FabSwingers.com forum: Winks

By *aagirl OP Woman
12 weeks ago

Laois, Carlow, Kildare

Are you a fab winker

Do you check your winks or send a wink to show you're interested in someone??

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By *amino GuyMan
12 weeks ago

West Cork / Cork City /Killarney/ Dublin

Not so much on sending,but I do acknowledge any winks received. Probably easier for a guy to do so.

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By *iamo69Man
12 weeks ago

kilkenny, Waterford , Tipperary,southeast

Sometimes I acknowledge them. Depends

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By *eldducMan
12 weeks ago

Cork

"Are you a fab winker

Do you check your winks or send a wink to show you're interested in someone??"

Yes I send winks but as for receiving them it's easy to check cause I don't get any 😂

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By *r GadgetMan
12 weeks ago

centre

Usually read the profile to see if there's any point, alot don't check winks so if not then it's a message

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By *odygrapeCouple
12 weeks ago

Tipperary Limerick Galway Risa

Don't really acknowledge winks at all.

I think its a waste of time. Just message them, and not some generic copy and paste message that is sent out to 50 people but a genuine one.

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By *ace400Man
12 weeks ago

near knock

"Are you a fab winker

Do you check your winks or send a wink to show you're interested in someone??"
I check my winks and if I’m interested I would send a message

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By *ark_Chocolate91Man
12 weeks ago

galway

Winks are prefect ice breaker!

Can tell ya if someone is interested or not!

#winkontheGo

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By *ixerjohnMan
12 weeks ago

Ennis

I'll send one if I match what someone is looking for but am just outside their age range or some other requirement. Usually only get them from blank profiles who message hi or are you up for fun so don't bother replying.

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple
12 weeks ago

Cork

"Are you a fab winker

Do you check your winks or send a wink to show you're interested in someone??"

We like to send and always acknowledge winks too. We're a mannerly bunch here lol

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By *oey4somefunMan
12 weeks ago

Dublin Louth

I like to send winks to show interest and then sent a message. I have had many meets from receiving a wink that leads to messaging.

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By *ensualDivaWoman
12 weeks ago

Galway, Mayo

I do have a look 👀

Have been known to message a winker on a very rare occasion 😇

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By *ilMsStickyWoman
12 weeks ago

Galway

I do check mine. Then if their profile appeals to me i will return the wink. Rarely though do I send them, unless a profile gets me hot n bothered.

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By *rxmrsCouple
12 weeks ago

dublin westmeath Dublin all over

I never look at the winks on here

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By *rystalsswingCouple
12 weeks ago

Galway /West / Dublin

If we wink we are interested 😉

And also too lazy to message 😁

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By *ealitybitesMan
12 weeks ago

Belfast

The only time I check winks is when someone starts a thread about them. I've looked a few times and had winks that were more than 6 months old.

Haven't sent one to someone new for years.

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
12 weeks ago

belfast

I used to but lots of women say they don’t look at them, so I don’t usually bother anymore, unless it’s a forum game.

I usually do reply if someone sends me a wink but more often than not, conversations with wink-senders go nowhere.

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By *adger BrocMan
12 weeks ago

North Cork

Got a wink from a really gorgeous young lady today.

Will be smiling for a week! 😘

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By *D666KellyTV/TS
12 weeks ago

drogheda

Love giving and receiving

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By *ilMsStickyWoman
12 weeks ago

Galway

"Got a wink from a really gorgeous young lady today.

Will be smiling for a week! 😘"

Ah jaysus...who's the hottie winking at my new bestie?!

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By *ilted lightMan
12 weeks ago

Portadown

Love a good wink 😉 sending and receiving

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By *aagirl OP Woman
12 weeks ago

Laois, Carlow, Kildare

"If we wink we are interested 😉

And also too lazy to message 😁"

Hahahah this is exactly me lol

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By *ex coupleCouple
12 weeks ago

wexford

"I do have a look 👀

Have been known to message a winker on a very rare occasion 😇"

Same as that

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By *mmortalbMan
12 weeks ago

kildare

Well most give out about being messaged, and it seems the same for a wink hahaha. So I don't know. I'll use wink the odd time to show interest in a profile and not to bother them with another message to the 600 they prob have already. Some I've met use them at events to remember your profile for verification which is handy too.

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By *asty PoisionWoman
12 weeks ago

roscommon

I check mine but half the time mine don't work. It's like a lucky dip if you get one 🤣

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By *ou_knocked22Man
12 weeks ago

Dublin / Galway / Limerick

always check

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By *adger BrocMan
12 weeks ago

North Cork

"Got a wink from a really gorgeous young lady today.

Will be smiling for a week! 😘

Ah jaysus...who's the hottie winking at my new bestie?!"

.....

The hottest hottie of them all.

