FabSwingers.com forum: Young Men

By *ayTheOns OP Man
13 weeks ago

west / midlands

Hey guys hope your all well, this is my second time on here, it’s like an addiction I just had to come back, for why reason? The hope 😂😂

I’ve came on here twice now on search of a couple or a more mature lady to play with. I’d say I’m an attractive guy, fit and average downstairs and most importantly I’m polite and easy going.

So I’ve been just questioning what I’m doing wrong?

Are the ladies and couples on here not interested in younger men or what is it

I can’t lie I did think I’d come on here and be flooded as I thought more mature women would be all over a young fit guy but clearly not 😂

Anyways venting over, any help would be appreciated

Happy weekend and fabbing to everyone !!!

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By *affa31Woman
13 weeks ago

Galway

Not to dash your hopes and dreams but young fit guys are 10 a penny on here.

You’ll also find that the average age means that you’re a similar age to people’s kids and that puts people off.

You may have more luck in person than by sending messages, mostly because age becomes less of a conversation in person once you don’t act immature.

If you really want to give it a go, try get to some socials.

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By *affa31Woman
13 weeks ago

Galway

On review, your pics look like screenshots which isn’t going to give people any confidence that they actually belong to you.

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By *adger BrocMan
13 weeks ago

North Cork

Be patient OP.

Believe me by the time you hit your 70's the ladies will be forming a queue...

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By *ookAndDorkCouple
13 weeks ago

The West

We found you to be very polite when you approached us.

More is more on fab. More effort more better.

Just one quick example would be that after hearing from you and reading your profile we were none the wiser on any single detail beyond your gender and and age.

Loving sex is the baseline on here.

Good luck!

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By *s LollyWoman
13 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I enjoy the company of younger lads unfortunately at 22 your my kids age and that might be the same for most on here just my opinion 😁

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By *ayTheOns OP Man
13 weeks ago

west / midlands

Appreciate the good feedback 😂😂

In all seriousness thanks the more help the more I can improve

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By *ayTheOns OP Man
13 weeks ago

west / midlands

100% my pics😂😂 body pic has a slight bit of editing too remove a tattoo just trying to stay discreet on here don’t want to be identified

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By *ayTheOns OP Man
13 weeks ago

west / midlands

I know there’s lots of young guys on here but most of them don’t have any meets and the few that do have very little

Yeah I’ve thought of events I’m always just busy with work and college so hard to squeeze it in

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By *ayTheOns OP Man
13 weeks ago

west / midlands

I also feel like this website is very verification orientated of that makes any sense 😂 like the more verifications you had the more meets you’ll get, which is understandable as people can see that other people got along with you had fun etc but it’s hard to get off the mark and even get that first verification 😂

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By *s LollyWoman
13 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Appreciate the good feedback 😂😂

In all seriousness thanks the more help the more I can improve "

Use the reply and quote button below so people know who your replying to

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By *aagirlWoman
13 weeks ago

Laois, Carlow, Kildare

"I also feel like this website is very verification orientated of that makes any sense 😂 like the more verifications you had the more meets you’ll get, which is understandable as people can see that other people got along with you had fun etc but it’s hard to get off the mark and even get that first verification 😂"

All people have to go through the same challenge of getting verified regardless of age or gender thanks to all the fake pages people dont have much trust in unverified guys

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By *ayTheOns OP Man
13 weeks ago

west / midlands

"Appreciate the good feedback 😂😂

In all seriousness thanks the more help the more I can improve

Use the reply and quote button below so people know who your replying to "

I’m learning lots here thanks again 😂😂

Still not sure if this is right

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By *otownkid1967Man
13 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Get yourself along to a few socials to get verified and known to people. Best of luck OP.

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By *ayTheOns OP Man
13 weeks ago

west / midlands

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By *ayTheOns OP Man
13 weeks ago

west / midlands

All people have to go through the same challenge of getting verified regardless of age or gender thanks to all the fake pages people dont have much trust in unverified guys"

Yeah that’s totally understandable, I’ve came across a few too many myself aswell just a bit frustrating when you know your genuine yourself but hey look I’ll just persevere ✊

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
13 weeks ago

Newry

The number of people looking to meet someone as young as you will be limited, and I think you already can see your expectations were somewhat off the mark.

Given that, is your profile going to pique the interest of those who view it?

Relying solely on messaging people here is likely to be less fruitful than getting out and meeting people in person. We all lead busy lives. If you're too busy all the time to get to a social how are you going to manage to make time for one-on-one meets?

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By *urfdudeMan
13 weeks ago

WEXFORD

You are only here 5 weeks , it doesnt happen overnight

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By *ayTheOns OP Man
13 weeks ago

west / midlands

"The number of people looking to meet someone as young as you will be limited, and I think you already can see your expectations were somewhat off the mark.

Given that, is your profile going to pique the interest of those who view it?

Yeah I know meets and parties are the way to go just logistically for myself not ideal I’m not in the most populated part of the country 😂 so not much going on meaning I’ve to travel stay overnight etc

I totally understand where your coming from great to hear different opinions

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By *ayTheOns OP Man
13 weeks ago

west / midlands

A lot of socials are also heavily reliant on verification too did anybody know any socials who are open to young single guys without verification ?

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
13 weeks ago

Newry

"A lot of socials are also heavily reliant on verification too did anybody know any socials who are open to young single guys without verification ?"

There are lots these days - I was at one in the Midlands recently. Have you checked out the events thread?

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
13 weeks ago

Newry

Just to add to my reply above, I drove a five hour round trip to go to that social - and I'm already verified.

My point is, you can keep putting obstacles in the way or you can go the extra mile.

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