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Person u work with is a member and they dont know that you know

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By *imdev OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Limerick

Im after finding out a person I work with is a member of Fab. Should I let them know that I know or just say nothing?

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By *R.MandMRS.TCouple
2 weeks ago

lurgan

Say nothing, I hate it when people tell me that they saw me here or there, its there privet life (mrs.t)

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By *imdev OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Limerick


"Say nothing, I hate it when people tell me that they saw me here or there, its there privet life (mrs.t) "

Was thinking the same. Just dont want to cause any upset

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

Block them so you dont see their profile anymore and they dont see yours.

Say absolutely nothing to them or anyone else you work with

Its no one's business except their own

Give them their privacy

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By *imdev OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Limerick


"Block them so you dont see their profile anymore and they dont see yours.

Say absolutely nothing to them or anyone else you work with

Its no one's business except their own

Sounds like a plan. Id never say anything to anyone about any members here either. Privacy has to be respected

Give them their privacy "

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By *iscuits8Man
2 weeks ago

Dublin / Meath / Birmingham

Bit baffling that "should I respect someone's privacy" needs to be asked to be totally honest

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By *ergalMan
2 weeks ago

Cork


"Block them so you dont see their profile anymore and they dont see yours.

Say absolutely nothing to them or anyone else you work with

Its no one's business except their own

Give them their privacy "

Exactly this

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By *adJennyWoman
2 weeks ago

Cougar Village


"Bit baffling that "should I respect someone's privacy" needs to be asked to be totally honest"

100%

I’ve come across a few people on here, I know in vanilla life, have said nothing. Not my business to say anything, should apply the other way around too, but not everyone seems to adhere to respect one’s privacy.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
2 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

I accidented across someone here who worked for me. Blocked and never said a word

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By *enerationfornicationMan
2 weeks ago

not far from


"Im after finding out a person I work with is a member of Fab. Should I let them know that I know or just say nothing?"

1. Why would you ask this when you already know the answer = NO (because it's not a good idea)

2. Do you see it as some kind of power play? - we're not kids in the school yard nodding and winking because we know Jimmy isn't really sick every 3rd week in september for 3 days, when he's fecked off to thr ploughing match!

How would you (OP) feel if the situation was reversed on you?

block, forget you ever saw anything, and avoid the awkwardness of what maybe.

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

Op asked a question as he wasnt 100% sure of what to do and did the right thing ....he asked for advice so no need to think he had any ulterior motives in fairness

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By *otownkid1967Man
2 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Just block them and move on... say nothing and keep saying nothing. Better for everyone.

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By *ustBoWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Op asked a question as he wasnt 100% sure of what to do and did the right thing ....he asked for advice so no need to think he had any ulterior motives in fairness "

I genuinely don't understand why the question would be asked in tbe first place,by a anyone with common sense.

Unless in tbe hope of the answers saying oh definitely say it you'll probably get the ride if you do.

Questions like this always have an ulterior motive in my experience on here.

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By *ild WomanWoman
2 weeks ago

carlow

Don't say a thing because they could say the exact same thing to. "You must be on there too it great fun isn't it. I did admire your that dress you wore. Lipstick real does for you." Just what i would do if guy said that try to out me. But im a real Bitch and I burn people who tell people about my adult time. Just saying there might be other people like me. So think very hard and maybe what they will cause you more trouble than it worth. Block and move

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By *enerationfornicationMan
2 weeks ago

not far from


"Op asked a question as he wasnt 100% sure of what to do and did the right thing ....he asked for advice so no need to think he had any ulterior motives in fairness "

My apologies for my sharpness OP - sometimes i forget that less said is easier mended.

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By *ookAndDorkCouple
2 weeks ago

The West

I had a woman who worked in one of the teams that worked on a project I was coordinating contact me here, ask if I was such and such and send me some of the most vulgar gyno shots I've seen on the site.

This isn't the way.

I denied being the guy she thought I was and blocked.

In the same vein I've had a woman contact me and say 'hey just a heads up that we work on some of the same projects, no bother on my side let's just not fuck if we meet at a party'. We're still friendly.

There's more than one way to skin the cat.

Personally I would block and say nothing but it's a judgement call too.

Dook

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple
2 weeks ago

Cork

I recently found out a lad who works very close with me is on here. It's genuinely sent my heart sideways as hes a pure gossip would have the world told if he know i was on here aswell id hate for any of the nice people to come across him in a single guy profile as he would be have a few things id hate to come across. I dont know hes profile name unfortunately but it's made me more wary now of new profiles I see with the past few wks.

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By *rchimedes500Man
2 weeks ago

city

I find if ppl just mind their own and let everyone else mind theirs the world could be a better place. Leave what's not yours alone.

Block and move along, nothing to see here

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By *arkbiMan
2 weeks ago

near bandon

I've recently set my pix to private as customer where I work kept telling me have a fabulous day...and one the other staff had a good gossip to me that he is the village gay.. there are 4 profiles all very close to where I live and work , I think one is him and he either realised im on here or looking a reaction, just the way he looked at me as he very loudly stated FABULOUS

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By *arkbiMan
2 weeks ago

near bandon

So my advice is say nothing and leave the person be

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
2 weeks ago

Craigavon/dublin

I met one one of my very best friends on fab from working with them say nothing unless they come to you and tell you first

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By *otrealname2000Man
2 weeks ago

bed

Say nothing and have a snaky wank over them if they are hot lol

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