FabSwingers.com forum: Mixed Signals

By *ornyfecker69 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Dublin

Folks, what is going on with the mixed signals in messages? I have messaged several people asking if they are interested, a few have replied back that they are, but when I follow up with another message, I never hear back from them. I don't understand.

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By *ookAndDorkCouple
2 weeks ago

The West

Easy come easy go

Our approach is that messaging is on the level of entertainment/distraction until an actual meet in person happens.

It's not nice but we would consider it totally expected that people just disappear with no explanation. It's just the nature of the Internet.

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

It means they're not really interested

Some Reply and lose interest straight away if they dont want to take it any further

Just block people that do that so you dont message them again .....saves all the hassle

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By *ornyfecker69 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Dublin

"It means they're not really interested

Some Reply and lose interest straight away if they dont want to take it any further

Just block people that do that so you dont message them again .....saves all the hassle "

Thanks, Bog

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By *ornyfecker69 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Dublin

"Easy come easy go

Our approach is that messaging is on the level of entertainment/distraction until an actual meet in person happens.

It's not nice but we would consider it totally expected that people just disappear with no explanation. It's just the nature of the Internet. "

I'm not really going to events at the moment, so messages are my only way of communication.

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By *rishbhoyMan
2 weeks ago

You are not part of the fab click. .ive met lots of nice people here i presume like yourself. But unfortunately if you are not involved in the 2 to 3 clicks here. Forget about it

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By *enerationfornicationMan
2 weeks ago

In a place not far from...

There's clicks everywhere. Don't dwell on it.

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
2 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

Don't take it personally OP, or at least try not to.

Some people are a$$holes no question but for others, me included, sometimes life gets in the way. I could be having a conversation with someone and stuff happens, and I literally just forget to go back to them. It's not (always) personal.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
2 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"You are not part of the fab click. .ive met lots of nice people here i presume like yourself. But unfortunately if you are not involved in the 2 to 3 clicks here. Forget about it

If you've met lots of nice people here then why do people not involved in the clicks need to forget about it? Confuzzed

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By *affa31Woman
2 weeks ago

Galway

People have such an over inflated sense of the power groups of friends have over a random persons sex life.

Cliques exist - they are people who know each other and are friends. It’s perfectly normal.

They’re not stopping you from getting laid or getting invited to an event.

If you haven’t been able to get a veri here then you need to look at what you’re doing and change something.

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By *otownkid1967Man
2 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Right on the button Jaffa

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