FabSwingers.com forum: Cuddles 🤗 🤗 yes or no? 🤗

By *heXxX OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Dublin

Do you enjoy cuddling, or do you prefer to keep it just physical?

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

Cuddling is part of the physical

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 weeks ago

Castlebar

Cuddles are pretty physical...

And definitely a Yes. Skin to skin contact is particularly erotic 😈

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By *inkyDragonMan
2 weeks ago

D15 / Meath border

"Do you enjoy cuddling, or do you prefer to keep it just physical?

I don’t just keep things ‘physical’, I take control of the whole moment, slow and deliberate. Pull them in close and let the tension build until they forget what they were even asking. Cuddling isn’t soft with me, it’s possessive like I’m not quite ready to let them go. They’ll feel it in the way I hold them, firm and confident like they belong right there. Once I have them like that, they won’t be thinking about preferences anymore.

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By *hantomfemmeWoman
2 weeks ago

Sligo/Galway/limerick depends on the day

Depends if its just a fuck or if there are feelings. Just a fuck I dont need to cuddle. If I like the person then ya cuddle

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By *amsevenMan
2 weeks ago

cork

Ah just bash me face with yer tits

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By *erdyGuy42Man
2 weeks ago

Ask

"Do you enjoy cuddling, or do you prefer to keep it just physical?

Yes love cuddling at anytime before during or after while being physical

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By *izzyRebelWoman
2 weeks ago

Kerry

Big fan of cuddles 😄

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By *otownkid1967Man
2 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Cuddles are good

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By *rchimedes500Man
2 weeks ago

city

It seems it's unpopular to say no to cuddles. I'm not really one for cuddles . I would have thought that was more of a tinder thing. But if youre talking pillows, then ill cuddle the hell out of that all night long

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By *oasted1sideMan
2 weeks ago

Lisburn

Not something I would like unless I had feelings for that person.

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By *indaCharmingDubMan
2 weeks ago

South Dublin

I'm a hugger, and I'm a cuddler 🤷🏻‍♂️

But also I'm a pleaser, so if she doesn't want to that's okay

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By *he DivilmentMan
2 weeks ago

gort and surrounding areas in galway city a lot

Absolutely love cuddling after one on one

Aftercare is essential and enjoyable

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By *dfabMan
2 weeks ago

Dunboyne

Yep, fan of the cuddling here

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By *enerationfornicationMan
2 weeks ago

In a place not far from...

Nothing better than a good cuddle. It's very underrated

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By *ohn8922Man
2 weeks ago

laois kildare carlow offaly

Cuddles please

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By *om TangoMan
2 weeks ago

Tedavnet Co.Monaghan

Cuddles for me please especially naked cuddles

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By *heXxX OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Dublin

You don't have to have deep feelings for someone, if you desire someone that's a feeling too... and I wouldn't have sex with someone without it or with someone I don't like, so for me sex goes together with cuddling and and kissing.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
2 weeks ago

Secret Lane

Love cuddles and hugs...😍 im all touchy feely .

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By *enitMan
2 weeks ago

Galway

Love a cuddle, before and after . . .

Naked is best

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By *ot Pins2000Woman
2 weeks ago

Belfast

Completely agree. No feelings needed - that skin on skin is a turn on

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By *apoleons_noseMan
2 weeks ago

belfast

Who’s not to like a good cuddle

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By *ublinjonnMan
2 weeks ago

dublin

God yes.....cuddles are great....and xan be very intimate

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By *apri 555Man
2 weeks ago

wexford or Dublin

Cuddles are a definite yes ,

It just adds to the overall experience 😊

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By *acilory39Man
2 weeks ago

out n about

For me it’s 100% cuddles .

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By *ereforfun2025Man
2 weeks ago

Dungarvan

Love a good spooning

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By *ensualDivaWoman
2 weeks ago

Galway, Mayo

I've never had sex with someone I didn't like and cuddling isn't essential but definitely makes it a nicer experience. Aftercare is a lovely thing 😊

I get that some people aren't really very tactile. Most seem to like it as a part of the experience. Cuddling and kissing is definitely a huge turn on for me.

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By *rchimedes500Man
2 weeks ago

city

I'm thinking we need a definition on cuddli6. I knew I'd get some pushback on this. Hugs are good. I'm always game for hugs, in fact and I don't mind saying that in really good at them too

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By *inkyDragonMan
2 weeks ago

D15 / Meath border

"I'm thinking we need a definition on cuddli6. I knew I'd get some pushback on this. Hugs are good. I'm always game for hugs, in fact and I don't mind saying that in really good at them too"

You can change your mind, of course you can, many situations dictate change but you can also push back against the crowd and say no, I don’t like ……. whatever you don’t like. You don’t need to follow the herd if you think that’s what required sometimes coz it’s not.

