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Finding out as an adult is enlightening. That penny dropping moment and the next penny dropping moment and so on. Haha | |||
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"Some days I love the neuro spicy part of me, some days I beat myself up for stuff like over sharing or speaking without thinking it through. It's a tricky one. Masking is so tiring too. Then I meet another neurospicy person in life that just gets it and we both talk 100mph interrupting each other and both just in such a hurry to say what we have to say and talk without taking a breath. It can be magical and also very tiring. " | |||
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"It's a superpower 😁 " I would say it's a weapon more than a superpower 😂 | |||
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"1 x ASD + 1 x ADHD = open minded fun couple (but not everyone gets us!) lol " I often find those couples are the best, a balancing act almost. I have AuDHD which has it's challenges | |||
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"Some days I love the neuro spicy part of me, some days I beat myself up for stuff like over sharing or speaking without thinking it through. It's a tricky one. Masking is so tiring too. Then I meet another neurospicy person in life that just gets it and we both talk 100mph interrupting each other and both just in such a hurry to say what we have to say and talk without taking a breath. It can be magical and also very tiring. " Relatable! I saw this video titled "two autistic people arguing" and it's just two people sacking a shuttle cock in badminton intensely | |||
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"Neurospicy I like it.
Finding out as an adult is enlightening. That penny dropping moment and the next penny dropping moment and so on. Haha "It's a game changer, so many questions asked but many more presenting themselves simultaneously | |||
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"Diagnosed ADHD combined presentation (hyperactive and inattentive) in Jan 2023 On meds and doing better most of the time, this week not so much though due to a work issue" Work can be so debilitating and throws me off my form often | |||
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"Between us and the kids we have 3 x autism and 2 x ADHD. The baby is only just age 1 and just started hand flapping so that's probably another +1 "Building an army of neurospicy folk to over throw the neurotypicals 😎 | |||
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"Between us and the kids we have 3 x autism and 2 x ADHD. The baby is only just age 1 and just started hand flapping so that's probably another +1
Building an army of neurospicy folk to over throw the neurotypicals 😎"Seems reasonable .... 
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"How's all my neurospicy brained people today?" Very well thanks. Looking forward to the long weekend off. The head is clear and the world is rosy. | |||
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"Doesn't seem to be but we keep going " Indeed we do Anyone else tried the drummer and the great mountain podcast ? | |||
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"Doesn't seem to be but we keep going " This is good and I was a bit flippant earlier but that comes via my own bias. Everyone thinks ADHD, is someone bouncing off the walls, who can't sit still and "rambles" - it isn't always like that and there can be environmental factors which play a role. The DSM IV, reduced thr number of observations which lowered the threshold. What I say next will probably result in back lash, but feck it. In many sections of the community a form is produced just before upper secondary for "observations" to tally. I'm not down playing it or taking a swipe at someone but growing up there was always the quiet one, the emotional one, the bruiser, the good reader, the bad reader, the kid that tried and the one that didn't give a fuck who was going through thr motions to get the hell out of school as quick as possible. There was a place for everyone and people cared (depending on the individual) - this is where my bias comes in. Now we have the excuse, I can't do A, B, C, D because I have ADHD and I'm dyslexic. Well I've news, we all have some neurospicy trait. It can be hereditary/environmental (to an extent) or perhaps learned behaviours over time. It's forms part of our individuality / uniqueness - imagine it as an intersecting Venn diagram with you in the centre. Im not trying to distract from those with needs who are very viable, but suddenly it has becomes "fashionable" to have something wrong instead of, well that's just Jimmy, he's always been like that but he's a decent skin. | |||
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"Doesn't seem to be but we keep going This is good and I was a bit flippant earlier but that comes via my own bias. Everyone thinks ADHD, is someone bouncing off the walls, who can't sit still and "rambles" - it isn't always like that and there can be environmental factors which play a role. The DSM IV, reduced thr number of observations which lowered the threshold. What I say next will probably result in back lash, but feck it. In many sections of the community a form is produced just before upper secondary for "observations" to tally. I'm not down playing it or taking a swipe at someone but growing up there was always the quiet one, the emotional one, the bruiser, the good reader, the bad reader, the kid that tried and the one that didn't give a fuck who was going through thr motions to get the hell out of school as quick as possible. There was a place for everyone and people cared (depending on the individual) - this is where my bias comes in. Now we have the excuse, I can't do A, B, C, D because I have ADHD and I'm dyslexic. Well I've news, we all have some neurospicy trait. It can be