Woman
4 days ago

Galway

That there is someone attracted to every body type.

The world would have you believe that only a certain body type for men and women is attractive and fab shows that that’s just not true. The range of bodies on here and in the hot pics is great.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 days ago

Castlebar

That if something just doesn't feel right its a red flag and dont ignore it. Trust yourself

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By *ollypop9Woman
4 days ago

wouldn't you like to know

If you are attending any event, dont ever expect anything, that way everything is a bonus.

As mentioned already, if you dont ask....

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By *ookAndDorkCouple
4 days ago

The West

Your fab persona is two dimensional avatar.

Rejection or a lack of success on here isn't a reflection of you as a person.

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By *orny guy 1971Man
4 days ago

exeter

"When you send a message delete it then your not going torturing yourself to see if it was read or not😁 "

Great advice I am always looking to see if it’s opened. I wish people would just delete of not interested

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By *orny guy 1971Man
4 days ago

exeter

Great advice!

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By *razy-CplCouple
4 days ago

Cork

When going to a party or club event first time , dont think or expect it to be a mass orgy, or when mailing expecting women to ready for you with legs spread

Mrs crazy

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By *rystalsswingCouple
4 days ago

Galway /West / Dublin

"Your fab persona is two dimensional avatar.

Rejection or a lack of success on here isn't a reflection of you as a person."

Oh this 🙌🫶

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By *og-ManMan
4 days ago

somewhere

Listen

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By *emonsNotMelonsWoman
4 days ago

Kerry

That a swing and a miss is better than no experience on the pitch. 💃🏻

Both in regards to putting myself out there even if it does result in a rejection, and trying new things even if they weren't for me.

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By *imi RaeWoman
4 days ago

orbiting

don't claim to be single when it can be found out easy everyone knows everyone in Ireland especially with social media

I have made genuine friendships with people from here and I have told people personal stuff for them only to be a nasty men and add onto trust issues I already have just be a nice person it gets you far on here

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By *enerationfornicationMan
4 days ago

not far from

"Now Im wondering what is the correct way to tie a shoe lace. Have I been doing it wrong all this time ?"

There prob more than 6 different ways.

popular styles you can try:

1. Standard Knot (Loop, Swoop, and Pull) = Two-Loop Knot (bunny ears)

2. better bow Knot / Double Bow Knot (cross the laces to form an "X.")

3. straight lace

4. ladder lace

5. web lace

6. bow lace

Most of us were taught the "bunny ears" or you simply learned some modified version of thr sbove without realising it.

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By *enerationfornicationMan
4 days ago

not far from

- Everyone is here for a reason.

- Avoid personal questions and dont be a dick.

- Keep the many sides of you separate (some people have issues with boundaries)

- keep your personal stuff to yourself (or with a counsellor who can't split on you)

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By *og-ManMan
4 days ago

somewhere

If its wrecking your head and you're finding it hard.....hide your profile and take a break

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By *adger BrocMan
3 days ago

North Cork

Learn to recognise a**holes and a**lickers and avoid both like the plague.

Tell it as it is

Others will judge you as they see fit.

Some Fab friends come with, and some without, benefits.

The clicking sound you hear may be the coming together of a meaningful connection or the drawbridge being raised by those wishing to keep you out of their little world.

Either way you can only control what is within your remit to control. So steer your journey through your own Fab universe and enjoy the pleasures of galaxies no others could even dream existed.

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By *ildAtlanticSecretCouple
3 days ago

around Clare, Galway, Limerick

Give people a chance

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By *otathletic1Man
3 days ago

plymouth

Don’t rule out trying bisexual fun

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