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By *hipper1 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

blanchardstown

I see a lot of females request face pics with the initial post, no cock pics. I get the no cock pics. But where do you stand on face pics? Do You Fab Fems like/expect that on a first post?

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By *affa31Woman
3 weeks ago

Galway


"I see a lot of females request face pics with the initial post, no cock pics. I get the no cock pics. But where do you stand on face pics? Do You Fab Fems like/expect that on a first post?"

Nope I think it’s utter insanity to send a face pic with your first message. You have no idea who you’re talking to.

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By *he General 2 0 2 5Man
3 weeks ago

Limerick City

Do what you are comfortable with. Be respectful 🙏. But also....be very warey.

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By *he General 2 0 2 5Man
3 weeks ago

Limerick City


"I see a lot of females request face pics with the initial post, no cock pics. I get the no cock pics. But where do you stand on face pics? Do You Fab Fems like/expect that on a first post?

Nope I think it’s utter insanity to send a face pic with your first message. You have no idea who you’re talking to. "

^^^^^ This

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By *og-ManMan
3 weeks ago

somewhere

People have the right to ask for what they want just as you have the right to tell them to feck off

Never sent a face pic is my rule

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
3 weeks ago

East / North, Cork


"I see a lot of females request face pics with the initial post, no cock pics. I get the no cock pics. But where do you stand on face pics? Do You Fab Fems like/expect that on a first post?"

Do you hey like it? Yes

Do they expect it? Mostly no

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By *exyScientistsCouple
3 weeks ago

Castlebar

Never asked for one and would only send one if there is an arrangement to meet someone. As already said you've no idea who you are messaging.

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By *razyNippleLoverMan
3 weeks ago

Back End of Beyond

Been asked a few times , but only sent once think I was extra randy that day !!!,only reason I dont send a pic is im worried they would rush over too fast and crash their car with anticipation. Turns out probably not an issue !!!

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
3 weeks ago

Louth

Voice message to tgram after a few messages. Then its a social. But typically we have met them already at a big organised social with the odd newbie punt thrown in. But thats just a friendly social so face pics are not needed or matter. If some are asking you to jump through hoops then decide yourself if that person is worth it or just winding you up.

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

It's not unheard of. People can demand whatever they want on their profiles, even if it comes across as 'one sided'. It's their prerogative.

Would I message someone and yield to their stipulations by attaching a photo of myself? No. I just bypass those profiles.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
3 weeks ago

Home

Why would I send a face píc to someone i don't trust

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By *utrageousMan
3 weeks ago

West Cork

I think this is almost always an interesting topic - it's fascinating how there sometimes seems to be correlation between those who are more liberal with their identity and their location/ethnicity.

There appears to be a much more relaxed attitude around publicly sharing face pics on the continent and in the UK (though this could also be attributed to population representation as opposed to cultural differences).

In my experience, many people in Ireland seem to generally more guarded and private about sex, especially _lternative lifestyles, thus there's more fear of social reprisal. Some have told me it all stems from centuries of ingrained Catholic guilt - maybe some truth to that?

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By *razyNippleLoverMan
3 weeks ago

Back End of Beyond


"I think this is almost always an interesting topic - it's fascinating how there sometimes seems to be correlation between those who are more liberal with their identity and their location/ethnicity.

There appears to be a much more relaxed attitude around publicly sharing face pics on the continent and in the UK (though this could also be attributed to population representation as opposed to cultural differences).

In my experience, many people in Ireland seem to generally more guarded and private about sex, especially _lternative lifestyles, thus there's more fear of social reprisal. Some have told me it all stems from centuries of ingrained Catholic guilt - maybe some truth to that?"

Quite right to quote Father T. — that would be an ecumenical matter !!!

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By *ealitybitesMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast


"I think this is almost always an interesting topic - it's fascinating how there sometimes seems to be correlation between those who are more liberal with their identity and their location/ethnicity.

There appears to be a much more relaxed attitude around publicly sharing face pics on the continent and in the UK (though this could also be attributed to population representation as opposed to cultural differences).

In my experience, many people in Ireland seem to generally more guarded and private about sex, especially _lternative lifestyles, thus there's more fear of social reprisal. Some have told me it all stems from centuries of ingrained Catholic guilt - maybe some truth to that?"

