FabSwingers.com forum: Mid-life crisis

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I'm turning 42 in a few weeks and so far other than an urge to bleach the hair blonde, and maybe getting more open-minded as I am getting older, I haven't really had any dramatic midlife crisis urges (eg. Getting myself a convertible like so many middle-aged men!)

So for a bit of fun, has anyone felt they have had a midlife crisis and done something really out of character as part of it?!

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By *adger BrocMan
3 weeks ago

North Cork

"I'm turning 42 in a few weeks and so far other than an urge to bleach the hair blonde, and maybe getting more open-minded as I am getting older, I haven't really had any dramatic midlife crisis urges (eg. Getting myself a convertible like so many middle-aged men!)

So for a bit of fun, has anyone felt they have had a midlife crisis and done something really out of character as part of it?!

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Definitely went through a period of uncertainty in my mid to late 40's. Thought about doing a few crazy things but didn’t and just doubled down at work stuff and raising my family and a relative level of sanity prevailed.

Looking back it was more the dawning of a realisation that there will always be twists and turns in life's journey which have to be dealt with, and that I was just at a crossroads rather than experiencing an actual crisis.

We just have to learn how to adjust to the inevitable changes that occur along life's pathway.

Was contemplating buying a 750 Norton motorbike for a while but bought an Ifor Williams horsebox instead. Still have it and I got lots more fun from it, and the animals I carried in it, than I ever would have gotten from the bike.

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By *oveat1stfeelMan
3 weeks ago

turnrightstraightahead

So for a bit of fun, has anyone felt they have had a midlife crisis and done something really out of character as part of it?!

Tbh..no , just kept being me , never felt like doing or getting anything that was out of character to me, time moves on for everyone ,always played sports, always loved music & always loved intimacy..& still love all 3 today ..the 3 " H's "..Healthy , Happy ,Horny....after those 3 everything else is just noise.😁

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By *og-ManMan
3 weeks ago

somewhere

At the age of 44 I got a temporary job ...more like a hobby with some friends but definitely something completely different for me

They left within a year

Im still doing it 17 yrs later

So a very long term midlife crisis

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By *exyScientistsCouple
3 weeks ago

Castlebar

Definitely yeah. Totally get it...the hair thing, and joining fab 🤣

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By *ealitybitesMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast

Never experienced it.

A friend bought a motorbike when he turned 40 and got rid a year later after putting less than 100 miles on it.

My boss at the time bought a Porsche Boxster and sold it 4 months later when he couldn't get his golf clubs in it.

I didn't have the disposable income to make any big changes or do anything different so it all passed me by

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By *aseylee324Couple
3 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Got divorced, best decision of my adult life (along with deciding to say yes to that coffee with himself).

Middle age is a time to really look at yourself and ask if this is where and who you want to be, or are you just going through the motions....

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By *ookAndDorkCouple
3 weeks ago

The West

A mid life crisis?

In this economy?

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
3 weeks ago

kinkytown

I haven't but my dad had a minor one. Bought a camper van and a mini cooper. My mother soon sorted it though by giving him an earful. He kept the mini and got rid of the camper van. Ended up buying a Suzuki Swift sport years later 😂 regularly zooms up and down the village he lives in it.

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By *ew adventures99Man
3 weeks ago

city

Not a midlife crisis more of a epiphany, and stopped worrying about other peoples opinion of me or what I do/dont do. Lifes to short to worry about stuff you cant control

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By *izard jigglesCouple
3 weeks ago

Carlow

57 yrs young. Currently going thru divorce. Found myself a GF and we joined here together.

I have started getting tattoos, currently at 3 and 3 more planned. Toying with the idea of a motorbike or camper van.

Definitely a mid life crisis or is it a midlife revamp 🤷‍♂️🤪

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By *eordie.Woman
3 weeks ago

The Sticks

"57 yrs young. Currently going thru divorce. Found myself a GF and we joined here together.

I have started getting tattoos, currently at 3 and 3 more planned. Toying with the idea of a motorbike or camper van.

