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"I never realised how serious some people take this! anyone got experience's in this" what the hell is it? | |||
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"I never realised how serious some people take this! anyone got experience's in this what the hell is it?" oh yea its the s & m thing,i dont really get it myself | |||
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"It worries me . I know a girl in her early 20s ( not on this site) who is enslaved to to be honest a gibshite . He is nearly 40 years older and she has had his "mark " tattoed to her hip . At least it's oblique rather than obvious . The guy is impotent so it's entirely non sexual but of course she can't have anyone else . Other things seem ok but u dunno goreans seem to take it all seriously . Healthy ? I don't think so " each to their own and all tht,but i just dont get it!i wudnt want anyone to "own" me,or be anyones slave!i know sum ppl see it as a bit of harmless fun and thts fine but i reckon sum ppl take it too far! | |||
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"I think that using the word "Slavery" in today’s society can create a false impression of what gorean really is. Yes it can appear to be extreme but that really is if your not up on what it really means and involves. The gorean lifestyle is quite a nurturing experience for a sub and a true gorean master should be and is always be respectful of the gift that he has been given. yes it does involve control but boundaries will have been discussed and put in place so its not a case of a sub being taking advantage off quite the opposite the life as a sub of a gorean master can be quite fulfilling. I personally have spent the last few years reading gorean books and studying gorean positions etc in the hope of finding a gorean master. The most important element to remember is trust. From personal experiences a few months ago I thought i had found the perfect gorean master that i had been looking for, i took my time allowing trust to be formed and when i had decided i was ready to give myself completely to him i had prepared by purchasing a beautiful gorean rolled collar that i was going to offer him as a symbol that i was ready to submit to his hand. It didn’t work out so well as before i had the opportunity to present this to him lies and disrespectfulness had taken over and i guess he wasn’t the true gorean master that i had been searching for. All i can say is that if one is considering beginning a journey on the gorean road make sure you read as much as you can before you decide if its the right lifestyle change for you. Its not for everyone and just make sure that you choose your master wisely. " i agree, very well said | |||
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"I think that using the word "Slavery" in today’s society can create a false impression of what gorean really is. Yes it can appear to be extreme but that really is if your not up on what it really means and involves. The gorean lifestyle is quite a nurturing experience for a sub and a true gorean master should be and is always be respectful of the gift that he has been given. yes it does involve control but boundaries will have been discussed and put in place so its not a case of a sub being taking advantage off quite the opposite the life as a sub of a gorean master can be quite fulfilling. I personally have spent the last few years reading gorean books and studying gorean positions etc in the hope of finding a gorean master. The most important element to remember is trust. From personal experiences a few months ago I thought i had found the perfect gorean master that i had been looking for, i took my time allowing trust to be formed and when i had decided i was ready to give myself completely to him i had prepared by purchasing a beautiful gorean rolled collar that i was going to offer him as a symbol that i was ready to submit to his hand. It didn’t work out so well as before i had the opportunity to present this to him lies and disrespectfulness had taken over and i guess he wasn’t the true gorean master that i had been searching for. All i can say is that if one is considering beginning a journey on the gorean road make sure you read as much as you can before you decide if its the right lifestyle change for you. Its not for everyone and just make sure that you choose your master wisely. " Incredibly well put! | |||
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"I think that using the word "Slavery" in today’s society can create a false impression of what gorean really is. Yes it can appear to be extreme but that really is if your not up on what it really means and involves. The gorean lifestyle is quite a nurturing experience for a sub and a true gorean master should be and is always be respectful of the gift that he has been given. yes it does involve control but boundaries will have been discussed and put in place so its not a case of a sub being taking advantage off quite the opposite the life as a sub of a gorean master can be quite fulfilling. I personally have spent the last few years reading gorean books and studying gorean positions etc in the hope of finding a gorean master. The most important element to remember is trust. From personal experiences a few months ago I thought i had found the perfect gorean master that i had been looking for, i