FabSwingers.com forum: Nosy bastards

By *astello OP Woman
5 weeks ago

Far far away

Anyone else find it annoying..those constant lurkers who check your profile and just be nosy...and do nothing...

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By *amsevenMan
5 weeks ago

cork

Im guilty of doing this. I'll often look at a profile more than once. Sometimes maybe profile pic has changed and I dont remember every profile name. Sometimes I just look at whoever is online. I didn't realise people would be annoyed by this. I dont message ladies on this anymore. I assumed ladies wouldn't be checking who viewed their profile as they have enough to be doing with all the messages they get.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
5 weeks ago

Newry

I rarely pay much heed to who has viewed my profile so I wouldn't notice someone repeatedly viewing it.

I guess you have three options:

1.Do nothing

2. Block them (if you're not interested and their constant viewing bothers you)

3. Reach out and message them yourself if you're interested.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
5 weeks ago

Portstewart

It could be worse just think some may be doing it in stealth mode 🤔 unfortunately there's nothing you can do unless you block them or hide your profile or give them the bird and not waste your time on them 😉

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By *antra MassageMan
5 weeks ago

a village near you.

No, I feel flattered as I presume they want to meet me.

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By *appylarry20Man
5 weeks ago

Isn't this the point of having a profile? Don't put anything on there that you wouldn't be happy having someone perve over twenty times

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By *ogladyWoman
5 weeks ago

The bog

I tought this was the point of having a profile is for people to look at..

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
5 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Not in the slightest. If there was something I didn't want people to look at then I wouldn't put it on the public profile.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
5 weeks ago

kinkytown

Not really. If it bothers you that much block them. Problem solved

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By *iscuits8Man
5 weeks ago

Dublin / Meath / Birmingham

"I rarely pay much heed to who has viewed my profile so I wouldn't notice someone repeatedly viewing it."

Phew

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By *aradeaneWoman
5 weeks ago

Enfield

It's flattery no? People clearly like looking at your profile?

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By *exyScientistsCouple
5 weeks ago

Castlebar

"Anyone else find it annoying..those constant lurkers who check your profile and just be nosy...and do nothing...

Only if they are hot 🤣

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By *rchimedes500Man
5 weeks ago

city

How very dare they. Treating the place like if it was sex site or something. Honestly.... tut tut

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By *ust_us999Couple
5 weeks ago

Somewhere

Have a few of those, I don't really care, most of them are single men. I think a lot of them are just here to look at photos

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By *og-ManMan
5 weeks ago

somewhere

I'll admit to having a ninja mode look at anyone new on the forums and sometimes just profiles who's pictures I like.

Just find it easier in Ninja mode to make it less awkward to be honest

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By *onor80Man
5 weeks ago

Waterford, Wexford, Kildare

I'm guilty of this, just can't pluck up the courage to message anyone 🙈

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By *ustBoWoman
5 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I rarely look at who looks at my profile. But no it doesn't bother me if someone looks often anyhow because well, isn't the point of having a public profile is so people can look at it ?

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By *inxySTV/TS
5 weeks ago

dublin

Not in the least, In fact I find it flattering. Slightly different in my case as people tend to snoop out of curiosity and are often too insecure to say hi.

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By *aradeaneWoman
5 weeks ago

Enfield

"I'm guilty of this, just can't pluck up the courage to message anyone 🙈"

Conor, you big ride..... fyi love the socks.

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By *aradeaneWoman
5 weeks ago

Enfield

"I rarely pay much heed to who has viewed my profile so I wouldn't notice someone repeatedly viewing it.

Phew"

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
5 weeks ago

Newry

"I rarely pay much heed to who has viewed my profile so I wouldn't notice someone repeatedly viewing it.

Phew"

You perv away on your special day 🎉😄

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By *exyScientistsCouple
5 weeks ago

Castlebar

"Anyone else find it annoying..those constant lurkers who check your profile and just be nosy...and do nothing...

