FabSwingers.com forum: Age gaps

By *eyond_explorer OP Man
24 weeks ago

kildare

Age gaps — turn on, turn off, or doesn’t matter?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
24 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

I wouldn't be quick to ask a potential partner their age. Having a connection and common interest is important though and can be tricky with very different ages. It very much depends on the individuals involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Most of my men are a lot older late 50s mostly

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
24 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

I the female part of us love a older man ( my man 15 years older ) however females I prefer my age or slightly younger, that said I’ve played with ladies older and it’s been great !

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By *adger BrocMan
24 weeks ago

North Cork

Yes it is an absolute turn off for many on here but it is their choice and they are absolutely entitled to their preference.

There is nothing you can do about it except perhaps be coy and pretend it isn't so like I originally did and many on here still do.

My problem is when I meet people they won't believe I am actually the age I am.....ya just can't win can ya!

I find the geography gap is a much greater barrier to success on here.

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By *ightsOutCouple
24 weeks ago

It’s a long way

My personal preference would be someone around my own age, I don’t mind couples in their 30’s - mid 40’s but I wouldn’t really look for anyone older than that.

- Ms.

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By *inky grandadMan
24 weeks ago

Spain

Makes no difference

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By *he KakapoMan
24 weeks ago

A nice rock

Its not so much the size of the age gap, but the stage in life it comes at

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By *acDeMan
24 weeks ago

Castledermot

Elegant, sexy mature lady....Heaven

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By *eturning MGMan
24 weeks ago

Mayo, Roscommon, Galway, Leitrim, Sligo....West Of Ireland

Doesnt make a difference to me. Hot and sound.

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By *affacakes47Man
24 weeks ago

city

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By *affacakes47Man
24 weeks ago

city

Love a older lady

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

All younger at this stage

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By *upermanslovechildMan
24 weeks ago

Killiney

First meet I had off here was a couple 20 years older than me for a cuckold meet. That was quite fun, especially for a first time swinging meet

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By *ealitybitesMan
24 weeks ago

Belfast

It's a turn off for me. I'm not attracted to women of a similar age to my daughters.

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
24 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

"It's a turn off for me. I'm not attracted to women of a similar age to my daughters."
that makes perfect sense x just like I’m not overly attracted to people the same age as my parents x

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By *elanie De La CoeurTV/TS
24 weeks ago

Dublin

I wouldn't say no to an elegant lady in her 70s

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By *ilversinMan
24 weeks ago

Waterford

Beauty has no age

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By *onjuan234Man
24 weeks ago

Limerick

"I wouldn't say no to an elegant lady in her 70s

Im with you on that

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Doesn't matter if people like each other

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By *ookAndDorkCouple
24 weeks ago

The West

I think age gaps are mostly fine. Fun even.

For myself I would draw the line with young adults as I don't feel there is a balance in the level of influence and agency that comes with decades of additional development.

Dook

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

No issue.had an ex who was 11 yrs older than me,she was and is still as sexy now as she was then.she rekindled with an ex her age as marriage was something she wanted sooner than i was ready for.still would if she offered as she was up for anything

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By *amino GuyMan
24 weeks ago

West Cork / Cork City /Killarney/ Dublin

Not a problem overall. As someone has said it depends on stage or life or what someone wants. It's the connection though regardless so there's no rationale in my opinion. I'll have coffee chat with any one and see what develops.

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By *razy-CplCouple
24 weeks ago

Cork

I ,mrs , prefer younger guys when doing a solo meet , but when we meet a cpl , age doesnt really come into it , if we click with a cpl , thats all ,

Mrs crazy

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By *otownkid1967Man
24 weeks ago

Portlaoise

My only rule would be not meeting a lady who is younger than my own kids. Prefer to meet people who are within 15 years of my own age.

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By *iamo69Man
24 weeks ago

kilkenny, Waterford , Tipperary,southeast

Never been with anybody older than myself..always wanted it tho

Always seem to attract a lot younger ..never bothered me at all once both on same wave length

Age doesn't matter one bit

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By *ungguy1300Man
24 weeks ago

country

Certainly have a thing for a cougar!

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By *razy-CplCouple
24 weeks ago

Cork

"Certainly have a thing for a cougar! "

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By *eyond_explorer OP Man
24 weeks ago

kildare

Certainly can't beat that

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By *eyond_explorer OP Man
24 weeks ago

kildare

I totally agree with you

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By *eyond_explorer OP Man
24 weeks ago

kildare

I would love to go on a solo meet then

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By *ust_us999Couple
24 weeks ago

Somewhere

Turn on... Definitely. We have a 13 year age gap

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By *erdyGuy42Man
24 weeks ago

Ask

I love an older woman

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By *ootPoint99Man
24 weeks ago

Dublin

I love an older woman personally, but also wouldn't say it matters much so long as we get on

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By *OTSOSUBTLEMan
24 weeks ago

DUBLIN

Doesn't matter. Chemistry and attraction important. My most recent age gap she was 13 years my junior. Prior to that she was 10 years my senior.

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By *ilMsStickyWoman
24 weeks ago

Galway

Personality is a huge factor for me. We are all here for fun and that chemistry is important too. I draw the line at anyone younger than my offspring, but preference is for someone with some maturity. A bit of devilment in him is always a turn on.

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By *supermanMan
23 weeks ago

letterkenny

I prefer an older woman myself ☺️

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By *inkywife1981Couple
23 weeks ago

A town near you

I always been attracted to older men, even as a teenager I wasn't into the good looking boy band celebrities but rather the rugged good looking older guys.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
23 weeks ago

Newry

At my ripe old age, I'd be extremely unlikely to be interested sexually in someone much younger than me, so anyone under 30 wouldn't be on my radar at all.

I'm a fairly youthful 55 year old and my sweet spot is often 40 - 55 but it very much depends on the person. That's especially true above 60.

Regardless of age, we have to vibe, and as superficial as it may be, I can't get excited for someone who looks fuddy-duddy. My vagina, my choice

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By *mmortalbMan
23 weeks ago

kildare

If I'm attracted to someone it doesn't really matter.

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
23 weeks ago

Co Antrim

I recently turned 52 and I feel the same way

Vics

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By *adger BrocMan
23 weeks ago

North Cork

It's the thigh gap that really matters.

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