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"Recently turned up to 'group fun' with couple and 4 males plus me turned out it was just me and the couple true to out word. I didnt complain with the result if im honest." If only single men realised that if you're genuinely interested in turning up and reliable then this could be the result with the amount of no shows | |||
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"Yes, these are the guys who destroyed it for the genuine guy that is willing to travel and turn up. " Read the comment just before your one and you'll see the opposite is actually the case  | |||
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"We hold free play parties and the amount of guys that message us, all over it and on the night in question, ghost us and dont turn u, its shocking. The next day they offer the most pathetic excuses. Why do you do it fellas, be honest, you hog a good place for another guy. Can imagine all the guys will answer this and go, not me, "I would turn up" 4 guys our last party, 3 the time before and 3 the time before that too. All I can say you missed out big style.." My tuppence worth ..only tell or invite those single guys YOU KNOW will turn up, don't put it " out there " & have single guys " all over it " & then don't turn up, , its absolutely both shocking & frustrating to you , just invite those you know will look forward to it & turn up , that way its a win win situation for you both, you know they will turn up & you can enjoy it more , no disappointment for you both, make your play parties more exclusive, only invite those you know will turn up & don't leave yourself open to disappointment, ye deserve better for organising parties. | |||
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"We understand the frustration. There should be a way of getting no shows blocked of this site altogether." Not possible. People with grudges against someone woild just claim a no-show to get them removed from the site | |||
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"We hold free play parties and the amount of guys that message us, all over it and on the night in question, ghost us and dont turn u, its shocking. The next day they offer the most pathetic excuses. Why do you do it fellas, be honest, you hog a good place for another guy. Can imagine all the guys will answer this and go, not me, "I would turn up" 4 guys our last party, 3 the time before and 3 the time before that too. All I can say you missed out big style.. My tuppence worth ..only tell or invite those single guys YOU KNOW will turn up, don't put it " out there " & have single guys " all over it " & then don't turn up, , its absolutely both shocking & frustrating to you , just invite those you know will look forward to it & turn up , that way its a win win situation for you both, you know they will turn up & you can enjoy it more , no disappointment for you both, make your play parties more exclusive, only invite those you know will turn up & don't leave yourself open to disappointment, ye deserve better for organising parties. " You mean only inviting the same group of men over and over and excluding new people? Like a closed clique? Imagine the criticism that would bring | |||
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"I get where your coming from maybe your asking the wrong type type of guys ive msg you guys a few times looking to attend yoyr parties and not even a reply ive attend many of parties before and plp.that has attended your parties before ive met on separate occasions so they can vouch for me if I get a invite to a party and im free ill be there 100 per cent im not one for messing plp about so all us men arnt time wasters" They ALL claim to be the right kind of guys and will make all kinds of claims to what a good fuck they are and how many parties they went to before..... and then don't turn up. | |||
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"Get them to revolute 50 before they come....then reimbursement on attendance.....lol Put their money where there mouth is." This is a good shout actually. | |||
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"We hold free play parties and the amount of guys that message us, all over it and on the night in question, ghost us and dont turn u, its shocking. The next day they offer the most pathetic excuses. Why do you do it fellas, be honest, you hog a good place for another guy. Can imagine all the guys will answer this and go, not me, "I would turn up" 4 guys our last party, 3 the time before and 3 the time before that too. All I can say you missed out big style.." This is nothing new OP. I always invite double the amount of single guys and make sure to vet them as well. I invite guys I have met socially or friends of friends. Always meet verfied guys.Then less cancellations. There are so many chancers on here these days unfortunately! These are the guys who give single guys a bad rep. There are some great single guys in the scene but unfortunately not enough
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"Get them to revolute 50 before they come....then reimbursement on attendance.....lol Put their money where there mouth is. This is a good shout actually." Then they think 50 euro is the price for a ride and who wants to be faffing about with refunds on the night .....the people organising the party have enough to be doing on the night | |||
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"We understand the frustration. There should be a way of getting no shows blocked of this site altogether." Totally agree with this… Ive had 3 cases of females not showing( yes confirmed that they were females) who then blocked me | |||
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"We hold free play parties and the amount of guys that message us, all over it and on the night in question, ghost us and dont turn u, its shocking. The next day they offer the most pathetic excuses. Why do you do it fellas, be honest, you hog a good place for another guy. Can imagine all the guys will answer this and go, not me, "I would turn up" 4 guys our last party, 3 the time before and 3 the time before that too. All I can say you missed out big style.. My tuppence worth ..only tell or invite those single guys YOU KNOW will turn up, don't put it " out there " & have single guys " all over it " & then don't turn up, , its absolutely both shocking & frustrating to you , just invite those you know will look forward to it & turn up , that way its a win win situation for you both, you know they will turn up & you can enjoy it more , no disappointment for you both, make your play parties more exclusive, only invite those you know will turn up & don't leave yourself open to disappointment, ye deserve better for organising parties. You mean only inviting the same group of men over and over and excluding new people? Like a closed clique? Imagine the criticism that would bring" Absolutely not there was nothing mentioned of inviting the " same group of men " ..my reply to the post was to only invite men that they KNOW would turn up , it did not say to exclude new people or be a closed ' clique ".. that would be narrow minded to do such a thing...inviting those that they know would turn up covers a multitude plus the fact they wouldn't be let down either , if the hosts are prepared to organise a play party then being let down by people isn't exactly right. | |||
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"We understand the frustration. There should be a way of getting no shows blocked of this site altogether. Totally agree with this… Ive had 3 cases of females not showing( yes confirmed that they were females) who then blocked me" I fully understand you, l was chatting to a lady here, told her the truth about something , blocked me ..for telling the truth..l thought unbelievable but thats this Jungle . | |||
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"We understand the frustration. There should be a way of getting no shows blocked of this site altogether. Totally agree with this… Ive had 3 cases of females not showing( yes confirmed that they were females) who then blocked me I fully understand you, l was chatting to a lady here, told her the truth about something , blocked me ..for telling the truth..l thought unbelievable but thats this Jungle ." But thats the correct use of the block button If you dont like someone for what they've said....just block...saves the explanations In your mind before you said it what did you think could be the outcome | |||
