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"Wouldn’t it be a good idea to create a list of dodgy profiles for verified members that allow them to avoid and block. We continuously come across couple’s profiles that are men using their unsuspecting girls friends and wives as decoys. We come across men portraying themselves as younger than they actually are. Many using images of unsuspecting males from Facebook profiles (have proof of this). And more worryingly we’ve come across plenty of profiles that have issued threats of violence and harassment. Including threats to kill and r**e. All of these profiles we have reported and none of them are ever deleted. The idea to create a list is to help other well meaning and verified users avoid these cretins because site admins don’t seem to be bothered dealing with them. I know the idea of this will probably be shot down but something needs to happen as this site is further down the toilet than it’s ever been before. Thoughts? " But I'm sure some off the well verified are as bad as the none verified. | |||
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"People would just add people the didn't like or had grudges against to the list " Yeh true, always an issue. Surely there has to be a way of flagging them. Ideally if they were deleted there’d be no issue | |||
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"Wouldn’t it be a good idea to create a list of dodgy profiles for verified members that allow them to avoid and block. We continuously come across couple’s profiles that are men using their unsuspecting girls friends and wives as decoys. We come across men portraying themselves as younger than they actually are. Many using images of unsuspecting males from Facebook profiles (have proof of this). And more worryingly we’ve come across plenty of profiles that have issued threats of violence and harassment. Including threats to kill and r**e. All of these profiles we have reported and none of them are ever deleted. The idea to create a list is to help other well meaning and verified users avoid these cretins because site admins don’t seem to be bothered dealing with them. I know the idea of this will probably be shot down but something needs to happen as this site is further down the toilet than it’s ever been before. Thoughts? But I'm sure some off the well verified are as bad as the none verified. " Yea some nasty verified people on fab as well saying nasty things just because they can get away with it | |||
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"Wouldn’t it be a good idea to create a list of dodgy profiles for verified members that allow them to avoid and block. We continuously come across couple’s profiles that are men using their unsuspecting girls friends and wives as decoys. We come across men portraying themselves as younger than they actually are. Many using images of unsuspecting males from Facebook profiles (have proof of this). And more worryingly we’ve come across plenty of profiles that have issued threats of violence and harassment. Including threats to kill and r**e. All of these profiles we have reported and none of them are ever deleted. The idea to create a list is to help other well meaning and verified users avoid these cretins because site admins don’t seem to be bothered dealing with them. I know the idea of this will probably be shot down but something needs to happen as this site is further down the toilet than it’s ever been before. Thoughts? But I'm sure some off the well verified are as bad as the none verified. Yea some nasty verified people on fab as well saying nasty things just because they can get away with it " Maybe a list for any profile that acts the cretin | |||
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"Wouldn’t it be a good idea to create a list of dodgy profiles for verified members that allow them to avoid and block. We continuously come across couple’s profiles that are men using their unsuspecting girls friends and wives as decoys. We come across men portraying themselves as younger than they actually are. Many using images of unsuspecting males from Facebook profiles (have proof of this). And more worryingly we’ve come across plenty of profiles that have issued threats of violence and harassment. Including threats to kill and r**e. All of these profiles we have reported and none of them are ever deleted. The idea to create a list is to help other well meaning and verified users avoid these cretins because site admins don’t seem to be bothered dealing with them. I know the idea of this will probably be shot down but something needs to happen as this site is further down the toilet than it’s ever been before. Thoughts? But I'm sure some off the well verified are as bad as the none verified. Yea some nasty verified people on fab as well saying nasty things just because they can get away with it Maybe a list for any profile that acts the cretin" What's your definition of cretin? One person's cretin is someone else's superhero and vice versa where fab is concerned. There's a good reason that naming and shaming isn't allowed on fab. It's too easily abused. | |||
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"People would just add people the didn't like or had grudges against to the list Yeh true, always an issue. Surely there has to be a way of flagging them. Ideally if they were deleted there’d be no issue " You'd have no idea who the genuine reports were vs the problematic ones. Only the person having the bad experience would know, and they could just have made it all up. | |||
