FabSwingers.com forum: Loneliness ain't all its cracked up to be

By *onnagiveitago OP Man
15 weeks ago

nowhereland

I have tried to speak with ladies on here but I just don't seem to be anyone's cup of tea unfortunately

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By *om TangoMan
15 weeks ago

Tedavnet Co.Monaghan

Your profile is bad lad. And to be honest regardless of how good your profile is you won’t get much messages back from the lady’s. They get lots of messages. Try improving your profile and getting to a few socials and meet people face to face. Unfortunately men join this site and think it’s dail a ride. Get yourself involved the the community by going to socials. It’s hard for us single fellas unless you put yourself out there.

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By *enerationfornicationMan
15 weeks ago

In a place not far from...

Don't let it get you down. The reality is, there are more males than females here.

Ladies, get tons of messages and it more about thinking, how much am I being annoying. Some might like your persistence others will go instant block.

As the Op has suggested, try a few socials (personally, I avoid due to other reasons) or a meet for a brew.

If you are expecting this place to be somewhere to live out your fantasies, then that knuckle dragging thought needs to change

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By *onnagiveitago OP Man
15 weeks ago

nowhereland

Thank you for the advice guys I will be taking it onboard now 👍

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By *onnagiveitago OP Man
15 weeks ago

nowhereland

Which way should I alter the profile?

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By *om TangoMan
15 weeks ago

Tedavnet Co.Monaghan

"Which way should I alter the profile?"

Get more pictures up. Fill in that bio. look at your profile like your cv and your going for a job interview. Lad please do not think for a moment good photos and bio will get you a ride. Hopefully will get you a coffee meeting. Learn to understand the lifestyle by listening to podcasts. I get it, some use the site for sex only. Others use it for building up connections and friendship. Work out which one your after. But believe me it’s away easier to get play if you put yourself out there. Most socials has a telegram group where you can chat about every day stuff.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
15 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"Which way should I alter the profile?"

Look at the successful well verified male profiles and see what works for them

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
15 weeks ago

Newry

Truthfully, as a solution to loneliness, Fab is probably not the answer - certainly if you're going to stick to just messaging people. Get out and about IRL. Join some groups doing the things you love or want to try. Meet people face to face that you already know you have something in common with.

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By *otownkid1967Man
15 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Irrespective of your profile, age is also a big issue. Once you are over 50, it becomes a lot harder to get meets. Try and get to a few newbie socials, it may help.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
15 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"Truthfully, as a solution to loneliness, Fab is probably not the answer - certainly if you're going to stick to just messaging people. Get out and about IRL. Join some groups doing the things you love or want to try. Meet people face to face that you already know you have something in common with.

This. Also, even if you were crazy in demand (if you were a hot single girl) you would be getting lots and lots of bad offers from lots of people you didn't fancy, who were then rude to you if you didn't answer in time or didn't immediately drop your knickers.

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By *mmortalbMan
15 weeks ago

kildare

"I have tried to speak with ladies on here but I just don't seem to be anyone's cup of tea unfortunately "

Suffer bad with the lonelyness myself man, I don't even bother trying to message most on here. Even dating apps suck. Your best bet is to get out to one of the socials. You get a buzz out of getting out, have a laugh, drink, and chat. I've met some awesome people from getting to events. There are plenty that pop up that are welcoming of unverified as well. You'll surprise yourself. I thought the site was pretty stand offish as well, and thought maybe there was a click or stuckupness. But it's not the case. A good amount of people will happily chat to you, drink and have a laugh with you at events. You have to remember that on here people get every sort of message and dick pic and get fed up themselves, so prob largely ignore most messages. Seriously, get out to an event you won't regret it. And sure if you do, you'll know it's not for you fairly quickly.

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By *onnagiveitago OP Man
14 weeks ago

nowhereland

Thank you all for your advice and help it really is appreciated 👍👍🙏

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
14 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"Thank you all for your advice and help it really is appreciated 👍👍🙏"

Fingers crossed you will take action on some of the great advice you've been given and have some success here

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By *eturning MGMan
14 weeks ago

Mayo, Roscommon, Galway, Leitrim, Sligo....West Of Ireland

Best of luck lad. Fab can be a tough place so dont let it get you down. As others have said work on the profile. The socials appear to work and get you into the circle. But women on here get a crazy amount of messages so impossible to chat everyone. Be sure to get out in the real world as doom scrooling isnt healthy.

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