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"i keep getting blocked when i send my face photo to women! thqys usually aftervthe request 'face' or 'face please' whats happening? never thought i was thqy unattractive! very upsetting. does that happen to anyone of you men or women ?" keep plugging away a swift block back. Their loss and maybe you dodged a bullet because they might have a face like a melted wellington. | |||
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"thanks for feedback guys. i can say only 20% women i message get back to me,70% request a face and 50% of them block me really narrows it down. lol im blocked by at east 10 women in galway so far ive never once been malicious or mean to any of them. if this continues im never coming back here again. fxxk the site here's my typical message. would you block me if i sent you this? hi (insert name). hows your evening ? you look very attractive,gorgeous figure. genuine, chilled spontaneous guy here, looking for fun.im openminded and laid back. what are you into and looking for? hows your experience of this site? love to chat, maybe meet BLOCK! " Rather than sending a 'typical' message to many women, why not send a specific message based on the actual profile of the lady in question. In doing so it would eliminate the need for uninspiring questions such as, 'what are you into' 'what are you looking for' | |||
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"thanks for feedback guys. i can say only 20% women i message get back to me,70% request a face and 50% of them block me really narrows it down. lol im blocked by at east 10 women in galway so far ive never once been malicious or mean to any of them. if this continues im never coming back here again. fxxk the site here's my typical message. would you block me if i sent you this? hi (insert name). hows your evening ? you look very attractive,gorgeous figure. genuine, chilled spontaneous guy here, looking for fun.im openminded and laid back. what are you into and looking for? hows your experience of this site? love to chat, maybe meet BLOCK! " Yeah, I’d say lose the what are you into and what are you looking for. I’d say most women here are looking for a cock and are into cock. I’m just assuming, I could be wrong but I’d be fairly sure, most are looking for cock. That’s where you’re going wrong my friend. If a woman said that to me what are you into and what are you looking for, I’d be struggling to think of something to reply to them. | |||
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"thanks for feedback guys. i can say only 20% women i message get back to me,70% request a face and 50% of them block me really narrows it down. lol im blocked by at east 10 women in galway so far ive never once been malicious or mean to any of them. if this continues im never coming back here again. fxxk the site here's my typical message. would you block me if i sent you this? hi (insert name). hows your evening ? you look very attractive,gorgeous figure. genuine, chilled spontaneous guy here, looking for fun.im openminded and laid back. what are you into and looking for? hows your experience of this site? love to chat, maybe meet BLOCK! Yeah, I’d say lose the what are you into and what are you looking for. I’d say most women here are looking for a cock and are into cock. I’m just assuming, I could be wrong but I’d be fairly sure, most are looking for cock. That’s where you’re going wrong my friend. If a woman said that to me what are you into and what are you looking for, I’d be struggling to think of something to reply to them." Women are not into cock. Men just want them to be because they are so focused on their own dick they think the world revolves around it. Women are into; A partner who is generous and giving in bed A good laugh with a new friend To feel safe To feel appreciated, not used (unless they are into being used as a kink) To have someone who understands arousal starts in the brain, not by grabby hands and entitled attitudes. Sometimes has a pussy, instead of a cock. If they have a cock, not have them display it like a nursery school kid who has just done the best drawing ever according to their Mummy. | |||
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"i keep getting blocked when i send my face photo to women! thqys usually aftervthe request 'face' or 'face please' whats happening? never thought i was thqy unattractive! very upsetting. does that happen to anyone of you men or women ?" It's really easy tbh ,STOP sending face pics here to people that are total internet strangers to you .wait till you are on another chat platform or have advanced to one , anyone that you send one to a total internet stranger could end up anywhere for other purposes, you haven't a clue why they blocked you but they have your face pic ,who da f**k knows what happens it .Thats why l have written what l have written on my profile & if anyone doesn't like that well then to me they're not the people l want to meet in the 1st place . Thats my opinion anyway, may not be the way for others but thats the way the cookie crumbles. I bet they blocked you without you seeing their face ..& hey who's to say you wouldn't block them if YOU saw THEIR photo..its most important you look after yourself 1st & foremost & not what others that you have never even seen want or say to you . | |||