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"Wouldn’t it be a good idea to create a list of dodgy profiles for verified members that allow them to avoid and block. We continuously come across couple’s profiles that are men using their unsuspecting girls friends and wives as decoys. We come across men portraying themselves as younger than they actually are. Many using images of unsuspecting males from Facebook profiles (have proof of this). And more worryingly we’ve come across plenty of profiles that have issued threats of violence and harassment. Including threats to kill and r**e. All of these profiles we have reported and none of them are ever deleted. The idea to create a list is to help other well meaning and verified users avoid these cretins because site admins don’t seem to be bothered dealing with them. I know the idea of this will probably be shot down but something needs to happen as this site is further down the toilet than it’s ever been before. Thoughts? But I'm sure some off the well verified are as bad as the none verified. Yea some nasty verified people on fab as well saying nasty things just because they can get away with it Maybe a list for any profile that acts the cretin" Just a list to avoid What about a lost for profile to avoid who won't talk to unverified males because of stigma labelled around them when majority are just looking to try getting into fab but can because of barriers being put up to stop them | |||
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"Bog man i wish you well getting to 178 on this thread as quick 😂 " Is that the magic number  | |||
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"Bog man i wish you well getting to 178 on this thread as quick 😂 Is that the magic number "Very magical on some posts ✨️ | |||
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"Bog man i wish you well getting to 178 on this thread as quick 😂 Is that the magic number
Very magical on some posts ✨️ "There should be a Nr with every comment counting  | |||
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" Word gets around who has a rep of being a good fabber, and a bad fabber. They also invented this delightful thing called block button. And the list just gets longer. Each to their own. "I’d rather let another fabber know if a profile issued a threat to r**e or kill. Some might not feel a want to do that. | |||
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"People can only use their own judgement when interacting with profiles and people. Using other people's information can be misleading. And information gets around very fast. Interpret with caution. "  | |||
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"Is being unfunny a red flag? 🚩 (gets ready to hand self in)" Wait your turn pal, can't you see there's a queue here already | |||
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"Bog man i wish you well getting to 178 on this thread as quick 😂 Is that the magic number
Very magical on some posts ✨️ "Ms Lolly and Bog are great at closing threads | |||
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"If only there was a ‘notes’ option on here that we could use, Make little notes or observations on profiles that you want to flag…. Hmmm 🤔" There is a notes option on profiles if you are a paid member | |||
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"Bog man i wish you well getting to 178 on this thread as quick 😂 Is that the magic number
Very magical on some posts ✨️
Ms Lolly and Bog are great at closing threads"Well one off them seems to live on the forums so can definitely see why they manage to close lots of threads. | |||
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"Bog man i wish you well getting to 178 on this thread as quick 😂 Is that the magic number
Very magical on some posts ✨️
Ms Lolly and Bog are great at closing threads Well one off them seems to live on the forums so can definitely see why they manage to close lots of threads. "Every post of yours I've seen is just bitching and moaning and being a smartarse. You still expecting people to meet you? | |||
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"Wish they would invent popcorn emoji "..... 🍿 | |||
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"Bog man i wish you well getting to 178 on this thread as quick 😂 Is that the magic number
Very magical on some posts ✨️
Ms Lolly and Bog are great at closing threads Well one off them seems to live on the forums so can definitely see why they manage to close lots of threads.
Every post of yours I've seen is just bitching and moaning and being a smartarse. You still expecting people to meet you?"Who pissed in your cheerios. | |||
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"Bog man i wish you well getting to 178 on this thread as quick 😂 Is that the magic number
Very magical on some posts ✨️
Ms Lolly and Bog are great at closing threads Well one off them seems to live on the forums so can definitely see why they manage to close lots of threads.
Every post of yours I've seen is just bitching and moaning and being a smartarse. You still expecting people to meet you? Who pissed in your cheerios."Nobody that you'll be meeting anyways 😆 | |||
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"Bog man i wish you well getting to 178 on this thread as quick 😂 Is that the magic number
Very magical on some posts ✨️
Ms Lolly and Bog are great at closing threads Well one off them seems to live on the forums so can definitely see why they manage to close lots of threads.
Every post of yours I've seen is just bitching and moaning and being a smartarse. You still expecting people to meet you? Who pissed in your cheerios.