hereditary/environmental (to an extent) or perhaps learned behaviours over time. It's forms part of our individuality / uniqueness - imagine it as an intersecting Venn diagram with you in the centre. Im not trying to distract from those with needs who are very viable, but suddenly it has becomes "fashionable" to have something wrong instead of, well that's just Jimmy, he's always been like that but he's a decent skin. " I'm really not sure what your point here is. Are you saying that too many people are getting diagnosed and that this is a fashion? Should these people not have access to understanding and potential treatment / assistance? These things only come after diagnosis. Just because Jimmy has always been like that doesn't mean Jimmy couldn't do better with the right assistance. This whole "we are all a little different" shite really does a disservice to people who live with real and significant difficulties that mean everyday struggles for things that others don't even have to consider. | |||
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"Doesn't seem to be but we keep going This is good and I was a bit flippant earlier but that comes via my own bias. Everyone thinks ADHD, is someone bouncing off the walls, who can't sit still and "rambles" - it isn't always like that and there can be environmental factors which play a role. The DSM IV, reduced thr number of observations which lowered the threshold. What I say next will probably result in back lash, but feck it. In many sections of the community a form is produced just before upper secondary for "observations" to tally. I'm not down playing it or taking a swipe at someone but growing up there was always the quiet one, the emotional one, the bruiser, the good reader, the bad reader, the kid that tried and the one that didn't give a fuck who was going through thr motions to get the hell out of school as quick as possible. There was a place for everyone and people cared (depending on the individual) - this is where my bias comes in. Now we have the excuse, I can't do A, B, C, D because I have ADHD and I'm dyslexic. Well I've news, we all have some neurospicy trait. It can be hereditary/environmental (to an extent) or perhaps learned behaviours over time. It's forms part of our individuality / uniqueness - imagine it as an intersecting Venn diagram with you in the centre. Im not trying to distract from those with needs who are very viable, but suddenly it has becomes "fashionable" to have something wrong instead of, well that's just Jimmy, he's always been like that but he's a decent skin. " I defo wouldnt say it's 'fashionable' there is just a lot more awareness and more people are being diagnosed these days which is great! B x | |||
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"AuDHD here, late diagnosed for both in the last 5/6 years. Explained everything about my experiences growing up, both good and bad. Sorry to bring the mood down, but there is a study that reports 9 out of 10 autistic females have experienced sexual abuse or sexual violence. I admin a group for adults on FB but im not overly active on it anymore. Im medicated for the ADHD and attending OT to try basically help me get through my days meaningfully. Im happy to speak about my experiences, and while people say its fashionable to get a diagnosis these days, or everyone wants a label, just let me tell you this. I grew up knowing that I wasnt the same as my peers. Except I didnt know why, and the labels I gave myself were far far more damaging than a diagnosis label ever was. Its like being a zebra in a field of horses. You might look much the same in terms of build etc, you might fit in with the herd, but deep down you are acutely aware that you neither belong there, nor fit in there. And that has been more detrimental to my mental health than any label" Thank you so much for sharing your experiences, it's so important to do so, hasn't brought the mood down at all. I relate to so much to it especially the zebra in a field of horses, blew my mind! | |||
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"I've dealt with autism for the best part of over 24 yrs. My daughter was diagnosed as a small child at 2. Being on the spectrum with ad, adhd,and now ocd has been thrown in the mix. I do think if most people was tested alot would show traits of being on the spectrum. Although the amount of celebrities coming out now saying they have adhd is mind blowing. " It makes sense why celebrities are neurodivergent the more I think about it | |||
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"Just been diagnosed with adhd today 47yo "Welcome to the club brother , has the diagnosis helped you? | |||
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"Ain't easy, more so online, though in real life, I just take folk as friendly then, months or even years can pass and am like "oh yeah they were being flirty not friendly" I do like me mind, so I just keep on trucking. " I know the struggle, if you like your mind that's all that matters! | |||
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"Both my adult children recently diagnosed ADD, got my GP to refer me as I noticed similar with me, waited 7.mo the from MH team to get in touch, had an intensive 1 1/2 hour phone session, and they have referred me for an assessment..... But due to age and locality I may never be seen for an assessment,. MH so underfunded and underresourced here,. Adult assessment waiting times are now unofficially 10 years. If diagnosis done privately, which is really the only option now, will have to privately fund any medication,.no shared care here. " It's an absolute tragedy, Im thinking about getting into advocacy for better supports for adults with neuro divergence | |||
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"Just been diagnosed with adhd today 47yo
Welcome to the club brother , has the diagnosis helped you?"In process of a diagnosis right now my pretest was red indicating a high likelihood of autism | |||
