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"Why do some men care so much about squirting or proving they can make it happen, even when a woman isn’t interested or asks them to stop? Why is it such a focus for them when they often don’t really know much about it? " There are two things influencing them. One led to the other. A years ago, the Porn industry ran out of ideas. It was getting stale. So all of a sudden "watersports" became squirting, a new type of orgasm. But here is where the real problem starts. Lots of women love watersports but just won't bloody say it. So instead they try and convince some fellas that if they are really skilled they can give her a "special" type of orgasm...So now you have a bunch of fools going around finger banging the fuck out of women and wondering why she's not squirting with his special skills!!! | |||
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Squirting didn't exist back when I was single. 25 years later when we started swinging, it was this big thing, it was really perplexing. Porn, I think is the reason this is now a thing. | |||
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"My question is why are people so obsessed with squirting being pee. Does it really matter what it is? The people who enjoy it, enjoy it because it feels damn good. And believe me, if it was the same as peeing, I’d drink a lot more water!!!!" That's the thing, though, (and my question) Why don't women just enjoy it for what it is and stop with the nonsense around it being some special thing that requires special skills, it doesn't! Some ladies will, because they want to, and thats perfectly fine. Some won't, because they don't want to. It's not that they can't! | |||
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"Why do some men care so much about squirting or proving they can make it happen, even when a woman isn’t interested or asks them to stop? Why is it such a focus for them when they often don’t really know much about it? 💯 There are two things influencing them. One led to the other. A years ago, the Porn industry ran out of ideas. It was getting stale. So all of a sudden "watersports" became squirting, a new type of orgasm. But here is where the real problem starts. Lots of women love watersports but just won't bloody say it. So instead they try and convince some fellas that if they are really skilled they can give her a "special" type of orgasm...So now you have a bunch of fools going around finger banging the fuck out of women and wondering why she's not squirting with his special skills!!!" | |||
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"My question is why are people so obsessed with squirting being pee. Does it really matter what it is? The people who enjoy it, enjoy it because it feels damn good. And believe me, if it was the same as peeing, I’d drink a lot more water!!!! That's the thing, though, (and my question) Why don't women just enjoy it for what it is and stop with the nonsense around it being some special thing that requires special skills, it doesn't! Some ladies will, because they want to, and thats perfectly fine. Some won't, because they don't want to. It's not that they can't!" It’s not women who think it’s some sort of special skill 🤷🏻♀️ 9 times out of 10, it’s men telling us that it’s pee, that it’s not an orgasm etc etc. The obsession with what it is and isn’t is just as annoying as the guys who make it their personality. | |||
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"Why do some men care so much about squirting or proving they can make it happen, even when a woman isn’t interested or asks them to stop? Why is it such a focus for them when they often don’t really know much about it? " Depends on the guy IMO but perhaps its a bit of a badge of honour if a man is into it. For me: There are women that have never tried. Women cant. Women that can. Ive met women where its par of the course, Ive also met woman able to but not been into it themselves. Whichever suits, its their choice. If a woman wants to give it a go I'll try but its not as simple as finger banging the life out of her. Getting into the right headspace prior is key. | |||
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"Why do some men care so much about squirting or proving they can make it happen, even when a woman isn’t interested or asks them to stop? Why is it such a focus for them when they often don’t really know much about it? " Do you want a short or long answer to this? Short answer: to much porn where social myths and ego, dominate with a wham-bam thank you ma'am attitude. The long answer: 1. Porn has portrayed squirting as dramatic and desirable. It is an achievement for the man which has become another, trophy to collect. 2. It has become proof of sexual prowess - a validation of masculinity that leads to the smug "i made her squirt - d'ys kno' that!” 3. There is a misconception of what is involved. (Ladies, correct me if I am wrong, how many of you feel like saying, stop fucking about like a labrador in a puddle and just do what I fucking want!) 4. No communication or discussion around consent and what is acceptable with respecting boundaries. - what's wrong with mutual pleasure that doesn't cause physical discomfort, anxiety, or emotional distress. | |||
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"Why do some men care so much about squirting or proving they can make it happen, even when a woman isn’t interested or asks them to stop? Why is it such a focus for them when they often don’t really know much about it? Do you want a short or long answer to this? Short answer: to much porn where social myths and ego, dominate with a wham-bam thank you ma'am attitude. The long answer: 1. Porn has portrayed squirting as dramatic and desirable. It is an achievement for the man which has become another, trophy to collect. 2. It has become proof of sexual prowess - a validation of masculinity that leads to the smug "i made her squirt - d'ys kno' that!” 3. There is a misconception of what is involved. (Ladies, correct me if I am wrong, how many of you feel like saying, stop fucking about like a labrador in a puddle and just do what I fucking want!) 4. No communication or discussion around consent and what is acceptable with respecting boundaries. - what's wrong with mutual pleasure that doesn't cause physical discomfort, anxiety, or emotional distress. " Short answer.... stop watching so much porn 
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