Would you not just message them?

Girl power an all 💪💪

Doesn't generally work but still..

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By *nbeweedableWoman
5 weeks ago

Kerry

If it's really bothersome you could put your page on private or if you notice it's the same person viewing constantly just message them and ask what the craic is? Alternatively you can just block.

I feel called out because I viewed your profile last night when you popped up on a few threads 😂😂

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By *inkyDragonMan
5 weeks ago

D15 / Meath border

"Anyone else find it annoying..those constant lurkers who check your profile and just be nosy...and do nothing...

Imagine all those little 🥷 running along to your profile and having a gander at some lovely little toes from the Kingdom.

🥷

Little ninjas in disguise. Probably 10 🥷 looking to every 3 lurkers, 🤷 but probably.

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By *otownkid1967Man
5 weeks ago

Portlaoise

I have a big hotlist of ladies and couples and regularly look at their profiles. I don't message them as they are mostly out of my age range. As far as I'm concerned I don't see any harm in it .

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By *enitMan
5 weeks ago

Galway

"It's flattery no? People clearly like looking at your profile? "

Well, I definitely like looking at yours

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By *orn4hireMan
5 weeks ago

naas

I don't mind lurkers at all but I don't like when you try to be nice and acknowledge someone and they just ignore you

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By *affa31Woman
5 weeks ago

Galway

"I don't mind lurkers at all but I don't like when you try to be nice and acknowledge someone and they just ignore you "

This is exactly why most women are on ninja mode. Just because I look at a profile, doesn’t mean I have any interest. Sometimes I’m just a nosy git.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
5 weeks ago

Castlebar

"I don't mind lurkers at all but I don't like when you try to be nice and acknowledge someone and they just ignore you

This is exactly why most women are on ninja mode. Just because I look at a profile, doesn’t mean I have any interest. Sometimes I’m just a nosy git. "

And some of us have a bad memory so might have to check a few times... hence the trying not to look like a stalker mode

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By *orn4hireMan
5 weeks ago

naas

"I don't mind lurkers at all but I don't like when you try to be nice and acknowledge someone and they just ignore you

This is exactly why most women are on ninja mode. Just because I look at a profile, doesn’t mean I have any interest. Sometimes I’m just a nosy git. "
see at least you replied and said it, I respect that actually.... For me it's more like the repeat lurkers and you even just sent a hello I seen you checking my page so saying hi message and it's seen and ignored but yet same group lurk the next day. Even if there's no interest a bit of manners to when just reply would be nice

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By *orn4hireMan
5 weeks ago

naas

"I don't mind lurkers at all but I don't like when you try to be nice and acknowledge someone and they just ignore you

This is exactly why most women are on ninja mode. Just because I look at a profile, doesn’t mean I have any interest. Sometimes I’m just a nosy git.

And some of us have a bad memory so might have to check a few times... hence the trying not to look like a stalker mode"
I get that too and that's understandable, as for me I've been here before with a well verified account and I noticed the same peekers over and over, most I'll reply to just to say hello and get ignored.b

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
5 weeks ago

Newry

"I don't mind lurkers at all but I don't like when you try to be nice and acknowledge someone and they just ignore you

This is exactly why most women are on ninja mode. Just because I look at a profile, doesn’t mean I have any interest. Sometimes I’m just a nosy git. see at least you replied and said it, I respect that actually.... For me it's more like the repeat lurkers and you even just sent a hello I seen you checking my page so saying hi message and it's seen and ignored but yet same group lurk the next day. Even if there's no interest a bit of manners to when just reply would be nice "

Or you could then block them 🤷

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By *orn4hireMan
5 weeks ago

naas

"I don't mind lurkers at all but I don't like when you try to be nice and acknowledge someone and they just ignore you

Or you could then block them 🤷"
oh I have blocked quite a few, I'm always willing to give folk the benefit of the doubt but only for so long then of course they go in the block list

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By *uriousVoyeurMan
5 weeks ago