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" It's an absolute tragedy, Im thinking about getting into advocacy for better supports for adults with neuro divergence " I've been thinking along these lines myself. Team combined type ADHD here, diagnosed Dec 24. Defo needs to be more supports, info etc. Even with meds I had a shocking time at the start with them headaches, neck pain, crashes at 6pm etc but no real warnings. In the end I switched to the second line stimulants and was like night and day. | |||
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"Both my adult children recently diagnosed ADD, got my GP to refer me as I noticed similar with me, waited 7.mo the from MH team to get in touch, had an intensive 1 1/2 hour phone session, and they have referred me for an assessment..... But due to age and locality I may never be seen for an assessment,. MH so underfunded and underresourced here,. Adult assessment waiting times are now unofficially 10 years. If diagnosis done privately, which is really the only option now, will have to privately fund any medication,.no shared care here. It's an absolute tragedy, Im thinking about getting into advocacy for better supports for adults with neuro divergence "   | |||
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" It's an absolute tragedy, Im thinking about getting into advocacy for better supports for adults with neuro divergence I've been thinking along these lines myself. Team combined type ADHD here, diagnosed Dec 24. Defo needs to be more supports, info etc. Even with meds I had a shocking time at the start with them headaches, neck pain, crashes at 6pm etc but no real warnings. In the end I switched to the second line stimulants and was like night and day." Can i ask what the second line stimulants are? Im struggling hugely with anxiety and while a lot of that could be shit im wading through in life, im wondering if the meds arent doing what they should lately because the struggle is getting harder not easier | |||
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"AuADHD here. Late diagnosed at 52. Life changing but now finding ways to make life better with more understanding and knowledge of the condition. Titrating meds currently and having mostly good results. Just need to get the dosages ok. Anyone (blokes really) find any changes to your libido/ED etc on meds? " Yeah meds are good for the libido one of the side effects. Asked to get them changed or ask for the blue ones also. It will keep you up a while and they will luv you for it | |||
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"Hope you are all well. I'll be honest, I'm struggling really bad with ADHD paralysis. It's almost two weeks. Have even reached out to my therapist to try to book an appointment as this is a bad one. All.will be fine. It has to be. " I have been preoccupied with the fact that everything that I can see was condensed into a single point just before the big bang and the irony in our blood was the result of distant stars dying and when I tell people they think I am weird | |||
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"Hope you are all well. I'll be honest, I'm struggling really bad with ADHD paralysis. It's almost two weeks. Have even reached out to my therapist to try to book an appointment as this is a bad one. All.will be fine. It has to be. I have been preoccupied with the fact that everything that I can see was condensed into a single point just before the big bang and the irony in our blood was the result of distant stars dying and when I tell people they think I am weird " * iron nor irony. Oh well | |||
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"Just been diagnosed with adhd today 47yo
Welcome to the club brother , has the diagnosis helped you?"I already knew I got it. I had Self diagnosed a couple of years ago what I’m really interested to do is to use the medication to help me focus with work. | |||
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"I created a group called neurospiceyfab on telegram proof of diagnosis required 😂" Is that real ? | |||
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"I created a group called neurospiceyfab on telegram proof of diagnosis required 😂 Is that real ?" yes it's real I have autism I am very literal lol | |||
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"I created a group called neurospiceyfab on telegram proof of diagnosis required 😂 Is that real ? yes it's real I have autism I am very literal lol "I’m interested in joining | |||
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"Anyone else fascinated by planes and trains? "no I got the executive disfunction autism | |||
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"I created a group called neurospiceyfab on telegram proof of diagnosis required 😂" Not on telegram but enjoy your group chats. Not sure why chats from here always go to telegram when the forums are chat threads but I'm happy to be in the minority. | |||
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"I created a group called neurospiceyfab on telegram proof of diagnosis required 😂 Not on telegram but enjoy your group chats. Not sure why chats from here always go to telegram when the forums are chat threads but I'm happy to be in the minority." yeah my ADHD decided to set that up rational side has kicked in now | |||
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"It's a superpower 😁 " A phrase that many find insulting... | |||
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"It's a superpower 😁 A phrase that many find insulting..." fuckin hate that phrase, it's not a superpower it's a hinderance, try being in a social situation and wanting to be like everyone else but your not | |||
