FabSwingers.com forum: Is it rude not t answer mail

By *ornywife20 OP Couple
12 weeks ago

North Cork

I am not talking about the females and couples who get inundated with single guys

But the mail we get every couple of days now and then the people on our friends list or maybe for the hotter younger couples every day .

Is not replying a way of unfriending people you only met once or never met.

Is it ok to leave a friends mail unread.

When is it not offensive to unfriend someone

Probably to many questions in one post

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By *exyScientistsCouple
12 weeks ago

Castlebar

We only friend people we've met, and if we haven't spoken or met in a long time I'd probably unfriend them...

But I'd always reply to them.

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By *apri 555Man
12 weeks ago

wexford or Dublin

This is just my opinion but no it's not rude.

If it doesn't suit you to reply to a message, for what ever reason, don't reply. We are all suppose to be adults here.

If I don't get a reply from someone I messaged that's fine and I take no offence to that.we all have real lives outside fab and you never know what someone is dealing with.

Again this is just my take on it.

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By *aseylee324Couple
12 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Don't friend people too easily then replying to them isn't going to take up much time.

If there's no effort at communication then why would you not unfriend someone

It's not rude to not reply, unless the person is a real "friend"

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By *og-ManMan
12 weeks ago

somewhere

I've been unfriended by people that friended me when I first started on fab

I've since met them at various socials and dont take offence whatsoever

Its just house keeping on their behalf

Some people only friend people they'd like to have sex with

Some people friend people that they meet at various socials and chat to in groups off site

All good although I do miss the sexy photos

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By *astelloWoman
12 weeks ago

Far far away

I don't accept friend requests unless there is some reason to.

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By *earuisceMan
12 weeks ago

south sligo

I don’t have a long list of friends. I just unfriend anyone that just send invites to see “ friends only” photos and don’t communicate. I do reply to all messages though. It’s different for the ladies on here who get bombarded with messages I’d imagine.

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By *eturning MGMan
12 weeks ago

Mayo, Roscommon, Galway, Leitrim, Sligo....West Of Ireland

"I am not talking about the females and couples who get inundated with single guys

But the mail we get every couple of days now and then the people on our friends list or maybe for the hotter younger couples every day .

Is not replying a way of unfriending people you only met once or never met.

Is it ok to leave a friends mail unread.

When is it not offensive to unfriend someone

Probably to many questions in one post

Sher i cant even message ye to get no reply🤣🤣🤣

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By *unandgamesnowiamMan
12 weeks ago

border

YES!!!!unless you are getting dozens every day 🤔

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By * and T 6969Couple
12 weeks ago

Cavan town

We dont answer people who don't read our profile to start with. Straight delete

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By *ACOLCouple
12 weeks ago

Cork

"We only friend people we've met, and if we haven't spoken or met in a long time I'd probably unfriend them...

But I'd always reply to them. "

Quick check up to see if we have been unfriended 🤣

Lina.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
12 weeks ago

Castlebar

"We only friend people we've met, and if we haven't spoken or met in a long time I'd probably unfriend them...

But I'd always reply to them.

Quick check up to see if we have been unfriended 🤣

Lina."

Never 😘😘

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By *issKinkyMe26Woman
12 weeks ago

Ireland

I don't really friend many unless i have met in person a few times. Especially most guys as all the want is to see pics or videos. If I become real friends then I prefer to friend then.

Also, I have it all on my bio aswell so I just tell people to go read rather then repeatedly explaining myself.

Then there's the other side of it when all some want to do it chat all day none stop. It upsets my serving time lol.

I try not to ignore and just be as polite as possible in saying "not interested" which unfortunately most of the time is totally ignored.

In that case I am just blocking.

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
12 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

"We dont answer people who don't read our profile to start with. Straight delete "

And there are way, way too many of those 🙄🫤

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By *oolqueWoman
12 weeks ago

all over

Yeah it would be great to reply but sometimes it’s not worth it with the rudeness of some people so I put it in my bio and I’ve put it in my status sometimes but it still doesn’t stop some people so yeah it’s the block button after that 💋

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By *rchimedes500Man
12 weeks ago

city

I wouldn't get too involved in the politics of it. Friend requests get flung about very easily in here and you have to ask yourself the question, what does it actually mean to be a "friend" on fab (someone that you want to have reg interactions with)compared to an acquaintance (someone you've friended because you were in a group with because of an upcoming social. At the end of the day you can only spread yourself so far. You'll reply to friends where as you might not be so eager to reply to acquaintance. I think that's fair enough

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