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"Looking to get into the hotwife scene. Hoping to start by touching a strangers cock in hotel jacuzzi while mr is there as a start but how do you initiate this with consent without prior asking" You will need to hire help for all the PM's your going to get🤣🤣 | |||
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"Looking to get into the hotwife scene. Hoping to start by touching a strangers cock in hotel jacuzzi while mr is there as a start but how do you initiate this with consent without prior asking" "how do you initiate this with consent without prior asking"... This is a bit of a contradiction, there are loads of single men who are happy to do that for you, as I'm sure you found out in your inbox now. | |||
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"Asking is the way. If you dont want to ask a randomer then ask a guy here. You'll have no problem getting volunteers "maybe if you and mrs are free?  | |||
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"There will be a que of horny men waiting to jump in the hot tub with you but a gentleman always chats first and learns all the do’s and don’t that you have as a couple x" There is nothing wrong with a couple approaching a man. No point being coy if you know what you want | |||
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"We are open to ideas for sure" Well if it's a pre-planned meet up on day you're good to go whenever. If it is just a randomer you meet in the hot tub, definitely some conversation first to avoid any charges 😂 | |||
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"Consent is explicit so unless you want to ask a stranger in the moment (with the understanding that your approach may not be appreciated and may have consequences), you'll have to organise it in advance. Perhaps once you've found someone, you could roleplay the stranger element. You might also want to consider that it would be a public facility in a public place and all that entails. This may not be the sexy answer to your question but carrying out snagging in advance can pay off" 100% this. A good practical answer is always preferable to a sexy fantasy answer. | |||
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"Too risky to run hand over leg and see reaction first? But yes looking for real answers not just fantasy that gets us in trouble lol" I mean, if it's a welcome touch it would be fine of course, but without a mind reading device it's impossible to know for sure. There could be any number of reasons that this might cause the wrong person to freak out. | |||
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"Too risky to run hand over leg and see reaction first? But yes looking for real answers not just fantasy that gets us in trouble lol" Assault isn't cool. Organise it in advance. | |||
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"Too risky to run hand over leg and see reaction first? But yes looking for real answers not just fantasy that gets us in trouble lol I mean, if it's a welcome touch it would be fine of course, but without a mind reading device it's impossible to know for sure. There could be any number of reasons that this might cause the wrong person to freak out. " Absolutely agreed, and likewise why lack of objection may not mean consent. | |||
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"Too risky to run hand over leg and see reaction first? But yes looking for real answers not just fantasy that gets us in trouble lol" If i was in a jacuzzi with strangers and a lady who was part of a couple dropped the hand my immediate reaction would be she wants to see a fight. If I was in a jacuzzi with people I had spoken with at the bar or wherever and a lady who was part of a couple dropped the hand after discussing swinging I would politely decline. Not every man wants to shag someone else's wife. You may not get the reaction you expect without arranging something first | |||
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"Looking to get into the hotwife scene. Hoping to start by touching a strangers cock in hotel jacuzzi while mr is there as a start but how do you initiate this with consent without prior asking" It can be very fun with a guy who is layed back take your time as you say start slowly just touching his cock and take it from there | |||
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"Too risky to run hand over leg and see reaction first? But yes looking for real answers not just fantasy that gets us in trouble lol" Let’s swap it around …. If a man did this to a woman in a jacuzzi what would happen? Fantasy is fabulous but reality is different Your probably best pre arranging with a guy have him meet you there and roleplay it as total strangers! You could organise with a guy here, not actually meet him till the hotel etc so you keep the stranger element but at least you know you have permission | |||
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"Consent is explicit so unless you want to ask a stranger in the moment (with the understanding that your approach may not be appreciated and may have consequences), you'll have to organise it in advance. Perhaps once you've found someone, you could roleplay the stranger element. Fact You might also want to consider that it would be a public facility in a public place and all that entails. This may not be the sexy answer to your question but carrying out snagging in advance can pay off" | |||
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"Looking to get into the hotwife scene. Hoping to start by touching a strangers cock in hotel jacuzzi while mr is there as a start but how do you initiate this with consent without prior asking" Either prearranged something or go to a sex club you can't get consent without asking | |||
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"Too risky to run hand over leg and see reaction first? But yes looking for real answers not just fantasy that gets us in trouble lol I mean, if it's a welcome touch it would be fine of course, but without a mind reading device it's impossible to know for sure. There could be any number of reasons that this might cause the wrong person to freak out. Absolutely agreed, and likewise why lack of objection may not mean consent." hi | |||
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"Looking to get into the hotwife scene. Hoping to start by touching a strangers cock in hotel jacuzzi while mr is there as a start but how do you initiate this with consent without prior asking" Make an agreement on here for a time and location. Know the colour of his swim hat or swim shorts... Keep him waiting, slip into the hot tub, give a cheeky smile and see the response to guess if he is the guy who consented... Slide around the tub to next to him and let things flow. Just remember, it's a public hot tub so he needs his boner to die back before he can follow you out. But if you like the look of him in the tub you can tell him the room number, slip away and let him follow you up for the real hot wife experience | |||
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