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"I'm just wondering how does one go about getting tested for it and what the possible cost could be" in the republic of Ireland you have to pay for private assessment costs are around 1300 to 2500 | |||
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"I'm just wondering how does one go about getting tested for it and what the possible cost could be in the republic of Ireland you have to pay for private assessment costs are around 1300 to 2500" About the same in the north. NHS is about 8 years to get assessed unfortunately | |||
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"I'm just wondering how does one go about getting tested for it and what the possible cost could be in the republic of Ireland you have to pay for private assessment costs are around 1300 to 2500 " I have a few questions - what is your rational for getting diagnosed condition now? Do you expect it to suddenly be the magical solution that explains the hidden unknown - it might but it may also lead to running down a labyrinth rabit hole. We all have our little quirks that make us who we are. If your going down a labyrinth, turn turn it into a maze where you can't find your way out. Feck, if I had received this label along with my other known issues, I am sure I wouldn't be where I am today or have did any of the bat shit crazy stuff I did do. I remember being told by someone a long time ago, that there is a place for everyone cycling on the road of life. Some of us get a head start. Others have the stabilisers on for longer and a lot more are given a unicycle to ride without any training. The wisest will try get an adult tricycle with a basket front and back. ... And then there are others who choose to walk at different points and far more willing to help those that need that extra push. Sadly, few will get the meaning of the above 👆 but if you have, know that you can't fix the past with a piece of paper. You can choose to help those in the present (they can accept or regret) and you move on. | |||
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" I already knew I got it. I had Self diagnosed a couple of years ago what I’m really interested to do is to use the medication to help me focus with work. " If possible try some alternatives. You may need to slow down and focus thr mind on healthy alternatives to burn off excess energy | |||
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"I'm just wondering how does one go about getting tested for it and what the possible cost could be in the republic of Ireland you have to pay for private assessment costs are around 1300 to 2500 I have a few questions - what is your rational for getting diagnosed condition now? Do you expect it to suddenly be the magical solution that explains the hidden unknown - it might but it may also lead to running down a labyrinth rabit hole. We all have our little quirks that make us who we are. If your going down a labyrinth, turn turn it into a maze where you can't find your way out. Feck, if I had received this label along with my other known issues, I am sure I wouldn't be where I am today or have did any of the bat shit crazy stuff I did do. I remember being told by someone a long time ago, that there is a place for everyone cycling on the road of life. Some of us get a head start. Others have the stabilisers on for longer and a lot more are given a unicycle to ride without any training. The wisest will try get an adult tricycle with a basket front and back. ... And then there are others who choose to walk at different points and far more willing to help those that need that extra push. Sadly, few will get the meaning of the above 👆 but if you have, know that you can't fix the past with a piece of paper. You can choose to help those in the present (they can accept or regret) and you move on. " The whole premise of this post rests on the idea that you can't fix something with a piece of paper, which , quite frankly, entirely misses the point of getting a diagnosis for many people and is in my opinion lacking in empathy. Some people need to know and they have their reason. It might be too understand the past or to plan for the future or, most importantly, it might be because they need critical medical and mental health support that is otherwise inaccessible. Either which way it's their business and we ought up have enough empathy and compassion to respect their need and choice to pursue assesment and diagnosis. | |||
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"I'm just wondering how does one go about getting tested for it and what the possible cost could be in the republic of Ireland you have to pay for private assessment costs are around 1300 to 2500 I have a few questions - what is your rational for getting diagnosed condition now? Do you expect it to suddenly be the magical solution that explains the hidden unknown - it might but it may also lead to running down a labyrinth rabit hole. We all have our little quirks that make us who we are. If your going down a labyrinth, turn turn it into a maze where you can't find your way out. Feck, if I had received this label along with my other known issues, I am sure I wouldn't be where I am today or have did any of the bat shit crazy stuff I did do. I remember being told by someone a long time ago, that there is a place for everyone cycling on the road of life. Some of us get a head start. Others have the stabilisers on for longer and a lot more are given a unicycle to ride without any training. The wisest will try get an adult tricycle with a basket front and back. ... And then there are others who choose to walk at different points and far more willing to help those that need that extra push. Sadly, few will get the meaning of the above 👆 but if you have, know that you can't fix the past with a piece of paper. You can choose to help those in the present (they can accept or regret) and you move on. The whole premise of this post rests on the idea that you can't fix something with a piece of paper, which , quite frankly, entirely misses the point of getting a diagnosis for many people and is in my opinion lacking in empathy. Some people need to know and they have their reason. It might be too understand the past or to plan for the future or, most importantly, it might be because they need critical medical and mental health support that is otherwise inaccessible. Either which way it's their business and we ought up have enough empathy and compassion to respect their need and choice to pursue assesment and diagnosis." helps me explain the past so I can move on thank you | |||