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"We understand the frustration. There should be a way of getting no shows blocked of this site altogether. Totally agree with this… Ive had 3 cases of females not showing( yes confirmed that they were females) who then blocked me I fully understand you, l was chatting to a lady here, told her the truth about something , blocked me ..for telling the truth..l thought unbelievable but thats this Jungle . But thats the correct use of the block button If you dont like someone for what they've said....just block...saves the explanations In your mind before you said it what did you think could be the outcome " Well it's like this , if a person is told the truth & thinks that way , that person isn't one you'd want to meet anyway,people may not like the truth BUT its the truth ...& with saying the truth to someone l don't think about the outcome, if they block after a truthful answer , its on them . I was just saying in my post that l was blocked because of telling the truth ...nothing more nothing less. | |||
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"We hold free play parties and the amount of guys that message us, all over it and on the night in question, ghost us and dont turn u, its shocking. The next day they offer the most pathetic excuses. Why do you do it fellas, be honest, you hog a good place for another guy. Can imagine all the guys will answer this and go, not me, "I would turn up" 4 guys our last party, 3 the time before and 3 the time before that too. All I can say you missed out big style.." We have had that with individual meets. It's very frustrating! Totally up for a party though so if we fit your requirements please consider us for a future one. | |||
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"It would be very easy to resolve this and put a penalty system in place. Fab actually have the technology, a simple string of code would do it. Organise a party/meet/etc. Give fab the location. In the meet section let people apply to attend. Organiser picks and confirms who attends. On date in question let those who attend share location privately with fab. The non runners get a red card. Downside is they could set up a new profile tomorrow, they'd have no verifications though and back to square one." That means Fab facilitating event organisation via this platform, I can't see them doing that. The ability to do that exists elsewhere. Including group chat integration and group invites out, vetting etc. | |||
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"We hold free play parties and the amount of guys that message us, all over it and on the night in question, ghost us and dont turn u, its shocking. The next day they offer the most pathetic excuses. Why do you do it fellas, be honest, you hog a good place for another guy. Can imagine all the guys will answer this and go, not me, "I would turn up" 4 guys our last party, 3 the time before and 3 the time before that too. All I can say you missed out big style.." Its a problem every which way only that women and couples hold the golden keys here ! I cant count the amount of times in the last 20 years Ive been stood up. This is by women and couples. 1 time I even arrived to meet a couple where she was demented d*unk  ... complete waste of time.. | |||
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"That’s gas cause I introduce myself in he nicest possible manner and don’t even ever get a reply from anyone jaja. I must the biggest loser on this haha" Were all in the same boat buddy. | |||
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"Aw what again with this one ? You gotta start picking more reliable guys" Maybe start with guys being more reliable in the first place rather than blaming the hosts | |||
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"They get an ego power trip out of it Think of Father Jack sitting in his chair laughing to himself thinking he's a bit of a genius to catch people out Hes still alone at the end of the day with his whiskey " Yes there is definitely a bit of that goes on with lads and a bit of big dick syndrome, but then the reality hits them. But lady's and couples also play power games from time to time also | |||
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"They get an ego power trip out of it Think of Father Jack sitting in his chair laughing to himself thinking he's a bit of a genius to catch people out Hes still alone at the end of the day with his whiskey Yes there is definitely a bit of that goes on with lads and a bit of big dick syndrome, but then the reality hits them. But lady's and couples also play power games from time to time also" Absolutely but you'd wonder how many of those couples and women are really men too Isn't fab feckin wonderful | |||
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"They get an ego power trip out of it Think of Father Jack sitting in his chair laughing to himself thinking he's a bit of a genius to catch people out Hes still alone at the end of the day with his whiskey Yes there is definitely a bit of that goes on with lads and a bit of big dick syndrome, but then the reality hits them. But lady's and couples also play power games from time to time also Absolutely but you'd wonder how many of those couples and women are really men too Isn't fab feckin wonderful "Maybe I just try see the good in people, but id like to think if ive chatted awhile with someone I would be able to spot the red flags but some people just like to mess you around 🤔 | |||
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"Next party now full up, 9 guys invited, be interesting to see how many actually turn up..all well vertified like before, still room for a single lady or 2" Invite 18 if you need 9, worst case the girls have spares lol | |||
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"So single guys can’t get a meet nevermind a reply x So how’s could one meet up xx " Go to socials loads all over every month | |||
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"We hold free play parties and the amount of guys that message us, all over it and on the night in question, ghost us and dont turn u, its shocking. The next day they offer the most pathetic excuses. Why do you do it fellas, be honest, you hog a good place for another guy. Can imagine all the guys will answer this and go, not me, "I would turn up" 4 guys our last party, 3 the time before and 3 the time before that too. All I can say you missed out big style.." | |||
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"Can get an invite or ticket due to lack of veri Even though I’m already looking for coffee meets to build up " There’s social events specifically for unverifieds | |||
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"Can get an invite or ticket due to lack of veri Even though I’m already looking for coffee meets to build up There’s social events specifically for unverifieds " But what about the people who don't do large social events which are not for them and are just looking 1 on 1 meets with females how dose that male get a 1 on 1 social to get a verification when 99.9% of females do not meet unverified accounts | |||
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"Can get an invite or ticket due to lack of veri Even though I’m already looking for coffee meets to build up There’s social events specifically for unverifieds Some unverified socials only have 10 to 15. I wouldn't call them large easier with a smaller group. But what about the people who don't do large social events which are not for them and are just looking 1 on 1 meets with females how dose that male get a 1 on 1 social to get a verification when 99.9% of females do not meet unverified accounts" | |||
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"Can get an invite or ticket due to lack of veri Even though I’m already looking for coffee meets to build up There’s social events specifically for unverifieds Couples and women can and should vet potential play partners to make sure they are safe and theres not that many ways to do it. Men who put their money where their mouth is and attend events are more likely to be safe than guys who are potentially dangerous on a one on one. Plus married men are less likely to attend larger socials. So a good way to vet them out. But what about the people who don't do large social events which are not for them and are just looking 1 on 1 meets with females how dose that male get a 1 on 1 social to get a verification when 99.9% of females do not meet unverified accounts" | |||
