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By *iki777 OP   Man
19 weeks ago

Dublin Sligo Galway Donegal

Im genuinely curious why is it so hard to try and get a meet. Ive been on here for around a year and I've been really looking forward to meeting new people.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"Im genuinely curious why is it so hard to try and get a meet. Ive been on here for around a year and I've been really looking forward to meeting new people."

Have you not try to attend any Fab socials happening near you?

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
19 weeks ago

Newry

Asked and answered on a previous thread

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
19 weeks ago

kinkytown

Probably doesn't help your profile picture is all over the Internet OP

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By *rishcouple12Couple
19 weeks ago

Cork County


"Probably doesn't help your profile picture is all over the Internet OP"

Just means he is a super popular guy outside of fab

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By *it to be tiedMan
19 weeks ago

North County


"Probably doesn't help your profile picture is all over the Internet OP"

Lol

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
19 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

What in-person get togethers have you attended?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
19 weeks ago

East / North, Cork


"Probably doesn't help your profile picture is all over the Internet OP"

Mwahhahahaha.Good spot

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
19 weeks ago

Newry


"Probably doesn't help your profile picture is all over the Internet OP"

But but but she's his FWB

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
19 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Miki777 i found a bunch of other pics of your fwb on the internet too. Id be having words with her if I were you as she seems to have been sharing pics of you two all over

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By *rishcouple12Couple
19 weeks ago

Cork County

Miki777 current changing his name to 'user no longer on site'

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By *ust_us999Couple
19 weeks ago

Somewhere


"Im genuinely curious why is it so hard to try and get a meet. Ive been on here for around a year and I've been really looking forward to meeting new people."

Go to socials, everyone asking your question (or variation on) will bet the same answer. It's easier planning face to face, and you'll get a few verifications.

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By *hantomfemmeWoman
19 weeks ago

Sligo/Galway/limerick depends on the day

Sligo unverified meet coming up. Go along get verified and meet like minded ppl

Ya never know what will happen

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
19 weeks ago

Westmeath The West.

Straight up, anybody using fake pics is an instant block from us, couples, males or females!

To then claim it's an FWB and she knows you're using them! 🙄

If I was you, I'd delete and start again and try be honest about what your doing!

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By *otownkid1967Man
19 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Some people never learn.

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By *iki777 OP   Man
19 weeks ago

Dublin Sligo Galway Donegal


"Sligo unverified meet coming up. Go along get verified and meet like minded ppl

Ya never know what will happen"

Id love to attend and to everyone who's saying my pictures are all over the Internet, they are mine and i am a photographer, not a sex one but for some reason that picture has been shared around I've been on fet so that picture is a couple years old

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
19 weeks ago

Newry


"Sligo unverified meet coming up. Go along get verified and meet like minded ppl

Ya never know what will happen

Id love to attend and to everyone who's saying my pictures are all over the Internet, they are mine and i am a photographer, not a sex one but for some reason that picture has been shared around I've been on fet so that picture is a couple years old "

Even if that were true, you're wildly missing the point

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By *otownkid1967Man
19 weeks ago

Portlaoise


"Miki777 i found a bunch of other pics of your fwb on the internet too. Id be having words with her if I were you as she seems to have been sharing pics of you two all over "

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By *otownkid1967Man
19 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Ahh sure look he is only a gossoon.

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By *ugoBallsMan
19 weeks ago

Ratoath

Profile pic borrowed from internet, starting off with a lie isn't great,

Asking stupid questions that have been answered on a weekly basis for attention isn't a great idea either.

Your cards are well marked now and your probably on a lot of block lists.

Maybe you like a challenge.

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By *riendly_fun_guyMan
19 weeks ago

Dublin


"Sligo unverified meet coming up. Go along get verified and meet like minded ppl

Ya never know what will happen

Id love to attend and to everyone who's saying my pictures are all over the Internet, they are mine and i am a photographer, not a sex one but for some reason that picture has been shared around I've been on fet so that picture is a couple years old "

You’re a photographer - take a new one!!

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By *ealitybitesMan
19 weeks ago

Belfast

I'm always interested in professional photographers thinking when they can't take a selfie that doesn't have their phone showing?

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
19 weeks ago

Casa Del Fun, Portarlington


"Miki777 current changing his name to 'user no longer on site'"

🤣🤣🤣

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By *uncranafunMan
19 weeks ago

buncrana

Currently bored and this is hilarious 😂 must use forums more haha ! Even if am looking for advice myself haha

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By *elle111Woman
19 weeks ago

NI

Well this gave me a giggle especially at how gullible people think horny folk are lol

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By *uncranafunMan
19 weeks ago

buncrana

Same 😄

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By *OTSOSUBTLEMan
19 weeks ago

DUBLIN

Welcome to the world of Fab. Did you think you were signing up to a shagfest?

On and off here for 5 years. Here's my stats:

Hardly any of my messages over that time were responded to. Hard to know if they were read, as they can be marked as unread.

I would say in the 5 years, I had about 10 meetings, only one of which ended up amounting to a FWB scenario, which lasted about 2 years and petered out of its own natural accord.

