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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How long before

(a) a person is classed an experienced swinger

(b) its considered time to quit

In peoples opinion when is someone considered an experienced swinger or is there even a time frame involved,and when is it time to quit.

Someone once told me when it stops being fun should call it a day which is a very valid point. But how do others feel about this and are there certain people who just aren't cut out for the swinging lifestyle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree most definitely when it stops being fun then what is the point, it should only ever be a part of your life , not the only thing in your life. Sure ya see so many status updates on here, people really angry/pissed off at the site and its users. If it gets to that point , ya really need to take a break at least, not much point in constantly letting people know that you are pissed off, as it wont make people want to meet you.

In terms of experience, I am not sure at what point one can claim they are now officially a swinger. I have seen many so called 'experienced' swingers who still have no idea what the word discretion means. So I guess it's all relative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there such a thing as "experienced swinger"

With regards to calling it a day.

I feel u know when the time is right and everyone differs when u hang up your swinging boots.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

We have been having fun for 5years now! We have experience but not at every thing, there are things we haven't done yet, and something we wont be doing.

We have fun when we chose to meet, and if it ever gets where the buzz has gone we will stop, well for at least a while, as said before no point being unhappy here it just spoils it for people that what fun with fun people!

swinging is as I have said before to be enjoyed and not endured

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"We have been having fun for 5years now! We have experience but not at every thing, there are things we haven't done yet, and something we wont be doing.

We have fun when we chose to meet, and if it ever gets where the buzz has gone we will stop, well for at least a while, as said before no point being unhappy here it just spoils it for people that what fun with fun people!

swinging is as I have said before to be enjoyed and not endured "

agree with all of the above posts we like to think we are experienced but not jaded and as long as we are havin fun and anyone wants us we will be there lol,and

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked the question before about what point you become 'experienced' and we all couldn't come up with a definitive answer, I think you'll just sort of feel and know it!

I still feel like a novice at every single meet, I get the butterflies (even more before parties) and the excitement, nervous, slightly cautious feeling each time and I hope that continues for a long time yet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I asked the question before about what point you become 'experienced' and we all couldn't come up with a definitive answer, I think you'll just sort of feel and know it!

I still feel like a novice at every single meet, I get the butterflies (even more before parties) and the excitement, nervous, slightly cautious feeling each time and I hope that continues for a long time yet!"

Hmmmm I know that feeling and it is sooooo addictive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

flutterbyes never leave lol

weve quit it a few times.. and.. keep coming back for more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"flutterbyes never leave lol

weve quit it a few times.. and.. keep coming back for more "

Turn the profile off and walk away for a while or a long time. You know in yourself when it's a break, extended leave or never coming back

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By *licia cdTV/TS
over a year ago

Lisburn

True, sometimes we all need a break from the lifestyle... there can be some head melting times to be had...both good..and not so good.

Meeting strangers is VERY addictive though....

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