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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why would some people be so against chatting on the phone before a meet? surely you need to be able to string a sentence together especially if you havent chatted on here beforehand. very suspicious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they think you are one of those heavy breather types

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol. i can heavy breath on request.

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By *olfandpussyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol. i can heavy breath on request.

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oh i've heard your heavy breathing before ya big sexy bastard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally don't often chat on the phone but if it's important to the other person and makes the difference whether you meet or not then a quick call to confirm shouldn't be a bother

You sure they're not married/attached and can't talk perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol. i can heavy breath on request.

oh i've heard your heavy breathing before ya big sexy bastard."

Probably your fault is why Jinxy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol. i can heavy breath on request.

oh i've heard your heavy breathing before ya big sexy bastard.

Probably your fault is why Jinxy "

I am the queen of scud.

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

no one ever phones me except to see if i want to claim for PPI - i really must get some new friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Conversation and stringing sentences can be a bit hard for some people, I get strange mails just for asking for a coffee or social drink before it goes any further never mind phone calls

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"why would some people be so against chatting on the phone before a meet? surely you need to be able to string a sentence together especially if you havent chatted on here beforehand. very suspicious "

I never talk on the phone until we are on the way!

1, I don't like it, and yes I can more that hold a conversation, that is the problem!

2, Most people just want to talk dirty, that is not my scene, ever!

3, I don't want to be best friends, I have a family friends in real life, I don't want what has happened in the past, people phoning for a chat from another site and here while I am in company!!!

nothing suspicious in it at all! we meet nice people when we can! we don't cam either, we used to but again people just wanted dirty talk or a live cam show for cheap thrills, others do it that is up to them, but to say people that don't is suspicious is way off base!! It is called choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would prefer to chat on the phone before hand; and a few I have done.

It's been a mutual agreement to chat.

Not life stories just a general chat.

As people know who I have chatted to I can talk for Ireland.

Some people hate talking on telephone.

I don't mind it

Its good to talk

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

before we meet a cpl i like to have a quick chat with the female just to make sure there is a female thats just to make sure its not a wasted journey but if there verified then thats not a issue

i chat on the phone now to a few females and males we have met its nice to chat to someone that knows what this is all about dont want to chat to my real friends about it there are a few ppl now and we chat about everything not just the lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well if you've chatted on here a bit then i would never ask to chat on the phone. If its someone who you've never chatted to before and know next to nothing about and are arranging a meet where you have to drive for over an hour a quick chat on the phone is not too much to ask for to verify legit. I find it suspicious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like talking on the phone either , prefer to chat a bit on here first. However if you are making a very long journey to meet someone and they expect you to do it blind I would agree that it is a bit odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would prefer to chat on the phone before hand; and a few I have done.

It's been a mutual agreement to chat.

Not life stories just a general chat.

As people know who I have chatted to I can talk for Ireland.

Some people hate talking on telephone.

I don't mind it

Its good to talk

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I like to chat on phone just to hear their voice .....if a person doesn't have the ability to string a sentence together or has a really bad accent it does put me off. I don't want their life story as this is not real life for me but I just cant meet and shag without having a chat and a coffee meet first. If there is no attraction it wouldn't be fun for me and its all about fun.

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

We don't talk on phone and don't ask people to drive miles to meet us either! we meet at a bar in a nice part of town, we do most of travel, the only time people drive to us is after we have already met, and we are sure!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

that all sounds great and im sure it works. this situation was different though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't know it was a new meet and way away, of course you need some sort of reassurance then as so many timewasters on the site, however if it was someone regularly using the site and in chat/forums I wouldn't be too concerned about a phone chat.

The important question is- did it work out J?

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

Are we talking about from a guys perspective? or anyones? because most guys seem to not mind talking on the phone, but, it doesn't make them genuine or compatible! I don't think a phone call will make the meet better or worse, I just don't like talking on the phone with someone I don't kno, and them start asking what I would like to do! and yes it does happen, a lot.

So it is not for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just to verify both a female and male actually exist. pretty standard i would think. this isnt about you lovinit, im sure what you do works for you just fine.

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By *uietman1964Man
over a year ago

carlow

Agree that its good to talk...you get a 'feel' for the person you talking to and yes there is i think comfort in that..and you not deciding..dare i say it... on looks alone...there has to be some conversation along the line...

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"just to verify both a female and male actually exist. pretty standard i would think. this isnt about you lovinit, im sure what you do works for you just fine."

hahahaha I didn't think for a minute you were meaning me!! but is it not an open forum??? can I not have a view and post it???

I was giving my experience and my view point so should I just agree ,o r say nothing!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"before we meet a cpl i like to have a quick chat with the female just to make sure there is a female thats just to make sure its not a wasted journey but if there verified then thats not a issue

i chat on the phone now to a few females and males we have met its nice to chat to someone that knows what this is all about dont want to chat to my real friends about it there are a few ppl now and we chat about everything not just the lifestyle"

I agree. To confirm there is really a female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like giving out my number had a bad experience once so now I use Kik till I am 100% sure I wanna meet up then I am happy to chat say hello etc

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By *oxysCouple
over a year ago

c


"We don't talk on phone and don't ask people to drive miles to meet us either! we meet at a bar in a nice part of town, we do most of travel, the only time people drive to us is after we have already met, and we are sure!! "
I agree with ya, I hate talking on the phone to someone I don't know, my verifications should be enough to prove we are genuine and if they aren't enough for someone they can move on!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Of course its an open forum i was just being clear. You seem like a pretty active site member and genuine so i doubt there would be much need to ring you to confirm who you are lol. I don't like talking on the phone much myself, very close friends and family only usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why would some people be so against chatting on the phone before a meet? surely you need to be able to string a sentence together especially if you havent chatted on here beforehand. very suspicious "

I don't chat on the phone before a meet. I ask for a number so i can call to say I'm on my way and maybe to say I'm here can't see you. But I don't like giving my number out because so many then think they have permission to call text when it suits. It doesn't suit ever. I prefer to keep here and real life completely separate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know some people who have a cheapy PAYG 'Fab-phone' that is seperate from their normal one which I always thought was a good idea, means you can switch it off or not answer it when you want and no risk of the number being recognised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know some people who have a cheapy PAYG 'Fab-phone' that is seperate from their normal one which I always thought was a good idea, means you can switch it off or not answer it when you want and no risk of the number being recognised"

Yes I've one of those I use.

I just prefer to keep fab on fab or kik One or two I like enough to not mind their calls but we have all had coffee meets which won't go further. They are the ones I don't want having contact details which is too late if you had a phone chat

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

we have wat we call a cartoon phone for our cartoon life

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

The 'bat phone' as it were

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"we have wat we call a cartoon phone for our cartoon life"

we call it the booty phone lol

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