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By *ittleBoPeeping OP   Woman
13 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

The people who do this.. is it not bloody exhausting?

You start a profile, albeit using photos anyone can recognise because you use the same ones everytime. You select a different location and assume anyone you previously met is too stupid to know it's you! Then you get caught out and leave. Until you come back again and the cycle continues.

But the lies.. how do you keep up with all the lies you tell?? Although I guess if that's the type of person you are they come easy.

Bless

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By *he General 2 0 2 5Man
13 weeks ago

Limerick City

I think 🤔 they think because they change their name and start a new profile that all is forgotten , or forgiven.

Its not !!!

People remember

Well i do anyway

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By *adger BrocMan
13 weeks ago

North Cork

Most people on here have good memories....

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By *ookAndDorkCouple
13 weeks ago

The West

It's a funny one. We've seen the same lads make multiple accounts a year with different women in them too and you'd have to wonder if those women actually exist.

Highly suspect.

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By *razyNippleLoverMan
13 weeks ago

Back End of Beyond

Never been great with names but always rememeber a pic and profile, in away , just twigs if i seen it before . Its like that fella that walks into a shop wearinng the same clothes, but adds a balicava 5 mins after buying a pint of milk in the same place .

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I’ve done this but I always use the same username, same pics, and same location. The reason I deleted and rejoined was because of guilt. I have led a very conservative life and was married in a marriage like this until a couple of years ago. I recently had an accident where it triggered me to want to explore a more sexy positive life before it gets too late and I have regrets. The reason guilt led me to delete my profile on a couple of occasions is because I had had amazing conversations they had usually led to me masturbating and having an amazing ejaculation. When this happened I had a heavy wave of guilt as if I shouldnt have done that/didn’t deserve to have that moment of joy. It has taken a few attempts to get over that because to was the way my life was for so long. Probably too much to share but I wanted to highlight that sometimes there is a deeper reason behind it than someone trying to con.

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By *ealitybitesMan
13 weeks ago

Belfast

I don't look at local updates very often but there used to be 4 or 5 women who did this constantly.

They would create and delete at least 6 or 8 times a year but what I always found funny was that they would be reverified by the same women and couples over and over and over again.

I remember thinking how unusual it was that not a single verification was from a man which you would normally expect but the vast majority were from meeting at group socials.

I might understand if it was a safety issue but why would they have virtually the same profile name and exactly the same pics and verifications every time if they were genuinely trying to avoid someone?

They were either very flakey or needed a serious level of validation and those who kept verifying them were just enabling that.

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By *razyNippleLoverMan
13 weeks ago

Back End of Beyond

A verfication is only to prove its a genuine person behind the Fab name so i think possibly thats an ok thing

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
13 weeks ago

Westmeath The West.


"It's a funny one. We've seen the same lads make multiple accounts a year with different women in them too and you'd have to wonder if those women actually exist.

Highly suspect."

What I don't get is the lads that run multiple accounts at the same time. Why would you bother your arse!?

They actually manage to get a verification and instead of having fun, use it to verify 4 or 5 other accounts they have. Daft stuff!

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By *ealitybitesMan
13 weeks ago

Belfast


"A verfication is only to prove its a genuine person behind the Fab name so i think possibly thats an ok thing "

I agree about the whole point of a verification but if someone I verified deleted their account every 6 to 8 weeks and kept coming back asking me to verify them again I might do it once but that would be it because otherwise they are just taking the piss.

Just hide your account rather than delete and come back so often.

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By *affa31Woman
13 weeks ago

Galway

There’s 2 guys here that rejoin every couple of weeks with the same name and pics. I can only assume they’re attached, get the horn, add to the wank bank and leave.

I block as soon as I see them rejoining every time cause I’m sick of the pics at this stage.

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By *.N.L.O.S.Man
13 weeks ago

Germany

[Removed by poster at 29/05/26 17:20:19]

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By *.N.L.O.S.Man
13 weeks ago

Germany

Same with an old 'acquaintance' of mine. Profiles pop up randomly, sometimes for hours, sometimes days, then she legs it out of here. Always wondered was it her, doing the wankbank thing or was it her hubby(now gone from our lifestyle) checking up on her in someway

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By *mmortalbMan
13 weeks ago

kildare

I see it alot too. Bar I do personally know one couple, who join, have some fun, and leave again. She loses the interest, or mood, cold feet whatever, so they leave. A month later they come back, play, leave again. Himself was saying to me last time it is exhausting and he is sick of having to come up with new names, that he would rather they stayed and hid profile. But she gets her ups and downs about it and says they aren't coming back but always do. I'm killed tryna get them to a social, I told them it would change fab for them, that they'd really enjoy it, and they are both lovely people that everyone else would love. And on a plus for them, theyd meet and get to know more couples.

