FabSwingers.com forum: Abusive idiots!

By *penyoureyes2722 OP Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Why do so many guys feel the need to be abusive after being turned down.

Already this morning I've been told that a guy wouldn't have enough biscuits to keep me happy, strangely enough this wasn't a problem when he was constantly mailing me wanting to meet!

A few minutes ago another guy(who also has been turned down after I told him I think I know him) sent a nasty mail basically calling me the biggest bitch here after I told him if he wasn't happy with my status updates then block me!

Now if someone says thanks but no thanks to me I make a private note saying not interested and move on. I don't usually contact them again as I'm not what they are looking for.

So my question is why can guys not do the same for me. Get a polite thanks but no thanks and move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never understood the need for people to be openly nasty in forums or on sites; I've been the recipient of abuse from women by making the mistake of asking in chat rooms 'any girl want to chat?' and getting a torrent of replies, usually from the sort of woman who is apparently in the room 24 hours a day, and usually backed up by a few hopefuls thinking if they curry favour by agreeing she'll condescend to chat to them.

If you don't want to chat or message, just ignore the poster. There's no need to actively pursue them in the hope of starting an entire on-line argument. So yes, I agree - a polite thanks but no thanks and that's it.

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By *ick and sexyCouple
over a year ago

any

Has happened to me too, (probably most of the fems)unfor' I think it goes with the territory

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"Why do so many guys feel the need to be abusive after being turned down.

Already this morning I've been told that a guy wouldn't have enough biscuits to keep me happy, strangely enough this wasn't a problem when he was constantly mailing me wanting to meet!

Now if someone says thanks but no thanks to me I make a private note saying not interested and move on. I don't usually contact them again as I'm not what they are looking for.

So my question is why can guys not do the same for me. Get a polite thanks but no thanks and move on!

Here like in every walk of like there are assholes! And not just guys, though because it is mainly guys that contact us it is them in majority in our case.

However guys have the same problem from women and couples here! because females and couples are in demand they get up their own asses, and treat guys with contempt, but it seems some just take it as an insult to be refused! guess some are nasty and others nice! cant seem to ever win, damned if you do reply and damned if you don't!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been turned down before but I would never so petty to send a mail calling then names.

Live and let live

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

don't ever see the need to be abusive I to have revived the thanks but no thanks to which I usualy reply thanks and have a nice day this can lead to a conversation starting nd a new friendship.

At some stage because we are such a small community we are all going to know someone who is asking about this guy,girl or couple its better they tell them ur a good kind of person than some one who abused cause they were shot down

At the end of the day we are all here for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been called lots of nasty things since I've been on here some people think they are gods gift, it takes all sorts and in my eyes looks size don't matter it personality that is important so the nasty ones U won't stand a chance with anyone with nasty actions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get turned down so often I just have a bit of a cry and a biscuit ! ....sad now !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one guy was mailing me and mailing me and when i showed i wasnt interested he started to call me FATSO and he knew i was a bbw! fucking twat.. im horny not desperate..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First message from a guy a while ago calling me tubby. Cheers for that. Reported and blocked.

Hadnt even got message from him before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah I had a guy earlier who sent a mail yesterday asking did I want to watch him cum. By the time I got to his mail it was late last night so just for a giggle I replied oh no have I missed the show. So this morning I wake to a yeah u did buy a ticket maybe u will be lucky next time. I replied oh I'm very lucky

he replies I looked at ur pics ur not ur a dog. So me being me I replied oh dear were u looking in the mirror again and I blocked the twat. Those kind guys are only on here to give grief. Block ignore and move on to the next there are good and bad in every walk of life. But the bad ones ruin it for the good ones

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By *utdoorsGuy8Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

If someone says they are not interested to me, I usually just say something like ' No worries, all the best on here' and leave it at that. No need to be abusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What gets me is the ones that ask you to do stuff that isn't on ur preference list and then get snarky when u point this out to them, though these are usually the ones that can't even b original when slagging you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never been called anything nasty here but i can imagine its not pleasant. People are very brave behind a keyboard...their loss...block and move on..not worth bothering about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do they do well thats easy.. they log on here thinking they're gonna get sex on tap. Then their fantasy comes crashing down around them when a woman says no for whatever reason. There little ego's get a bashing when they realise that in sea of men here they didn't make the hook

Take no notice of them. Someone who treats you with that little respect doesn't sound like a person you want to meet. Plenty more of us that have and will enjoy your company

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive deleted posts and Im closing this now.

If you receive any abusive messages its always better to report them to Admin rather than starting a thread about it

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