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By *inkyWettyDuckies69Couple
2 weeks ago

kinkyVille

ohhhh definitely cuddles always

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By *eetoycub30Man
2 weeks ago

local

Definitely enjoy a cuddle skin on skin think everyone dose

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By *rchimedes500Man
2 weeks ago

city

"I'm thinking we need a definition on cuddli6. I knew I'd get some pushback on this. Hugs are good. I'm always game for hugs, in fact and I don't mind saying that in really good at them too

Yes but there's a difference between a hug and a cuddle. We'll. I'm my mind there is anyway. Cuddling doesn't do anything for me

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By *itty14Couple
2 weeks ago

kilkenny

"It seems it's unpopular to say no to cuddles. I'm not really one for cuddles . I would have thought that was more of a tinder thing. But if youre talking pillows, then ill cuddle the hell out of that all night long

I would be the same..himself is even lucky to get a cuddle🤣

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By *rchimedes500Man
2 weeks ago

city

See it's not just me

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

"I'm thinking we need a definition on cuddli6. I knew I'd get some pushback on this. Hugs are good. I'm always game for hugs, in fact and I don't mind saying that in really good at them too

Yes but there's a difference between a hug and a cuddle. We'll. I'm my mind there is anyway. Cuddling doesn't do anything for me"

Is that when you're the big or little spoon or neither

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By *rchimedes500Man
2 weeks ago

city

Sporking is much better

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By *rystalsswingCouple
2 weeks ago

Galway /West / Dublin

I hug everyone! A hug to me, is a greeting to someone your fond of. A cuddle is different, I love cuddles

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By *rchimedes500Man
2 weeks ago

city

Wait did i say i didn't like cuddles ?

What i meant to say is that I loove cuddled

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By *rystalsswingCouple
2 weeks ago

Galway /West / Dublin

*cuddles

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By *asseurindublinMan
2 weeks ago

visiting Manchester

"Do you enjoy cuddling, or do you prefer to keep it just physical?

I love cuddling before and after!

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By *s SingletWoman
2 weeks ago

Kilkenny

Absolutely yes to cuddles

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By *lue eyesMan
2 weeks ago

cavan

Yes please i could do with some 😉

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By *ysterious milfWoman
2 weeks ago

gorey

I love love cuddles the more the better

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By *portpeopleCouple
2 weeks ago

dublin

About 20 seconds is needed for a hug to release oxytocin & endorphins. I like that when in a relationship.

If it's just a hookup, no extended cuddles. They feel smothering and too clingy! C.

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By *hreehuggerMan
2 weeks ago

galway

I'm cuddle apathetic myself but recognise others cuddle needs and do my best to respond as required. Left to my own devices I'm more likely to clean your kitchen or cut your grass after sex but I can cuddle with conviction when needed.

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By *allie99_99Man
2 weeks ago

Loughrea

Definitely a cuddler......unfortunately no cuddles yet in 2026

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By *adger BrocMan
2 weeks ago

North Cork

Always nice to have post puddle cuddles, or to spoon following a fork....

💦🫂🍴🥄

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By *ugslove46Man
2 weeks ago

Leeds

Absolutely love a cuddle! Along with a good smile, it’s can make a day even better!

I miss a good cuddle

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
2 weeks ago

Newry

Cuddles and aftercare are a hugely important part of sex for me.

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By *ork-Boy99Man
2 weeks ago

Cork

Cuddles are always great! People don’t like them??

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
2 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

I hate the term 'aftercare'.. gives me the ick.

I'm absolutely here for cuddles though.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
2 weeks ago

Portstewart

Cuddles are a must for both me and hubby

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By *ightsOutCouple
2 weeks ago

It’s a long way

Cuddles definitely, but only with each other.

Cuddles are a big no no as part of swinging, it’s literally just sex. We hadn’t taken cuddles into consideration until it happened once.

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

"Cuddles definitely, but only with each other.

Cuddles are a big no no as part of swinging, it’s literally just sex. We hadn’t taken cuddles into consideration until it happened once."

Dont forget most people on the forums have stated many times that they dont count themselves as swingers and if you read the comments then cuddles are definitely a part of meeting people and having sex.

If you don't want cuddles then as long as you agree it beforehand then thats cool

Just like some people dont kiss and only keep that for their actual partner

To me if Im lying naked on a bed one to one with another naked person then kissing while cuddling is a natural part of that

If Im naked with a couple its not.

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By *aseylee324Couple
2 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Absolutely, cuddles and holding are important to us together and with others...