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"Can get an invite or ticket due to lack of veri Even though I’m already looking for coffee meets to build up There’s social events specifically for unverifieds But what about the people who don't do large social events which are not for them and are just looking 1 on 1 meets with females how dose that male get a 1 on 1 social to get a verification when 99.9% of females do not meet unverified accounts" Not every female insists on only meeting verified accounts but you have to give yourself the best possible chance to find one Blank profiles are an immediate block filter for most people so messages won't get through Getting your name and personality known via the forums can also work | |||
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"Can get an invite or ticket due to lack of veri Even though I’m already looking for coffee meets to build up There’s social events specifically for unverifieds But what about the people who don't do large social events which are not for them and are just looking 1 on 1 meets with females how dose that male get a 1 on 1 social to get a verification when 99.9% of females do not meet unverified accounts Not every female insists on only meeting verified accounts but you have to give yourself the best possible chance to find one Blank profiles are an immediate block filter for most people so messages won't get through Getting your name and personality known via the forums can also work " Any chance of the ride | |||
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"Can get an invite or ticket due to lack of veri Even though I’m already looking for coffee meets to build up There’s social events specifically for unverifieds But what about the people who don't do large social events which are not for them and are just looking 1 on 1 meets with females how dose that male get a 1 on 1 social to get a verification when 99.9% of females do not meet unverified accounts Not every female insists on only meeting verified accounts but you have to give yourself the best possible chance to find one Blank profiles are an immediate block filter for most people so messages won't get through Getting your name and personality known via the forums can also work Any chance of the ride " At least buy me a drink first Jimmy | |||
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"Can get an invite or ticket due to lack of veri Even though I’m already looking for coffee meets to build up There’s social events specifically for unverifieds But what about the people who don't do large social events which are not for them and are just looking 1 on 1 meets with females how dose that male get a 1 on 1 social to get a verification when 99.9% of females do not meet unverified accounts Not every female insists on only meeting verified accounts but you have to give yourself the best possible chance to find one Blank profiles are an immediate block filter for most people so messages won't get through Getting your name and personality known via the forums can also work Any chance of the ride At least buy me a drink first Jimmy "Why? | |||
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"Can get an invite or ticket due to lack of veri Even though I’m already looking for coffee meets to build up There’s social events specifically for unverifieds But what about the people who don't do large social events which are not for them and are just looking 1 on 1 meets with females how dose that male get a 1 on 1 social to get a verification when 99.9% of females do not meet unverified accounts" You need to use your wit and charm to convince a young lady that you are worth the time. | |||
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"Can get an invite or ticket due to lack of veri Even though I’m already looking for coffee meets to build up There’s social events specifically for unverifieds But what about the people who don't do large social events which are not for them and are just looking 1 on 1 meets with females how dose that male get a 1 on 1 social to get a verification when 99.9% of females do not meet unverified accounts You need to use your wit and charm to convince a young lady that you are worth the time. " And me thinking all you need is a good big cock. | |||
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"Can get an invite or ticket due to lack of veri Even though I’m already looking for coffee meets to build up There’s social events specifically for unverifieds But what about the people who don't do large social events which are not for them and are just looking 1 on 1 meets with females how dose that male get a 1 on 1 social to get a verification when 99.9% of females do not meet unverified accounts You need to use your wit and charm to convince a young lady that you are worth the time. " Been there trying that sending nice messages with pics nothing rude to get blocked because I'm new. Barriers put up to stop newbies trying to enjoy the life style | |||
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"Being nice and not rude isn't really enough. They have to fancy you and you have to stand out from the crowd. " How can you make a accurate judgement on someone you never met or even talked to? | |||
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"Being nice and not rude isn't really enough. They have to fancy you and you have to stand out from the crowd. How can you make a accurate judgement on someone you never met or even talked to?" My point exactly lots base thing on a pic before knowing anything about that person they could be amazing in bed and not being a complete arse hole Next guy amazing looking can't get it up and has a shit attitude towards people. Can't win anyway you try | |||
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"Being nice and not rude isn't really enough. They have to fancy you and you have to stand out from the crowd. How can you make a accurate judgement on someone you never met or even talked to? My point exactly lots base thing on a pic before knowing anything about that person they could be amazing in bed and not being a complete arse hole Next guy amazing looking can't get it up and has a shit attitude towards people. Can't win anyway you try" More who you know on fab rather than anything else. | |||
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"Being nice and not rude isn't really enough. They have to fancy you and you have to stand out from the crowd. How can you make a accurate judgement on someone you never met or even talked to? My point exactly lots base thing on a pic before knowing anything about that person they could be amazing in bed and not being a complete arse hole Next guy amazing looking can't get it up and has a shit attitude towards people. Can't win anyway you try More who you know on fab rather than anything else. " 100% if you know someone get vervied then say to some they know above you next thing a meet and ball is rowing it's like that on most walks of life | |||
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"Getting verified is not like finding a golden willy wonka ticket to ride Most women on here would never have sex with 99.9 % of the men on here so you have to find ways to be in the .1% " LOL so 99.9 pc of the ladies are irresistible and 0.1 men. | |||
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"Being nice and not rude isn't really enough. They have to fancy you and you have to stand out from the crowd. How can you make a accurate judgement on someone you never met or even talked to?" Cause here most interactions are based on the visual | |||
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"Being nice and not rude isn't really enough. They have to fancy you and you have to stand out from the crowd. How can you make a accurate judgement on someone you never met or even talked to? Cause here most interactions are based on the visual " So it doesn't make a blind bit off difference what a man says it's how he looks. | |||
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"I've no idea how physically attractive you are I haven't even looked at your profile. Clearly something isnt reeling in the ladies though so whatever you are presenting isn't working. I am speaking in general terms here and would say the same to any single guy here who isn't getting noticed. You need to work at standing out so your message is read, and then at using your charm to convince her to hook up for a social. Being "not rude" is a bare minimum and not something to entice to a meet. Neither is being "nice". You need to develop some game." But when you can't get your message read because your not verified so barriers put up agenst unverified males because of the stigma around them | |||
