FabSwingers.com forum: Verifying

By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

If someone asked for an honest review on someone ye verified which we all kinda embellished . Would you give the honest truth ??

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
24 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

No, unless I felt there was a safety issue

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
24 weeks ago

Newry

What kind of review? Who is asking me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

"What kind of review? Who is asking me?

Say you met someone and a friend asked about how they were ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

"No, unless I felt there was a safety issue"

Of course that be something to be upfront about

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By *eturning MGMan
24 weeks ago

Mayo, Roscommon, Galway, Leitrim, Sligo....West Of Ireland

Personally I wouldn't discuss someone iv met with anyone else. What happens on tour stays on tour. We will all click differently with people and someone i get on with may not get on with others.

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By *ackandsallyCouple
24 weeks ago

Ireland

We would always be honest but infairness we wouldn't verify people that aren't grand. 🤔

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
24 weeks ago

Newry

"What kind of review? Who is asking me?

Say you met someone and a friend asked about how they were ? "

If it was a friend asking I'd only say whether they were my cup of tea or not, and whether I'd enjoyed their company.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
24 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

One person's opinion of someone may be very different to yours. So many untruths are rumours are bandied about on here at times.

If it was a "are they real/genuine/etc then yes but I would keep it vague. Anything else is no one elses business

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I'd post the truth how the meeting went so people can read themselves

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By *eturning MGMan
24 weeks ago

Mayo, Roscommon, Galway, Leitrim, Sligo....West Of Ireland

"I'd post the truth how the meeting went so people can read themselves "

Easiest way

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By *ealitybitesMan
24 weeks ago

Belfast

If it was someone I didn't know asking I'd tell them to fuck off and as others have already said if it was someone I knew asking I wouldn't tell them anything more than was in the verification.

If I had safety concerns about someone I wouldn't have verified them in the first place.

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By *s SingletWoman
24 weeks ago

Kilkenny

People don't write bad verifications and if they did the person wouldn't display it

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I wouldn't divulge anyone's private lives and I wouldn't give a review but I feel I might say something like, oh yeah they are grand or oh she's sound same as I would in real life. After that it's mind your own business.

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By *iablo soloWoman
24 weeks ago

ecstasy

"Personally I wouldn't discuss someone iv met with anyone else. What happens on tour stays on tour. We will all click differently with people and someone i get on with may not get on with others. "

🤔🤔🤔

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By *agneyandhutchCouple
24 weeks ago

lucan

I wouldn't embellish a verification. If I've nothing hugely positive to say, I say the basics. I think varifications reflect back on the sender as much as the receiver. Don't say 'lovely fella' when he actually gave you the creeps.

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By *eturning MGMan
24 weeks ago

Mayo, Roscommon, Galway, Leitrim, Sligo....West Of Ireland

"Personally I wouldn't discuss someone iv met with anyone else. What happens on tour stays on tour. We will all click differently with people and someone i get on with may not get on with others.

🤔🤔🤔"

Nobody can make people be friends or like each other and thats fine. but at the same time others shouldnt fall out with a person of they stuck in the middle. Just my opinion🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

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By *iablo soloWoman
24 weeks ago

ecstasy

"Personally I wouldn't discuss someone iv met with anyone else. What happens on tour stays on tour. We will all click differently with people and someone i get on with may not get on with others.

🤔🤔🤔

But some bad mouth people and then are caught being all nicely nice to them. And that's two faced. I've zero time for drama. Just my opinion.

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By *eturning MGMan
24 weeks ago

Mayo, Roscommon, Galway, Leitrim, Sligo....West Of Ireland

"Personally I wouldn't discuss someone iv met with anyone else. What happens on tour stays on tour. We will all click differently with people and someone i get on with may not get on with others.

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But some bad mouth people and then are caught being all nicely nice to them. And that's two faced. I've zero time for drama. Just my opinion."

Maybe a misundertanding. Can easily happen. I hope you didnt let it ruin a friendship. Id be like you zero time for drama. I think we would get along if we chatted😉 very attractive lady by the way. 🥵

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By *iscuits8Man
23 weeks ago

Dublin / Meath / Birmingham

If anyone ever tells another member about my tiny laughable mickey I am gonna be fuming!

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By *oradMan
23 weeks ago

South Central Dublin

Always give honest feedback - about the person not the activities. If they are assholes I dont verify.

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By *ealitybitesMan
23 weeks ago

Belfast

"Personally I wouldn't discuss someone iv met with anyone else. What happens on tour stays on tour. We will all click differently with people and someone i get on with may not get on with others.

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But some bad mouth people and then are caught being all nicely nice to them. And that's two faced. I've zero time for drama. Just my opinion.

There are very few misunderstandings on fab. For some people it's all about perception and showing others who they know.

You only have to look at the forums and how people feel the need to tag others in threads every day and the in jokes from conversations they are having in chat groups.

People talk about fab drama and things happening in the background but ironically they have either started it or don't seem to realise that one of their forum buddies is telling tales about them in private.

The very fact that I haven't been in a chat group in more than 5 years and have said many times I've no interest in rumours or shit stirring and yet a few people who use the Irish forums have to message me if I comment on a thread to tell me what is really going on just proves how loose lipped they are in regard to people's private details.

Information is currency and keeps the tout relevant.

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By *oo32Man
23 weeks ago

tipperary

"Personally I wouldn't discuss someone iv met with anyone else. What happens on tour stays on tour. We will all click differently with people and someone i get on with may not get on with others.

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But some bad mouth people and then are caught being all nicely nice to them. And that's two faced. I've zero time for drama. Just my opinion.

There are very few misunderstandings on fab. For some people it's all about perception and showing others who they know.

You only have to look at the forums and how people feel the need to tag others in threads every day and the in jokes from conversations they are having in chat groups.

Information is currency and keeps the tout relevant. "

Some are very very loose lipped

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

If ..IF .. someone asked on the QT l would tell them MY thoughts BUT l would emphasize they're only MY thoughts, what l think is NOT what they may think or what they experience..l could only give them my thoughts & ..as the song says ..."🎵 The rest is up to you 🎵 "

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By *ifunguy4uMan
23 weeks ago

Enniscorthy

"If someone asked for an honest review on someone ye verified which we all kinda embellished . Would you give the honest truth ?? "

So basically you're saying all verifications are a bunch of lies. 🤔

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By *ineappleswitch69Man
13 weeks ago

Oxford

"What kind of review? Who is asking me?

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I need a review of any kind if you can help me? Please

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By *s LollyWoman
13 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I never discuss anyone ive met with, we all vibe differently.

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By * BlackMan
13 weeks ago

Laois/ Dublin

Have never read a negative Verification!!!!....just saying

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By *og-ManMan
13 weeks ago

somewhere

"Have never read a negative Verification!!!!....just saying

I remember a few years ago a male and female fabber gave each other absolutely crap reviews for a laugh and displayed them but I think they got removed

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By *unandgamesnowiamMan
12 weeks ago

border

privacy is the key!!!!!!!,too much tittle tattle goes on here!!!!!!!!,

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