Definitely a mid life crisis or is it a midlife revamp 🤷‍♂️🤪"
revamp - I like it

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By *ublin-BrianMan
3 weeks ago

dublin

My midlife crisis was to try something new, so saw this georgeous Trans lady on another site. Paid a visit to her and it was a great experience. She knew how to tick all the boxes. Very feminine, big ass and tits. That was back in 2014, and still visiting various trans ladies.

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By *aitlynTSTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Cork city outskirts

Had a major crisis in life and hit rock bottom when I turned 40 just before COVID happened. Wasn't really age related, all things I cared about just went to shit all at once.

After a lot of introspection I was faced with a decision to either play russian roulette on my own or to leave everything behind and finally start being my authentic self.

The decision wasn't clear cut at all, but I made the right choice in the end.

I came out as trans to my closest friends that year and got a tattoo to celebrate the end of my old life and the start of my new life

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By *og-ManMan
3 weeks ago

somewhere

I forgot I got a tattoo on my 50th birthday so that was the official mid life crisis

Mind you I cant actually see it so I might get another one

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By *amsevenMan
3 weeks ago

cork

Got a 995. Iykyk

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By *adger BrocMan
3 weeks ago

North Cork

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By *rRiosMan
3 weeks ago

dublin

"Had a major crisis in life and hit rock bottom when I turned 40 just before COVID happened. Wasn't really age related, all things I cared about just went to shit all at once.

After a lot of introspection I was faced with a decision to either play russian roulette on my own or to leave everything behind and finally start being my authentic self.

The decision wasn't clear cut at all, but I made the right choice in the end.

I came out as trans to my closest friends that year and got a tattoo to celebrate the end of my old life and the start of my new life

👏👏👏

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By *rCupidMan
3 weeks ago

Cavan

Taught myself to become ambidextrous

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By *adger BrocMan
3 weeks ago

North Cork

"Got a 995. Iykyk

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"If it's white it must be right"

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By *enerationfornicationMan
3 weeks ago

not far from

So for a bit of fun, has anyone felt they have had a midlife crisis and done something really out of character as part of it?!

The weather is a bit unpredictable for a soft top. I'd go for a lamborghini if your looking to spash the cash. lovely blue one with yellow reg. passed me this morning on the m7 past j14.

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By *Js-EmmaCouple
3 weeks ago

dublins fair city

💝💝💝 this.

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By *olly1980Man
3 weeks ago

Limerick, Clare

Remember my dads like it was yesterday, he stopped drinking smithwicks and smoking major, started drinking carlsberg and smoking rothmans instead. Really wild time for him 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *r interestedMan
3 weeks ago

near the lough

I went to Ibiza at 46 and first time doing drugs - had a ball and haven’t looked back lol

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
3 weeks ago

Lucan

"Taught myself to become ambidextrous"

I'd give my right hand to be ambidextrous.

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By *om TangoMan
3 weeks ago

Tedavnet Co.Monaghan

My midlife crisis is resulting in me paying a fella to draw pictures on my body. In other words getting tattoos done. So far I’ve spent €3100 and another €900 to go to get the back finished. Turning 50 later this year so hopefully that will put an end to the tattoos before I’m broke. Back alone is costing €2250

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By *oserMan
2 weeks ago

where the wild roses grow

"Taught myself to become ambidextrous

I'd give my right hand to be ambidextrous.

Can't believe this didn't get a 👏

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By *adger BrocMan
2 weeks ago

North Cork

"Taught myself to become ambidextrous

I'd give my right hand to be ambidextrous.

Can't believe this didn't get a 👏"

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If an ambidextrous person claps there hands in the forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?"

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By *xplorer2023Man
2 weeks ago

dublin 7

"Had a major crisis in life and hit rock bottom when I turned 40 just before COVID happened. Wasn't really age related, all things I cared about just went to shit all at once.

After a lot of introspection I was faced with a decision to either play russian roulette on my own or to leave everything behind and finally start being my authentic self.

The decision wasn't clear cut at all, but I made the right choice in the end.

I came out as trans to my closest friends that year and got a tattoo to celebrate the end of my old life and the start of my new life

❤️

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By *intyballsMan
2 weeks ago

Meath

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By *intyballsMan
2 weeks ago

Meath

Turning 40 in a few weeks 😬I think the first time in my life not worried about my age but more awear of it if that makes sense.

More awear about how I look and my weight and looking after myself a bit more.

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