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"If a guy walks up to a woman in a bar she's under no obligation to respond, or speak to him or engage in any way if she decides for whatever reason she doesn't want to. If she wants to get to know him she will, if she doesn't she won't. Same on here. No matter what your message is like, she doesn't have to read it if she doesn't want to. Suck it up and move on." So im other words it doesn't make a difference what you put in a message. | |||
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"I've no idea how physically attractive you are I haven't even looked at your profile. Clearly something isnt reeling in the ladies though so whatever you are presenting isn't working. I am speaking in general terms here and would say the same to any single guy here who isn't getting noticed. You need to work at standing out so your message is read, and then at using your charm to convince her to hook up for a social. Being "not rude" is a bare minimum and not something to entice to a meet. Neither is being "nice". You need to develop some game. But when you can't get your message read because your not verified so barriers put up agenst unverified males because of the stigma around them" People are probably ignoring your message because you have no profile pic. | |||
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"If a guy walks up to a woman in a bar she's under no obligation to respond, or speak to him or engage in any way if she decides for whatever reason she doesn't want to. If she wants to get to know him she will, if she doesn't she won't. Same on here. No matter what your message is like, she doesn't have to read it if she doesn't want to. Suck it up and move on. So im other words it doesn't make a difference what you put in a message. " See females say pics other 1st message others about your profile. They just keep coming up with more barriers to stop newbies getting verified | |||
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"I've no idea how physically attractive you are I haven't even looked at your profile. Clearly something isnt reeling in the ladies though so whatever you are presenting isn't working. I am speaking in general terms here and would say the same to any single guy here who isn't getting noticed. You need to work at standing out so your message is read, and then at using your charm to convince her to hook up for a social. Being "not rude" is a bare minimum and not something to entice to a meet. Neither is being "nice". You need to develop some game. But when you can't get your message read because your not verified so barriers put up agenst unverified males because of the stigma around them People are probably ignoring your message because you have no profile pic." Shouldn't matter when I'm willing to send pic in message still doesn't get messages read because of stigma around single males | |||
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"I've no idea how physically attractive you are I haven't even looked at your profile. Clearly something isnt reeling in the ladies though so whatever you are presenting isn't working. I am speaking in general terms here and would say the same to any single guy here who isn't getting noticed. You need to work at standing out so your message is read, and then at using your charm to convince her to hook up for a social. Being "not rude" is a bare minimum and not something to entice to a meet. Neither is being "nice". You need to develop some game. But when you can't get your message read because your not verified so barriers put up agenst unverified males because of the stigma around them" I would be fairly confident that the reason your messages aren’t read or responded to is because there’s nothing on your profile to make someone want to respond. This isn’t blind date 🤷🏻♀️ physical attraction is important to a lot of people when sex is involved so you have to sell yourself. And I have no issue meeting unverified guys. They have to put in the effort just like everyone else though. I’m not a charity. | |||
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"I've no idea how physically attractive you are I haven't even looked at your profile. Clearly something isnt reeling in the ladies though so whatever you are presenting isn't working. I am speaking in general terms here and would say the same to any single guy here who isn't getting noticed. You need to work at standing out so your message is read, and then at using your charm to convince her to hook up for a social. Being "not rude" is a bare minimum and not something to entice to a meet. Neither is being "nice". You need to develop some game. But when you can't get your message read because your not verified so barriers put up agenst unverified males because of the stigma around them I would be fairly confident that the reason your messages aren’t read or responded to is because there’s nothing on your profile to make someone want to respond. This isn’t blind date 🤷🏻♀️ physical attraction is important to a lot of people when sex is involved so you have to sell yourself. And I have no issue meeting unverified guys. They have to put in the effort just like everyone else though. I’m not a charity. " Sending nice messages trying to have banter pics in messages and they still don't read them. Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different | |||
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"I've no idea how physically attractive you are I haven't even looked at your profile. Clearly something isnt reeling in the ladies though so whatever you are presenting isn't working. I am speaking in general terms here and would say the same to any single guy here who isn't getting noticed. You need to work at standing out so your message is read, and then at using your charm to convince her to hook up for a social. Being "not rude" is a bare minimum and not something to entice to a meet. Neither is being "nice". You need to develop some game. But when you can't get your message read because your not verified so barriers put up agenst unverified males because of the stigma around them I would be fairly confident that the reason your messages aren’t read or responded to is because there’s nothing on your profile to make someone want to respond. This isn’t blind date 🤷🏻♀️ physical attraction is important to a lot of people when sex is involved so you have to sell yourself. And I have no issue meeting unverified guys. They have to put in the effort just like everyone else though. I’m not a charity. " lol everyone talking about effort but that's a load of bs it's not what you say or do it's who you know. | |||
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" Shouldn't matter when I'm willing to send pic in message still doesn't get messages read because of stigma around single males It does matter. Your opinion on whether is should or shouldn't matter is irrelevant " Your 1st verification from 2019 when it was a brilliant place to be on. Like I've said fab is for people who been on this place long term and people don't want newbies joining up to it to experience the life style. Not have I see once a newbie event for single males in my area proves my point barriers put up for newbies to prevent them trying to enjoy this life style. | |||
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" it's not what you say or do it's who you know. " She literally said she is happy to meet unverified men. IE men she didn't know lol. | |||
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" Shouldn't matter when I'm willing to send pic in message still doesn't get messages read because of stigma around single males It does matter. Your opinion on whether is should or shouldn't matter is irrelevant Your 1st verification from 2019 when it was a brilliant place to be on. Like I've said fab is for people who been on this place long term and people don't want newbies joining up to it to experience the life style. Not have I see once a newbie event for single males in my area proves my point barriers put up for newbies to prevent them trying to enjoy this life style. " I'm here far longer than that incl as a single male and its never been easier than it is now what with all the unverified events and help a gabber out threads. It's far easier now | |||
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" it's not what you say or do it's who you know. She literally said she is happy to meet unverified men. IE men she didn't know lol. " saying isn't necessarily doing is it. | |||
