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By *jay103 OP   Man
1 week ago

Dublin

Why do some people with faceless profile ask for face pic with your first message?

No I won’t send mugshot on here or with my first message.

Have you experienced this?

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By *og-ManMan
1 week ago

somewhere

Anyone can ask for anything

Anyone can refuse

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By *ealitybitesMan
1 week ago

Belfast

Where's the drama?

If I see something on a profile I don't agree with I just ignore and move on.

The last thing I would be doing is messaging them.

It only becomes a drama if you allow it to be.

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By *om TangoMan
1 week ago

Tedavnet Co.Monaghan

I simply pass by such profiles. I rarely even message anyone on here these days. Much easier to meet people at socials and let them get to know me there. Fab can knock a persons confidence very quickly

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
1 week ago

East / North, Cork

It's because they can. It saves time talking to people who they arent interested in.

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By *1inch BULLMan
1 week ago

Dublin

I'm not that desperate to send, Anonymity is non negotiable in sites like this...I always tell them I don't send photo, we can meetup, or no deal...if the chemistry isn't there, we're also free to leave at anytime..but no way I'll send photo on here... Crazy world we live in. You never know who is behind the other screen, always be cautious, before your photo ends up somewhere else

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
1 week ago

East / North, Cork


"I'm not that desperate to send, Anonymity is non negotiable in sites like this...I always tell them I don't send photo, we can meetup, or no deal...if the chemistry isn't there, we're also free to leave at anytime..but no way I'll send photo on here... Crazy world we live in. You never know who is behind the other screen, always be cautious, before your photo ends up somewhere else "

That's understandable. You have your comfort level and you can stick to it. You might miss out on opportunities sometimes but you should absolutely stick to that you're happy with.

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By *ilMsStickyWoman
1 week ago

Galway


"I simply pass by such profiles. I rarely even message anyone on here these days. Much easier to meet people at socials and let them get to know me there. Fab can knock a persons confidence very quickly "

The well experienced users of Fab live by this advice. I know I do.

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By *1inch BULLMan
1 week ago

Dublin


"I'm not that desperate to send, Anonymity is non negotiable in sites like this...I always tell them I don't send photo, we can meetup, or no deal...if the chemistry isn't there, we're also free to leave at anytime..but no way I'll send photo on here... Crazy world we live in. You never know who is behind the other screen, always be cautious, before your photo ends up somewhere else

That's understandable. You have your comfort level and you can stick to it. You might miss out on opportunities sometimes but you should absolutely stick to that you're happy with. "

I rather miss on opportunities, than finding yourself somewhere else, you didn't agree to... I have seen many people ends up that way, being discreet and comfortable with your boundaries, gives you peace

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By *appylarry20Man
1 week ago

NW


"I simply pass by such profiles. I rarely even message anyone on here these days. Much easier to meet people at socials and let them get to know me there. Fab can knock a persons confidence very quickly "

Wise words. After exchanging face pics is when I'm usually told that I'm not their type. Have to rely on my personality instead it seems.

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By *ire1983Woman
1 week ago

wicklow

I don't send face pics anymore because one of my face pics is still doing the rounds and it's not me using it. I just chalk it up to experience yes im sent face pics when I haven't even asked then it's the whole thing of can I then send one.In the end it's my choice not to send one and usually i don't hear anything back there loss not mine.

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By *jay103 OP   Man
1 week ago

Dublin

Exactly my point, think people actually forget what the site is on about, sending a face picture with first message is criminal. Nothing is truly secure with internet these days.

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By *jay103 OP   Man
1 week ago

Dublin

Exactly, you don’t know who is on the other side. Social meet or tel to send one time picture is always the best ideal.

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By *og-ManMan
1 week ago

somewhere

Especially since there's Apps that can use your face photo to find every other face photo you've posted on all your social media

So then someone has all your actual details

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By *ust_us999Couple
1 week ago

Somewhere

I keep the face pics until we are 99% sure we are meeting up. Don't want everyone to know our business, rural Ireland is bad enough for that kinda thing 😂

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By *jay103 OP   Man
1 week ago

Dublin


"I'm not that desperate to send, Anonymity is non negotiable in sites like this...I always tell them I don't send photo, we can meetup, or no deal...if the chemistry isn't there, we're also free to leave at anytime..but no way I'll send photo on here... Crazy world we live in. You never know who is behind the other screen, always be cautious, before your photo ends up somewhere else "

Exactly my point, think people actually forget what the site is on about, sending a face picture with first message is criminal. Nothing is truly secure with internet these days.

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By *jay103 OP   Man
1 week ago

Dublin


"I don't send face pics anymore because one of my face pics is still doing the rounds and it's not me using it. I just chalk it up to experience yes im sent face pics when I haven't even asked then it's the whole thing of can I then send one.In the end it's my choice not to send one and usually i don't hear anything back there loss not mine."

More reason to be careful, you don’t know who is on the other side. Social meet or tel to send one time picture is always the best ideal. I have to feel comfortable chatting with you first before sharing any mug shot.

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By *jay103 OP   Man
1 week ago

Dublin


"I keep the face pics until we are 99% sure we are meeting up. Don't want everyone to know our business, rural Ireland is bad enough for that kinda thing 😂 "

Keep it that way, get comfortable with that chat, be sure they can hold a conversation and got something about them before sharing face picture

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By *ookAndDorkCouple
1 week ago

The West

We just don't send face pics. We also removed our photo verification.

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By *1inch BULLMan
1 week ago

Dublin


"We just don't send face pics. We also removed our photo verification."
.. I tried to remove mielne..but I can't ..there's. O option to delete it either..I just hide it instead..unless I deleted my account completely

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By *ookAndDorkCouple
1 week ago

The West


"We just don't send face pics. We also removed our photo verification... I tried to remove mielne..but I can't ..there's. O option to delete it either..I just hide it instead..unless I deleted my account completely "

Just ask admin to delete your verification photo from the system.

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
1 week ago

Galway, Clare

Could also ask why some male profiles only have one public photo - of them shagging a woman who probably doesn't know she's in his profile pic.

Oh.. hang on..

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By *jay103 OP   Man
1 week ago

Dublin


"Could also ask why some male profiles only have one public photo - of them shagging a woman who probably doesn't know she's in his profile pic.

Oh.. hang on..

"

That would be childish posting someone else without their knowledge.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
1 week ago

East / North, Cork


"Could also ask why some male profiles only have one public photo - of them shagging a woman who probably doesn't know she's in his profile pic.

Oh.. hang on..

That would be childish posting someone else without their knowledge. "

Morr than childish, it would be illegal

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By *rchimedes500Man
1 week ago

city


"Could also ask why some male profiles only have one public photo - of them shagging a woman who probably doesn't know she's in his profile pic.

Oh.. hang on..

"

Ah now Bo stop that now, you'll only upset yourself. Yo just keep the leg up and get yourself better

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
1 week ago

Limerick

We don't ever send or expect face pics does it sometimes affect us getting meets with those who won't meet without seeing face pics but it doesn't bother us.

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
1 week ago

Galway, Clare


"Could also ask why some male profiles only have one public photo - of them shagging a woman who probably doesn't know she's in his profile pic.

Oh.. hang on..

Ah now Bo stop that now, you'll only upset yourself. Yo just keep the leg up and get yourself better"

I have nothing better to do with my time at the moment

But I do feel a self-imposed forum b a n may be on the cards

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