Nobody that you'll be meeting anyways 😆"I hope not because I would insist they use the toilet. | |||
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"Anyone 🍿 ?? " Is it sweet or salty is the main question..... 🍿 | |||
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"Anyone 🍿 ?? Is it sweet or salty is the main question..... 🍿" Mixed 🍿 | |||
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"Ah lads and lasses I'm only engaging in a spot of deserved piss taking to pass a Sunday evening Anyways... popcorn is shite and I'll have another argument with anyone who reckons otherwise
(sorry OP)"Yeah its been a long day sure. What harm a bit of sport. Crisps anyone? | |||
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"Ah lads and lasses I'm only engaging in a spot of deserved piss taking to pass a Sunday evening Anyways... popcorn is shite and I'll have another argument with anyone who reckons otherwise
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"Anyone 🍿 ?? Is it sweet or salty is the main question..... 🍿 Mixed 🍿" Oh no im on Team Biscuits then for the mixed...sweet for me....all others are yuck, personal taste of course | |||
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"Anyone 🍿 ?? Is it sweet or salty is the main question..... 🍿 Mixed 🍿 Oh no im on Team Biscuits then for the mixed...sweet for me....all others are yuck, personal taste of course" Jaffa biscuits ?? | |||
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"Crisps anyone?" Salt and vinegar? 😍 | |||
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"Crisps anyone? Salt and vinegar? 😍" 🚩🚩🚩🚩🤣🤣 | |||
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"Anyone 🍿 ?? Is it sweet or salty is the main question..... 🍿 Mixed 🍿 Oh no im on Team Biscuits then for the mixed...sweet for me....all others are yuck, personal taste of course Jaffa biscuits ?? " Oh thats a whole different thread that will cause plenty of popcorn munching disagreements....cakes go hard, biscuits go soft when stale | |||
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"Jaffa biscuits ?? " Jaffa? I would yeah, defo  | |||
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"Crisps anyone? Salt and vinegar? 😍 🚩🚩🚩🚩🤣🤣" I have many red flags, add it to my list señorita they're amazing! 🤤💃🏻 | |||
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"Anyone 🍿 ?? Is it sweet or salty is the main question..... 🍿 Mixed 🍿 Oh no im on Team Biscuits then for the mixed...sweet for me....all others are yuck, personal taste of course Jaffa biscuits ?? Oh thats a whole different thread that will cause plenty of popcorn munching disagreements....cakes go hard, biscuits go soft when stale" Popcorn thread Soft hard biscuits List goes on Oh wait, the OP was talking about lists no  | |||
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"Jaffa biscuits ?? Jaffa? I would yeah, defo "Is that your new joint profile page? Did anyone tell Linden 🤔 😳 | |||
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"Jaffa biscuits ?? Jaffa? I would yeah, defo
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Did anyone tell Linden 🤔 😳 "That’s a new thread | |||
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"biscuits go soft" Only when I'm a bit nervous or had a bit too much to drink | |||
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"Jaffa biscuits ?? Jaffa? I would yeah, defo " | |||
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"Jaffa biscuits ?? Jaffa? I would yeah, defo
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"If only there was a ‘notes’ option on here that we could use, Make little notes or observations on profiles that you want to flag…. Hmmm 🤔 There is a notes option on profiles if you are a paid member "🤣 | |||
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"What's your definition of cretin? One person's cretin is someone else's superhero and vice versa where fab is concerned. There's a good reason that naming and shaming isn't allowed on fab. It's too easily abused. " • Absolutely this. 🩶 | |||
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"Looking like a clique is forming to close out a thread. " Your posts come across quite discordant and antagonistic. John Lennon once said Make Love, Not War. Maybe try that approach, life is so much better that way. | |||
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"Looking like a clique is forming to close out a thread. Your posts come across quite discordant and antagonistic. John Lennon once said Make Love, Not War. Maybe try that approach, life is so much better that way. " Maybe there should a green flag instead of a red flag that way people would know who worth chatting to or who's at least willing to pay for you coffee | |||
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"Looking like a clique is forming to close out a thread. " There's a click forming in my hips the older I get :/ | |||
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"Looking like a clique is forming to close out a thread. Your posts come across quite discordant and antagonistic. John Lennon once said Make Love, Not War. Maybe try that approach, life is so much better that way. Maybe there should a green flag instead of a red flag that way people would know who worth chatting to or who's at least willing to pay for you coffee" Tight feckers 😂 | |||