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" Shouldn't matter when I'm willing to send pic in message still doesn't get messages read because of stigma around single males It does matter. Your opinion on whether is should or shouldn't matter is irrelevant Your 1st verification from 2019 when it was a brilliant place to be on. Like I've said fab is for people who been on this place long term and people don't want newbies joining up to it to experience the life style. Not have I see once a newbie event for single males in my area proves my point barriers put up for newbies to prevent them trying to enjoy this life style. I'm here far longer than that incl as a single male and its never been easier than it is now what with all the unverified events and help a gabber out threads. It's far easier now" Not one event on my area being held for newbies and its not suitable for some people including me not looking to get involved on big crowd's in a event. | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing." It's a load of you know what and as far as the forums go same few know it all trying to sound important. | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing. It's a load of you know what and as far as the forums go same few know it all trying to sound important. " Like I said barriers put up so newbie males can't try and enjoy fab because of the sigma of them all ment to be fake when a few aren't fake they get put of and leave the place because of the barriers and stigma 99.9% of females and couples won't talk or meet unverified accounts another barrier for males to over come so how dose one win then ? | |||
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"Hi mr G and Mrs T , i totally agree, this is why us single guys get it hard to get invites and but when when genuine guys like me and other guys from fab , turn up and blend and have a laugh, no use single guys complaining about been told no after they dont tell the social or panty organizer in time as they forget it takes time and effort to put on great nights. Dont as for a invite unless they goibg to turn up, "This here is a single guy we have met, invited him up to his first orgy! And we were the only couple in that room, also only ones left standing at the end lol. | |||
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"My head actually hurts reading all that. Nobody owes anyone anything on here. Nobody has to open a message, reply, go meet someone or not, give reasons, give advice... good or bad. It's just that simple. We have our own rules, so does every other couple or single girl. Follow them or get binned, the numbers are in our favour. Thats life build a bridge and get over it. " My point exactly some people want pics other want a nice profile others want a nice 1st message but not everyone wants the same so it's difficult so keep everyone happy and to try and get somewhere with someone is difficult because of this | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing. It's a load of you know what and as far as the forums go same few know it all trying to sound important. Like I said barriers put up so newbie males can't try and enjoy fab because of the sigma of them all ment to be fake when a few aren't fake they get put of and leave the place because of the barriers and stigma 99.9% of females and couples won't talk or meet unverified accounts another barrier for males to over come so how dose one win then ?" Well one thing for sure take what most people on the forum say with a pinch of salt because most just love the sound of their own voice. | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing. It's a load of you know what and as far as the forums go same few know it all trying to sound important. Like I said barriers put up so newbie males can't try and enjoy fab because of the sigma of them all ment to be fake when a few aren't fake they get put of and leave the place because of the barriers and stigma 99.9% of females and couples won't talk or meet unverified accounts another barrier for males to over come so how dose one win then ? Well one thing for sure take what most people on the forum say with a pinch of salt because most just love the sound of their own voice." Pot kettle comes to mind | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing. It's a load of you know what and as far as the forums go same few know it all trying to sound important. Like I said barriers put up so newbie males can't try and enjoy fab because of the sigma of them all ment to be fake when a few aren't fake they get put of and leave the place because of the barriers and stigma 99.9% of females and couples won't talk or meet unverified accounts another barrier for males to over come so how dose one win then ? Well one thing for sure take what most people on the forum say with a pinch of salt because most just love the sound of their own voice. Pot kettle comes to mind " I'm not going around telling anyone how to meet like some here. | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing. It's a load of you know what and as far as the forums go same few know it all trying to sound important. Like I said barriers put up so newbie males can't try and enjoy fab because of the sigma of them all ment to be fake when a few aren't fake they get put of and leave the place because of the barriers and stigma 99.9% of females and couples won't talk or meet unverified accounts another barrier for males to over come so how dose one win then ?" You do realise that no one here cares enough to “put up barriers” to stop you meeting people. The only barrier put up are the ones you’re putting up by not making an effort with your profile. You may send pics with your first message but a lot of people view a profile before even reading a message. Your profile is your shop window…you can either make it look attractive or leave it derelict. Up to you. | |||
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"My head actually hurts reading all that. Nobody owes anyone anything on here. Nobody has to open a message, reply, go meet someone or not, give reasons, give advice... good or bad. It's just that simple. We have our own rules, so does every other couple or single girl. Follow them or get binned, the numbers are in our favour. Thats life build a bridge and get over it. My point exactly some people want pics other want a nice profile others want a nice 1st message but not everyone wants the same so it's difficult so keep everyone happy and to try and get somewhere with someone is difficult because of this " Not really you live in one of the easiest places to attend an unverified event and you choose not too. You choose to have no pics and small profile, so girls and couples choose others instead. Simples | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing. It's a load of you know what and as far as the forums go same few know it all trying to sound important. Like I said barriers put up so newbie males can't try and enjoy fab because of the sigma of them all ment to be fake when a few aren't fake they get put of and leave the place because of the barriers and stigma 99.9% of females and couples won't talk or meet unverified accounts another barrier for males to over come so how dose one win then ? You do realise that no one here cares enough to “put up barriers” to stop you meeting people. The only barrier put up are the ones you’re putting up by not making an effort with your profile. You may send pics with your first message but a lot of people view a profile before even reading a message. Your profile is your shop window…you can either make it look attractive or leave it derelict. Up to you. " More information in profile people don't read it etc So how do you win with more effort when people say you puting to much effort in etc | |||