took my time allowing trust to be formed and when i had decided i was ready to give myself completely to him i had prepared by purchasing a beautiful gorean rolled collar that i was going to offer him as a symbol that i was ready to submit to his hand. It didn’t work out so well as before i had the opportunity to present this to him lies and disrespectfulness had taken over and i guess he wasn’t the true gorean master that i had been searching for. All i can say is that if one is considering beginning a journey on the gorean road make sure you read as much as you can before you decide if its the right lifestyle change for you. Its not for everyone and just make sure that you choose your master wisely. " extremely well written,i used the term "gorean slavery" as i had only known it as that,"gorean lifestyle" sounds more acceptable.Correct me if I'm wrong but this all came from a fictional novel & now is being portrayed as sometype of ancient art.Now don't get me wrong I do believe in live& let live. | |||
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"Is it from North gorea or South gorea? " don't you try to start another world war | |||
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"Is it from North gorea or South gorea? don't you try to start another world war" I was terrified that the North would nuke the South. That would've been Seoul destroying! Apologies for the slight diversion. | |||
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"I think that using the word "Slavery" in today’s society can create a false impression of what gorean really is. Yes it can appear to be extreme but that really is if your not up on what it really means and involves. The gorean lifestyle is quite a nurturing experience for a sub and a true gorean master should be and is always be respectful of the gift that he has been given. yes it does involve control but boundaries will have been discussed and put in place so its not a case of a sub being taking advantage off quite the opposite the life as a sub of a gorean master can be quite fulfilling. I personally have spent the last few years reading gorean books and studying gorean positions etc in the hope of finding a gorean master. The most important element to remember is trust. From personal experiences a few months ago I thought i had found the perfect gorean master that i had been looking for, i took my time allowing trust to be formed and when i had decided i was ready to give myself completely to him i had prepared by purchasing a beautiful gorean rolled collar that i was going to offer him as a symbol that i was ready to submit to his hand. It didn’t work out so well as before i had the opportunity to present this to him lies and disrespectfulness had taken over and i guess he wasn’t the true gorean master that i had been searching for. All i can say is that if one is considering beginning a journey on the gorean road make sure you read as much as you can before you decide if its the right lifestyle change for you. Its not for everyone and just make sure that you choose your master wisely. i agree, very well said" well cant have folks going around with the wrong idea | |||
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"Yes you are correct Gor is a work of fiction I would not agree with you when you say, "its being portrayed as some type of ancient art". It’s far from it, it’s like reading a piece of poetry or lyrics in a song or looking at a peace of art. In the past when I have read these books I have see the hidden meaning and the symbolization of certain elements such as "the collar" or "the Nadu" position. For most the collar would be a symbol of ownership or slavery but lets be honest here slavery is without a choice, submission is the choice of the individual who as I have mentioned in my original post has through trust given every inch of their being to their master freely. For me the collar is a bold symbol of trust for a sub and acceptance of submission for a master. However this is just my interpretation. Submission is not just taken for granted it is a prized possession and a true Gorean master will protect and care for it as if it was his own. To submit is not a sign of weakness but a sign of the strength that lies within. A master can be strong in body and mind but also the sub offers her master a different kind of strength through submission. If you look at certain groups through history the comparison is there. Men were the protectors of their women, strong in mind body and soul. Women did everything in their power to please them in every way possible and developed new ways of pleasing their men through guidance from them. A master is nothing without a good submissive just like a man is nothing without a good women and the same came be said for the opposite a submissive is nothing without a fair and true master and every woman needs a good man. " I read this and reached for the collar that once proudly sat around my throat locked on.. a symbol of my ownership, my submission but mostly of how highly prized I was to my master. I am a submissive now to a good dominant but I did read this and shed a tear. The connection between master and slave so symbiotic.. what a wonderful description of something that I am proud to have experienced. | |||