My verifications are from two socials I attended.

Where I am now with Fab in January 2026.

I have very low expectations of anything. Amazingly, so many folks complain about aggressive messages or really stupid, half-arsed approaches, but then don't reply or even read messages which are normal and simply an approach of introduction.

As a man on here, I get that women are bombarded. Seems couples end up having to deal with fools and the TV/CDs. The common denominator seems to be men being assholes. There seems to be no complaints of aggressive couples or TVS.

So it's no wonder then that the non-asshole males can't get a look in.

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By *ealitybitesMan
19 weeks ago

Belfast


"Welcome to the world of Fab. Did you think you were signing up to a shagfest?

On and off here for 5 years. Here's my stats:

Hardly any of my messages over that time were responded to. Hard to know if they were read, as they can be marked as unread.

I would say in the 5 years, I had about 10 meetings, only one of which ended up amounting to a FWB scenario, which lasted about 2 years and petered out of its own natural accord.

My verifications are from two socials I attended.

Where I am now with Fab in January 2026.

I have very low expectations of anything. Amazingly, so many folks complain about aggressive messages or really stupid, half-arsed approaches, but then don't reply or even read messages which are normal and simply an approach of introduction.

As a man on here, I get that women are bombarded. Seems couples end up having to deal with fools and the TV/CDs. The common denominator seems to be men being assholes. There seems to be no complaints of aggressive couples or TVS.

So it's no wonder then that the non-asshole males can't get a look in.

"

You obviously haven't been paying attention if you haven't seen anyone taking about aggressive couples.

Ask most straight women on fab how many aggressive and pushy messages they have had from couples asking them to play with the missus cos they never know they might enjoy it.

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By *ookAndDorkCouple
19 weeks ago

The West

We probably get an average amount of messages through fab and the vast majority are low effort and go straight in the bin.

Even if we're not interested we do reply to anyone who's made the slightest bit of effort.

But we do get confused when we see people complaining from behind profiles that clearly don't understand that meeting people for sex is based on attraction and not transaction.

If your profile has one line and just your dick. You are a source of amusement, not attraction.

If you are a single man and there's more woman than you in your photos then we consider you a red flag.

D&D

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"We probably get an average amount of messages through fab and the vast majority are low effort and go straight in the bin.

Even if we're not interested we do reply to anyone who's made the slightest bit of effort.

But we do get confused when we see people complaining from behind profiles that clearly don't understand that meeting people for sex is based on attraction and not transaction.

If your profile has one line and just your dick. You are a source of amusement, not attraction.

If you are a single man and there's more woman than you in your photos then we consider you a red flag.

D&D"

Thats rare that you reply, I put in high effort, medium effort and sometimes random nonsense and I get more replied from the random than the high effort messages.

Most go unread or deleted. I think for single men there's too many bs profiles.

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By *ookAndDorkCouple
19 weeks ago

The West


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Thats rare that you reply, I put in high effort, medium effort and sometimes random nonsense and I get more replied from the random than the high effort messages.

"

Not sure what you mean. We're not speaking for other couples here. That's just how we run our account.

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By *ealitybitesMan
19 weeks ago

Belfast


"We probably get an average amount of messages through fab and the vast majority are low effort and go straight in the bin.

Even if we're not interested we do reply to anyone who's made the slightest bit of effort.

But we do get confused when we see people complaining from behind profiles that clearly don't understand that meeting people for sex is based on attraction and not transaction.

If your profile has one line and just your dick. You are a source of amusement, not attraction.

If you are a single man and there's more woman than you in your photos then we consider you a red flag.

D&D

Thats rare that you reply, I put in high effort, medium effort and sometimes random nonsense and I get more replied from the random than the high effort messages.

Most go unread or deleted. I think for single men there's too many bs profiles.

"

You've only been here 6 weeks and already have a verification so obviously something is working but how have you decided that there are too many bs profiles after such a short time?

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


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Thats rare that you reply, I put in high effort, medium effort and sometimes random nonsense and I get more replied from the random than the high effort messages.

Not sure what you mean. We're not speaking for other couples here. That's just how we run our account.

"

I meant its rare to have someone reply even if its a polite no. Which is good so fair play. I can imagine its a lot of effort

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"We probably get an average amount of messages through fab and the vast majority are low effort and go straight in the bin.

Even if we're not interested we do reply to anyone who's made the slightest bit of effort.

But we do get confused when we see people complaining from behind profiles that clearly don't understand that meeting people for sex is based on attraction and not transaction.

If your profile has one line and just your dick. You are a source of amusement, not attraction.

If you are a single man and there's more woman than you in your photos then we consider you a red flag.

D&D

Thats rare that you reply, I put in high effort, medium effort and sometimes random nonsense and I get more replied from the random than the high effort messages.

Most go unread or deleted. I think for single men there's too many bs profiles.

You've only been here 6 weeks and already have a verification so obviously something is working but how have you decided that there are too many bs profiles after such a short time?"

I was here years ago, can't spot the same shit lol

And yeah was pretty lucky with who I met!

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