I don't even send face pics to people I've been chatting with for ages so there's no chance of ever sending one just because someone asks for it in their profile.

I disagree wth the more relaxed attitude in the UK because I've seen plenty of comments over the years in other forums about face pics being shared in chat groups without the owners knowledge.

This is also a very big issue here in Ireland and is one of the main reasons that anyone starting a Face pic Friday thread here is always advised that very few will be willing to take part in it.

Some people on fab are very guarded with their own face pics but take a much more relaxed approach to sharing other people's pics.

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By *ust_us999Couple
3 weeks ago

The sticks of north Mayo

Face pic only when I meet is 90% arranged (atleast that's what we do)

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
3 weeks ago

Portstewart

People can ask for anything with a first message but we would be dubious about it. The only time we will exchange pics is when we exchange numbers

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By *wcoastMan
3 weeks ago

londonderry

Ffs women will be asking to be able to vote next! 😇

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago


"I see a lot of females request face pics with the initial post, no cock pics. I get the no cock pics. But where do you stand on face pics? Do You Fab Fems like/expect that on a first post?

Nope I think it’s utter insanity to send a face pic with your first message. You have no idea who you’re talking to. "

Absolutely agree 💯%...

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By *hipper1 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

blanchardstown

Thanks All. So The consensus is "No" . I will go with that.

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By *anfromgalway26Man
3 weeks ago

Galway


"I see a lot of females request face pics with the initial post, no cock pics. I get the no cock pics. But where do you stand on face pics? Do You Fab Fems like/expect that on a first post?

Nope I think it’s utter insanity to send a face pic with your first message. You have no idea who you’re talking to. "

I completely agree 😀🥰

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By *ikesinssMan
3 weeks ago

limerick/clare/Tipperar/waterfod/cork/kerry


"I see a lot of females request face pics with the initial post, no cock pics. I get the no cock pics. But where do you stand on face pics? Do You Fab Fems like/expect that on a first post?"

It’s nearly as bad as that lady who used to demand a full dental examination before deciding if she wanted to speak to you or not, people like this really are not the ones you should be even attempting to communicate with, it’s very off putting.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
3 weeks ago

Lucan


"Thanks All. So The consensus is "No" . I will go with that."

Fuck consensus.

You do what suits you, not what others think should suit you.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago


"I see a lot of females request face pics with the initial post, no cock pics. I get the no cock pics. But where do you stand on face pics? Do You Fab Fems like/expect that on a first post?

It’s nearly as bad as that lady who used to demand a full dental examination before deciding if she wanted to speak to you or not, people like this really are not the ones you should be even attempting to communicate with, it’s very off putting. "

Why be bothered with anyone that acts like that ?..never chase...

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By *ndrea CrossTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Dublin

My profile says NO face pics but about 75% of guys who contact me send face pics with first message, right away showing that they haven't bothered to read my profile. I'm more interested in communication skills, followed by cock and body pics, followed by face pics of agreeing to meet.

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By *ackandsashaCouple
2 weeks ago

West Dublin

We're a bit more relaxed about sending face pics than when we started, but still wouldn't send one with first message.

But after a few messages both ways, and if we feel a connection, especially if a meet is likely, we are happy to send one.

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By *-teamCouple (MM)
2 weeks ago

real Capitol

I think its a fair request if its a single girl, less so for couples. Different strokes for different folks, so its fine if its a no on a reciprocated face pic; saves the social. But the one way pic is super annoying.

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By *unandgames111Couple
2 weeks ago

lucan


"I see a lot of females request face pics with the initial post, no cock pics. I get the no cock pics. But where do you stand on face pics? Do You Fab Fems like/expect that on a first post?"

Think it’s polite to send one first if you are going to ask for one, we never send to anyone that asks unless they have sent first.

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By *hantomfemmeWoman
2 weeks ago

Sligo/Galway/limerick depends on the day

Never ask for 1, usually get send a cock pic and a face pic. As Jaffa said ya dont know who is on the other end of a message. If im enjoying the cinvo I'll move it to TG and then ill share pics.