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"My head actually hurts reading all that. Nobody owes anyone anything on here. Nobody has to open a message, reply, go meet someone or not, give reasons, give advice... good or bad. It's just that simple. We have our own rules, so does every other couple or single girl. Follow them or get binned, the numbers are in our favour. Thats life build a bridge and get over it. My point exactly some people want pics other want a nice profile others want a nice 1st message but not everyone wants the same so it's difficult so keep everyone happy and to try and get somewhere with someone is difficult because of this Not really you live in one of the easiest places to attend an unverified event and you choose not too. You choose to have no pics and small profile, so girls and couples choose others instead. Simples " No events being held to even attend so how can I attend an event that dose not simple exist ? | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing. It's a load of you know what and as far as the forums go same few know it all trying to sound important. Like I said barriers put up so newbie males can't try and enjoy fab because of the sigma of them all ment to be fake when a few aren't fake they get put of and leave the place because of the barriers and stigma 99.9% of females and couples won't talk or meet unverified accounts another barrier for males to over come so how dose one win then ? You do realise that no one here cares enough to “put up barriers” to stop you meeting people. The only barrier put up are the ones you’re putting up by not making an effort with your profile. You may send pics with your first message but a lot of people view a profile before even reading a message. Your profile is your shop window…you can either make it look attractive or leave it derelict. Up to you. More information in profile people don't read it etc So how do you win with more effort when people say you puting to much effort in etc " No matter what advice anyone gives you, you’re choosing not to listen and keep coming back to the whole site being against you. The victim complex is not attractive. | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing. It's a load of you know what and as far as the forums go same few know it all trying to sound important. Like I said barriers put up so newbie males can't try and enjoy fab because of the sigma of them all ment to be fake when a few aren't fake they get put of and leave the place because of the barriers and stigma 99.9% of females and couples won't talk or meet unverified accounts another barrier for males to over come so how dose one win then ? You do realise that no one here cares enough to “put up barriers” to stop you meeting people. The only barrier put up are the ones you’re putting up by not making an effort with your profile. You may send pics with your first message but a lot of people view a profile before even reading a message. Your profile is your shop window…you can either make it look attractive or leave it derelict. Up to you. More information in profile people don't read it etc So how do you win with more effort when people say you puting to much effort in etc No matter what advice anyone gives you, you’re choosing not to listen and keep coming back to the whole site being against you. The victim complex is not attractive. " Meet the guy yourself and stop the advice. | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing. It's a load of you know what and as far as the forums go same few know it all trying to sound important. Like I said barriers put up so newbie males can't try and enjoy fab because of the sigma of them all ment to be fake when a few aren't fake they get put of and leave the place because of the barriers and stigma 99.9% of females and couples won't talk or meet unverified accounts another barrier for males to over come so how dose one win then ? You do realise that no one here cares enough to “put up barriers” to stop you meeting people. The only barrier put up are the ones you’re putting up by not making an effort with your profile. You may send pics with your first message but a lot of people view a profile before even reading a message. Your profile is your shop window…you can either make it look attractive or leave it derelict. Up to you. More information in profile people don't read it etc So how do you win with more effort when people say you puting to much effort in etc No matter what advice anyone gives you, you’re choosing not to listen and keep coming back to the whole site being against you. The victim complex is not attractive. " I'm not I'm standing up for the single males who won't open there mouths and fight for people to bring fab back to were it was 5 years ago were people were talking a lot more to each other people having more socials and people enjoying helping newbies who don't want to attend newbies events | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing. It's a load of you know what and as far as the forums go same few know it all trying to sound important. Like I said barriers put up so newbie males can't try and enjoy fab because of the sigma of them all ment to be fake when a few aren't fake they get put of and leave the place because of the barriers and stigma 99.9% of females and couples won't talk or meet unverified accounts another barrier for males to over come so how dose one win then ? You do realise that no one here cares enough to “put up barriers” to stop you meeting people. The only barrier put up are the ones you’re putting up by not making an effort with your profile. You may send pics with your first message but a lot of people view a profile before even reading a message. Your profile is your shop window…you can either make it look attractive or leave it derelict. Up to you. More information in profile people don't read it etc So how do you win with more effort when people say you puting to much effort in etc No matter what advice anyone gives you, you’re choosing not to listen and keep coming back to the whole site being against you. The victim complex is not attractive. Meet the guy yourself and stop the advice. " He’s in Belfast, I’m in Galway. So unless he wants to come to Galway, no 🤷🏻♀️ | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing. It's a load of you know what and as far as the forums go same few know it all trying to sound important. Like I said barriers put up so newbie males can't try and enjoy fab because of the sigma of them all ment to be fake when a few aren't fake they get put of and leave the place because of the barriers and stigma 99.9% of females and couples won't talk or meet unverified accounts another barrier for males to over come so how dose one win then ? You do realise that no one here cares enough to “put up barriers” to stop you meeting people. The only barrier put up are the ones you’re putting up by not making an effort with your profile. You may send pics with your first message but a lot of people view a profile before even reading a message. Your profile is your shop window…you can either make it look attractive or leave it derelict. Up to you. More information in profile people don't read it etc So how do you win with more effort when people say you puting to much effort in etc No matter what advice anyone gives you, you’re choosing not to listen and keep coming back to the whole site being against you. The victim complex is not attractive. Meet the guy yourself and stop the advice. He’s in Belfast, I’m in Galway. So unless he wants to come to Galway, no 🤷🏻♀️" I'm sure he would meet half way for the right woman. | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing. It's a load of you know what and as far as the forums go same few know it all trying to sound important. Like I said barriers put up so newbie males can't try and enjoy fab because of the sigma of them all ment to be fake when a few aren't fake they get put of and leave the place because of the barriers and stigma 99.9% of females and couples won't talk or meet unverified accounts another barrier for males to over come so how dose one win then ? You do realise that no one here cares enough to “put up barriers” to stop you meeting people. The only barrier put up are the ones you’re putting up by not making an effort with your profile. You may send pics with your first message but a lot of people view a profile before even reading a message. Your profile is your shop window…you can either make it look attractive or leave it derelict. Up to you. More information in profile people don't read it etc So how do you win with more effort when people say you puting to much effort in etc No matter what advice anyone gives you, you’re choosing not to listen and keep coming back to the whole site being against you. The victim complex is not attractive. I'm not I'm standing up for the single males who won't open there mouths and fight for people to bring fab back to were it was 5 years ago were people were talking a lot more to each other people having more socials and people enjoying helping newbies who don't want to attend newbies events " 5 years ago we were in the middle of Covid so there definitely weren’t as many meets happening as there are now 🤣 people might have been talking more because there was fuck all else to do. | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing. It's a load of you know what and as far as the forums go