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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi all,

i have no pic on my profile , but i do have verifications.

what do people think of:

1. some people wanting a 10 liner email for the first contact. And if they dont get it, they send rude messages and block you....

I prefer to say "hi, hows it going" first then if they interested in chatting, we can then start to get to know each other.

2. What is it about pics. most pics of genitals are roughly the same....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy doesnt have a pic there is absolutely nothing to really catch my attention. Esp with a hi how are you initial message. Ass, chest or even some nice boxers showing there is a bit of a hardon underneath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good luck trying to get a meet without a pic on profile it doesnt have to be face pic with ur name and address on it!,remember there are 100s of guys competing with u for a meet so u need to grab someones interest,as for emailing hi hows u try something a little more doesnt have to be an essay but it shows u are putting a little effort in and are more likely to be rewarded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get e-mails occasionally - one word 'hi' or whatever. Sometimes I even reply.... but not often as this means having to check out and read the profile of the sender - which is often a gimmick to get recorded profile views.

A description of who you are or what you're looking for is a bonus, not to mention polite.

My biggest turnoff is on cam or chat sites where people send the message: 'ASL?'....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you guys for your replies.

i still think pics are not necessary for people who are serious.

All my meets so far with people who had pics up were ALWAYS better in person!!

As far as the initial contact mail, one could compose a "standard" mail but i think thats a bit of a fraud too.... If someone goes to the trouble of contacting another, i think it is only polite to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

i still think pics are not necessary for people who are serious.

"

Seems a bit daft to ask the question and then disregard the replies- when a hot couple and sexy young woman ( your 'target audience' if you will) who get plenty of offers daily and have to sift through a lot of dross messages I'm sure then why oh why when they essentially tell you no pic= no chance do you think you don't need one?

I'll complete the set as a fella and also add that I've never met anyone with no pics on their profile and never would. Doesn't have to be face or cock, be creative but have something to stand out from the crowd surely?

PS- just read that back and it sounds a bit mean to the OP but it's with best intentions! I'd rather less competition so no vested interest in.helping ya really but share and share alike!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

i still think pics are not necessary for people who are serious.

Seems a bit daft to ask the question and then disregard the replies- when a hot couple and sexy young woman ( your 'target audience' if you will) who get plenty of offers daily and have to sift through a lot of dross messages I'm sure then why oh why when they essentially tell you no pic= no chance do you think you don't need one?

I'll complete the set as a fella and also add that I've never met anyone with no pics on their profile and never would. Doesn't have to be face or cock, be creative but have something to stand out from the crowd surely?

PS- just read that back and it sounds a bit mean to the OP but it's with best intentions! I'd rather less competition so no vested interest in.helping ya really but share and share alike!

"

Awww even when you are mean you are still nice and helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

i still think pics are not necessary for people who are serious.

Seems a bit daft to ask the question and then disregard the replies- when a hot couple and sexy young woman ( your 'target audience' if you will) who get plenty of offers daily and have to sift through a lot of dross messages I'm sure then why oh why when they essentially tell you no pic= no chance do you think you don't need one?

I'll complete the set as a fella and also add that I've never met anyone with no pics on their profile and never would. Doesn't have to be face or cock, be creative but have something to stand out from the crowd surely?

PS- just read that back and it sounds a bit mean to the OP but it's with best intentions! I'd rather less competition so no vested interest in.helping ya really but share and share alike!

Awww even when you are mean you

are still nice and helpful "

Shhh...don't tell everyone or you'll ruin

my reputation!

You've yet to experience me 'mean' yet Jinxy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

i still think pics are not necessary for people who are serious.

Seems a bit daft to ask the question and then disregard the replies- when a hot couple and sexy young woman ( your 'target audience' if you will) who get plenty of offers daily and have to sift through a lot of dross messages I'm sure then why oh why when they essentially tell you no pic= no chance do you think you don't need one?

I'll complete the set as a fella and also add that I've never met anyone with no pics on their profile and never would. Doesn't have to be face or cock, be creative but have something to stand out from the crowd surely?

PS- just read that back and it sounds a bit mean to the OP but it's with best intentions! I'd rather less competition so no vested interest in.helping ya really but share and share alike!

Awww even when you are mean you

are still nice and helpful

Shhh...don't tell everyone or you'll ruin

my reputation!

You've yet to experience me 'mean' yet Jinxy! "

Oooooh besitos are u looking to explore ur "mean"sadistic dominant side?? Looking forward to reading those stories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

i still think pics are not necessary for people who are serious.

Seems a bit daft to ask the question and then disregard the replies- when a hot couple and sexy young woman ( your 'target audience' if you will) who get plenty of offers daily and have to sift through a lot of dross messages I'm sure then why oh why when they essentially tell you no pic= no chance do you think you don't need one?