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By *otel CaliforniaCouple
2 weeks ago

Dirty old town

I am not a cuddler, or a hugger 😂 it took my husband awhile to break me, so I love a cutch with him, but absolutely not with random strangers or one nighters. Cuddles is love and affection and coziness, not getting that off the internet 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *ightsOutCouple
2 weeks ago

It’s a long way

"Cuddles definitely, but only with each other.

Cuddles are a big no no as part of swinging, it’s literally just sex. We hadn’t taken cuddles into consideration until it happened once.

If you don't want cuddles then as long as you agree it beforehand then thats cool

Just like some people dont kiss and only keep that for their actual partner

To me if Im lying naked on a bed one to one with another naked person then kissing while cuddling is a natural part of that

If Im naked with a couple its not."

Apologies, I should have stated I was talking about for us, as swingers. What anybody else does swinger or not is completely their own business.

I totally agree, these things do need to be said and it’s definitely something we would be making clear from the get go.

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By *aseylee324Couple
2 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Personally not interested in "cold" sex - kissing, stroking, cuddles and spooning are an intrinsic part of sex with someone with whom I have a connection

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By *uke02Man
2 weeks ago

Waterford City

I would be into cuddling. I really like physical touch, I think it makes it all better

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By *adJennyWoman
2 weeks ago

Cougar Village

Cuddles leads to forking

So I am told

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By *ugslove46Man
2 weeks ago

Leeds

"Cuddles leads to forking

So I am told

Vicious rumour surely? lol

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By *uke02Man
2 weeks ago

Waterford City

"Cuddles leads to forking

So I am told

I wish I had someone to cuddle

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By *uicyboobiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Newtownbutler

No cuddles, no meet.

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By *amino GuyMan
2 weeks ago

West Cork / Cork City /Killarney/ Dublin

Cuddles are part of the contact so important. Someone else said skin on skin is erotic and I totally agree 😍

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By *ornyfecker69Man
2 weeks ago

Dublin

"Do you enjoy cuddling, or do you prefer to keep it just physical?

I enjoy cuddles outside of sex as well.

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By *eijaWoman
2 weeks ago

City Centre

Absolutely love hugs especially long ones..I am a hugger. A hug makes everyone feel better.

Cuddles and snuggles I also love...but not with everyone..I do enjoy them with my fwbs.

Not a fan of the word 'aftercare' either 🫣

B x

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By *ildoGaggins73Man
2 weeks ago

The Shire

"Do you enjoy cuddling, or do you prefer to keep it just physical?

I love cuddles, nothing better than wrapped up on someone's embrace.

Miss them so much

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By *easingTimMan
2 weeks ago

Loughlinstown

Cuddles, nibbles and pillow chat is my hosting rule 🍬

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By *r.CuddlesMan
2 weeks ago

Cuddleton ;-)

"Do you enjoy cuddling, or do you prefer to keep it just physical?

Ahem ahem did someone mention my name 😜

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By *ano53Man
2 weeks ago

Wicklow

Cuddles all the way

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By *essieBouyMan
2 weeks ago

Tuam

Yes, yes, yes, yes, oh gawd yes!! Cuddles all the way....its the important in-between rounds filler

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By *amedgMan
2 weeks ago

Enniskillen

I love to cuddle up naked after great sex

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By *hantomfemmeWoman
4 days ago

Sligo/Galway/limerick depends on the day

"Yes, yes, yes, yes, oh gawd yes!! Cuddles all the way....its the important in-between rounds filler"

Ooohhh am I gonna have to cuddle u to keep u happy.......

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By *eordie.Woman
4 days ago

The Sticks

"Cuddles, nibbles and pillow chat is my hosting rule 🍬"

What flavour nibbles?

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
4 days ago

kinkytown

Only with jay

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By *hivers2020Woman
4 days ago

lolli land

Cuddles with a partner - yes. Cuddles on a fab meet - absolutely not

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By *antraDublinMan
4 days ago

Bray

Yes, always cuddles

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By *rBarbourMan
4 days ago

Enniskillen

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By *asual MattMan
3 days ago

Belfast

We're pro cuddles here.

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
3 days ago

Louth

"Cuddles with a partner - yes. Cuddles on a fab meet - absolutely not "

This! For vast majority. Depends if they are staying over! Friends you play with reguarly.

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By *on Draper2.0Man
3 days ago

Maynooth

Cuddles 100%

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By *hris 1000200Man
3 days ago

kells

Naked cuddles are the best

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By *ackonceagain.Man
3 days ago

bt66

100%.

Can’t beat a cuddle in between rounds!

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By *ecentGent11Man
3 days ago

ballinderry

Absolutely cuddles are great especially with skin to skin contact

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