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"Wouldn’t it be a good idea to create a list of dodgy profiles for verified members that allow them to avoid and block. We continuously come across couple’s profiles that are men using their unsuspecting girls friends and wives as decoys. We come across men portraying themselves as younger than they actually are. Many using images of unsuspecting males from Facebook profiles (have proof of this). And more worryingly we’ve come across plenty of profiles that have issued threats of violence and harassment. Including threats to kill and r**e. All of these profiles we have reported and none of them are ever deleted. The idea to create a list is to help other well meaning and verified users avoid these cretins because site admins don’t seem to be bothered dealing with them. I know the idea of this will probably be shot down but something needs to happen as this site is further down the toilet than it’s ever been before. Thoughts? " I think, to get back on point, you need a response from Fab admin. If you have received kill/r×pe messages, Fabmin should be reporting to police, or you should be and providing Fabmin proof of same. That's completely unacceptable, threatening behaviour and should be legally punished. How Fabmin continue to allow these profiles is something we should all question, for the safety of the community. | |||
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"I like lists" So does santa 🎅 That's why he checks his twice | |||
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"Wouldn’t it be a good idea to create a list of dodgy profiles for verified members that allow them to avoid and block. We continuously come across couple’s profiles that are men using their unsuspecting girls friends and wives as decoys. We come across men portraying themselves as younger than they actually are. Many using images of unsuspecting males from Facebook profiles (have proof of this). And more worryingly we’ve come across plenty of profiles that have issued threats of violence and harassment. Including threats to kill and r**e. All of these profiles we have reported and none of them are ever deleted. The idea to create a list is to help other well meaning and verified users avoid these cretins because site admins don’t seem to be bothered dealing with them. I know the idea of this will probably be shot down but something needs to happen as this site is further down the toilet than it’s ever been before. Thoughts? But I'm sure some off the well verified are as bad as the none verified. Yea some nasty verified people on fab as well saying nasty things just because they can get away with it Maybe a list for any profile that acts the cretin" Just block and move on if a profile is not for you .. no need to cause drama | |||
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"Looking like a clique is forming to close out a thread. Your posts come across quite discordant and antagonistic. John Lennon once said Make Love, Not War. Maybe try that approach, life is so much better that way. Maybe there should a green flag instead of a red flag that way people would know who worth chatting to or who's at least willing to pay for you coffee Tight feckers 😂" Can't beat a good tight one but doubtful if they exist on fab . | |||
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"If only there was a ‘notes’ option on here that we could use, Make little notes or observations on profiles that you want to flag…. Hmmm 🤔" That’s not the problem. Have a ‘notes’ option doesn’t resolve the fact that profiles issuing death threats aren’t removed from the site. Notes are for your own attention. Thought that was obvious. | |||
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"Wouldn’t it be a good idea to create a list of dodgy profiles for verified members that allow them to avoid and block. We continuously come across couple’s profiles that are men using their unsuspecting girls friends and wives as decoys. We come across men portraying themselves as younger than they actually are. Many using images of unsuspecting males from Facebook profiles (have proof of this). And more worryingly we’ve come across plenty of profiles that have issued threats of violence and harassment. Including threats to kill and r**e. All of these profiles we have reported and none of them are ever deleted. The idea to create a list is to help other well meaning and verified users avoid these cretins because site admins don’t seem to be bothered dealing with them. I know the idea of this will probably be shot down but something needs to happen as this site is further down the toilet than it’s ever been before. Thoughts? But I'm sure some off the well verified are as bad as the none verified. Yea some nasty verified people on fab as well saying nasty things just because they can get away with it Maybe a list for any profile that acts the cretin Just block and move on if a profile is not for you .. no need to cause drama "  you’re missing the point completely. It’s to
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"Just use your notes for reference, and block!" That’s not the issue. Jesus Christ does anyone read anything on here lol. Read the bloody post again. I’m not looking for a personal reminder function - it’s to warn others of potentially dangerous profiles who, even after reporting, do not get removed. | |||
