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"Tell her you're on a site she's unaware of, where you're looking to shag other women. That'll pique her interest." 😂😂😂 | |||
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"Tell her you're on a site she's unaware of, where you're looking to shag other women. That'll pique her interest." 💯! 👏👏 | |||
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"Tell her you're on a site she's unaware of, where you're looking to shag other women. That'll pique her interest. 💯! 👏👏" What I give to be a fly perched on the corner of the wardrobe for that one ha ha  | |||
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"She knows I'm on it idk how to ask her to join or what's the best way of doing it "You were able to have a conversation where you worked out consent for you to be on here and look for other people to have sex with but you can't figure out a way to ask her if she wants to be on here too? | |||
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"Tell her you're on a site she's unaware of, where you're looking to shag other women. That'll pique her interest." This is the best advice you can get. Better still, if you have any experience on here, get them to message saying how good it is and she'll definitely go for it. There's no difficulty here, you already have done the ground work. Look forward to seeing you both on the scene. X | |||
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"Thinking of getting the missus onto this site, but don't know what's the best way to approach it, we would watch cuckolding porn videos etc x" Video call her when you're fucking someone else, send her the eircode. | |||
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"Thinking of getting the missus onto this site, but don't know what's the best way to approach it, we would watch cuckolding porn videos etc x" Well.... To keep the peace, you might not want to bring up that you already have an account here (or done more). Maybe just mention this site and see what kind of reaction you get. I did and got a positive reaction.... The rest is history 😏 | |||
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"She knows I'm on it idk how to ask her to join or what's the best way of doing it "I'm sorry, but literally noone here believes that! | |||
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"She knows I'm on it idk how to ask her to join or what's the best way of doing it "Surely if she knows you're here then you already had the far harder conversation about you sleeping with someone else. That extra step of her sleeping with someone else is a far easier conversation. That's why people are struggling to believe you | |||
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"Tell her you're on a site she's unaware of, where you're looking to shag other women. That'll pique her interest." Lol, picks up pop corn to await the replies | |||
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"Unsolicited moral police - lynching a poor man seeking guidance socially. Be kind pls !" My thoughts exactly!!! | |||
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"Tell her you're on a site she's unaware of, where you're looking to shag other women. That'll pique her interest." Ye she'll fecking love that  | |||
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"Unsolicited moral police - lynching a poor man seeking guidance socially. Be kind pls ! My thoughts exactly!!! " On a more general note, and absolutely not meant as a criticism of the OP, in fact somewhat in their defence. I totally recognise that everyone on here has their individual writing style but a lack of punctuation, predictive text errors and failure to use "Preview Message" to check content can leave posts open to misinterpretation and to being pounced on by the ever lurking "Forum Moral Police". It may not be necessary to post "long winded" essays, something which I have previously been criticised for, but it is helpful if the intended meaning is clear especially when seeking advice/opinion replys. We can all get a bit exercised when we see obviously ill-conceived or downright idiotic posts but the constant negativity and lecturing from a few regular contributors, who sit on board tall equines, probably says more about them than it does about someone posting in good faith and not expecting to be the subject of illinformed and excessively personally biased responses. Maybe it is time for some of the self-appointed forum police to put down their truncheons, sit back and relax a little bit. Fab is for fun, not for fighting. 🫶👨✈️👩✈️🫶 | |||
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"Unsolicited moral police - lynching a poor man seeking guidance socially. Be kind pls !" Hardly unsolicited. Unless it's your first time on the internet then getting served up the good, the bad and the downright ugly when you stick your neck (or dick) out should come as no surprise at all. I hope the irony of the people policing the 'police' is not lost on anyone 🤣 | |||
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"Unsolicited moral police - lynching a poor man seeking guidance socially. Be kind pls ! Hardly unsolicited. Unless it's your first time on the internet then getting served up the good, the bad and the downright ugly when you stick your neck (or dick) out should come as no surprise at all. I hope the irony of the people policing the 'police' is not lost on anyone 🤣" .... Fiosrú iontach maith. | |||
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"I asked a question people know fuck all about me or my situation so they should fuck up ty" If you really can't see why you got the responses you did, that's on you not those who gave them. | |||
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"Tell her you're on a site she's unaware of, where you're looking to shag other women. That'll pique her interest." ...& very fast too..... | |||
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"Unsolicited moral police - lynching a poor man seeking guidance socially. Be kind pls ! My thoughts exactly!!! On a more general note, and absolutely not meant as a criticism of the OP, in fact somewhat in their defence. I totally recognise that everyone on here has their individual writing style but a lack of punctuation, predictive text errors and failure to use "Preview Message" to check content can leave posts open to misinterpretation and to being pounced on by the ever lurking "Forum Moral Police". It may not be necessary to post "long winded" essays, something which I have previously been criticised for, but it is helpful if the intended meaning is clear especially when seeking advice/opinion replys. We can all get a bit exercised when we see obviously ill-conceived or downright idiotic posts but the constant negativity and lecturing from a few regular contributors, who sit on board tall equines, probably says more about them than it does about someone posting in good faith and not expecting to be the subject of illinformed and excessively personally biased responses. Maybe it is time for some of the self-appointed forum police to put down their truncheons, sit back and relax a little bit. Fab is for fun, not for fighting. 🫶👨✈️👩✈️🫶" *replies 
While I take your point in general about "policing", I'm not sure how much it applies to this particular thread.