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"i keep getting blocked when i send my face photo to women! thqys usually aftervthe request 'face' or 'face please' whats happening? never thought i was thqy unattractive! very upsetting. does that happen to anyone of you men or women ? It's really easy tbh ,STOP sending face pics here to people that are total internet strangers to you .wait till you are on another chat platform or have advanced to one , anyone that you send one to a total internet stranger could end up anywhere for other purposes, you haven't a clue why they blocked you but they have your face pic ,who da f**k knows what happens it .Thats why l have written what l have written on my profile & if anyone doesn't like that well then to me they're not the people l want to meet in the 1st place . Thats my opinion anyway, may not be the way for others but thats the way the cookie crumbles. I bet they blocked you without you seeing their face ..& hey who's to say you wouldn't block them if YOU saw THEIR photo..its most important you look after yourself 1st & foremost & not what others that you have never even seen want or say to you ." thanks very much. well said. thats always thevcase, they see my face photo, never respond. i might send 2 or 3 more messages,thrn block. i know thqt therecwill be women om this site who have seen me, abd have blocked me. im well sure ny face photo is probably being used by other guys to send to wonen, and other uses. i always think, whos seen me? work colleagues, neighbour cousin etc. you nevrmer know. i dont give a sh*t. too late now. if there's consequences , ill have to deal with them Ladies, its also very rude to block and not respond to a guy wirhout a reason if he's sent you a face photo. same goes for men. im not being sexist. | |||
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"i keep getting blocked when i send my face photo to women! thqys usually aftervthe request 'face' or 'face please' whats happening? never thought i was thqy unattractive! very upsetting. does that happen to anyone of you men or women ? It's really easy tbh ,STOP sending face pics here to people that are total internet strangers to you .wait till you are on another chat platform or have advanced to one , anyone that you send one to a total internet stranger could end up anywhere for other purposes, you haven't a clue why they blocked you but they have your face pic ,who da f**k knows what happens it .Thats why l have written what l have written on my profile & if anyone doesn't like that well then to me they're not the people l want to meet in the 1st place . Thats my opinion anyway, may not be the way for others but thats the way the cookie crumbles. I bet they blocked you without you seeing their face ..& hey who's to say you wouldn't block them if YOU saw THEIR photo..its most important you look after yourself 1st & foremost & not what others that you have never even seen want or say to you . thanks very much. well said. thats always thevcase, they see my face photo, never respond. i might send 2 or 3 more messages,thrn block. i know thqt therecwill be women om this site who have seen me, abd have blocked me. im well sure ny face photo is probably being used by other guys to send to wonen, and other uses. i always think, whos seen me? work colleagues, neighbour cousin etc. you nevrmer know. i dont give a sh*t. too late now. if there's consequences , ill have to deal with them Ladies, its also very rude to block and not respond to a guy wirhout a reason if he's sent you a face photo. same goes for men. im not being sexist." Maybe I'm the only one getting this, but I'm getting a sense of entitlement from you, especially in that last paragraph above. 
I'm starting to think that you're sending unsolicited face pics in the belief that people should almost be compelled to respond to you because of this. Maybe I'm reading to much into what you're saying though?
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" Stop sending face photos if it upsets you so much Some women block men too close to their location as it makes it easier and safer for them How could other men be using your face photo to send to women and why would they If you don't give a shit about using the site then dont use the site " My face is widly shown to birds. Mainly in fields to protect seeds | |||
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"they see my face photo, never respond. i might send 2 or 3 more messages,thrn block........Ladies, its also very rude to block and not respond to a guy wirhout a reason if he's sent you a face photo. same goes for men. im not being sexist." You send a photo with your first message. I'd guess its not because your photo that your getting blocked. You're able to send more messages after you're first one. You're getting blocked because women don't want multiple messages from guys they have no interest in. And secondly, noone is required to respond to any message you send, whether you've included a photo or not. Do you also tell them how rude they are for not replying to your first message in your subsequent ones? You spamming them with messages when they're not interested absolutely earns you a block. | |||
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" Ladies, its also very rude to block and not respond to a guy wirhout a reason if he's sent you a face photo. same goes for men. im not being sexist." I disagree with this statement and find it quite entitled. We don't owe people explanations. Block is an administrative tool, not a personal statement. | |||
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"thanks very much. well said. thats always thevcase, they see my face photo, never respond. i might send 2 or 3 more messages,thrn block. i know thqt therecwill be women om this site who have seen me, abd have blocked me. im well sure ny face photo is probably being used by other guys to send to wonen, and other uses. i always think, whos seen me? work colleagues, neighbour cousin etc. you nevrmer know. i dont give a sh*t. too late now. if there's consequences , ill have to deal with them Ladies, its also very rude to block and not respond to a guy wirhout a reason if he's sent you a face photo. same goes for men. im not being sexist." It's quite simple really and even stated in site FAQs: No reply is a reply. They're not interested. Most won't block you initially if you're not being malicious, but after receiving multiple messages they will. And be under no illusion here, nobody owes you a response. Especially just because you sent them a picture. If its upsetting you, maybe take a step back for awhile. It's not that deep, don't let it bother you. | |||