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"Wouldn’t it be a good idea to create a list of dodgy profiles for verified members that allow them to avoid and block. We continuously come across couple’s profiles that are men using their unsuspecting girls friends and wives as decoys. We come across men portraying themselves as younger than they actually are. Many using images of unsuspecting males from Facebook profiles (have proof of this). And more worryingly we’ve come across plenty of profiles that have issued threats of violence and harassment. Including threats to kill and r**e. All of these profiles we have reported and none of them are ever deleted. The idea to create a list is to help other well meaning and verified users avoid these cretins because site admins don’t seem to be bothered dealing with them. I know the idea of this will probably be shot down but something needs to happen as this site is further down the toilet than it’s ever been before. Thoughts? I think, to get back on point, you need a response from Fab admin. If you have received kill/r×pe messages, Fabmin should be reporting to police, or you should be and providing Fabmin proof of same. That's completely unacceptable, threatening behaviour and should be legally punished. How Fabmin continue to allow these profiles is something we should all question, for the safety of the community. " Have raised issues. Nothing ever responded to. Thanks for being serious about the issue. Shame a bunch with the mentality of teenagers think it’s funny. | |||
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"Just use your notes for reference, and block! That’s not the issue. Jesus Christ does anyone read anything on here lol. Read the bloody post again. I’m not looking for a personal reminder function - it’s to warn others of potentially dangerous profiles who, even after reporting, do not get removed. " I've been here 10 years and in that time I've had messages from certain individuals warning me about other profiles on here and how I should avoid them because they are dangerous or manipulative. Those same people have them gone on to meet and verify these dangerous profiles as salt of the earth and what fab is all about. I've been told by a few forum users to not respond on certain threads because the op was a well known abuser. A few weeks later those same people advised me that the woman accusing him of being an abuser was the real problem as she was a fantasist and we shouldn't feed her fantasies by replying on her forum threads. Then those very same forumites who seem to be so tuned in told me that both the male and female profiles were actually the same person and everyone needed to know this. That's just a few examples of how people on fab can twist situations to suit their own agenda. There have been chat groups running for years claiming that they were warning about other people's behaviour as a way of keeping them safe but yet many women who joined those groups either left when they realised it was all shit stirring or were kicked out for questioning the motives. | |||
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"Just use your notes for reference, and block! That’s not the issue. Jesus Christ does anyone read anything on here lol. Read the bloody post again. I’m not looking for a personal reminder function - it’s to warn others of potentially dangerous profiles who, even after reporting, do not get removed. I've been here 10 years and in that time I've had messages from certain individuals warning me about other profiles on here and how I should avoid them because they are dangerous or manipulative. Those same people have them gone on to meet and verify these dangerous profiles as salt of the earth and what fab is all about. I've been told by a few forum users to not respond on certain threads because the op was a well known abuser. A few weeks later those same people advised me that the woman accusing him of being an abuser was the real problem as she was a fantasist and we shouldn't feed her fantasies by replying on her forum threads. Then those very same forumites who seem to be so tuned in told me that both the male and female profiles were actually the same person and everyone needed to know this. That's just a few examples of how people on fab can twist situations to suit their own agenda. There have been chat groups running for years claiming that they were warning about other people's behaviour as a way of keeping them safe but yet many women who joined those groups either left when they realised it was all shit stirring or were kicked out for questioning the motives. " Some people will always have an agenda, that's why any list or group is totally unreliable and you need to manage that yourself. Can't count the number of times I've seen status updates claiming another profile was fake or timwasters, etc. when that just wasn't true. | |||
