FabSwingers.com forum: Inviting a man as couple

By *ust_us999 OP Couple
14 weeks ago

The sticks of north Mayo

OK, first of, we know we're probably going to get load of messages on this one, don't bother, we will find you.

So... We were talking and might be looking for a man to join us. Mr is straight (straight straight, not fabstraight) and Mrs just wants to have some fun.

Now, we get offers from men every day, but what makes couples pick a man? I know every man on this website all have a 9" appendage and can go for 3 days straight, but a question for couples, how to filter these out?

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By *ild WomanWoman
14 weeks ago

carlow

Social meet first and make sure you set boundaries before any play happens then if no show for social or says doesn't do them red flag and one less to think about.

Also both have to be cool with the person as well, if doesn't get on with both of you it not going to work as could lead to trouble in your own relationship.

What ever you decide is going to happen you and partner need to decide before a social meet and also a system for you both know not right person time to walk.

Yes i know a single female but on here as a couple many many moons ago and that is what did. They had get along with him if not I wasn't interested either it was what agreed and stuck to it.

Best of luck and this only my opinion. What works for you do and as your happy have loads of fun

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By *enerationfornicationMan
14 weeks ago

not far from

I think you should hold an interview, references etc. - duck it,

go dragon's den.

Get all potentials, to pitch their best idea and rate it.

To do a proper job, add in an element "naked attraction-the fab edition" and say you will be following up on their references

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By *eordie.Woman
14 weeks ago

The Sticks

Talk to other couples - get recommendations from them of a good guy they met

There are plenty of single males on this site who actually prefer to meet couples and are completely respectful of the dynamics in involved

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
14 weeks ago

Louth

Typically we pick from guys we have met multiple times at socials, has interacted with us both very well. It does not have to be a single guy either! You can borrow a husband for a threesome too ya know! Or just as a twosome. Lots of couples full swap on a date night! Without the others partners there at all. The only rules are the ones you set yourselves. Once you are very comfortable you both do not need to be tied at the hip.

Definitely ask others opinions and go with your gut on single guys.

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By *un_guy_69Man
14 weeks ago

Lim/Tipp border

It's all about what you want. Once you're clear on what you are looking for and the type of guy you're looking for. Then check out profiles, use the verification to see if they have already had meets like what you're looking for. Check with some of the couples in the verifications. Then make contact here, chat fir a while to be sure he knows what you want. Then a social meet before the main event.

Remember go with your gut, if it feels wrong just say no.

Enjoy yourselves.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
14 weeks ago

Castlebar

"OK, first of, we know we're probably going to get load of messages on this one, don't bother, we will find you.

So... We were talking and might be looking for a man to join us. Mr is straight (straight straight, not fabstraight) and Mrs just wants to have some fun.

Generally we find it happens at a party or social first or at least we'd have met them in a social setting. Its difficult for us to arrange private 3 somes due to work schedules. But it would always be someone that I (Mrs) was happy with first. I find that the spontaneous ones work out better and those guys would be used to group play whereas lots on Fab just have a fantasy about it.

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By *traightmaryWoman
14 weeks ago

cork

This is how we started out . I would choose someone well versed in MFMs and able to communicate well to both of you.

I’d love to do it again with /without my husband .. try all ways as it was so intense. Go for it !!

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By *rCupidMan
14 weeks ago

Cavan

I have had the privilege and pleasure of joining a few couples for some very memorable fun.

From my side, it’s important to have clarity on boundaries and be respectful of what they require and don’t require.

All are there for mutual pleasure so don’t overstep the mark or lose sight of the fact it’s a couple - respect both of them.

As I’ve said many times, this may be a hook up site but that’s not an excuse to leave your manners or respect at https:www.

After that, enjoy the fun and no when to leave them, so that they can both continue to harness the feelings they have for each other as a couple.

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By *ifewantstoplayCouple
14 weeks ago

somewhere

Looks, bio and veris will get us interested.

Personality, compatibility with us opens the bedroom door 😈

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By *mmortalbMan
14 weeks ago

kildare

Single fella, so prob not much say here. But I recon like most have said, it's best to get to the socials, s out the dreamers. And like another couple I know said, its a chance to meet loads of different people in one go. Socials are Abit of crack, no pressure and just enjoy the night having the craic. Most are in hotels anyways so if you hit it off with someone you can just go upstairs. I find the viper room, lady in red, and glamping some of my fav.

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By *rchimedes500Man
14 weeks ago

city

It's ok , I'm here now, 9" and always ready and can go down for like days at a time

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
14 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Attraction to the individual is the main part of this. This means both physical attraction and personality. Dick size / six pack / age etc are far far down the list.

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By *ookAndDorkCouple
14 weeks ago

The West

Figuring out what it is you want is very helpful and sharing that info with whoever your into is helpful too.

The couples I enjoyed being with the most as a single knew how to communicate their vibe really well and conversely the ones I enjoyed the least we're poor communicators.

Maybe your looking for a long term lover or maybe the opposite and all you need is an anonymous stunt cock.

Pile of body's on the bed or is Mrs playing pornstar for Mr.

There's a man out there for everyone 😁

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By *B and VicsCouple
14 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

We are a couple and like to meet solo men, we like them Bi as I (f) am very much turned on my watching two guys guzzle each other up.

It's easier on this platform to find what we don't want than what we do want. So many attached, fantasists, suddenly Bi 'but does that mean I get to fuck pussy', and guys that are actually subby looking for a kink dispenser.

What we do want is a genuinely Bisexual or Gay guy, has integrity, has a great smile, a wicked sense of humour, is respectful of our relationship and of women in general, and is great at communicating. I also love enthusiasm, when they are Kinky and have a good strong libido and can perform with condoms on.

Another thing is if there's something really off about a first meet, like they said something really sexist, racist or transphobic, we wrap it up as soon as possible. We like to align in values.

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By *ouple4fun35Couple
14 weeks ago

North West

We always read their profile, verifications and check their photographs. We like to get a sense of what the person is like and a social is always a must for us to check for the right vibe.

Typically, we’ve been able to tell fairly quickly when someone writes if they’re the type of person we would get on with. If someone is respectful, both to me as a woman and us as a couple, with a good personality and able to have a laugh it creates the right vibe. Usually a first message that states how big their cock is, that they’ve stamina for days and can cum X number of times is a massive ick and a put off. If someone introduces themselves respectfully and can converse, it’s the perfect starting point.

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