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"Recently turned up to 'group fun' with couple and 4 males plus me turned out it was just me and the couple true to out word. I didnt complain with the result if im honest." If only single men realised that if you're genuinely interested in turning up and reliable then this could be the result with the amount of no shows | |||
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"Yes, these are the guys who destroyed it for the genuine guy that is willing to travel and turn up. " Read the comment just before your one and you'll see the opposite is actually the case  | |||
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"We hold free play parties and the amount of guys that message us, all over it and on the night in question, ghost us and dont turn u, its shocking. The next day they offer the most pathetic excuses. Why do you do it fellas, be honest, you hog a good place for another guy. Can imagine all the guys will answer this and go, not me, "I would turn up" 4 guys our last party, 3 the time before and 3 the time before that too. All I can say you missed out big style.." My tuppence worth ..only tell or invite those single guys YOU KNOW will turn up, don't put it " out there " & have single guys " all over it " & then don't turn up, , its absolutely both shocking & frustrating to you , just invite those you know will look forward to it & turn up , that way its a win win situation for you both, you know they will turn up & you can enjoy it more , no disappointment for you both, make your play parties more exclusive, only invite those you know will turn up & don't leave yourself open to disappointment, ye deserve better for organising parties. | |||
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"We understand the frustration. There should be a way of getting no shows blocked of this site altogether." Not possible. People with grudges against someone woild just claim a no-show to get them removed from the site | |||
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"We hold free play parties and the amount of guys that message us, all over it and on the night in question, ghost us and dont turn u, its shocking. The next day they offer the most pathetic excuses. Why do you do it fellas, be honest, you hog a good place for another guy. Can imagine all the guys will answer this and go, not me, "I would turn up" 4 guys our last party, 3 the time before and 3 the time before that too. All I can say you missed out big style.. My tuppence worth ..only tell or invite those single guys YOU KNOW will turn up, don't put it " out there " & have single guys " all over it " & then don't turn up, , its absolutely both shocking & frustrating to you , just invite those you know will look forward to it & turn up , that way its a win win situation for you both, you know they will turn up & you can enjoy it more , no disappointment for you both, make your play parties more exclusive, only invite those you know will turn up & don't leave yourself open to disappointment, ye deserve better for organising parties. " You mean only inviting the same group of men over and over and excluding new people? Like a closed clique? Imagine the criticism that would bring | |||
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"I get where your coming from maybe your asking the wrong type type of guys ive msg you guys a few times looking to attend yoyr parties and not even a reply ive attend many of parties before and plp.that has attended your parties before ive met on separate occasions so they can vouch for me if I get a invite to a party and im free ill be there 100 per cent im not one for messing plp about so all us men arnt time wasters" They ALL claim to be the right kind of guys and will make all kinds of claims to what a good fuck they are and how many parties they went to before..... and then don't turn up. | |||
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"Get them to revolute 50 before they come....then reimbursement on attendance.....lol Put their money where there mouth is." This is a good shout actually. | |||
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"We hold free play parties and the amount of guys that message us, all over it and on the night in question, ghost us and dont turn u, its shocking. The next day they offer the most pathetic excuses. Why do you do it fellas, be honest, you hog a good place for another guy. Can imagine all the guys will answer this and go, not me, "I would turn up" 4 guys our last party, 3 the time before and 3 the time before that too. All I can say you missed out big style.." This is nothing new OP. I always invite double the amount of single guys and make sure to vet them as well. I invite guys I have met socially or friends of friends. Always meet verfied guys.Then less cancellations. There are so many chancers on here these days unfortunately! These are the guys who give single guys a bad rep. There are some great single guys in the scene but unfortunately not enough
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"Get them to revolute 50 before they come....then reimbursement on attendance.....lol Put their money where there mouth is. This is a good shout actually." Then they think 50 euro is the price for a ride and who wants to be faffing about with refunds on the night .....the people organising the party have enough to be doing on the night | |||
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"We understand the frustration. There should be a way of getting no shows blocked of this site altogether." Totally agree with this… Ive had 3 cases of females not showing( yes confirmed that they were females) who then blocked me | |||
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"We hold free play parties and the amount of guys that message us, all over it and on the night in question, ghost us and dont turn u, its shocking. The next day they offer the most pathetic excuses. Why do you do it fellas, be honest, you hog a good place for another guy. Can imagine all the guys will answer this and go, not me, "I would turn up" 4 guys our last party, 3 the time before and 3 the time before that too. All I can say you missed out big style.. My tuppence worth ..only tell or invite those single guys YOU KNOW will turn up, don't put it " out there " & have single guys " all over it " & then don't turn up, , its absolutely both shocking & frustrating to you , just invite those you know will look forward to it & turn up , that way its a win win situation for you both, you know they will turn up & you can enjoy it more , no disappointment for you both, make your play parties more exclusive, only invite those you know will turn up & don't leave yourself open to disappointment, ye deserve better for organising parties. You mean only inviting the same group of men over and over and excluding new people? Like a closed clique? Imagine the criticism that would bring" Absolutely not there was nothing mentioned of inviting the " same group of men " ..my reply to the post was to only invite men that they KNOW would turn up , it did not say to exclude new people or be a closed ' clique ".. that would be narrow minded to do such a thing...inviting those that they know would turn up covers a multitude plus the fact they wouldn't be let down either , if the hosts are prepared to organise a play party then being let down by people isn't exactly right. | |||
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"We understand the frustration. There should be a way of getting no shows blocked of this site altogether. Totally agree with this… Ive had 3 cases of females not showing( yes confirmed that they were females) who then blocked me" I fully understand you, l was chatting to a lady here, told her the truth about something , blocked me ..for telling the truth..l thought unbelievable but thats this Jungle . | |||
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"We understand the frustration. There should be a way of getting no shows blocked of this site altogether. Totally agree with this… Ive had 3 cases of females not showing( yes confirmed that they were females) who then blocked me I fully understand you, l was chatting to a lady here, told her the truth about something , blocked me ..for telling the truth..l thought unbelievable but thats this Jungle ." But thats the correct use of the block button If you dont like someone for what they've said....just block...saves the explanations In your mind before you said it what did you think could be the outcome | |||
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"We understand the frustration. There should be a way of getting no shows blocked of this site altogether. Totally agree with this… Ive had 3 cases of females not showing( yes confirmed that they were females) who then blocked me I fully understand you, l was chatting to a lady here, told her the truth about something , blocked me ..for telling the truth..l thought unbelievable but thats this Jungle . But thats the correct use of the block button If you dont like someone for what they've said....just block...saves the explanations In your mind before you said it what did you think could be the outcome " Well it's like this , if a person is told the truth & thinks that way , that person isn't one you'd want to meet anyway,people may not like the truth BUT its the truth ...& with saying the truth to someone l don't think about the outcome, if they block after a truthful answer , its on them . I was just saying in my post that l was blocked because of telling the truth ...nothing more nothing less. | |||
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"We hold free play parties and the amount of guys that message us, all over it and on the night in question, ghost us and dont turn u, its shocking. The next day they offer the most pathetic excuses. Why do you do it fellas, be honest, you hog a good place for another guy. Can imagine all the guys will answer this and go, not me, "I would turn up" 4 guys our last party, 3 the time before and 3 the time before that too. All I can say you missed out big style.." We have had that with individual meets. It's very frustrating! Totally up for a party though so if we fit your requirements please consider us for a future one. | |||
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