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"Just use your notes for reference, and block! That’s not the issue. Jesus Christ does anyone read anything on here lol. Read the bloody post again. I’m not looking for a personal reminder function - it’s to warn others of potentially dangerous profiles who, even after reporting, do not get removed. I've been here 10 years and in that time I've had messages from certain individuals warning me about other profiles on here and how I should avoid them because they are dangerous or manipulative. Those same people have them gone on to meet and verify these dangerous profiles as salt of the earth and what fab is all about. I've been told by a few forum users to not respond on certain threads because the op was a well known abuser. A few weeks later those same people advised me that the woman accusing him of being an abuser was the real problem as she was a fantasist and we shouldn't feed her fantasies by replying on her forum threads. Then those very same forumites who seem to be so tuned in told me that both the male and female profiles were actually the same person and everyone needed to know this. That's just a few examples of how people on fab can twist situations to suit their own agenda. There have been chat groups running for years claiming that they were warning about other people's behaviour as a way of keeping them safe but yet many women who joined those groups either left when they realised it was all shit stirring or were kicked out for questioning the motives. Some people will always have an agenda, that's why any list or group is totally unreliable and you need to manage that yourself. Can't count the number of times I've seen status updates claiming another profile was fake or timwasters, etc. when that just wasn't true." I suspect the proportion of gossips, shit-stirrers and grudge wielders far outweighs that of people who are dangerous. | |||
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"I shudder every time this idea gets mentioned. Back about 10 or 12 years ago, I rejected the numerous advances of a lady who was at that time seen as the queen of the forum. She couldn't understand how or why I had no interest in her. As a result she started messaging ladies that she thought might chatting to me, telling them that I had been bad mouthing them and that I was very aggressive and nasty in reality, despite me never having chatted to her at all. Luckily she messaged a couple of ladies I had met who told me what was going on. She was outed on the forum but one lady so she deleted and came beck with a new profile, starting the same thing again. A number of ladies I had been chatting to at the time stopped chatting to me as a result, but would you want to be chatting to people who are that gullible anyway? Yeah, I fear what's likely to happen to such a list. "Thats 2 problems highlighted here alone....1 the slander that would be started in the messages where it isnt public to see & then 2, they would just delete & come back again under a new guise until caught again. Its such a tough one to resolve but definitely Fabmin should be there to support for sure as it sounds horrendous & frightening | |||
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"I shudder every time this idea gets mentioned. Back about 10 or 12 years ago, I rejected the numerous advances of a lady who was at that time seen as the queen of the forum. She couldn't understand how or why I had no interest in her. As a result she started messaging ladies that she thought might chatting to me, telling them that I had been bad mouthing them and that I was very aggressive and nasty in reality, despite me never having chatted to her at all. Luckily she messaged a couple of ladies I had met who told me what was going on. She was outed on the forum but one lady so she deleted and came beck with a new profile, starting the same thing again. A number of ladies I had been chatting to at the time stopped chatting to me as a result, but would you want to be chatting to people who are that gullible anyway? Yeah, I fear what's likely to happen to such a list. "I passed on a woman in a kiss, fuck, pass thread here once and immediately for a handful of messages from her coven telling me I was being blackballed and they would make sure my fab journey would come to an end. I'd never spoken to the woman or any of those who messaged before that. I was on a forum timeout once so I didn't log in for a few days. Came back to a message from an Ireland forum user asking why I hadn't fabbed her new pics or commented on her very emotional and dramatic thread. Apparently she was extremely disappointed in me and would make sure that her friends all knew what type of person I really was. It really is a shallow little schoolyard at times. | |||
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"It really is a shallow little schoolyard at times. " • Mr Bites, I'm surprised that with your notoriety and nefarious existence on here you haven't been hung, drawn and quartered, whipped on the bottom with a rolled up copy of the Women's Weekly™ and had Himalayan salt rubbed into your sanguine wounds. | |||
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"It really is a shallow little schoolyard at times. • Mr Bites, I'm surprised that with your notoriety and nefarious existence on here you haven't been hung, drawn and quartered, whipped on the bottom with a rolled up copy of the Women's Weekly™ and had Himalayan salt rubbed into your sanguine wounds. "Maybe I have and chose not to display that verification | |||
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"It really is a shallow little schoolyard at times. • Mr Bites, I'm surprised that with your notoriety and nefarious existence on here you haven't been hung, drawn and quartered, whipped on the bottom with a rolled up copy of the Women's Weekly™ and had Himalayan salt rubbed into your sanguine wounds.
