FabSwingers.com forum: Young guy

By *ayTheOns OP Man
2 weeks ago

west / midlands

Hey all I’ve been on and off on here

I’d say my initial messages are always friendly and approachable but I haven’t been getting any luck

Summer is coming up and I’m finished with college so events will be more of an option as when I’m college can’t attend due to college work etc

Or is there just a general stigma against younger guys wanting to dump and go

I’m genuinely on here for the experience and to get to know more about this whole part of life

Also verifications seem to be important but Hard to get when people don’t even engage with you if you don’t have one, so how do you get off the mark 😂

By *ilthyNightsCouple
2 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

I think it's less that people think young people will dump and go, and more that they just have a preference for people older. Many have kids that might be your age which weirds them out, or they just think you guys might not have much in common / to chat about.

By *ayTheOns OP Man
2 weeks ago

west / midlands

Totally understandable, but many people will have preferences set at 22-50 for example but will then say too young

By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
2 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

OP.. you've asked about this a number of times and have been given plenty of responses and advice by now.

Use it

By *ilthyNightsCouple
2 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"Totally understandable, but many people will have preferences set at 22-50 for example but will then say too young"

Yes and plenty have the upper age set to 99

By *eard and BoobsCouple
2 weeks ago

Portstewart

Op it could possibly be that a person/couple has kids that are around your age and while you may not be near them location wise it's possibly because they don't want to meet anyone around the age of their kids