So, long story short, maybe people second guess themselves, leave, and come back. But yeah, a few Ive sene I think are taking the piss, or perhaps(no shade), have underlying mental health issues. Enjoy the initial attention, thrill, then gone again.

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By *rRiosMan
13 weeks ago

dublin

I’ve seen some well know women do this several times, my uneducated guess was it was to reset verifications and friends lists without removing individually. Start fresh encounters without the questions of previous. I imagine it’s the same for men too

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By *ittleBoPeeping OP   Woman
13 weeks ago

Galway, Clare


"I’ve seen some well know women do this several times, my uneducated guess was it was to reset verifications and friends lists without removing individually. Start fresh encounters without the questions of previous. I imagine it’s the same for men too

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But when a person uses the exact same photos, which are clearly not them, every time, they are absolutely aware they will be recognised. I assume they want to be for whatever twisted reason they have.

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By *rchimedes500Man
13 weeks ago

city

I mean like.... who would even do that ??

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By *bove_average74Man
13 weeks ago

belfast

Welcome to the hotel California, such a lovely place

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By *ookAndDorkCouple
13 weeks ago

The West


"I’ve seen some well know women do this several times, my uneducated guess was it was to reset verifications and friends lists without removing individually. Start fresh encounters without the questions of previous. I imagine it’s the same for men too

But when a person uses the exact same photos, which are clearly not them, every time, they are absolutely aware they will be recognised. I assume they want to be for whatever twisted reason they have."

Or...

Hear me out. There are actually guys out there that are dating hot porn stars and really do need to set up a new account for each new woman...

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By *ixerjohnMan
13 weeks ago

Ennis

I have had to block the same person several times in the last couple of months. He started off sending messages about wanting to breed me and which I at first politely declined but the messages kept coming so I blocked him.Within a day or 2 I'll get another message from the same person. Nothing changed on the profile. Same pic, same name, all the same details. This has happened at least 5 or 6 times and I have reported the profile

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By *nquisitive LadyWoman
13 weeks ago

Midlands


"I mean like.... who would even do that ?? "

I know like seriously, its baffling

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
13 weeks ago

Lucan


"I have had to block the same person several times in the last couple of months. He started off sending messages about wanting to breed me and which I at first politely declined but the messages kept coming so I blocked him.Within a day or 2 I'll get another message from the same person. Nothing changed on the profile. Same pic, same name, all the same details. This has happened at least 5 or 6 times and I have reported the profile "

Wanting to breed you?

He's either very ambitious or knows little of science. We need the _exyscientists to have a word with him about where babies come from.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
13 weeks ago

Castlebar


"I have had to block the same person several times in the last couple of months. He started off sending messages about wanting to breed me and which I at first politely declined but the messages kept coming so I blocked him.Within a day or 2 I'll get another message from the same person. Nothing changed on the profile. Same pic, same name, all the same details. This has happened at least 5 or 6 times and I have reported the profile

Wanting to breed you?

He's either very ambitious or knows little of science. We need the _exyscientists to have a word with him about where babies come from. "

About the stocks bringing them? I'll send him my paper on it.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
13 weeks ago

Castlebar


"I have had to block the same person several times in the last couple of months. He started off sending messages about wanting to breed me and which I at first politely declined but the messages kept coming so I blocked him.Within a day or 2 I'll get another message from the same person. Nothing changed on the profile. Same pic, same name, all the same details. This has happened at least 5 or 6 times and I have reported the profile

Wanting to breed you?

He's either very ambitious or knows little of science. We need the _exyscientists to have a word with him about where babies come from.

About the stocks bringing them? I'll send him my paper on it."

Thats storks BTW ffs 🙄

Thanks Bog 🫣

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
13 weeks ago

Lucan


"I have had to block the same person several times in the last couple of months. He started off sending messages about wanting to breed me and which I at first politely declined but the messages kept coming so I blocked him.Within a day or 2 I'll get another message from the same person. Nothing changed on the profile. Same pic, same name, all the same details. This has happened at least 5 or 6 times and I have reported the profile

Wanting to breed you?

He's either very ambitious or knows little of science. We need the _exyscientists to have a word with him about where babies come from.

About the stocks bringing them? I'll send him my paper on it.

Thats storks BTW ffs 🙄

Thanks Bog 🫣"

Cutting edge science, right here on fab. That's why we all joined! What a time to be alive!

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By *otownkid1967Man
13 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Don't know why anybody would keep changing their accounts and setting up new ones. They always trip themselves up in the end. It's very easy to remember the truth but hard to remember all the lies you tell.

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