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By *ookAndDorkCouple
2 weeks ago

The West


"Never ask for 1, usually get send a cock pic and a face pic. As Jaffa said ya dont know who is on the other end of a message. If im enjoying the cinvo I'll move it to TG and then ill share pics."

And there's no guarantee it's even their cock 🤣

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
2 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

Much prefer a blind coffee meet to sending a face pic to a randomer on the internet.

Some guys will send them, even though I never ask, but if they've read my bio they know not to expect one back.

And a person can be a dick regardless of what their face looks like 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *aulie400Man
2 weeks ago

Galway

Could be better to know if they have a face you'd like to sit on, before wasting time on a blind coffee meet.

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By *uitman1986Man
2 weeks ago

All over

Considering how many paid memberships there are on this site, I don't think it would be an unreasonable request for the site administrators to enable a fit-for-purpose view-only option when sending face pictures, as with various messaging apps etc. Even a few years ago, the option for pictures that you send in private to disappear used to work so much better than it does now.

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By *aseylee324Couple
2 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Never send face pics, and don't expect anyone else to do so either.

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By *amsevenMan
2 weeks ago

cork

Ill only send one if im trying to get out of a meet🤣

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By *aseylee324Couple
2 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows


"Ill only send one if im trying to get out of a meet🤣"

🤣🤣🤣

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By *hantomfemmeWoman
2 weeks ago

Sligo/Galway/limerick depends on the day


"Never ask for 1, usually get send a cock pic and a face pic. As Jaffa said ya dont know who is on the other end of a message. If im enjoying the cinvo I'll move it to TG and then ill share pics.

And there's no guarantee it's even their cock 🤣"

Very very true.... deffo a few profiles on here that I know its not them I the pics.

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By *eldducMan
2 weeks ago

Cork


"Never ask for 1, usually get send a cock pic and a face pic. As Jaffa said ya dont know who is on the other end of a message. If im enjoying the cinvo I'll move it to TG and then ill share pics."

Love this it's the same for me much rather the conversation flows than what a person looks like. If a conversation can be held that's much more important

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Ill only send one if im trying to get out of a meet🤣"

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By *undalkStudMan
2 weeks ago

Dundalk

I have sent face pic after a few messages and I've been blocked by the lady. If not interested that's just fine just say no interest and thank you. But blocking seems to me that the other person has something to hide more than me as I'm 100% single can do as I like

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere


"I have sent face pic after a few messages and I've been blocked by the lady. If not interested that's just fine just say no interest and thank you. But blocking seems to me that the other person has something to hide more than me as I'm 100% single can do as I like"

Or they dont like the look of you

Or they know you

Or any of a dozen reasons

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By *ikesinssMan
2 weeks ago

limerick/clare/Tipperar/waterfod/cork/kerry


"I have sent face pic after a few messages and I've been blocked by the lady. If not interested that's just fine just say no interest and thank you. But blocking seems to me that the other person has something to hide more than me as I'm 100% single can do as I like

Or they dont like the look of you

Similar happened to me several times, but there was one time a certain lady who was quite local got very snotty and dismissive after pic was sent and she got a bit personal as well.

Low and behold I had figured out who she was

( A picture tells a 1000 words ) her Tats gave it away perfectly.

Few weeks pass and she’s in the local being mouthy with another local who approached her husband flirting, ( he’s never been here ) poor girl was in tears, I had enough and just happened to slip out she should be more aware of her own actions with strange men online behind her husband’s back and he could do much better. 🤷‍♂️ low and behold turned out she was pregnant from a random guy from here and the husband finally dumped her after he did some digging around .

FYI at the sending pics stage I didn’t realise who she was .

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"Never send face pics, and don't expect anyone else to do so either."

100% correct!!..

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By *UBGUY8Man
2 weeks ago

Dublin


"I see a lot of females request face pics with the initial post, no cock pics. I get the no cock pics. But where do you stand on face pics? Do You Fab Fems like/expect that on a first post?

Nope I think it’s utter insanity to send a face pic with your first message. You have no idea who you’re talking to. "

I agree

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By *otwifejenny79Couple
2 weeks ago

dublin


"People have the right to ask for what they want just as you have the right to tell them to feck off

Never sent a face pic is my rule "

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