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"thanks very much. well said. thats always thevcase, they see my face photo, never respond. i might send 2 or 3 more messages,thrn block. i know thqt therecwill be women om this site who have seen me, abd have blocked me. im well sure ny face photo is probably being used by other guys to send to wonen, and other uses. i always think, whos seen me? work colleagues, neighbour cousin etc. you nevrmer know. i dont give a sh*t. too late now. if there's consequences , ill have to deal with them Ladies, its also very rude to block and not respond to a guy wirhout a reason if he's sent you a face photo. same goes for men. im not being sexist." 🙈🙈🙈🙈 Fuck sake. You never said that in your opener. What did you think was going to happen to you sending a further two or three messages to them? Send one mail, no pics, no follow up mail if they don’t answer. No pics, no problems, no blocks, all happy. | |||
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"thanks very much. well said. thats always thevcase, they see my face photo, never respond. i might send 2 or 3 more messages,thrn block. i know thqt therecwill be women om this site who have seen me, abd have blocked me. . im well sure ny face photo is probably being used by other guys to send to wonen, and other uses. i always think, whos seen me? work colleagues, neighbour cousin etc. you nevrmer know. i dont give a sh*t. too late now. if there's consequences , ill have to deal with them Ladies, its also very rude to block and not respond to a guy wirhout a reason if he's sent you a face photo. same goes for men. im not being sexist. 🙈🙈🙈🙈 Fuck sake. You never said that in your opener. What did you think was going to happen to you sending a further two or three messages to them? Send one mail, no pics, no follow up mail if they don’t answer. No pics, no problems, no blocks, all happy. " no, id never say that to them. its disrespectful . guys, feel free to burn me all you want. i deserve for posting this shit. done now | |||
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I am, usually, being blocked without even sending a message...
Anyway, it's tough competition on here and 'being blocked is the norm, maybe, just maybe, some local girls have recognized you and thought: 'Oh hell...that's the bloke from ..insert here.. '
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"Hey, I might give a point of view from someone you sent messages too, and who talked to someone who received messages and face pic from you. We receive a lot of messages and by the time we arrive to yours you sent at least 3 more. We know it is really difficult for guys in here and that it is not fair, what you need to understand is that it can be dangerous for us to meet random guys, and even if we know “not all men” we have to be careful for the few crazy ones. Therefore we are very careful to all the red flags. Not accepting that messaging back can take time or that it can be an answer itself, and keeping sending them multiple times per day is in my opinion concerning as what behaviour the guy could have in person. I haven’t seen your face pic so it’s not the reason why on my side. A girl I know have seen your face pic and said that it was not the problem. I have difficulties blocking someone as I find it a bit rude, and maybe I’m wrong. It is only my honest point of view for what it’s worth I hope " I like this post. Not judgy, not sparky just informative and useful. | |||
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"Hey, I might give a point of view from someone you sent messages too, and who talked to someone who received messages and face pic from you. We receive a lot of messages and by the time we arrive to yours you sent at least 3 more. We know it is really difficult for guys in here and that it is not fair, what you need to understand is that it can be dangerous for us to meet random guys, and even if we know “not all men” we have to be careful for the few crazy ones. Therefore we are very careful to all the red flags. Not accepting that messaging back can take time or that it can be an answer itself, and keeping sending them multiple times per day is in my opinion concerning as what behaviour the guy could have in person. I haven’t seen your face pic so it’s not the reason why on my side. A girl I know have seen your face pic and said that it was not the problem. I have difficulties blocking someone as I find it a bit rude, and maybe I’m wrong. It is only my honest point of view for what it’s worth I hope " " it can be dangerous for us to meet random guys " A lady's well being & safety is the utmost priority to them & rightly so ,when they receive messages from guys ,at that time of 1st messages, both are completely internet strangers & dont know anything about each other ,ladies here are totally swamped with messages & have to be extremely careful of who they bring into their World for their own safety & who can blame them for that , yes of course Sex with them might be absolutely mind blowing BUT there are stages that a guy to go through 1st to reach there , if ever , if for any reason a lady is not interested let it slide ,thats why l have it on my profile, let it slide & dont be a pain to them , yes of course l've a block list ,its there because of the simple reason of not wanting to be a pain in the ass to them ,they're not interested so...let it slide ..simple really...everyone has a type, if it matches , great , if not , let it slide ..have a great day People.🫶 | |||
