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By *armirish OP   Man
13 weeks ago

drogheda

Apparently I cannot use the real word for them as its banned in messages and treads. Am I the only one sick of false members on site looking for payment for meeting, you know who i mean. For me this is a chosen way of life. To experience fantasy and mutual kinky fun with like minded people. Like its difficult enough for guys here to connect with female or cpls. But so annoying ant the end of a few exchanged messages to find out you have been messaging an person not into this lifestyle but using this for different intentions and it's going to cost € for a meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Report any such users to admin as it's against site policy.

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By *mmortalbMan
13 weeks ago

kildare

Yeah I've got it it's annoying. Same as subribe to my of, or buy from my throne account to show your worth the time or something shit. Mor eon f e t but still. Everyone looking for an easy pay day.

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By *armirish OP   Man
13 weeks ago

drogheda


"Report any such users to admin as it's against site policy. "
I did that, no action taken still here on site.

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By *og-ManMan
13 weeks ago

somewhere


"Report any such users to admin as it's against site policy. I did that, no action taken still here on site. "

Just block and move on

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By *urfdudeMan
13 weeks ago

WEXFORD

I dont charge !

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By *leasurer77Man
13 weeks ago

Athlone

They get removed and return. Just watch out for the multiple frequent returners...

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By *ealitybitesMan
13 weeks ago

Belfast

Are these people you are contacting or are they making first contact?

It's irrelevant where a payment request is concerned because it's not allowed but if they are profiles that you are getting in touch with and this is happening regularly then you should consider changing your approach.

I'm here 10 years and never been asked once for money or favours so to answer your question, no I'm not sick of it because it's never happened.

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By *hilaboutMan
13 weeks ago

kilkenny


"Are these people you are contacting or are they making first contact?

It's irrelevant where a payment request is concerned because it's not allowed but if they are profiles that you are getting in touch with and this is happening regularly then you should consider changing your approach.

I'm here 10 years and never been asked once for money or favours so to answer your question, no I'm not sick of it because it's never happened.

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same here

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
13 weeks ago

kinkytown

Just report them and block. No point getting worked up over it.

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By *unandgamesnowiamMan
12 weeks ago

border


"Report any such users to admin as it's against site policy. "
all they do is reinvent themselves with another profile!!!!

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By *onny1969Man
12 weeks ago

local

That’s the problem, you message , chat and then it’s the love to meet but it’s x amount . The annoying part is most have verification which has made me wonder.

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By *insBadMan
12 weeks ago

& around


"Apparently I cannot use the real word for them as its banned in messages and treads. Am I the only one sick of false members on site looking for payment for meeting, you know who i mean. For me this is a chosen way of life. To experience fantasy and mutual kinky fun with like minded people. Like its difficult enough for guys here to connect with female or cpls. But so annoying ant the end of a few exchanged messages to find out you have been messaging an person not into this lifestyle but using this for different intentions and it's going to cost € for a meeting.

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Jog them on and block, more than likely they're probably not even women or couples, just some wired little loser wanking off to a dream of something they're too scared to pursue

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

As someone that has a OF I keep here and there completely separate, I love them both but I don’t mix them haha. I have had lots of men message me and offer money for a meet. Half the time I ignore them or I start asking stupid questions haha

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By *ot neuteredMan
12 weeks ago

Kildare

Only once was I asked for money, I thought the lady was very naive, on the second or third message she sent me a face pic, her address and a price list, I thought she was putting herself at risk and told her so.

Occasionally I see people looking for drugs or money on there status, be a messy situation to get involved with I reckon

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By *tingray271Man
12 weeks ago

Donegal/Sligo


"Apparently I cannot use the real word for them as its banned in messages and treads. Am I the only one sick of false members on site looking for payment for meeting, you know who i mean. For me this is a chosen way of life. To experience fantasy and mutual kinky fun with like minded people. Like its difficult enough for guys here to connect with female or cpls. But so annoying ant the end of a few exchanged messages to find out you have been messaging an person not into this lifestyle but using this for different intentions and it's going to cost € for a meeting.

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By *tingray271Man
12 weeks ago

Donegal/Sligo

I agree with you 100% I have come across a few of those people.

It is very down grading and annoying to be honest. If those persons are not abiding by fabs rules they should be band.

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By *er4funMan
12 weeks ago

Limerick

I to have received a few of those money requests on here from time to time , but then again on reflection was it just admin looking for site support

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
12 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Report any such users to admin as it's against site policy. I did that, no action taken still here on site. "

Admin always take action, either a warning or a temporary or permanent suspension

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
12 weeks ago

East Sussex

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

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Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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