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By (user no longer on site) OP   
2 weeks ago

So I have been a fairly passive observer of the going’s on fab for a little while, my first observation is that it is not for me.

So goodbye, everyone. Fab is a nonstop audition for attention. The endless drama, point-scoring, and manufactured outrage is anything but entertaining. I’m off to spend my time somewhere people don’t confuse noise with personality. Best of luck—and enjoy the echo chamber.

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

Ironic

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By *adger BrocMan
2 weeks ago

North Cork

Sorry to see you go, go, go, go!

Wishing you well, we'll, we'll, well.

Bye, bye, bye, bye.

I know that may only be noise but I just couldn't resist.

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By *razyNippleLoverMan
2 weeks ago

Back End of Beyond

Ok, Im sure your still checking in on the reactions from another account ?

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
2 weeks ago

Casa Del Fun, Portarlington


"Ok, Im sure your still checking in on the reactions from another account ? "

This… ⬆️

But some people don’t realise you can view the forums online without being a member of fab

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
2 weeks ago

kinkytown

Jayus been a while since I seen a post and delete thread on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"So I have been a fairly passive observer of the going’s on fab for a little while, my first observation is that it is not for me.

So goodbye, everyone. Fab is a nonstop audition for attention. The endless drama, point-scoring, and manufactured outrage is anything but entertaining. I’m off to spend my time somewhere people don’t confuse noise with personality. Best of luck—and enjoy the echo chamber."

Everyone knows it may not be for them until they experience it but l dont agree that its a " non stop audition for attention " ..well l certainly dont care or think anything of attention tbh, if l think thats the case of people l just dont engage or have anything to do with them or if its visa versa ,gone wayyyy beyond of thinking what people think or do , if l feel or think its ok , for them as well of course ,we'll then see where things go but if not ..hey ..thats the way the cookie crumbles but one thing is for sure l will never let the actions of anyone here stop my enjoyment.

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
2 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

Why??? Why do people waste their time posting a 'goodbye'?? Do they think anyone cares??

And yes, I'm talking about YOU, OP, who is most likely reading this from his other profile...

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By *otownkid1967Man
2 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Attention seeker , in all honesty does anyone really care??

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By *antrictterrierCouple
2 weeks ago

Coming to a county near u


"So I have been a fairly passive observer of the going’s on fab for a little while, my first observation is that it is not for me.

So goodbye, everyone. Fab is a nonstop audition for attention. The endless drama, point-scoring, and manufactured outrage is anything but entertaining. I’m off to spend my time somewhere people don’t confuse noise with personality. Best of luck—and enjoy the echo chamber."

In fairness some of what they say could have some truth for some elements of fab. But we would question the need for them to post it and delete.

Whether he or she reads this from another account or not, their views are just as valid as anyone else's here surely????. Its their experience and surely the best some of us can do is simply try to respect that.

Is there anything to be learned from their post... we really dont know. But maybe think for a moment why they were moved to post what motivated them, were they treated badly, or were they simply over analysing.

At the end of the day (like anything) fab is what you make of it. If its not working for them they did the right thing and moved on.

Hope they find what they need elsewhere.

Loving you all N & J. xxx.

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By *rnice684Man
2 weeks ago

my bed to your just ask

Ah please come back fab will not be the same without you who ever you are

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
2 weeks ago

Galway, Clare


"So I have been a fairly passive observer of the going’s on fab for a little while, my first observation is that it is not for me.

So goodbye, everyone. Fab is a nonstop audition for attention. The endless drama, point-scoring, and manufactured outrage is anything but entertaining. I’m off to spend my time somewhere people don’t confuse noise with personality. Best of luck—and enjoy the echo chamber.

In fairness some of what they say could have some truth for some elements of fab. But we would question the need for them to post it and delete.

Whether he or she reads this from another account or not, their views are just as valid as anyone else's here surely????. Its their experience and surely the best some of us can do is simply try to respect that.

Is there anything to be learned from their post... we really dont know. But maybe think for a moment why they were moved to post what motivated them, were they treated badly, or were they simply over analysing.

At the end of the day (like anything) fab is what you make of it. If its not working for them they did the right thing and moved on.

Hope they find what they need elsewhere.

Loving you all N & J. xxx.

"

No, they're simply looking for attention. Clearly they didn't get enough from anyone here.

If you're not happy here, leave. It's simple.

And there's no need to comment on how people respond to someone who announces they're going with a list of complaints.

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

In case anyone is worried or celebrating....it wasnt me

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By *oldByMarCouple
2 weeks ago

playa de ingles

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By *otownkid1967Man
2 weeks ago

Portlaoise


"So I have been a fairly passive observer of the going’s on fab for a little while, my first observation is that it is not for me.