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"Hey, I might give a point of view from someone you sent messages too, and who talked to someone who received messages and face pic from you. We receive a lot of messages and by the time we arrive to yours you sent at least 3 more. We know it is really difficult for guys in here and that it is not fair, what you need to understand is that it can be dangerous for us to meet random guys, and even if we know “not all men” we have to be careful for the few crazy ones. Therefore we are very careful to all the red flags. Not accepting that messaging back can take time or that it can be an answer itself, and keeping sending them multiple times per day is in my opinion concerning as what behaviour the guy could have in person. I haven’t seen your face pic so it’s not the reason why on my side. A girl I know have seen your face pic and said that it was not the problem. I have difficulties blocking someone as I find it a bit rude, and maybe I’m wrong. It is only my honest point of view for what it’s worth I hope " I experienced the same. Don't recall receiving a face pic but blocked due to the barrage of mail and questions after saying I wasn't interested in meeting | |||
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"Hey, I might give a point of view from someone you sent messages too, and who talked to someone who received messages and face pic from you. We receive a lot of messages and by the time we arrive to yours you sent at least 3 more. We know it is really difficult for guys in here and that it is not fair, what you need to understand is that it can be dangerous for us to meet random guys, and even if we know “not all men” we have to be careful for the few crazy ones. Therefore we are very careful to all the red flags. Not accepting that messaging back can take time or that it can be an answer itself, and keeping sending them multiple times per day is in my opinion concerning as what behaviour the guy could have in person. I haven’t seen your face pic so it’s not the reason why on my side. A girl I know have seen your face pic and said that it was not the problem. I have difficulties blocking someone as I find it a bit rude, and maybe I’m wrong. It is only my honest point of view for what it’s worth I hope " it can be dangerous for us to meet random guys " A lady's well being & safety is the utmost priority to them & rightly so ,when they receive messages from guys ,at that time of 1st messages, both are completely internet strangers & dont know anything about each other ,ladies here are totally swamped with messages & have to be extremely careful of who they bring into their World for their own safety & who can blame them for that , yes of course Sex with them might be absolutely mind blowing BUT there are stages that a guy to go through 1st to reach there , if ever , if for any reason a lady is not interested let it slide ,thats why l have it on my profile, let it slide & dont be a pain to them , yes of course l've a block list ,its there because of the simple reason of not wanting to be a pain in the ass to them ,they're not interested so...let it slide ..simple really...everyone has a type, if it matches , great , if not , let it slide ..have a great day People.🫶" What about mens safety don't we deserve to feel safe when meeting. I've had my ego beaten battered and bruised more time that I feel I need a body guard with me at all times. It's a cruel world out there folks | |||
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"Oh sugar, i was kinda just having a bit of a giggle with that eh. Not actually being serious but you're absolutely right. Shout out for the guys too. " I just genuinely thought you were in a bad place yourself… I’m glad it’s that way  | |||
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"Oh sugar, i was kinda just having a bit of a giggle with that eh. Not actually being serious but you're absolutely right. Shout out for the guys too.
I just genuinely thought you were in a bad place yourself… I’m glad it’s that way "I appreciate your concern but no I'm all good thanks though  | |||
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"i keep getting blocked when i send my face photo to women! thqys usually aftervthe request 'face' or 'face please' whats happening? never thought i was thqy unattractive! very upsetting. does that happen to anyone of you men or women ?" It happens us all. I very rarely send face pics and usually just before meeting. Lols I’m in a run of 2 for 2 now but I swear to god I’m gorgeous 
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"thanks for feedback guys. i can say only 20% women i message get back to me,70% request a face and 50% of them block me really narrows it down. lol im blocked by at east 10 women in galway so far ive never once been malicious or mean to any of them. if this continues im never coming back here again. fxxk the site here's my typical message. would you block me if i sent you this? hi (insert name). hows your evening ? you look very attractive,gorgeous figure. genuine, chilled spontaneous guy here, looking for fun.im openminded and laid back. what are you into and looking for? hows your experience of this site? love to chat, maybe meet BLOCK! " I've always open with; "I cannot believe that they have let me use this site in prison" But usually to the same outcome as yourself, if I'm not instantly blocked I tend to wait a day or two and hit them with; Silent type............... I like that!!! If I wasn't blocked before I sure am after I have sent that. All jokes a side, I have seen the sheer volume of messages ladies and couples get on here, daily, it would make your head spin, and the vast majority are, for want of a better word, pathetic. Focus on your own profile, build up a collection of tasteful photos and videos,(I know mine are anything but tasteful 🫣) I haven't read your profile but try and make yourself standout. Looks are important but they're not the be all an end all. The best looking guys on here can still be dicks and get blocked just as quick. | |||
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