I'll complete the set as a fella and also add that I've never met anyone with no pics on their profile and never would. Doesn't have to be face or cock, be creative but have something to stand out from the crowd surely?

PS- just read that back and it sounds a bit mean to the OP but it's with best intentions! I'd rather less competition so no vested interest in.helping ya really but share and share alike!

"

Totally agree as to why post as a question when you really have no intention of taking responses on board

I particulary like the bit on your profile that all genuine folk chat on the phone and all time wasters don't.

Obviously I'm a time waster as I never chat on the phone untill I have met someone or have corresponded with them a good while and feel comfortable enough to give them my number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

i still think pics are not necessary for people who are serious.

Seems a bit daft to ask the question and then disregard the replies- when a hot couple and sexy young woman ( your 'target audience' if you will) who get plenty of offers daily and have to sift through a lot of dross messages I'm sure then why oh why when they essentially tell you no pic= no chance do you think you don't need one?

I'll complete the set as a fella and also add that I've never met anyone with no pics on their profile and never would. Doesn't have to be face or cock, be creative but have something to stand out from the crowd surely?

PS- just read that back and it sounds a bit mean to the OP but it's with best intentions! I'd rather less competition so no vested interest in.helping ya really but share and share alike!

Awww even when you are mean you

are still nice and helpful

Shhh...don't tell everyone or you'll ruin

my reputation!

You've yet to experience me 'mean' yet Jinxy!

Oooooh besitos are u looking to explore ur "mean"sadistic dominant side?? Looking forward to reading those stories "

Hehe

Did you read Mrs M's account of what me and Mr M did to her? That was warming up lol, enjoy switching sometimes but still prefer to be sub!

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"

i still think pics are not necessary for people who are serious.

Seems a bit daft to ask the question and then disregard the replies- when a hot couple and sexy young woman ( your 'target audience' if you will) who get plenty of offers daily and have to sift through a lot of dross messages I'm sure then why oh why when they essentially tell you no pic= no chance do you think you don't need one?

I'll complete the set as a fella and also add that I've never met anyone with no pics on their profile and never would. Doesn't have to be face or cock, be creative but have something to stand out from the crowd surely?

PS- just read that back and it sounds a bit mean to the OP but it's with best intentions! I'd rather less competition so no vested interest in.helping ya really but share and share alike!

Totally agree as to why post as a question when you really have no intention of taking responses on board

I particulary like the bit on your profile that all genuine folk chat on the phone and all time wasters don't.

Obviously I'm a time waster as I never chat on the phone untill I have met someone or have corresponded with them a good while and feel comfortable enough to give them my number"

we never ever chat on phone! and we are very genuine! a lot of people want to talk dirty on phone or cam, that is not for us, to much fannying aroung looking for cheap thrills

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"

i still think pics are not necessary for people who are serious.

Seems a bit daft to ask the question and then disregard the replies- when a hot couple and sexy young woman ( your 'target audience' if you will) who get plenty of offers daily and have to sift through a lot of dross messages I'm sure then why oh why when they essentially tell you no pic= no chance do you think you don't need one?

I'll complete the set as a fella and also add that I've never met anyone with no pics on their profile and never would. Doesn't have to be face or cock, be creative but have something to stand out from the crowd surely?

PS- just read that back and it sounds a bit mean to the OP but it's with best intentions! I'd rather less competition so no vested interest in.helping ya really but share and share alike!

Totally agree as to why post as a question when you really have no intention of taking responses on board

I particulary like the bit on your profile that all genuine folk chat on the phone and all time wasters don't.

Obviously I'm a time waster as I never chat on the phone untill I have met someone or have corresponded with them a good while and feel comfortable enough to give them my number

we never ever chat on phone! and we are very genuine! a lot of people want to talk dirty on phone or cam, that is not for us, to much fannying aroung looking for cheap thrills "
no pics no proper message directed to us, we ignor now! not wasting anymore time with people that don't read our profile and don't make any effort in message or their own profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont have pics on my profile , i do not give anyone my phone number i ignore one line messages , ive never had any issue getting meets , this site has all the tools you need to make contact , be it in the chatroom and on cam or via mail , i see no reason to be giving strangers too much info , to any who imagine im a timewaster...its their loss , folks whove been on the scene a while will know how to spot the genuine ones and sort the wheat from the chaff .

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By *ew directionsCouple
over a year ago

City

we think the key is READ the profile before you send a message . if someone has pics required or no one liners then whats the point in mailing them if you dont meet their criteria . so mr op its not all about you lol .respect what people have on their profiles and you cant go wrong. happy swinging

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