So goodbye, everyone. Fab is a nonstop audition for attention. The endless drama, point-scoring, and manufactured outrage is anything but entertaining. I’m off to spend my time somewhere people don’t confuse noise with personality. Best of luck—and enjoy the echo chamber.

In fairness some of what they say could have some truth for some elements of fab. But we would question the need for them to post it and delete.

Whether he or she reads this from another account or not, their views are just as valid as anyone else's here surely????. Its their experience and surely the best some of us can do is simply try to respect that.

Is there anything to be learned from their post... we really dont know. But maybe think for a moment why they were moved to post what motivated them, were they treated badly, or were they simply over analysing.

At the end of the day (like anything) fab is what you make of it. If its not working for them they did the right thing and moved on.

Hope they find what they need elsewhere.

Loving you all N & J. xxx.

No, they're simply looking for attention. Clearly they didn't get enough from anyone here.

If you're not happy here, leave. It's simple.

And there's no need to comment on how people respond to someone who announces they're going with a list of complaints. "

100%

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By *antrictterrierCouple
2 weeks ago

Coming to a county near u


"So I have been a fairly passive observer of the going’s on fab for a little while, my first observation is that it is not for me.

So goodbye, everyone. Fab is a nonstop audition for attention. The endless drama, point-scoring, and manufactured outrage is anything but entertaining. I’m off to spend my time somewhere people don’t confuse noise with personality. Best of luck—and enjoy the echo chamber.

In fairness some of what they say could have some truth for some elements of fab. But we would question the need for them to post it and delete.

Whether he or she reads this from another account or not, their views are just as valid as anyone else's here surely????. Its their experience and surely the best some of us can do is simply try to respect that.

Is there anything to be learned from their post... we really dont know. But maybe think for a moment why they were moved to post what motivated them, were they treated badly, or were they simply over analysing.

At the end of the day (like anything) fab is what you make of it. If its not working for them they did the right thing and moved on.

Hope they find what they need elsewhere.

Loving you all N & J. xxx.

No, they're simply looking for attention. Clearly they didn't get enough from anyone here.

If you're not happy here, leave. It's simple.

And there's no need to comment on how people respond to someone who announces they're going with a list of complaints. "

We fully respect your opinion but the only person that knows the truth is woman or man that posted it. They could have been having a mental health issue for all we know. All we are saying is there might be other issues there.

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By *oldByMarCouple
2 weeks ago

playa de ingles


"So I have been a fairly passive observer of the going’s on fab for a little while, my first observation is that it is not for me.

So goodbye, everyone. Fab is a nonstop audition for attention. The endless drama, point-scoring, and manufactured outrage is anything but entertaining. I’m off to spend my time somewhere people don’t confuse noise with personality. Best of luck—and enjoy the echo chamber.

In fairness some of what they say could have some truth for some elements of fab. But we would question the need for them to post it and delete.

Whether he or she reads this from another account or not, their views are just as valid as anyone else's here surely????. Its their experience and surely the best some of us can do is simply try to respect that.

Is there anything to be learned from their post... we really dont know. But maybe think for a moment why they were moved to post what motivated them, were they treated badly, or were they simply over analysing.

At the end of the day (like anything) fab is what you make of it. If its not working for them they did the right thing and moved on.

Hope they find what they need elsewhere.

Loving you all N & J. xxx.

No, they're simply looking for attention. Clearly they didn't get enough from anyone here.

If you're not happy here, leave. It's simple.

And there's no need to comment on how people respond to someone who announces they're going with a list of complaints.

We fully respect your opinion but the only person that knows the truth is woman or man that posted it. They could have been having a mental health issue for all we know. All we are saying is there might be other issues there. "

Correct & Right and well put 👍👍

That’s the problem here with SOME people they’re too quick to judge others and make negative statements .. they’re great behind a keyboard ⌨️ but as you put it in a nutshell they don’t know the facts behind the post

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
2 weeks ago

Galway, Clare


"So I have been a fairly passive observer of the going’s on fab for a little while, my first observation is that it is not for me.

So goodbye, everyone. Fab is a nonstop audition for attention. The endless drama, point-scoring, and manufactured outrage is anything but entertaining. I’m off to spend my time somewhere people don’t confuse noise with personality. Best of luck—and enjoy the echo chamber.

In fairness some of what they say could have some truth for some elements of fab. But we would question the need for them to post it and delete.

Whether he or she reads this from another account or not, their views are just as valid as anyone else's here surely????. Its their experience and surely the best some of us can do is simply try to respect that.

Is there anything to be learned from their post... we really dont know. But maybe think for a moment why they were moved to post what motivated them, were they treated badly, or were they simply over analysing.

