FabSwingers.com forum: Lasting in bed

By *riyan12 OP Couple
5 days ago

Kildare and Portlaoise.

Hi to lovely couples, men and women.

How long does your man last in sex?

I would love to know and have a genuine interesting conversation.

Women, do you measure a man by his duration?

Is that the only parameter to measure?

What do you all actually look into men when it comes to sex?

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By *uke02Man
5 days ago

Waterford City

Heya, for me it genuinely has a mind of its own. Sometimes be lucky to last 2 minutes and then other days I could go a half hour. I think it might have something to with the antidepressants I take bit I'm not sure. Me lasting is very inconsistent and on the rare occasion I get to have sex anything can happen lol. But if I do finish quick then I will go down on a women until its ready to go again and that usually last longer

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
5 days ago

Newry

Define duration?

If you mean penetrative sex, it's only a small part so the duration of that isn't hugely important. Sex for me is everything before, during and after so what matters most to me is that we both enjoy the whole experience of being together,

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By *razy-CplCouple
5 days ago

Cork

"Hi to lovely couples, men and women.

How long does your man last in sex?

I would love to know and have a genuine interesting conversation.

Women, do you measure a man by his duration?

Is that the only parameter to measure?

What do you all actually look into men when it comes to sex?"
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2 pulls and its all over is what Mr crazy told me the first night we met , i can vouch he was joking , and for me sex is not just about penetrative sex , its about the connection the laughs, the kissing and the touch and feel the person has with u . Its a whole package in my eyes .

Mrs crazy

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By *adger BrocMan
5 days ago

North Cork

I have often been known to spend 10 or 12 hours in bed and if someone was to bring me grub I could stay there for days.

🛏 🥪☕️

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By *antra MassageMan
4 days ago

a village near you.

For me it's not about penetration, or chasing an orgasm. Sex is a whole body thing, touch, holding, eye contact, kissing everywhere, moans and groans, I love lots of foreplay. So, without penetration, about 2/3 leisurely hours.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
4 days ago

East / North, Cork

"Hi to lovely couples, men and women.

How long does your man last in sex?

I would love to know and have a genuine interesting conversation.

Women, do you measure a man by his duration?

Is that the only parameter to measure?

What do you all actually look into men when it comes to sex?"

Satisfaction level has nearly nothing to do with duration. Good sex doesn't need to take ages. It can. It doesn't need to though. Also duration isn't a male responsibility. There are two people involved and the knowledge and experience (of yourself and your partner) of both of you is the key to great sex.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
4 days ago

East / North, Cork

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By *ung chippyMan
4 days ago

county

I would always prefer an enjoyable session instead of a race to the finish. Sensual, fun and funny at times. As long as it’s enjoyable for everyone involved. I’ve had as much fun in some 30 minute sessions as I have going for 2-3 hours.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 days ago

Castlebar

Duration depends on many factors and is mainly irrelevant to me. There are plenty of ways to enjoy someone. That is just 1 of them.

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By *ronkoMan
4 days ago

south side

Depends on how hot and turned on i am in that moment with someone , if its a highly charged fuck 5 minutes to an hour taken breaks in between when the muscles start twitching haha ..if its slowed down with plenty of foreplay then we are soaking every room

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By *ornyCouple2049Couple
4 days ago

Cockermouth

I tend to find it's a psychological thing. If I get J to orgasm through foreplay and oral etc, I last much longer, it's like taking the pressure off and I relax, allowing her to get more orgasms. I often don't last long if I go without getting her to orgasm, probably the pressure I put on myself. I find that if I have watched her or we are doing a threesome, the stimulation from that often causes me to orgasm fairly fast, but I'm learning control and using a cock ring helps.

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By *ronkoMan
4 days ago

south side

Relaxing and having control is the key to it , dont allow your self to get caught in the moment, it is so easy to teach your brain to control it ,

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By *DSGCouple
4 days ago

That place in

We can spend a weekend in bed, between amazing sex, there's the cuddles,kissing, chatting and everything inbetween,just wanting to be near each other,our connection is so good, its a time to catch up from a busy week

There is coffee and cake so that helps

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
4 days ago

Louth

Reading the replies here i realise i'm spoilt rotten. Our quickie is 30 mins, normal is 2 to 4 hours of full penetration sex. We have had all weekend sessions with girl friends and he can out last us all. But we have been called Duracell bunnies

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
4 days ago

Newry

"Reading the replies here i realise i'm spoilt rotten. Our quickie is 30 mins, normal is 2 to 4 hours of full penetration sex. We have had all weekend sessions with girl friends and he can out last us all. But we have been called Duracell bunnies

I guess if 2 - 4 hours is your thing then you are. One man's meat is another man's poison 🤷

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
4 days ago

Louth

I guess if 2 - 4 hours is your thing then you are. One man's meat is another man's poison 🤷"

Yes it's our thing. Much rather be able to fully enjoy myself without ever worrying of going to hard and him loosing it, than a few pumps and done. Thankfully there is a few more guys we know who can perform like this. Its why they get all the fun and most get nothing.

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