Op asked a question and got pretty predictable responses. The question itself suggests that his other half must not know anything about him being on here.
We then find out that, yes, she does know he's on here, which means they've obviously talked about the site. That then suggests that the topic has already been aired, pretty much negating the need for the question in the first place.
If op and his missus have already talked about him being on the site, then surely one of those conversations is the obvious way to raise the topic of her potentially joining? Is that not glaringly obvious? How can any of us improve on that?
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"Debatable I asked for advise yeah I should word it better but the responses and people thinking my gf doesn't know about me being on this is comical " It's a bit confusing..in your original post ...you said " Missus " ..& this post you said " gf ".. Tbh l dont care of others situations, am totally non judgemental in why a person is here as its their own business & their own reasons..but maybe knowing which may make the reading of posts more easy & less confusing... May you call your "gf " your " missus " ...but either way l can't offer any advice to you as lm not in that position but either way best wishes in your situation. 👍 | |||
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"Unsolicited moral police - lynching a poor man seeking guidance socially. Be kind pls ! My thoughts exactly!!! On a more general note, and absolutely not meant as a criticism of the OP, in fact somewhat in their defence. I totally recognise that everyone on here has their individual writing style but a lack of punctuation, predictive text errors and failure to use "Preview Message" to check content can leave posts open to misinterpretation and to being pounced on by the ever lurking "Forum Moral Police". It may not be necessary to post "long winded" essays, something which I have previously been criticised for, but it is helpful if the intended meaning is clear especially when seeking advice/opinion replys. We can all get a bit exercised when we see obviously ill-conceived or downright idiotic posts but the constant negativity and lecturing from a few regular contributors, who sit on board tall equines, probably says more about them than it does about someone posting in good faith and not expecting to be the subject of illinformed and excessively personally biased responses. Maybe it is time for some of the self-appointed forum police to put down their truncheons, sit back and relax a little bit. Fab is for fun, not for fighting. 🫶👨✈️👩✈️🫶 *replies
While I take your point in general about "policing", I'm not sure how much it applies to this particular thread.
Op asked a question and got pretty predictable responses. The question itself suggests that his other half must not know anything about him being on here.
We then find out that, yes, she does know he's on here, which means they've obviously talked about the site. That then suggests that the topic has already been aired, pretty much negating the need for the question in the first place.
If op and his missus have already talked about him being on the site, then surely one of those conversations is the obvious way to raise the topic of her potentially joining? Is that not glaringly obvious? How can any of us improve on that?
Now, where's my truncheon? ".... * well spotted. 👏 Hopefully my spelling error did not take too much from the overall point of my post. It also emphasises the importance of "message preview"/spellcheck. Proof that even badgers are prone to human error. | |||
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"Believe me or don't Idgaf I know the truth "Noone is denying that you know the truth. It's your wife/ gf who probably doesn't   | |||
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"Believe me or don't Idgaf I know the truth "If this was The Dragon's Den l would say its too confusing for me ..Missus one post..gf in another.... l'm out..Best of luck OP in whatever happens . | |||
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"Nobody is policing. It's just that I don't understand why he has to ask about advice for approaching her to join here if they have already discussed him being on here. It's sounds like the least difficult conversation a couple could ever have! Hence why I don't believe him." Your actually bang bang on here, fairply, its the least difficult conversation a genuine couple could have, I presume as a couple yer having more difficult ones, its a simple yes or no, answer tbf. Also we dont know the lady why ask the site how to approach someone we dont know we dont know her in any capacity. We look forward OP how you'll do with this as you've plenty advice here now. | |||
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