Northside

I've been guilty of this.. I mostly check a profile if they've commented on a thread and I like the look of their profile pic. Likewise,with Who's Near! I've the memory of a goldfish though and a lot of the time as soon as I get to their page and realise I've been there before and they're not what I'm looking for,I leave! Alternatively,if they're on my hotlist I'll look a few times and admire their pics. I've messaged quite a few and got no reply but that's just the way it is. A hot pic is still a hot pic! If it annoys anyone I'd have no issues being blocked. And if there was any interest on their part I'd be delighted with a message! One thing I'll never be accused of is being pushy though!!

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By *uriousVoyeurMan
5 weeks ago

Northside

PS. I'm also a nosey bastard

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By *orn4hireMan
5 weeks ago

naas

"I've been guilty of this.. I mostly check a profile if they've commented on a thread and I like the look of their profile pic. Likewise,with Who's Near! I've the memory of a goldfish though and a lot of the time as soon as I get to their page and realise I've been there before and they're not what I'm looking for,I leave! Alternatively,if they're on my hotlist I'll look a few times and admire their pics. I've messaged quite a few and got no reply but that's just the way it is. A hot pic is still a hot pic! If it annoys anyone I'd have no issues being blocked. And if there was any interest on their part I'd be delighted with a message! One thing I'll never be accused of is being pushy though!!

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this is something I can 100% agree with. I'm exactly the same for the most part

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By *oradMan
5 weeks ago

South Central Dublin

Oh I admire many pics/profiles here and never mail them, for varying reasons from me not matching what they want, be it age, looks or cock size (etc), marital status, genuineness, location (etc) but still enjoy admiring 'real' women (is that a bit 'readers wives'?).

I guess its a bit voyeuristic but then you see someone you think - I might be a good fit for that person and bingo.

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By *oradMan
5 weeks ago

South Central Dublin

Theres a few profile i go back to regularly because I love how the present themselves, super selfie game.

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By *inkyDragonMan
5 weeks ago

D15 / Meath border

"I don't mind lurkers at all but I don't like when you try to be nice and acknowledge someone and they just ignore you

Fuckers look at me in the street, I don’t go over and say what are ya looking at me for?

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By *eadMeisterMan
5 weeks ago

near you...

Many times something catches the eye.

Sometimes, it could be checking someone out based on a comment or something like.

Many times, we probably won't get any replies.

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By *adyKarmennTVTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Dublin

My favourite is the ones who messaged “why you not meeting”

Love a nosy person

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By *hreehuggerMan
5 weeks ago

galway

Guilty as charged. Didn't see any issue but perhaps ninja mode is a better option.

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By *rodigal funCouple
5 weeks ago

Antrim Down Derry Tyrone Armagh

"My favourite is the ones who messaged “why you not meeting”

Love a nosy person "

Or "Are you working today?"

Like never you mind what I'm doing today!!

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By *rRiosMan
5 weeks ago

dublin

Before I discovered ninja mode

I used to worry about people thinking I was a creep/stalker/pervert. Turns out I was mainly a forgetful ditzy cunt… mainly

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By *taylor122Man
5 weeks ago

dublin

I get a lot of couples who check my profile out, I’m ok with it !!

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By *aseylee324Couple
5 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Maybe they are just a shy person and haven't picked up the courage to take the next step.

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By *attooYouMan
5 weeks ago

just about northside

"I tought this was the point of having a profile is for people to look at.. "

Sensible comment

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By *itty72Man
5 weeks ago

Belfast

Dopey thread.

That's what they're for.

Some people are easily annoyed.

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By *urfdudeMan
5 weeks ago

WEXFORD

"Anyone else find it annoying..those constant lurkers who check your profile and just be nosy...and do nothing...

There are loads of reasons, the list is endless !

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By *enerationfornicationMan
5 weeks ago

In a place not far from...

"Anyone else find it annoying..those constant lurkers who check your profile and just be nosy...and do nothing...