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"Unfortunately, the past cannot be undone (unless it's 1985 and you know Emmett "Doc" Brown, an eccentric scientist experimenting with time travel - but the furthest he got was 2015 and we're a decade past that now) Focus on the present in the hope of make your future more manageable " my autism will tell you the fact that Dr brown was based on Thomas Townsend brown who pioneered anti gravity research and potentially time travel in the 1950s , really interesting dude and also MJ fox was committed to family ties he had to film most of BTF at night | |||
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"Love this thread. For as long as I can remember I've not been the same as other people, I struggle to focus on work, relationships are fucking torture, some days I'm in great form and feel I can take on the world more days I feel completely stuck to the ground. I don't know whether it's autism, anxiety, adhd, depression or could even be a little touch of bi polar ! I don't know but what I do know is I need to get assessed because it's worse I'm getting everyday and struggle more and more! Is the gp the easiest place to start??" they will probably put you on anti depressants, but depression comes with autism best bet is to engage with a private psychologist yourself HSE don't handle adult autism diagnosis, but if you suspect ADHD ask for a referral to the local adult mental health clinic, good luck dude | |||
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"Unfortunately, the past cannot be undone (unless it's 1985 and you know Emmett "Doc" Brown, an eccentric scientist experimenting with time travel - but the furthest he got was 2015 and we're a decade past that now) Focus on the present in the hope of make your future more manageable " most people think the TT brown link to btf is a jump but look at emmett browns last two letters of his name TT and his surname | |||
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"Love this thread. For as long as I can remember I've not been the same as other people, I struggle to focus on work, relationships are fucking torture, some days I'm in great form and feel I can take on the world more days I feel completely stuck to the ground. I don't know whether it's autism, anxiety, adhd, depression or could even be a little touch of bi polar ! I don't know but what I do know is I need to get assessed because it's worse I'm getting everyday and struggle more and more! Is the gp the easiest place to start?? they will probably put you on anti depressants, but depression comes with autism best bet is to engage with a private psychologist yourself HSE don't handle adult autism diagnosis, but if you suspect ADHD ask for a referral to the local adult mental health clinic, good luck dude" And would local adult mental health clinic be able to diagnose autism as well if it was that? | |||
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"Love this thread. For as long as I can remember I've not been the same as other people, I struggle to focus on work, relationships are fucking torture, some days I'm in great form and feel I can take on the world more days I feel completely stuck to the ground. I don't know whether it's autism, anxiety, adhd, depression or could even be a little touch of bi polar ! I don't know but what I do know is I need to get assessed because it's worse I'm getting everyday and struggle more and more! Is the gp the easiest place to start?? they will probably put you on anti depressants, but depression comes with autism best bet is to engage with a private psychologist yourself HSE don't handle adult autism diagnosis, but if you suspect ADHD ask for a referral to the local adult mental health clinic, good luck dude And would local adult mental health clinic be able to diagnose autism as well if it was that?" no mate system is fucked she doesn't not so adult asd it's almost impossible to get a child diagnosed, but hey at least we have data centres pay 12.5 percent tax | |||
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"It's a superpower 😁 " When you finally figure out how to use it, yes. Not so much when you don't know who you are though. For those still trying to fit in... | |||
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"ADHD here, possible autism. I'm at once standoffish and an oversharer lol. " Welcome to the group | |||
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"ADHD here, possible autism. I'm at once standoffish and an oversharer lol. " literally my everyday experience | |||
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"I’ve just picked up my first prescription Concerta not too sure what to expect. I’m hoping for improved concentration and focused at work. Can anyone comment? " Has it to be taken as part lf a comprehensive treatmemt plan or just own? People react to different medications differently so it's hard to tell. Your best off chatting with your doctor and not asking randomers here. I would point out, that a lot of these medicines can lower an individual's perceived "self-worth" - in other words, be careful for potential low moods | |||
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AuDHDer here, pre diagnose in the 90s for Asperger, and fully diagnosed about 3 years ago…
Does anyone think it affects their sexuality ?  