At the end of the day (like anything) fab is what you make of it. If its not working for them they did the right thing and moved on.

Hope they find what they need elsewhere.

Loving you all N & J. xxx.

No, they're simply looking for attention. Clearly they didn't get enough from anyone here.

If you're not happy here, leave. It's simple.

And there's no need to comment on how people respond to someone who announces they're going with a list of complaints.

We fully respect your opinion but the only person that knows the truth is woman or man that posted it. They could have been having a mental health issue for all we know. All we are saying is there might be other issues there.

Correct & Right and well put 👍👍

That’s the problem here with SOME people they’re too quick to judge others and make negative statements .. they’re great behind a keyboard ⌨️ but as you put it in a nutshell they don’t know the facts behind the post

"

But.. but.. but now you're judging people.

And so it goes..

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By *oldByMarCouple
2 weeks ago

playa de ingles


"So I have been a fairly passive observer of the going’s on fab for a little while, my first observation is that it is not for me.

So goodbye, everyone. Fab is a nonstop audition for attention. The endless drama, point-scoring, and manufactured outrage is anything but entertaining. I’m off to spend my time somewhere people don’t confuse noise with personality. Best of luck—and enjoy the echo chamber.

In fairness some of what they say could have some truth for some elements of fab. But we would question the need for them to post it and delete.

Whether he or she reads this from another account or not, their views are just as valid as anyone else's here surely????. Its their experience and surely the best some of us can do is simply try to respect that.

Is there anything to be learned from their post... we really dont know. But maybe think for a moment why they were moved to post what motivated them, were they treated badly, or were they simply over analysing.

At the end of the day (like anything) fab is what you make of it. If its not working for them they did the right thing and moved on.

Hope they find what they need elsewhere.

Loving you all N & J. xxx.

No, they're simply looking for attention. Clearly they didn't get enough from anyone here.

If you're not happy here, leave. It's simple.

And there's no need to comment on how people respond to someone who announces they're going with a list of complaints.

We fully respect your opinion but the only person that knows the truth is woman or man that posted it. They could have been having a mental health issue for all we know. All we are saying is there might be other issues there.

Correct & Right and well put 👍👍

That’s the problem here with SOME people they’re too quick to judge others and make negative statements .. they’re great behind a keyboard ⌨️ but as you put it in a nutshell they don’t know the facts behind the post

But.. but.. but now you're judging people.

And so it goes..

"

Judging nobody just stating facts

Negative remarks not knowing the circumstances isn’t nice

Better off not commenting at all

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By *antrictterrierCouple
2 weeks ago

Coming to a county near u


"So I have been a fairly passive observer of the going’s on fab for a little while, my first observation is that it is not for me.

So goodbye, everyone. Fab is a nonstop audition for attention. The endless drama, point-scoring, and manufactured outrage is anything but entertaining. I’m off to spend my time somewhere people don’t confuse noise with personality. Best of luck—and enjoy the echo chamber.

In fairness some of what they say could have some truth for some elements of fab. But we would question the need for them to post it and delete.

Whether he or she reads this from another account or not, their views are just as valid as anyone else's here surely????. Its their experience and surely the best some of us can do is simply try to respect that.

Is there anything to be learned from their post... we really dont know. But maybe think for a moment why they were moved to post what motivated them, were they treated badly, or were they simply over analysing.

At the end of the day (like anything) fab is what you make of it. If its not working for them they did the right thing and moved on.

Hope they find what they need elsewhere.

Loving you all N & J. xxx.

No, they're simply looking for attention. Clearly they didn't get enough from anyone here.

If you're not happy here, leave. It's simple.

And there's no need to comment on how people respond to someone who announces they're going with a list of complaints.

We fully respect your opinion but the only person that knows the truth is woman or man that posted it. They could have been having a mental health issue for all we know. All we are saying is there might be other issues there.

Correct & Right and well put 👍👍

That’s the problem here with SOME people they’re too quick to judge others and make negative statements .. they’re great behind a keyboard ⌨️ but as you put it in a nutshell they don’t know the facts behind the post

But.. but.. but now you're judging people.

And so it goes..

