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Can you have sex with out kissing??

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By *hantomfemme OP   Woman
4 days ago

Sligo/Galway/limerick depends on the day

Is kissing a big thing for u... or does it not matter? Do u need it to get u aroused??

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By *IGANTUCwillyjayMan
4 days ago

Leitrim

Definitely needed during foreplay

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By *ergalMan
4 days ago

Cork

Definitely need some snogging

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By *ronkoMan
4 days ago

south side

My neck is my weak spot , kiss me there gently and some biting and gone

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By *ublinjonnMan
4 days ago

dublin

Kissing is hugely important....very much part of the foreplay....I looove it

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By *ealitybitesMan
4 days ago

Belfast

It's a good indicator of intensity and adds a lot to the level of intimacy.

I'd rather not have sex than just have it for the sake of it with no kissing.

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By *hantomfemme OP   Woman
4 days ago

Sligo/Galway/limerick depends on the day

Id be very much 1 that could bypass the kissing. Especially on a quick hook up. Lots of other ways to get turned on.....

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
4 days ago

East / North, Cork


"Is kissing a big thing for u... or does it not matter? Do u need it to get u aroused??"

Definitely don't need it to get aroused.... but sex would be pretty soulless without it.

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By *uzanne and RickyCouple
4 days ago

Midlothian


"Is kissing a big thing for u... or does it not matter? Do u need it to get u aroused??

Definitely don't need it to get aroused.... but sex would be pretty soulless without it."

We encourage kissing! Sex is strange without. I make did meet one couple for arranged dogging meet. No kissing rule so I’m like ok! It did help she was stunning to be honest but it was very strange.

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By *eordie.Woman
4 days ago

The Sticks

Sometimes I do it just to shut someone up 🙊

Not the be all and end all...

I've had regular playmates who weren't the best kissers but still a fantastic ride

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By *hantomfemme OP   Woman
4 days ago

Sligo/Galway/limerick depends on the day


"Sometimes I do it just to shut someone up 🙊

Not the be all and end all...

I've had regular playmates who weren't the best kissers but still a fantastic ride

"

Id be very much along this like of thinking..... someone can be a terrible kisser and a turn off.

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By *stpeekMan
4 days ago

city

I think for a fab meet I could leave out a snog, kiss everywhere else though

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By *lue eyesMan
4 days ago

cavan

Sur i could just have a wank if I wanted to cum ..sex is so much more than that

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By *hantomfemme OP   Woman
4 days ago

Sligo/Galway/limerick depends on the day


"I think for a fab meet I could leave out a snog, kiss everywhere else though "

Exactly...

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By *lytrucker33Man
4 days ago

killeagh

I can take it or leave it, I enjoy it but its not a deal breaker if the other party doesn't want to.

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By *galway1988Man
4 days ago

galway

Depends on who im meeting , never been a fan of kissing guys don’t know why , women yea it’s good to start off with a kiss

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By *ewcouplesdCouple
4 days ago

Dublin

No kissing= no sex

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By *rchimedes500Man
4 days ago

city

No just no ! I mean why would you even want to. Didn't you want Grease ? Its in his kiss, that's where it is

I mean honestly cheeze

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By *eordie.Woman
4 days ago

The Sticks


"Its in his kiss, that's where it is "

But sometimes it really isn't

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By *carlettlady69Woman
4 days ago

city

It has to start with a kiss

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By *enitMan
4 days ago

Galway


"It has to start with a kiss"

Anytime

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By *ightower2021Man
4 days ago

donegal

Never done it or been in that situation but im kinda with the poster above it always started with a kiss

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By *oung bull500Man
4 days ago

dublin


"It has to start with a kiss"
and end with one to 😘 little sign of respect

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
4 days ago

Newry

When here as a couple I had threesomes where I preferred to not kiss the third person, only my partner.

I still don't kiss randomly - I only kiss if I feel a connection with someone but I'm also very unlikely these days to have sex with someone I don't have a connection with so I guess the two go hand in hand.

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By *itty14Couple
4 days ago

kilkenny

I think kissing sets the tone of whats to come.😘

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By *eckycd41TV/TS
4 days ago

navan

Kissing essential for me

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By *ymplusCoffeeCouple
4 days ago

Within Touching Distance

I really like to kiss and take my time doing so

To me it’s a prelude of things to come

During play not so much maybe, but a sensual slow kiss can be magical

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By *amCutMan
4 days ago

east Midlands


"Is kissing a big thing for u... or does it not matter? Do u need it to get u aroused??"