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"Yes you are correct Gor is a work of fiction I would not agree with you when you say, "its being portrayed as some type of ancient art". It’s far from it, it’s like reading a piece of poetry or lyrics in a song or looking at a peace of art. In the past when I have read these books I have see the hidden meaning and the symbolization of certain elements such as "the collar" or "the Nadu" position. For most the collar would be a symbol of ownership or slavery but lets be honest here slavery is without a choice, submission is the choice of the individual who as I have mentioned in my original post has through trust given every inch of their being to their master freely. For me the collar is a bold symbol of trust for a sub and acceptance of submission for a master. However this is just my interpretation. Submission is not just taken for granted it is a prized possession and a true Gorean master will protect and care for it as if it was his own. To submit is not a sign of weakness but a sign of the strength that lies within. A master can be strong in body and mind but also the sub offers her master a different kind of strength through submission. If you look at certain groups through history the comparison is there. Men were the protectors of their women, strong in mind body and soul. Women did everything in their power to please them in every way possible and developed new ways of pleasing their men through guidance from them. A master is nothing without a good submissive just like a man is nothing without a good women and the same came be said for the opposite a submissive is nothing without a fair and true master and every woman needs a good man. I read this and reached for the collar that once proudly sat around my throat locked on.. a symbol of my ownership, my submission but mostly of how highly prized I was to my master. I am a submissive now to a good dominant but I did read this and shed a tear. The connection between master and slave so symbiotic.. what a wonderful description of something that I am proud to have experienced. " I just spoke from my heart Cali... its good to know someone else understands my thoughts | |||
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"I'm not a Kajira but I am a slave my Sir(ex) was training me in Gorean ways as its the standards and beauty and way of life I love.. Exquisite beauty and absolute obedience are my dutys be this girl in service or not Kind regards Masters,Mistresses Tal salves Cher " | |||
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"My appoligy a typo tal is a way to greet a Gorean salve...I spelt slave incorrect again my deepest appoligy Cher " In my understanding Tal is a greeting yes But there are conditions governing who may greet who in this way Certainly a slave may greet another salve with Tal but not a Free Person, | |||
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"My appoligy a typo tal is a way to greet a Gorean salve...I spelt slave incorrect again my deepest appoligy Cher In my understanding Tal is a greeting yes But there are conditions governing who may greet who in this way Certainly a slave may greet another salve with Tal but not a Free Person, " This is very true | |||
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"Hhmmmm Tal and greetings, I've been trying real hard to not reply to this thread. But now I think things are going a bit far... Gorean philosophies are not based on anything hitler said. They are based on the books of Gor written by John Norman. They are works of fiction that outline a different world and society. The philosophies have been taken on by some people (literally and loosely) and incorporated into their lives. I've been exposed to some of the books and I agree with many if the things mentioned in there. I've also been exposed to Catholicism, Mormonism, Buddhism and hedonism and agreed with teachings and beliefs there too. It doesn't make it wrong or right it's all a personal choice. All things in extreme are hard to accept.. for non-believers or partakers. Religion, sexual orientation, personal beliefs are all yours, take them as far or as shallow as you like, but allow others to enjoy theirs with out judgement. Ok rant over, (Former collared kajira) " well said, .live and let live | |||
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"Hhmmmm Tal and greetings, I've been trying real hard to not reply to this thread. But now I think things are going a bit far... Gorean philosophies are not based on anything hitler said. They are based on the books of Gor written by John Norman. They are works of fiction that outline a different world and society. The philosophies have been taken on by some people (literally and loosely) and incorporated into their lives. I've been exposed to some of the books and I agree with many if the things mentioned in there. I've also been exposed to Catholicism, Mormonism, Buddhism and hedonism and agreed with teachings and beliefs there too. It doesn't make it wrong or right it's all a personal choice. All things in extreme are hard to accept.. for non-believers or partakers. Religion, sexual orientation, personal beliefs are all yours, take them as far or as shallow as you like, but allow others to enjoy theirs with out judgement. Ok rant over, (Former collared kajira) " Well said links Said with insight and passion I think if we are to enjoy sexuality we should investigate and understand as much as possible Then again maybe having sex with the light on is kinky for some | |||