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AuDHDer here, pre diagnose in the 90s for Asperger, and fully diagnosed about 3 years ago…
Does anyone think it affects their sexuality ?
Have a good evening "i find it definitely drives my impulse for exciting encounters! its the thrill and spontaneity of meeting. ive made the miwtake of sending too many messages to women on this site that i gwt blocked (yoube got so mant from me Lia). im lucky you havent blocked me yet.lol. ADHD definitely affects your impulse, i find ADHD definitely gives you a much higher libido and drive. embrqce it, its healthy. im very openminded and liberal. you are more inclined to act on a whim and take risks too, like outdoor car fun etc. does this make sense to anyone else here? thanks guys | |||
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AuDHDer here, pre diagnose in the 90s for Asperger, and fully diagnosed about 3 years ago…
Does anyone think it affects their sexuality ?
Have a good evening "I think it's why I'm hypersexual. Also very picky about who I sleep with. Painful combo. | |||
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"Hey everyone
AuDHDer here, pre diagnose in the 90s for Asperger, and fully diagnosed about 3 years ago…
Does anyone think it affects their sexuality ?
Have a good evening "I havent any study links to back it up, but I am nearly sure that there is a large overlap of neurodiversity and lgbtqia+ community. There is also the impulsivity that comes with the ADHD.. There is a sad study that I can find the link to that 9/10 autistic women/AFAB have experienced some form of sexual abuse or violence in their lives, compared with a smaller % of neurotypical women/AFAB. That in turn can lead to how they behave and conduct their sex lives in the future. | |||
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"ADHD here, possible autism. I'm at once standoffish and an oversharer lol. " Same | |||
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"Hey everyone
AuDHDer here, pre diagnose in the 90s for Asperger, and fully diagnosed about 3 years ago…
Does anyone think it affects their sexuality ?
Have a good evening
I think it's why I'm hypersexual. Also very picky about who I sleep with. Painful combo. "Oh poor thing But I think women are more likely to be picky than men That’s just my opinion by the way | |||
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"Hey everyone
AuDHDer here, pre diagnose in the 90s for Asperger, and fully diagnosed about 3 years ago…
Does anyone think it affects their sexuality ?
Have a good evening
i find it definitely drives my impulse for exciting encounters!
its the thrill and spontaneity of meeting.
ive made the miwtake of sending too many messages to women on this site that i gwt blocked (yoube got so mant from me Lia). im lucky you havent blocked me yet.lol.
ADHD definitely affects your impulse,
i find ADHD definitely gives you a much higher libido and drive.
embrqce it, its healthy.
im very openminded and liberal.
you are more inclined to act on a whim and take risks too, like outdoor car fun etc.
does this make sense to anyone else here?
thanks guys"As soon as I found out about my adhd diagnosis i immediately started thinking about how I should explore my bi curiosity | |||
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"Hey everyone
AuDHDer here, pre diagnose in the 90s for Asperger, and fully diagnosed about 3 years ago…
Does anyone think it affects their sexuality ?
Have a good evening "It explains my kinks for sure, pure dopamine and need of a thrill | |||
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" I havent any study links to back it up, but I am nearly sure that there is a large overlap of neurodiversity and lgbtqia+ community. There is also the impulsivity that comes with the ADHD.. There is a sad study that I can find the link to that 9/10 autistic women/AFAB have experienced some form of sexual abuse or violence in their lives, compared with a smaller % of neurotypical women/AFAB. That in turn can lead to how they behave and conduct their sex lives in the future." Didn’t know about that study, do you remember who conducted it? What reason do they give for it? | |||
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"Diagnosed with both as an adult. ADHD makes me avoidant but imaginative. Autism makes me intense and focused. I'm a fantastic shag but not so great as relationship material. "A-fucking-men! Though I'm 15 years married and to an autistic woman 😄 We have an interesting compatibility 😜 | |||
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