Definitely need to kiss especially in the naughty areas

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By *ork-Boy99Man
4 days ago

Cork

Twould be a requirement alright!

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
4 days ago

Home

Where exactly does this kissing have to be is it just the mouth or can it be other places instead

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 days ago

Castlebar


"Is kissing a big thing for u... or does it not matter? Do u need it to get u aroused??"

Always 💋💋

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By *aseylee324Couple
4 days ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Of course I can, but why would I want to?

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By *hantomfemme OP   Woman
4 days ago

Sligo/Galway/limerick depends on the day


"Where exactly does this kissing have to be is it just the mouth or can it be other places instead "

For me i prefer everywhere but the mouth

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By *razy-CplCouple
4 days ago

Cork


"Is kissing a big thing for u... or does it not matter? Do u need it to get u aroused??"

It's the only thing I'm good at lol, so there has to be kissing.

Mr crazy

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By *hris 1000200Man
4 days ago

kells

Definitely a big thing for me ,it has to happen or it's just not happening

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By *eretoexciteWoman
4 days ago

dublin

Its essential

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
4 days ago

Louth

Depends who! But no its not needed!

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By *ano53Man
4 days ago

Wicklow

Kissing is a lot more pleasing... With d right person...

V important.

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By *iquidRavenMan
4 days ago

Dublin

Well there is a sub genre of porn where the person (usually a woman - at least on my algorithym) gets stuck in the most hilarious of places - washing machine, under the table, head first over the arm of a couch. And weirdly the only way she can be aided/rescued is through a vigorous seeing to from behind, usually with little to no kissing. I think this should answer the question but not sure if this is exactly the question OP was asking. Said I'd put it out there anyway

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By *otownkid1967Man
4 days ago

Portlaoise

Yes you can. But for me kissing and foreplay lead to better sex.

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By *udntulovetoknowMan
4 days ago

turnrightstraightahead

"🎵 l Just want your body & your kiss....🎵"..-💋💋💋💋💋💋...

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By *otoffunCouple
4 days ago

Dublin

Kissing for me is so important, couldnt imagine sex without it ..kisses to start, kisses during it and defo kisses after x Mrs LotofFun

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By *arren5Man
4 days ago

city

I would have to say that kissing is a definite for me I just love a nice long lingering kiss its a real turn on for me

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By *reenie101Man
4 days ago

City Center Dublin

Ohh that’s a great question!! In my early days here I met a Cpl who had the no kissing rule, respectfully I could see their point and went slong to meet them. But img it’s so weird !! I did manage it but could never repeat it again. Kissing is a huge part of arousal

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By *aton28Man
3 days ago

galway/mayo

All depends on the circumstances and personal preferences of your play partner but not essential for me.... Not really bothered/not a necessity

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By *rxmrsCouple
3 days ago

dublin westmeath Dublin all over


"No kissing= no sex "
we finally agree on something D😜

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By *eclanC33Man
3 days ago

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For me in a group yes, one-on-one no.

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By *dol1Man
3 days ago

Gorey

Kissing is a huge part of a sexual connection, if it’s something that the other person doesn’t want then it’s a big NO from me. Kissing really sets the tone and is a very intimate part of making love, it’s essential for me xxx

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By *iablo soloWoman
3 days ago

ecstasy

I could absolutely not be with someone if we didn't kiss, done correctly, kissing can be real foreplay!

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By *funatduskMan
3 days ago

Lanark

Definitely have to have a right gd dirty horny and very sexy kiss when you are in the moment tbh 😍

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By *s SingletWoman
3 days ago

Kilkenny

Ive tried sex with no kissing it felt very off if I'm honest , but each to their own I find on fab couples have their own rules and boundaries and kissing seems to be one

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By *hannonLadMan
3 days ago

shannon

Wouldn’t be the same without it

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By *oyride40Couple
3 days ago

Limerick city


"Id be very much 1 that could bypass the kissing. Especially on a quick hook up. Lots of other ways to get turned on....."
very true

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By *heXxXWoman
3 days ago

Dublin

For me, kisses are like a trigger that ignites a spark… and those sparks turn into a fire of desire. Combined with touch, they create something truly unforgettable and special...It all depends on preferences, of course a quickie is also great, but for me a quickie to spice things up with someone will only be with someone I know and whom I have kissed before, never with a stranger... It looks like I'm not a swinger

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By *iablo soloWoman
3 days ago

ecstasy

Kissing opens up the flood gates sure,💦 pun intended.