same few know it all trying to sound important. Like I said barriers put up so newbie males can't try and enjoy fab because of the sigma of them all ment to be fake when a few aren't fake they get put of and leave the place because of the barriers and stigma 99.9% of females and couples won't talk or meet unverified accounts another barrier for males to over come so how dose one win then ? You do realise that no one here cares enough to “put up barriers” to stop you meeting people. The only barrier put up are the ones you’re putting up by not making an effort with your profile. You may send pics with your first message but a lot of people view a profile before even reading a message. Your profile is your shop window…you can either make it look attractive or leave it derelict. Up to you. More information in profile people don't read it etc So how do you win with more effort when people say you puting to much effort in etc No matter what advice anyone gives you, you’re choosing not to listen and keep coming back to the whole site being against you. The victim complex is not attractive. Meet the guy yourself and stop the advice. He’s in Belfast, I’m in Galway. So unless he wants to come to Galway, no 🤷🏻♀️ I'm sure he would meet half way for the right woman. " Perhaps he would be I’m not driving 2 hours to verify someone who puts no effort into his profile 🤷🏻♀️ | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing. It's a load of you know what and as far as the forums go same few know it all trying to sound important. Like I said barriers put up so newbie males can't try and enjoy fab because of the sigma of them all ment to be fake when a few aren't fake they get put of and leave the place because of the barriers and stigma 99.9% of females and couples won't talk or meet unverified accounts another barrier for males to over come so how dose one win then ? You do realise that no one here cares enough to “put up barriers” to stop you meeting people. The only barrier put up are the ones you’re putting up by not making an effort with your profile. You may send pics with your first message but a lot of people view a profile before even reading a message. Your profile is your shop window…you can either make it look attractive or leave it derelict. Up to you. More information in profile people don't read it etc So how do you win with more effort when people say you puting to much effort in etc No matter what advice anyone gives you, you’re choosing not to listen and keep coming back to the whole site being against you. The victim complex is not attractive. Meet the guy yourself and stop the advice. He’s in Belfast, I’m in Galway. So unless he wants to come to Galway, no 🤷🏻♀️ I'm sure he would meet half way for the right woman. Perhaps he would be I’m not driving 2 hours to verify someone who puts no effort into his profile 🤷🏻♀️" But u can't ride a profile. | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing. It's a load of you know what and as far as the forums go same few know it all trying to sound important. Like I said barriers put up so newbie males can't try and enjoy fab because of the sigma of them all ment to be fake when a few aren't fake they get put of and leave the place because of the barriers and stigma 99.9% of females and couples won't talk or meet unverified accounts another barrier for males to over come so how dose one win then ? You do realise that no one here cares enough to “put up barriers” to stop you meeting people. The only barrier put up are the ones you’re putting up by not making an effort with your profile. You may send pics with your first message but a lot of people view a profile before even reading a message. Your profile is your shop window…you can either make it look attractive or leave it derelict. Up to you. More information in profile people don't read it etc So how do you win with more effort when people say you puting to much effort in etc No matter what advice anyone gives you, you’re choosing not to listen and keep coming back to the whole site being against you. The victim complex is not attractive. Meet the guy yourself and stop the advice. He’s in Belfast, I’m in Galway. So unless he wants to come to Galway, no 🤷🏻♀️ I'm sure he would meet half way for the right woman. Perhaps he would be I’m not driving 2 hours to verify someone who puts no effort into his profile 🤷🏻♀️" Then other people look at an profile with lots of shit wrote in it and go fuck that not reading that to long to read. Can't win | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing. It's a load of you know what and as far as the forums go same few know it all trying to sound important. Like I said barriers put up so newbie males can't try and enjoy fab because of the sigma of them all ment to be fake when a few aren't fake they get put of and leave the place because of the barriers and stigma 99.9% of females and couples won't talk or meet unverified accounts another barrier for males to over come so how dose one win then ? You do realise that no one here cares enough to “put up barriers” to stop you meeting people. The only barrier put up are the ones you’re putting up by not making an effort with your profile. You may send pics with your first message but a lot of people view a profile before even reading a message. Your profile is your shop window…you can either make it look attractive or leave it derelict. Up to you. More information in profile people don't read it etc So how do you win with more effort when people say you puting to much effort in etc No matter what advice anyone gives you, you’re choosing not to listen and keep coming back to the whole site being against you. The victim complex is not attractive. Meet the guy yourself and stop the advice. He’s in Belfast, I’m in Galway. So unless he wants to come to Galway, no 🤷🏻♀️ I'm sure he would meet half way for the right woman. Perhaps he would be I’m not driving 2 hours to verify someone who puts no effort into his profile 🤷🏻♀️ But u can't ride a profile. " . Correct someone with a brain | |||
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"Good jesus thats some read I have milk in my fridge longer that some of the profiles are on fab that are telling others how fab should work Fab does work for those that take their time to learn how it works There's no need to fight for anyone else on fab....look after yourself Its never been easier to get get verified Lots of people organise socials for unverified folk ...you might just have to travel and get off your arse to go to one. Wingeing is not an attractive quality in anyone No one owns anyone a fuck Pity fucks dont exist " Just because you're on fab for years and never off the forums don't mean you know everything. | |||
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"Ohhh Robinhood! The penny drops. You created this profile specifically to fight for all the men who aren't getting the vagina that's being gatekeeped by those other more successful single male profiles. Your mean to rob the meets from the rich (successful single male profiles) and give it back to the blank low effort, no pic (poor) profiles is that it? Some kind of noble incel crusade?" I didn't say that I said bring it back to we're it was 5 years ago so your mistaken | |||
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"Good jesus thats some read I have milk in my fridge longer that some of the profiles are on fab that are telling others how fab should work Fab does work for those that take their time to learn how it works There's no need to fight for anyone else on fab....look after yourself Its never been easier to get get verified Lots of people organise socials for unverified folk ...you might just have to travel and get off your arse to go to one. Wingeing is not an attractive quality in anyone No one owns anyone a fuck Pity fucks dont exist Just because you're on fab for years and never off the forums don't mean you know everything. " It also means I know how to get verified and have seen dozens of this type of thread that six months later all the men complaining are no longer on the site for some reason | |||
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"Good jesus thats some read I have milk in my fridge longer that some of the profiles are on fab that are telling others how fab should work Fab does work for those that take their time to learn how it works There's no need to fight for anyone else on fab....look after yourself Its never been easier to get get verified Lots of people organise socials for unverified folk ...you might just have to travel and get off your arse to go to one. Wingeing is not an attractive quality in anyone No one owns anyone a fuck Pity fucks dont exist Just because you're on fab for years and never off the forums don't mean you know everything. It also means I know how to get verified and have seen dozens of this type of thread that six months later all the men complaining are no longer on the site for some reason " No balls to open there mouths up and fight for each other rather just leave. That's not a man that's a wimp | |||
