FabSwingers.com forum: Is discretion a top priority for all?

By *ewcorkcpl23 OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Cork

Seen a few couples profile of recent on here where couple either male or female seem have no issues showing their faces on the public photos, has gotten me thinking, is discretion not a top priority for all especially in this mad world we live in. Are people nieve of other people or is it just people really really embracing this lifestyle have no issues with the world know what their at.? Just curious as to taughts.

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By *iscuits8Man
2 weeks ago

Dublin / Meath / Birmingham

There's just opposite ends of the scale really with what some individuals/couples are comfortable with having on public display.

Some will show absolutely everything with pics/videos/details, some won't show anything at all and there's varying levels of in between.

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

I've no issue with anyone who feels comfortable showing their face but I would expect those who fully embrace the world of swinging and are happy for others to know they are here would also respect that many are not comfortable doing so.

I've read a few comments over the years here where certain individuals who say they don't give a fuck if they are recognised also look down on anyone who doesn't show their face.

Each to their own and all that but being discreet doesn't just apply to the person themselves. They have to know how to show discretion when it comes to others as well.

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By *aseylee324Couple
2 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Well if you share a face pic, you have to know that it could end up anywhere. You're trusting the recipient, who essentially is a stranger until you meet them, and even then you don't know what the future brings. Its funny how some expect a face pic but are not prepared to send one themselves.

We don't share them or expect to receive them either.

That's ok.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
2 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

We don't share facepics on our profile, but I love when people do. I don't feel it's indiscreet if its done mindfully and with acceptance that they are fully open with their choices. The issue is when people aren't fully discreet with other people's privacy.

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By *aitlynTSTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Cork city outskirts

I used to have face pictures in my public gallery before I started my transition as noone would have recognised me anyway

But it's a different story now that I don't lead a double life anymore.

Most of my vanilla friends know what I'm up to in regards to swinging and kink, not a whole lot left to expose.

But I obviously would always respect the need for privacy and discretion of others

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

I have great imagination in thinking what certain profiles might look like before I ever meet them

I usually assign a celebrity face to them

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
2 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"I have great imagination in thinking what certain profiles might look like before I ever meet them

I usually assign a celebrity face to them "

Do me Bogman do me!

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By *oradMan
2 weeks ago

South Central Dublin

Far too professionally compromising for most. People are judgy if they find out.

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

"I have great imagination in thinking what certain profiles might look like before I ever meet them

I usually assign a celebrity face to them

Do me Bogman do me!

Wrote in a forum before ...Pedro Pascal

Laura is Angelina Jolie

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
2 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"I have great imagination in thinking what certain profiles might look like before I ever meet them

I usually assign a celebrity face to them

Do me Bogman do me!

Wrote in a forum before ...Pedro Pascal

Laura is Angelina Jolie "

Oh yeah I do remember this now. I bloody wish he's the best.

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
2 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

"I have great imagination in thinking what certain profiles might look like before I ever meet them

I usually assign a celebrity face to them "

Go on then... dare ya 🤣

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

"I have great imagination in thinking what certain profiles might look like before I ever meet them

I usually assign a celebrity face to them

Go on then... dare ya 🤣"

Marian Keyes

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By *iscuits8Man
2 weeks ago

Dublin / Meath / Birmingham

Ok sorry to hijack this but I want a go too

Bog... shout 🤚🗣

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
2 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

"I have great imagination in thinking what certain profiles might look like before I ever meet them

I usually assign a celebrity face to them

Go on then... dare ya 🤣

Marian Keyes

Nah!!

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

"Ok sorry to hijack this but I want a go too

Bog... shout 🤚🗣"

Always been shaggy from Scooby Doo

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By *nbeweedableWoman
2 weeks ago

Kerry

Oooh me next please!

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By *iscuits8Man
2 weeks ago

Dublin / Meath / Birmingham

"Ok sorry to hijack this but I want a go too

Bog... shout 🤚🗣

Always been shaggy from Scooby Doo"

Eh... thanks Bog. Anyways, moving on!

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By *hynot xCouple
2 weeks ago

Woop Woop

"Oooh me next please! "

Dita Von Tease 🍸

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 weeks ago

Castlebar

"I have great imagination in thinking what certain profiles might look like before I ever meet them

I usually assign a celebrity face to them "

You know you have to do a thread on this now 😁

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By *affa31Woman
2 weeks ago

Galway

"Ok sorry to hijack this but I want a go too

Bog... shout 🤚🗣

Always been shaggy from Scooby Doo

Eh... thanks Bog. Anyways, moving on!"

For some reason I thought you were blond 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *iscuits8Man
2 weeks ago

Dublin / Meath / Birmingham

"Ok sorry to hijack this but I want a go too

Bog... shout 🤚🗣

Always been shaggy from Scooby Doo

Eh... thanks Bog. Anyways, moving on!

For some reason I thought you were blond 🤷🏻‍♀️"

Good jaysus

I might do something mental and shock you next time 🧴👱‍♂️

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

"Oooh me next please! "

A very young Posh spice in my head

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By *affa31Woman
2 weeks ago

Galway

"Ok sorry to hijack this but I want a go too

Bog... shout 🤚🗣

Always been shaggy from Scooby Doo

Eh... thanks Bog. Anyways, moving on!

For some reason I thought you were blond 🤷🏻‍♀️

Good jaysus

I might do something mental and shock you next time 🧴👱‍♂️"

Doooo it. Bring back the Guinness head

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