🔥💋🔥

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By *oung bull500Man
12 weeks ago

dublin

"Are you a fab winker

Do you check your winks or send a wink to show you're interested in someone??"

Never really wink as you can’t really get a first impression from a wink, rather send a quick message

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By *adger BrocMan
12 weeks ago

North Cork

"Got a wink from a really gorgeous young lady today.

Will be smiling for a week! 😘

Ah jaysus...who's the hottie winking at my new bestie?!"

...

😘😘😘

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By *ewcouplesdCouple
12 weeks ago

Dublin

We check them and we do wink sometimes. If we get a wink back we send a message

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By *rishCWoman
12 weeks ago

Cavan

I always check my winks..and wink back if l'm interested in a chat

I do send winks too

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
12 weeks ago

Portstewart

We do send winks if were interested in someone single or couples especially if they have strange requests if sending a message that way we tend to only get replies from people who are down to earth

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By *eldducMan
12 weeks ago

Cork

"I always check my winks..and wink back if l'm interested in a chat

I do send winks too"

That's winking done right 😉

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By *rishCWoman
12 weeks ago

Cavan

"I always check my winks..and wink back if l'm interested in a chat

I do send winks too

That's winking done right 😉"

😉

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

I think I've probably sent half a dozen winks in all the five years I've been here. I find them pointless, superfluous and rarely check my winks, if at all.

It's just a perfunctory gesture that achieves next to nothing for some people.

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By *eldducMan
12 weeks ago

Cork

"I always check my winks..and wink back if l'm interested in a chat

I do send winks too

That's winking done right 😉

😉"

You may have a new wink 😉

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By *onor80Man
12 weeks ago

Waterford, Wexford, Kildare

I'm an awful Winker altogether.

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By *oungCorkCouple2025Couple
12 weeks ago

Cork, Limerick, Waterford, Tipp

Wink and check regularly! If it’s returned well message x

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By *iablo soloWoman
12 weeks ago

ecstasy

I like winkers i do...

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By *orkguy25Man
12 weeks ago

Cork

"I like winkers i do...

Loads of Winkers around this place

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By *ednuts101Man
12 weeks ago

Finglas

They are a waste of time...mostly come from hidden profiles

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By *onderingpurposeMan
12 weeks ago

Belfast

I am a regular winker😉

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By *iablo soloWoman
12 weeks ago

ecstasy

"I am a regular winker😉"

Yes....yes u are ..I've seen that🤣

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By *onderingpurposeMan
12 weeks ago

Belfast

"I am a regular winker😉

Yes....yes u are ..I've seen that🤣"

God love you. Nobody deserves that

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By *iablo soloWoman
12 weeks ago

ecstasy

"I am a regular winker😉

Yes....yes u are ..I've seen that🤣

God love you. Nobody deserves that "

🤣🤣🤣 My eyes, my eyes!

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By *elfastDMan
12 weeks ago

belfast

When someone caches my eye I’ll send a wink

If they catch the other eye then I’ll just be the weirdo blinking at them

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By *iscuits8Man
12 weeks ago

Dublin / Meath / Birmingham

Yes I check my winks

It's very easily noticeable when the icon changes from 'No new winks' to '1 new wink' once every month or so

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By *erdyGuy42Man
12 weeks ago

Ask

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By *portpeopleCouple
12 weeks ago

dublin

Winks are handy! Similar to others, I don't use them though if a profile says they dont check them. C.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I've never sent as from what I've seen on other threads they are not valued and seemingly get ignored.

I've also not received.

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By *ORETHANUSCouple
12 weeks ago

Midlands

We wink if we like a profile and we respond to winks.

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By *he Naked TradesmanMan
12 weeks ago

allover

Oooooooh i love a wink somtimes I do it early in the morning if might have 2 before lunch and I always wink before I go asleep

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By *annyZ100Man
12 weeks ago

Sligo

I've only ever got one but that turned into a meet so I can't complain 😁

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By *oy.2022Man
12 weeks ago

Dublin

"Are you a fab winker

Do you check your winks or send a wink to show you're interested in someone??"

I check them and wink

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By *aseylee324Couple
12 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

We ignore them

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By *og-ManMan
12 weeks ago

somewhere

"We ignore them"

I've been winking to you .....I mean at you for years

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By *s LollyWoman
12 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I ignore them and just bulk delete pointless feature 🙄

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Dislike winks and random friends requests so ignore all of them. It’s written on our profile so big turn off when someone does either.

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By *aseylee324Couple
12 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

"We ignore them

I've been winking to you .....I mean at you for years

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🤪

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By *insBadMan
12 weeks ago

& around

Send and check. Love a good wink me

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By *r.AnonymousMan
12 weeks ago

Tipperary , Cork

I do send out a lot of winks 🫣🫣🫣🫣

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By *dfabMan
12 weeks ago

Dunboyne

Same. Wink quite a bit and check the rare few received

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By *amon.dMan
12 weeks ago

antrim

More of a fabber than a winker, but if I get one I checkout the profile and respond accordingly.

