FabSwingers.com forum: Self reflection 🤔

By *heXxX OP Woman
3 weeks ago

Dublin

Do you think you'd like yourself if you met yourself?

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By *indaCharmingDubMan
3 weeks ago

South Dublin

Ohhhhhhhh deep topic

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

I would tolerate myself...to start with.

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By *otownkid1967Man
3 weeks ago

Portlaoise

That's a very good question.

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By *og-ManMan
3 weeks ago

somewhere

I do because Im a decent bloke who gets on with most people at this stage of my life so yes

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By *imerick ladyWoman
3 weeks ago

suburbs

Physically, no . As a person , yes I think so ☺️

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By *haggy30Man
3 weeks ago

Dublin

Id give myself a good game of Mario Karting and have the same interests (boobs) so yea I think I would xx

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By *udntulovetoknowMan
3 weeks ago

turnrightstraightahead

"Do you think you'd like yourself if you met yourself?

Yup...absolutely....isn't that the thing as regards trying to meet your soul mate ...isn't it trying to meet the person thats on the same wavelength as you ..so if you meet yourself isn't that meeting the exact person youre trying to meet ..if you catch my drift ??

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By *udntulovetoknowMan
3 weeks ago

turnrightstraightahead

"Physically, no . As a person , yes I think so ☺️"

Why not physically no ? ..🤔🤔

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
3 weeks ago

Newry

I'm fairly content with who I am and how I treat others. Sure, I have character flaws - everyone does - but yeah I think I'd like myself if I met me.

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By *earuisceMan
3 weeks ago

south sligo

I’m happy with who I am and how I get along with other people so I’d probably like to have me as a friend

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By *ex coupleCouple
3 weeks ago

wexford

"Do you think you'd like yourself if you met yourself?

Far point

Think it would be a pretty god damn epic meet

What u think ?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
3 weeks ago

Lucan

I'm pretty sure I'd want to ride the hole off me!

#sexyasfuck

#sexysilverfox

#ridemesideways

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By *heXxX OP Woman
3 weeks ago

Dublin

When it comes to character, I have no doubt that it is, but... honestly, I’ve never been entirely comfortable with my appearance. Sometimes I even think if I don't like myself why would others think differently? There have always seemed to be more important things to focus on. Right now, I simply don’t feel I have the energy to make changes, even though I know I should.

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By *aseylee324Couple
3 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

I think its very hard to put yourself outside yourself and see how others see you.

For me, What matters is how the people you love see you.

Great question

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By *lickdickMan
3 weeks ago

gilford

I have given up with caring about what ppl think about me and started just doing things for myself as ppl will always criticise you no matter what you do so 🤷

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
3 weeks ago

Lucan

"When it comes to character, I have no doubt that it is, but... honestly, I’ve never been entirely comfortable with my appearance. Sometimes I even think if I don't like myself why would others think differently? There have always seemed to be more important things to focus on. Right now, I simply don’t feel I have the energy to make changes, even though I know I should.

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I think in terms of looks and shape we are always our own worst critic, and it holds us back. It appears that people who don't worry about those things have more fun, regardless of how they might look.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
3 weeks ago

Newry

I never considered the physical side when I answered.

This is me. Take it or leave it. I've made the changes to ensure I'm healthier, happier, and more active. This is the body I'm left with - it's very far from perfect and it bears the visible scars of life and all it's ups and downs, twists and turns. I haven't always been good to it and that shows. Do I love how it looks? Not always. But it's so easy to hone in on the things we're least happy with with rather than taking a holistic view of ourselves as others see us.

If I like a person (beyond just friendship) it's because I like the bigger picture of them and the whole package is attractive to me. So I'd like to think I'd afford myself that same attitude if I met myself

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By *ealitybitesMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast

Yes I would because that's how I allow people into my circle.

Anyone I feel an affiliation with or form a connection with will more often than not display similar traits to my own.

I'm attracted to good people who are caring, compassionate and inclusive as well as being reliable and supportive so obviously I would like me if I met me.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
3 weeks ago

Lucan

"I never considered the physical side when I answered.

Great attitude. I think most people aren't looking for perfection to begin with, even though we think they are and think they won't like us because of the various imperfections on our bodies when those imperfections are just part of what makes each of us unique.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
3 weeks ago

Castlebar

"Do you think you'd like yourself if you met yourself?

Yes, for the most part. But I know there are times when I annoy myself and I definitely know i wouldn't like myself.

It's a lovely feeling when I meet someone that I click with 💯 and feel a real affinity with. When they say exactly what you are thinking.

Physically I never really thought about it because, like so many I only see the parts of me that I don't like. And really a connection with someone whether that's for friendship or more, is based on more than a physical attraction for me.

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By *affa31Woman
3 weeks ago

Galway

Would I want to fuck myself? No…I’m straight 🤷🏻‍♀️

I don’t decide whether I like someone as a whole based on their appearance so when I read the question that didn’t come into it at all for me.

I think I would like me. I’m sure I’d find myself annoying at times but I can’t think of a single person who doesn’t annoy me now and then.

I’m polite, kind, fiercely loyal and protective of my friends and family and obvs funny as fuck so I imagine me and Jaffa 2.0 would have great craic putting the world right.

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By *rchimedes500Man
3 weeks ago

city

Well....I always laugh at my own jokes so if I met myself I think we'd have a great laugh together

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By *enitMan
3 weeks ago

Galway

Making small incremental changes would be a plan, as you do them you may get more motivated to continue and the feelings around would definitely be a lift

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By *enitMan
3 weeks ago

Galway

I would like and hate things about me.