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By *oxie2021Man
3 days ago

Dublin

The erotic world is a fascinating place. Lots of different flavours to cater for all. A subject matter that you could talk about for hours. But for me? I have always thought that kissing is THE most erotic thing that two people can do. Such a simple and somewhat basic trait of the erotic world, but mutual and compatible great kissing? I agree completely with some of the posters on this thread that it really sets the tone. That is all!

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By *otownkid1967Man
3 days ago

Portlaoise

I do remember a few times the ex wife and I would have a quickie without kissing. Just wham bam thank you mam.

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By *ewcouplesdCouple
3 days ago

Dublin


"No kissing= no sex we finally agree on something D😜"

Lets kiss 😜

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By *an46Man
3 days ago

city

Agree 100%.....kissing is so important

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By *ethusonfireCouple
3 days ago

Dublin

Animals have sex without kissing.

We are not animals.

Rest my case🤣

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By *iablo soloWoman
3 days ago

ecstasy


"The erotic world is a fascinating place. Lots of different flavours to cater for all. A subject matter that you could talk about for hours. But for me? I have always thought that kissing is THE most erotic thing that two people can do. Such a simple and somewhat basic trait of the erotic world, but mutual and compatible great kissing? I agree completely with some of the posters on this thread that it really sets the tone. That is all!"

C'mon we meet up for a coffee and a snog again;0)

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By *orkRidersCouple
3 days ago

cork

Not a hope

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By *ourguiltypleasureMan
3 days ago

S

Nope

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By *elanie De La CoeurTV/TS
3 days ago

Dublin

I prefer not to

The plastic from the blow up doll leaves a bad taste in my mouth

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By *ex coupleCouple
3 days ago

wexford


"Id be very much 1 that could bypass the kissing. Especially on a quick hook up. Lots of other ways to get turned on....."

Snap

Totally agree

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By *urlerLadMan
3 days ago

Dublin

I love being teased my partner, being nose to nose with her, feeling her breath on my face but not letting me kiss her.

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By *025IncomingMan
3 days ago

Co.Antrim

Kissing is a big thing for me, as a kiss can escalate things very quickly

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By *dfabMan
2 days ago

Dunboyne

As long as I can kiss at least one set your lips, I'm good 👍

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By *elfastblondMan
2 days ago

Belfast

I can't imagine sex without kissing, its probably my favourite part

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By *izzyRebelWoman
2 days ago

Kerry


"I can't imagine sex without kissing, its probably my favourite part"

This 🙌 🙌

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By *t777Woman
2 days ago

Dublin, Meath

Kissing is a definite yes!!

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By *auljohn1000Man
2 days ago

limerick

You can prove that theory with me ha ha.

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By *1CorkCouple
19 hours ago

Cork

Our ever meet was with a couple who insisted on no kissing. It was amazing as there was so much to the experience that was new. We had a subsequent meet with them some time later, and yes it did feel that something was missing. We said never again… however, we met a brilliant couple on holiday just over a year ago, where she didn’t kiss any other male other than her Mr., but it was one of the most sensual (and best) experiences we ever had - two nights in a row.

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By *om TangoMan
18 hours ago

Tedavnet Co.Monaghan

Sex without kissing is like going into McDonald’s and asking for a salad. It works but doesn’t feel right.

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By *eroLondonMan
17 hours ago

Mayfair


"Is kissing a big thing for u..."

Yes. Absolutely.

I cannot imagine myself entwined or ensconced within the company of a woman without the tactile overtures of kissing. Without kissing everything otherwise feels hollow and empty. How do you ignite the passion if there is no kissing?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
16 hours ago

Lucan

Kissing is great, but I've had bad kisses as well and tbh, the sex would have been just as good without that.

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By *eadMeisterMan
13 hours ago

near you...

I love to kiss ...a big turn on.

But I have had sessions where the other person didn't want to kiss. So I sorta kissed the body

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By * and T 6969Couple
11 hours ago

Cavan town

Kissing definitely or it doesn't work

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By *rCupidMan
11 hours ago

Monaghan Cavan

I can’t imagine it without kissing. It’s imperative to being turned on (or off).

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By *ust_us999Couple
9 hours ago

Somewhere

I guess I can... But it wouldn't be half the fun..

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By *ia-greenWoman
9 hours ago

dublin

Definitely

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