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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok this could just be me being paranoid, but I always am quite wary if I am chatting to someone who is quite new and they ask me a lot of questions about the site, meets etc. I am very careful who I give info out to anyway but sometimes I wonder , when they want to know lots of things like why I joined the site etc. Fair enough if you have been chatting for a while and it is a natural flow of conversation but I do have my suspicions at times.

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By *ildOneIRLMan
over a year ago

Mid / North West

Dead right to be causious.

It's also only natrual for someone new to be curious about the site.

It's getting the balance, some questions do help start a chat is fine but it should not be all questions about the site.

Some of using the site is finding stuff out for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noting wrong with a few general question but if they get to be too many and feel like they are fishing to much I would be suspect of them

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By *at2Couple
over a year ago

north Down

Have had a few newbies MSG and ask questions on how to best meet and the pitfalls and the like then when you give them a few pointers and tell them that there are a few fake profiles out there and to be careful who you correspond with next thing their profile states user no longer on site !! ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I can relate to that like asking questions

"Why did u join the site" or wat are hoping to get from it. Its kinda of putting off when u get asked that.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Call me old fashioned if you will, but I just don't answer questions that I don't like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yea have had newbies ask a lot of questions in the past i just don,t answer them i just say f off in a polite way lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yea have had newbies ask a lot of questions in the past i just don,t answer them i just say f off in a polite way lol "

Haha same here ty, this isn't bloody question time like, as I say on my profile, Google is a wonderful thing, use it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yea have had newbies ask a lot of questions in the past i just don,t answer them i just say f off in a polite way lol

Haha same here ty, this isn't bloody question time like, as I say on my profile, Google is a wonderful thing, use it!"

your right were here for a good time not a long time, and them wantin to know every possible detail from what u do to when you s*** last should be the last thing on their mind lol

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"Call me old fashioned if you will, but I just don't answer questions that I don't like. "

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By *ick and sexyCouple
over a year ago

any


"Noting wrong with a few general question but if they get to be too many and feel like they are fishing to much I would be suspect of them "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yea have had newbies ask a lot of questions in the past i just don,t answer them i just say f off in a polite way lol

Haha same here ty, this isn't bloody question time like, as I say on my profile, Google is a wonderful thing, use it!

your right were here for a good time not a long time, and them wantin to know every possible detail from what u do to when you s*** last should be the last thing on their mind lol "

lol, does my head in like, or the ones you dont reply to cos they are fishing, hoping they get the hint, then get another message with more questions. And people gurn about being blocked like. Some need a sledgehammer to take the hint on here lol.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Always light to help out a newbie as I was once there but there's only so much U can do the rest they have to experience for themselfs

Having said that I love having newbies for their first meet

Oops think I am still a newbie what am I saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find I have to ask a lot of questions otherwise the conversation goes dead...

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I find I have to ask a lot of questions otherwise the conversation goes dead..."

No sweeping generalisation there then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find I have to ask a lot of questions otherwise the conversation goes dead...

No sweeping generalisation there then "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope i'm not the basis for this forum lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find I have to ask a lot of questions otherwise the conversation goes dead..."

Well if I find the conversation interesting I will chat away, but can't always answer mail straight away after I have read it or sometimes I just forget to, but my point is I find probing questions from people I have never talked to slightly suspect, however I may just be a paranoid weirdo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope i'm not the basis for this forum lol"

lol juicy now who's paranoid!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Call me old fashioned if you will, but I just don't answer questions that I don't like. "

wow , why didn't I think of that, doh! *facepalms*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope i'm not the basis for this forum lol

lol juicy now who's paranoid!! "

You know me jinxy, never serious lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yea have had newbies ask a lot of questions in the past i just don,t answer them i just say f off in a polite way lol

Haha same here ty, this isn't bloody question time like, as I say on my profile, Google is a wonderful thing, use it!

your right were here for a good time not a long time, and them wantin to know every possible detail from what u do to when you s*** last should be the last thing on their mind lol

lol, does my head in like, or the ones you dont reply to cos they are fishing, hoping they get the hint, then get another message with more questions. And people gurn about being blocked like. Some need a sledgehammer to take the hint on here lol. "

yea really should have a copy and paste message ready to go full of lies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we was all new once... do what i do try and be help full. if the persons or person keep going on .... we have a block button

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