Perhaps, they are afraid of your witty personality 😇 🔥

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By *errardNo8Man
5 weeks ago

Galway/Mayo

Well to say i get about 1 person a month looking at mine, I get excited.

And then I click to see who looked and it's a guy. Straight to disappointment

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By *adger BrocMan
5 weeks ago

North Cork

"Dopey thread.

That's what they're for.

Some people are easily annoyed. "

....

Was that the sound of the "B" button I just heard?

🤣

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By *lassy ladyWoman
5 weeks ago

tullamore

Nosy bastards 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *ressthefleshCouple
5 weeks ago

Blackpool

I'm sure plenty are looking at your profile now OP

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By *urfdudeMan
5 weeks ago

WEXFORD

"Anyone else find it annoying..those constant lurkers who check your profile and just be nosy...and do nothing...##

The use of the "B" word might be a small bit off putting too !

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By *Js-EmmaCouple
5 weeks ago

dublins fair city

"I don't mind lurkers at all but I don't like when you try to be nice and acknowledge someone and they just ignore you

This is exactly why most women are on ninja mode. Just because I look at a profile, doesn’t mean I have any interest. Sometimes I’m just a nosy git. "

I’m just like you xxx

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By *riendly_fun_guyMan
5 weeks ago

Dublin

I’d say the hit rate on your profile has taken a nice increased has it been matches with messages…. I wonder was this a Donal Trump reverse phycology test to see if we’d all look after you posted??

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By *astello OP Woman
4 weeks ago

Far far away

Just came back and thanks to everyone who added to the thread.

I guess to clarify it's the looking but not messaging.. l mean say hello

I don't bite.. unless lm hangry..

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By *amesdean2TV/TS
4 weeks ago

cork

Yes it's annoying..when you don't reply and the keep looking.. maybe the are just wanking

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By *dfabMan
4 weeks ago

Dunboyne

There are those of us who respect profiles or don't Fab everything that has a pussy also.

We may look at a profile as a result of a forum thread or hot pic but may not match what you're looking for or don't qualify for smoking or the like.

So don't take offence as there's multiple reasons

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By *inkyDragonMan
4 weeks ago

D15 / Meath border

"Yes it's annoying..when you don't reply and the keep looking.. maybe the are just wanking "

Nothing wrong with wanking

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By *arbles00Man
4 weeks ago

Athlone, Mullingar,Longford

"I'm guilty of this, just can't pluck up the courage to message anyone 🙈"

Conor, don't be a spanner. You have a massive tool so fire of those messages. There's plenty of nuts that would fit that wrench

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By *traight sligoguy67Man
4 weeks ago

sligo

Guilty of this...have a look at the profile and if they're nearby I'll drop a message, if not I wouldn't bother a gal as I presume most women are inundated with messages anyway.

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By *traight sligoguy67Man
4 weeks ago

sligo

"There are those of us who respect profiles or don't Fab everything that has a pussy also.

We may look at a profile as a result of a forum thread or hot pic but may not match what you're looking for or don't qualify for smoking or the like.

So don't take offence as there's multiple reasons

Correct.

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By *adbod2020Man
4 weeks ago

galway

"Anyone else find it annoying..those constant lurkers who check your profile and just be nosy...and do nothing...

Ok I’m guilty of this but I have to add I read bios haha. Something I regularly see people to please do. So if I read I may perv on pics but I don’t message because I already know I’m not what the person is looking for.

But if I fancy the profile in question and the pics are tempting ya maybe me poo in and out

I would like to think it’s a compliment more than seen as a fake profile or something negative. I don’t message because I respect the bio

Happy fabbing x

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By *earuisceMan
4 weeks ago

south sligo

I just fab a pic or video in appreciation when I look at a profile . Most profiles are out of my age range so leaving a message that probably wouldn’t get read anyway isnt an option .

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By *aseylee324Couple
4 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

I just assume they're having a wank

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