Judging nobody just stating facts

Negative remarks not knowing the circumstances isn’t nice

Better off not commenting at all

"

We cant see how you were judging anyone tbh. And please continue to post everyones views are valid doesn't mean everyone has to agree with them. It would be a very boring world if we did xxx

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

Everyone's facts are different

Just because any profile states something doesnt make it right

Anyone can make an observation but its just a different opinion to everyone else's

Its not like an airport in here you don't have to announce your departure...just leave

Its a lot easy to just write a post rather than keep replying and posting a big long post each time

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By *oldByMarCouple
2 weeks ago

playa de ingles


"Everyone's facts are different

Just because any profile states something doesnt make it right

Anyone can make an observation but its just a different opinion to everyone else's

Its not like an airport in here you don't have to announce your departure...just leave

Its a lot easy to just write a post rather than keep replying and posting a big long post each time

"

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By *antrictterrierCouple
2 weeks ago

Coming to a county near u


"Everyone's facts are different

Just because any profile states something doesnt make it right

Anyone can make an observation but its just a different opinion to everyone else's

Its not like an airport in here you don't have to announce your departure...just leave

Its a lot easy to just write a post rather than keep replying and posting a big long post each time

"

Again that is your opinion and you are entitled to it. As others are entitled to theirs.

Love Peace and Respect always N and J xxx

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By *oldByMarCouple
2 weeks ago

playa de ingles


"Everyone's facts are different

Just because any profile states something doesnt make it right

Anyone can make an observation but its just a different opinion to everyone else's

Its not like an airport in here you don't have to announce your departure...just leave

Its a lot easy to just write a post rather than keep replying and posting a big long post each time

Again that is your opinion and you are entitled to it. As others are entitled to theirs.

Love Peace and Respect always N and J xxx "

Correct 👍 and only 1 opinion

People should be allowed their opinion without being ridiculed no matter what they say…

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By *oldByMarCouple
2 weeks ago

playa de ingles

We’d never be so lucky

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By *adJennyWoman
2 weeks ago

Cougar Village

Another one bites the dust

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By *ookAndDorkCouple
2 weeks ago

The West

To be fair, if your gonna take a pop at half the people using the forum then you can expect to get it back in equal measure whether your UNLOS or not.

Insulting people and then deleting your account is, well, a bit chicken.

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By *antrictterrierCouple
2 weeks ago

Coming to a county near u

Yea sadly... did anyone catch who they were... were they a newbie or a regular, were they feeling down about anything?

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By *oldByMarCouple
2 weeks ago

playa de ingles


"To be fair, if your gonna take a pop at half the people using the forum then you can expect to get it back in equal measure whether your UNLOS or not.

Insulting people and then deleting your account is, well, a bit chicken."

Cockadoodledoo 🐓

Chicken lickin 🐥 or Henny Penny 🐔

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By *oldByMarCouple
2 weeks ago

playa de ingles


"Yea sadly... did anyone catch who they were... were they a newbie or a regular, were they feeling down about anything?"

The post above seems to know who they were and what was said according to their comment

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
2 weeks ago

Lucan


"

Correct 👍 and only 1 opinion

People should be allowed their opinion without being ridiculed no matter what they say…

"

Context is everything.. If someone suggests that drinking bleach is a good idea for curing covid, for example, then they very much deserve to be ridiculed.

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By *antrictterrierCouple
2 weeks ago

Coming to a county near u


"

Correct 👍 and only 1 opinion

People should be allowed their opinion without being ridiculed no matter what they say…

Context is everything.. If someone suggests that drinking bleach is a good idea for curing covid, for example, then they very much deserve to be ridiculed. "

Well said

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
2 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Goodbye whoever you were. From the tone of your post I don't think you were really for you

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By *oldByMarCouple
2 weeks ago

playa de ingles


"

Correct 👍 and only 1 opinion

People should be allowed their opinion without being ridiculed no matter what they say…

Context is everything.. If someone suggests that drinking bleach is a good idea for curing covid, for example, then they very much deserve to be ridiculed. "

They also say Guinness turns your shite black

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
2 weeks ago

East / North, Cork


"People should be allowed their opinion without being ridiculed no matter what they say…

"

Oh dear God no. Having the opinion that someone else's opinion is ridiculous is also a valid opinion

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By *oldByMarCouple
2 weeks ago

playa de ingles


"People should be allowed their opinion without being ridiculed no matter what they say…

Oh dear God no. Having the opinion that someone else's opinion is ridiculous is also a valid opinion "

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By *oldByMarCouple
2 weeks ago

playa de ingles


"People should be allowed their opinion without being ridiculed no matter what they say…

Oh dear God no. Having the opinion that someone else's opinion is ridiculous is also a valid opinion "

It’s a matter of opinion so 🤣🤣🤣

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
2 weeks ago

Galway, Clare


"Yea sadly... did anyone catch who they were... were they a newbie or a regular, were they feeling down about anything?

The post above seems to know who they were and what was said according to their comment "

I am 99% certain I know who the person is. But never fear, they’ll be back in a few months with another fake profile because that's what they do.

So yes, I will absolutely judge assholes.

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