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By *1oclockMan
12 weeks ago

the hills

If anyone would like to check if their wink button is working I am happy to facilitate….😜

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By *b40Man
12 weeks ago

lisburn

Fabber and a winker, tho don’t receive to many

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By *apri 555Man
12 weeks ago

wexford or Dublin

Have been known to fab a picture that catches my eye ,OK I'm always fabbing 😆

But I don't really send winks although if I receive one I'll always send one back or a msg thanking the sender 😉

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By *iseekingbiCouple
12 weeks ago

N ireland and West Midlands

Wink away at us

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By *inkydadbodMan
12 weeks ago

Dublin

I like to send a wink to test wether to message or not! If I send one, I’m interested in the profile but not sure if a message is wanted.

Is that the way they were meant to be used!?

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By *razy-CplCouple
12 weeks ago

Cork

I do like to send out winks if a profile catches our attention , its a way to say hi without messaging , if we get a wink back , we would them message as we know they might then be interested

Mrs crazy

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By *aveFrankelMan
12 weeks ago

Kilkenny

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By *aveFrankelMan
12 weeks ago

Kilkenny

"I ignore them and just bulk delete pointless feature 🙄"

🤣🤣 That's Pacelli awful

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By *outhBfstMan
12 weeks ago

belfast

No one ever acknowledges my winks

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By *ustBoWoman
12 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

In the past I have met some people which started from one of us winking at each other. Now though I rarely even look at winks.

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By *igsexy1234Man
12 weeks ago

belfast

Winks are a good ice breaker but sometimes people don’t see them so every now and then you need to put your big boy/girl pants on and message some one

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By *he gentleman 1000Man
12 weeks ago

santry

"Are you a fab winker

Do you check your winks or send a wink to show you're interested in someone??"
I wink a lot lol

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By *aulgreen22Man
12 weeks ago

English Riviera Torquay & Finchley

I always wink back. Don't send many I must admit but love receiving then love sending

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By *otownkid1967Man
12 weeks ago

Portlaoise

If I get one from a lady or couple, then I will respond. But rarely send one as most people tend to ignore them.

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By *unandgamesnowiamMan
12 weeks ago

border

it used to be the case,but alas ,seems not a lot bother these days

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By *oradMan
12 weeks ago

South Central Dublin

"Are you a fab winker

Do you check your winks or send a wink to show you're interested in someone??"

I do sometimes when fishing, but if its someone I think I might properly appeal to I'll spend time ona proper message and pray it doesnt get lost in the swarm. I always resond when i receive them.

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By *ealitybitesMan
12 weeks ago

Belfast

There used to be a wink etiquette where if someone winked back that was an invitation for the original winker to get in touch if filters allowed.

Over the years though I've noticed a lot of women are happy to wink but expect me to carry the conversation after that which doesn't really work for me so I don't bother with them anymore.

My fab bestie winked me initially so they aren't all bad

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

"There used to be a wink etiquette where if someone winked back that was an invitation for the original winker to get in touch if filters allowed.

Over the years though I've noticed a lot of women are happy to wink but expect me to carry the conversation after that which doesn't really work for me so I don't bother with them anymore.

My fab bestie winked me initially so they aren't all bad

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I've also experienced similar situations in the past: winks sent by women whose profiles clearly mandate something resembling "wishing to chat extensively before meeting!!" and yet they invest zero effort and energy. The irony.

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By *axyzWoman
12 weeks ago

Dublin

I rarely check this part, I prefer to send a text if I'm really interested - save time in my opinion 😜

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
12 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

I don't bother with them anymore

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By *rchimedes500Man
12 weeks ago

city

Only guys know what is like to get a wink. It's the little things in life you see.

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By *dol1Man
12 weeks ago

Gorey

"Only guys know what is like to get a wink. It's the little things in life you see.

You’re right it is the little things that make a difference. I love receiving winks and I will always return them, it’s a small way to show some appreciation or a liking for a profile

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By *eijaWoman
12 weeks ago

City Centre

I check my winks and if I wink back I'm interested to chat.

On the rare occasion if someone really catches my attention I wink first

B x

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
12 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

"Only guys know what is like to get a wink. It's the little things in life you see.

Ehh, women get them too...

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By *issKinkyMe26Woman
12 weeks ago

Ireland

It's rarely i send them myself, I do pay attention to some I receive and will reciprocate if I am interested.

Otherwise I just delete the same as the friend requests when I have met.

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By *omanic400Man
12 weeks ago

Cork

I'd be a winker myself... fellas do appreciate and old wink now and then from the ladies 🙂

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By *n RiochtMan
12 weeks ago

SVI

Think my winking machine is out of order

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