FabSwingers.com forum: If You Hadn't Joined The Lifestyle....

By *ady Chatterley OP Woman
5 weeks ago

Athlone

A question I've often asked myself if I hadn't signed up here would I still be on the same hamster wheel of life.

Heading to the SSE social this weekend with some of the best friends I've made on here, got me thinking

What would you be doing if you never joined fab, this weekend or any time for that matter.

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By *ea ShellsWoman
5 weeks ago

Sligo

Probably risking my reputation. locally!

In sheer frustration. Definitely would be divorced!

Sounds crazy but my husband and I are getting on so much better now I have an outlet for my desires!

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By *allie99_99Man
5 weeks ago

Loughrea

I'd echo those thoughts. I've met some lovely people. It isn't a sex fest by any means but sometimes coffee and a flirt can just make you feel attractive....sometimes that's enough

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By *adger BrocMan
5 weeks ago

North Cork

"Probably risking my reputation. locally!

In sheer frustration. Definitely would be divorced!

Sounds crazy but my husband and I are getting on so much better now I have an outlet for my desires! "

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Similar!

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
5 weeks ago

Newry

I'd probably have even more cats

Seriously though, I've met the loveliest people, made wonderful friends, been to the best events, made some awesome memories, and my life is all the richer for it

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By *og-ManMan
5 weeks ago

somewhere

I dont even want to imagine how crap my life would be if I hadnt met Tox and made such amazing friends on here

Its definitely changed me as a person ...think I was starting to suffer from depression being so alone and just working all the time so I wasn't lonely

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By *he KakapoMan
5 weeks ago

A nice rock

Id have to spout more of my shite on reddit instead of here.

Other than that nothing would be different.

Then again its not a lifestyle for me

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By *hiaZen7.5Man
5 weeks ago

Centre

Made an account, got overwhelmed, then traveling to Manchester expanded my horizons and the best night of my life was had in cupids on a Newbies night. All the guests thought I was with the host cos we clicked at the bar and my d*unk Irish self would not shut up chatting all night

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By *1oclockMan
5 weeks ago

the hills

What a fantastic reply, so honest….

I’d expect nothing less from SeaShells!

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By *eordie.Woman
5 weeks ago

The Sticks

"I'd probably have even more cats

This

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By *om365483Man
5 weeks ago

Dungannon/Belfast/Donegal

I’ve joined the site, not necessarily the lifestyle. Not exactly active. Can’t say I’m part of the lifestyle for that reason. I’d be doing the same as before either working or cleaning the house. Sad, but true.

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By *hiaZen7.5Man
5 weeks ago

Centre

"I’ve joined the site, not necessarily the lifestyle. Not exactly active. Can’t say I’m part of the lifestyle for that reason. I’d be doing the same as before either working or cleaning the house. Sad, but true.

Try fluffing out the profile bro. More info and pictures might boost your status

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By *om365483Man
5 weeks ago

Dungannon/Belfast/Donegal

Try fluffing out the profile bro. More info and pictures might boost your status

Fluffing!?

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By *hiaZen7.5Man
5 weeks ago

Centre

Try fluffing out the profile bro. More info and pictures might boost your status

Fluffing!? "

Expanding, adding more!

Sorry I should have used better language.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
5 weeks ago

kinkytown

Wouldn't have met Jay, wouldnt have our demon, probably wouldnt have done have as much as ive achieved over the last few years without his support and encouragement.

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By *rishTwirlCouple
5 weeks ago

Clare

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By *rishTwirlCouple
5 weeks ago

Clare

"A question I've often asked myself if I hadn't signed up here would I still be on the same hamster wheel of life.

Heading to the SSE social this weekend with some of the best friends I've made on here, got me thinking

What would you be doing if you never joined fab, this weekend or any time for that matter.

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By *rishTwirlCouple
5 weeks ago

Clare

Definitely agree wouldn't have made some of the closest friendships that came from here.

And the other half aswell hot very lucky to have found him.

Life would have been very quiet ..

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By *indenMan
5 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

I would probably have given some of the apps a go, but Fab has been good to me and I’ve been incredibly lucky here with the people I’ve met, have yet to meet, meet again or even just chatted with here……

Plus I’m not sure any of the apps let me post dic pics………

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By *ustlooking29.Woman
5 weeks ago

Mallow

Love this

Id be same as seashells risking my reputation locally

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By *earuisceMan
5 weeks ago

south sligo

"Love this

Id be same as seashells risking my reputation locally

Definitely this for me too. It’s been a slow process here but worth it in the end. I’d have moved abroad for work again but for fab. It’s kept me sane ( for want of a better word)

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By *ealitybitesMan
5 weeks ago

Belfast

I've never seen this as a lifestyle choice and it is very low on my list of priorities. It has never been anything more than a hobby.

I've been to a handful of socials and decided they aren't for me and haven't met anyone new since before covid for numerous reasons.

In saying that I've met some of my closest friends through fab and even though some of them left the site years ago we are still very much in touch.

Apart from that my life wouldn't be any different at all.

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By *om TangoMan
5 weeks ago

Tedavnet Co.Monaghan

I’d be 6ft under. I’d a rough few years. I needed to feel I belonged somewhere in a community of some sort. So rejoined fab as a single. Was so hard to get my first verification. Next was to get to a social event and if that didn’t work out my plan was to end my life. Thank fuck it went well. I’ve since made very good and trusted friends both male and females in the community. Some I chat to via video calls daily. This community I fit right into. I can be open with my fab friends

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
5 weeks ago

Westmeath The West.

It's so hard to know. We had a great relationship but opening ourselves up to swinging has changed everything.

We would be very open about everything now and anything and is open for discussion.

Both of us came to the conclusion that we're non-monagmous, and although we're not that active, it has been very exciting to open our relationship. Its a life changing experience really and we view life and everybody in it through a different lense now!

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By *ildAtlanticSecretCouple
5 weeks ago

around Clare, Galway, Limerick

"It's so hard to know. We had a great relationship but opening ourselves up to swinging has changed everything.

We would be very open about everything now and anything and is open for discussion.

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By *irtypair00Couple
5 weeks ago

Dublin

We are the same here , who knows where we would be .

But we have made some fantastic friends and had a ball along the way .

Si xx

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By *orth and south69Couple
5 weeks ago

clonmel

I was widowed 9 yrs ago. I came upon fab by accident 6 yrs ago. Its was the best accident to happen to me because I meet my partner and we got engaged. It was definitely the best thing I have done the lifestyle suits us both when we want it to be

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By *ustBoWoman
5 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Bar the couple of friends I have made on here life would be pretty much the same .But tben I'm not into the whole lifestyle on here. I don't have the spare time,energy or if I'm honest the interest to make the lifestyle a priority in my life. Events in my life over the last few years have made my life outside of fab my priority.

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By *scouple07Couple
5 weeks ago

louth, Ireland

Probably nothing apart from Mrs Gs not getting to explore her bi curiosity

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By *om TangoMan
5 weeks ago

Tedavnet Co.Monaghan

"I was widowed 9 yrs ago. I came upon fab by accident 6 yrs ago. Its was the best accident to happen to me because I meet my partner and we got engaged. It was definitely the best thing I have done the lifestyle suits us both when we want it to be"

And a top class couple yous are and I regard yous as good friends

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By *supermanMan
5 weeks ago

letterkenny

I don’t think my life would be at all different, as I’m finding it very difficult to meet up with anyone on this hahahah

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By *armirishMan
3 weeks ago

drogheda

Would have missed out on meeting some of the nicest straight talking people I know. Some good friends now

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