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"Hhmmmm Tal and greetings, I've been trying real hard to not reply to this thread. But now I think things are going a bit far... Gorean philosophies are not based on anything hitler said. They are based on the books of Gor written by John Norman. They are works of fiction that outline a different world and society. The philosophies have been taken on by some people (literally and loosely) and incorporated into their lives. I've been exposed to some of the books and I agree with many if the things mentioned in there. I've also been exposed to Catholicism, Mormonism, Buddhism and hedonism and agreed with teachings and beliefs there too. It doesn't make it wrong or right it's all a personal choice. All things in extreme are hard to accept.. for non-believers or partakers. Religion, sexual orientation, personal beliefs are all yours, take them as far or as shallow as you like, but allow others to enjoy theirs with out judgement. Ok rant over, (Former collared kajira) " Gorean philosophies are based on a series of books with strong facist overtones. From a kink point of view, if people want to do a Max Mosely on it, I have no beef with that. But there's a big difference between bedroom (or dungeon or carpark) pursuits and how you choose to live your life. I'm not accusing Goreans of being nazis, but the books that have inspired the whole caboodle have a fairly odious origin. Can any one with experience of it explain to me the difference between D/s stuff and a Gorean lifestyle? | |||
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"Google is your friend " I'd rather read what people's first hand experiences are, and possibly ask them questions about that, as opposed to passively consuming what's deemed to be most relevant by the ikkle google spiders. | |||
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"Google is your friend I'd rather read what people's first hand experiences are, and possibly ask them questions about that, as opposed to passively consuming what's deemed to be most relevant by the ikkle google spiders." Given your previous posts that may be something that people will be unwilling to do. Google's ikkle spiders are at your command if you command them correctly Do a little leg work maybe then ask " There is a principal designed to keep a man in everlasting darkness. That is the principle of condemnation without prior investigation" Herbst Spence | |||
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"I've done some leg work and have arrived at some conclusions. But as Wayne Rooney said, the unexamined life is not worth living. So I'd welcome someone with experience correcting my conclusions." If your conclusions are reflected in the initial tone or nuance of your posts then I think links may have already spoken to that. | |||
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"I've done some leg work and have arrived at some conclusions. But as Wayne Rooney said, the unexamined life is not worth living. So I'd welcome someone with experience correcting my conclusions. If your conclusions are reflected in the initial tone or nuance of your posts then I think links may have already spoken to that. " Far be it from to put words into Links' mouth but I thought she'd that peoples preferences are peoples preferences, live and let live essentially. That she was at least vaguely familiar with Gorean philosophy and had found many useful things to take from it. I'm curious as to how people became involved in it in the first place, the extent to which they became involved in it and their experiences while involved. I'm aware I Godwin'd myself straight off the bat, and people who have an affinity with Gorean practices may not want to engage with someone who's apparently quite hostile to them. But it's the philosophy of it and its origins that I find questionable, and I'm genuinely curious as to how the practice of it all compares to the theory. | |||
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"I've done some leg work and have arrived at some conclusions. But as Wayne Rooney said, the unexamined life is not worth living. So I'd welcome someone with experience correcting my conclusions. If your conclusions are reflected in the initial tone or nuance of your posts then I think links may have already spoken to that. Far be it from to put words into Links' mouth but I thought she'd that peoples preferences are peoples preferences, live and let live essentially. That she was at least vaguely familiar with Gorean philosophy and had found many useful things to take from it. I'm curious as to how people became involved in it in the first place, the extent to which they became involved in it and their experiences while involved. I'm aware I Godwin'd myself straight off the bat, and people who have an affinity with Gorean practices may not want to engage with someone who's apparently quite hostile to them. But it's the philosophy of it and its origins that I find questionable, and I'm genuinely curious as to how the practice of it all compares to the theory." I really do think you should read fully what links said. It seems to me that you may not have taken on board the content As to you Godwin'ing yourself yes you seemed to lol. But in recognising and seeing that perhaps you will find people willing to engage | |||
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