Generally I would be positive about knowing me.

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By * BlackMan
3 weeks ago

Laois/ Dublin

Yeah I'd would want to be me if I met me 💯

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By *ex coupleCouple
3 weeks ago

wexford

Of everyone was like me it would be a hornier naughtier place

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By *otownkid1967Man
3 weeks ago

Portlaoise

As a younger me, I was very driven in business/work life. More than likely did upset a good few people. Not afraid to admit I was very arrogant and pushy back then. So if I'm being honest I would have to say no.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
3 weeks ago

Lucan

I should add that my farts smell incredible so I'd surely love me for that.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
3 weeks ago

Secret Lane

I sure would...🤣 im a great craic...at times.. 🤭

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By *acDeMan
3 weeks ago

Castledermot

"Do you think you'd like yourself if you met yourself?

Some parts yes some parts no

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
3 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

I'd give me a hug and bring me for tea. Then tell me everything will be ok (except I'd only be guessing this part).

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
3 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

Then I'd go and play with Biscuits coloured balls...

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By *iscuits8Man
3 weeks ago

Dublin / Meath / Birmingham

"Then I'd go and play with Biscuits coloured balls...

Jiggle jiggle, baby

🔵🔴

🟡🟢

🟣🟠

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By *hynot xCouple
3 weeks ago

Woop Woop

Ya twisting my melon man 😵‍💫

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By *om TangoMan
3 weeks ago

Tedavnet Co.Monaghan

When it comes to my looks, likely not. As in fun, easy going, not taking myself to seriously, respectful and what you see is what you get than yes. But I’d be an annoying little cunt, kinda annoying cunt that is fun to be around.

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By *iscuits8Man
3 weeks ago

Dublin / Meath / Birmingham

I don't know really, I'd like to think I'm easy enough going and an alright laugh but I'm also probably a bit of a melt sometimes.

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By *obSexyBMan
3 weeks ago

Clare

Sure, i'd have the perfect amigo to do all the crazy things no one else wants to do at my age.

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By *om365483Man
3 weeks ago

Dungannon/Belfast/Donegal

"Physically, no . As a person , yes I think so ☺️"

Could say the same thing about myself. If it was a younger version of me think they’d probably ask where did it all go wrong.

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By *allie99_99Man
3 weeks ago

Loughrea

I think everyone would like to think they would. However if you met yourself, you would also be aware of the worst parts of yourself. Then it depends on your perspective and whether you believe the good parts of you outweigh the negative and whether on balance you're a decent sort.

I'd like to think I am.

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By *astelloWoman
3 weeks ago

Far far away

Id like to think lm good company. Tend to be able to converse on lots of things. Probably not going to be attractive to everyone but a 50% rate of mutual attraction is good. Being honest about thar is important too as well. Overall, ld like to think yep shur I'd meet her again.

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By *hreehuggerMan
3 weeks ago

galway

Definitely not, I am attracted to people who are different to me. I like the effect of two different personalities and the compromises that creates.

I'm very outgoing and think competing with myself for airtime would be too challenging 😕

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By *apoleons_noseMan
3 weeks ago

belfast

Yes and we would become best of pals

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By *elfastDMan
3 weeks ago

belfast

I’d be quietly judging the fella who was standing there looking like he was quietly judging me

I fear this may result in a standoff and we’d probably never get further than a hello

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By *dfabMan
3 weeks ago

Dunboyne

Absolutely. We'd be chatting for days

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By *amsevenMan
3 weeks ago

cork

Yep, but i like weirdos and outcasts😂.

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By *aulgreen22Man
3 weeks ago

English Riviera Torquay & Finchley

Interesting question, not to look at but hope I'm a kind person

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By *ad4444Man
3 weeks ago

Dromore

I read this and immediately went to update my profile...lol

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By *elle111Woman
3 weeks ago

I would if I took the time to get to know me but first impressions I might seem standoffish and hard work (I actually realised this at a fab event last year) but it’s quite the opposite, just lacking in confidence but hide it well. But I’m a damned good friend and fun too lol.

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By *ilkandSteel13Couple
3 weeks ago

near you

First appearance i(silk) think people find me a bit stand offfish-possibly up my own ass lol but I do have a resting bitch face. But it’s not the case at all, after years in the scene I still get very nervous -whether it’s a one to one meet or a social night. I can be quite shy, even though I might be comfortable in my surroundings I’m not always comfortable in my own skin. Once I relax I could chat to the devil but I find people can take you at first glance. Thankfully, what attracts us to people is more than the physical so no one is safe from us, we will find you and chat the ears of you. So I’m not snotty but I am a dose lol and totally own it. So deep for a Thursday afternoon x

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By *enerationfornicationMan
3 weeks ago

In a place not far from...

"Do you think you'd like yourself if you met yourself?

Some days I can barely tolerate myself.

Now that I'm older, I'm more of a take me as I am or forget about it. When you reach the point of stopping trying to please others, it possible to feel happier but there is always one asshole who will fuck it up.

The best laid plans are often at the end of a very bumpy road.

As for body, well that is lumps and bumps with the scars of a life. Some can be chosen to be forgotten while the rest awaits.

I'm not perfect but then again, no one is.

Getting to know someone for who they are matters now, while eliminating negativity and saying ta'hell with what can't be fixed

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By *ot neuteredMan
3 weeks ago

Kildare

Yes I think I would get along with my self as regards work and hobbies and socialising, thought I could see difficulty arising around housework and biscuits

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By *issKinkyMe26Woman
3 weeks ago

Ireland

Yes i do, if I don't like myself how will I like other people.

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