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"Good jesus thats some read I have milk in my fridge longer that some of the profiles are on fab that are telling others how fab should work Fab does work for those that take their time to learn how it works There's no need to fight for anyone else on fab....look after yourself Its never been easier to get get verified Lots of people organise socials for unverified folk ...you might just have to travel and get off your arse to go to one. Wingeing is not an attractive quality in anyone No one owns anyone a fuck Pity fucks dont exist Just because you're on fab for years and never off the forums don't mean you know everything. It also means I know how to get verified and have seen dozens of this type of thread that six months later all the men complaining are no longer on the site for some reason " So u had a few rides on fab and now your the salmon off knowledge. | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing." Oh we women must get together so we can have a single opinion on what we SHOULD be looking for and not be individuals with different needs and desires so this guy is getting a unified policy on having someone get his dick wet. And while we are at it can someone kindly accommodate his area for a newbies social. Because he's entitled and well overdue someone realising how special he is even though there's only a shadow on his profile pic. | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing. Oh we women must get together so we can have a single opinion on what we SHOULD be looking for and not be individuals with different needs and desires so this guy is getting a unified policy on having someone get his dick wet. And while we are at it can someone kindly accommodate his area for a newbies social. Because he's entitled and well overdue someone realising how special he is even though there's only a shadow on his profile pic. " Different people want different things can't satisfy everyone they why I've said about people want this and that. Plus if you look I don't want a newbie social because it's not something I would attend because I don't do crowds. Having no pic is due to not wanting to plaster my body or face all over somewhere I don't want. Just another point of people thinking I should always have a pic when I shouldn't as it's my own profile. Another barriers for newbies | |||
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"Ok to be blunt..... you have 0.00% chance of anyone meeting you and the exact same for any similar effort profiles. " Did you ride many profiles ? | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing. Oh we women must get together so we can have a single opinion on what we SHOULD be looking for and not be individuals with different needs and desires so this guy is getting a unified policy on having someone get his dick wet. And while we are at it can someone kindly accommodate his area for a newbies social. Because he's entitled and well overdue someone realising how special he is even though there's only a shadow on his profile pic. Different people want different things can't satisfy everyone they why I've said about people want this and that. Plus if you look I don't want a newbie social because it's not something I would attend because I don't do crowds. Having no pic is due to not wanting to plaster my body or face all over somewhere I don't want. Just another point of people thinking I should always have a pic when I shouldn't as it's my own profile. Another barriers for newbies " It isn’t a barrier for newbies because plenty of newbies are more than happy to put effort in. Like I said, you’ve put up your own barriers and if people don’t want to climb over them, that’s a you problem, not a them problem. | |||
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"Ok to be blunt..... you have 0.00% chance of anyone meeting you and the exact same for any similar effort profiles. " Because of the stigma around single males on fab. 5 years ago everyone talking meeting and having socials with unverified males Over the years people say this and that about males on fab and then more jump on the band wagon then a stigma is put around males so you end up with 99.9% of couples and females puting on profiles won't talk or meet unverified males Think before you talk | |||
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"Ok to be blunt..... you have 0.00% chance of anyone meeting you and the exact same for any similar effort profiles. Did you ride many profiles ?" More than you, but then again just 1 will be more than you | |||
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"Like says above females say pics others say profile others say 1st message so how do you win over people when everyone says different. So how do you win when females are saying these things and your doing it still nothing. Oh we women must get together so we can have a single opinion on what we SHOULD be looking for and not be individuals with different needs and desires so this guy is getting a unified policy on having someone get his dick wet. And while we are at it can someone kindly accommodate his area for a newbies social. Because he's entitled and well overdue someone realising how special he is even though there's only a shadow on his profile pic. Different people want different things can't satisfy everyone they why I've said about people want this and that. Plus if you look I don't want a newbie social because it's not something I would attend because I don't do crowds. Having no pic is due to not wanting to plaster my body or face all over somewhere I don't want. Just another point of people thinking I should always have a pic when I shouldn't as it's my own profile. Another barriers for newbies It isn’t a barrier for newbies because plenty of newbies are more than happy to put effort in. Like I said, you’ve put up your own barriers and if people don’t want to climb over them, that’s a you problem, not a them problem. " Then people say that's to much effort I can't be bothered with that no win situation | |||
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"Ok to be blunt..... you have 0.00% chance of anyone meeting you and the exact same for any similar effort profiles. Did you ride many profiles ? More than you, but then again just 1 will be more than you " I'd rather ride the person than a profile but what ever floats your boat. | |||
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"Ok to be blunt..... you have 0.00% chance of anyone meeting you and the exact same for any similar effort profiles. Because of the stigma around single males on fab. 5 years ago everyone talking meeting and having socials with unverified males Over the years people say this and that about males on fab and then more jump on the band wagon then a stigma is put around males so you end up with 99.9% of couples and females puting on profiles won't talk or meet unverified males Think before you talk " Oh you should have taken your own advice. We state exactely how single guys could meet us. Picked from socials we have met several times. Our rules our way or the highway. Always plenty more to pick from. | |||
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"Ok to be blunt..... you have 0.00% chance of anyone meeting you and the exact same for any similar effort profiles. Because of the stigma around single males on fab. 5 years ago everyone talking meeting and having socials with unverified males Over the years people say this and that about males on fab and then more jump on the band wagon then a stigma is put around males so you end up with 99.9% of couples and females puting on profiles won't talk or meet unverified males Think before you talk Oh you should have taken your own advice. We state exactely how single guys could meet us. Picked from socials we have met several times. Our rules our way or the highway. Always plenty more to pick from. " To state again not every male wants to attend a big social event some want a 1 on 1 meet with a female me included in I rather not go to a group social event | |||
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