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"It really is a shallow little schoolyard at times. • Mr Bites, I'm surprised that with your notoriety and nefarious existence on here you haven't been hung, drawn and quartered, whipped on the bottom with a rolled up copy of the Women's Weekly™ and had Himalayan salt rubbed into your sanguine wounds. "Wait, what? Is that an option? Where do I apply for that? | |||
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"It really is a shallow little schoolyard at times. • Mr Bites, I'm surprised that with your notoriety and nefarious existence on here you haven't been hung, drawn and quartered, whipped on the bottom with a rolled up copy of the Women's Weekly™ and had Himalayan salt rubbed into your sanguine wounds. "I'll be singing that Victoria Wood song all day now | |||
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"Looking like a clique is forming to close out a thread. Your posts come across quite discordant and antagonistic. John Lennon once said Make Love, Not War. Maybe try that approach, life is so much better that way. Maybe there should a green flag instead of a red flag that way people would know who worth chatting to or who's at least willing to pay for you coffee Tight feckers 😂 Can't beat a good tight one but doubtful if they exist on fab ." Aboy Jimmy! Guaranteed to get the ride after that comment 😎 | |||
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"Looking like a clique is forming to close out a thread. Your posts come across quite discordant and antagonistic. John Lennon once said Make Love, Not War. Maybe try that approach, life is so much better that way. Maybe there should a green flag instead of a red flag that way people would know who worth chatting to or who's at least willing to pay for you coffee Tight feckers 😂 Can't beat a good tight one but doubtful if they exist on fab . Aboy Jimmy! Guaranteed to get the ride after that comment 😎" It doesn't take long for true colours to come out | |||
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"It really is a shallow little schoolyard at times. • Mr Bites, I'm surprised that with your notoriety and nefarious existence on here you haven't been hung, drawn and quartered, whipped on the bottom with a rolled up copy of the Women's Weekly™ and had Himalayan salt rubbed into your sanguine wounds.
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"Fab admin normally step into these threads to explain how they react to every profile thats reported The threats you got are disgusting and you only have to see the amount of men murdered in the last few years when they met other men on sex Apps to see how it could turn out for women and couples too. Unfortunately some men are predators and the groups can be useful to point them out and name them to others TG groups I think are more sophisticated than the old kik groups used to be in that regards I often wonder how many times does a profile have to be reported first before it's deleted and since the automatic block kicks in then you can't see the profile afterwards once you report them anyway " predators come in all shapes and sizes and are bot gender specific. I will admit,there are some really steange people out there but you would also have to question their mental capacity and wonder. there arw olenty of profiles where you might question something, that's why all socials should be public and neutral. Keep it civilised and move on. I know rherecare plwnty here i would like ro chatcwith, but if there is no interest, you should have the cop to stop pissing into the wind. as for sussing someone out, even the most sophisticated of screenings have their flaws. | |||
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"👆 *not I really wish there was an edit function gere after you post. Where you could change within 5 mins " You can delete, then hit the back button a couple of times on your browser, edit as necessary and click "post". It's not quite as efficient but it's easy enough if you've spotted the error soon enough. | |||
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"👆 *not I really wish there was an edit function gere after you post. Where you could change within 5 mins You can delete, then hit the back button a couple of times on your browser, edit as necessary and click "post". It's not quite as efficient but it's easy enough if you've spotted the error soon enough. " That's actually super helpful, thank you! | |||
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" You can delete, then hit the back button a couple of times on your browser, edit as necessary and click "post". It's not quite as efficient but it's easy enough if you've spotted the error soon enough. " Dont think it works on my browser settongs but thank you for the heads up | |||
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"I saw a man being kicked out of a chat group I was in back in 2018 for following a few of the women in the group home from socials. A couple of other women in the group begged the admin to add him back in again because he was hot and a good laugh. When they were told why he was banned they replied by saying he could follow them home anytime and it all kicked off from there. He had a reputation for doing this long before I ever joined fab and had been removed from other groups and social gatherings but he still managed to get invited to events by people who were in those groups with him and knew him as a predator. He had been in fabbers homes doing maintenance work and I know of 2 fabbers who came home to find him fucking his fuck buddy in their house. And yet despite all the genuine warnings and red flags, some people just choose to ignore them because they don't suit their own needs. " Certainly makes you wonder | |||
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