FabSwingers.com forum: Would u date someone on fab

By *potFinder836 OP Man
28 weeks ago

kilkenny /wex

Genuinely looking for a like minded lady for more than fun, fed up of getting into sexual desert of relationships. Anyone else looking for their person

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Genuinely looking for a like minded lady for more than fun, fed up of getting into sexual desert of relationships. Anyone else looking for their person

Yes I’d love to meet someone who suits me here . I have met some but they don’t last

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Same I'd only date sumone on here.

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By *he General 2 0 2 5Man
28 weeks ago

Limerick City

I'd definitely be open to that idea

. DMs are now open,

Taking applications

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By *potFinder836 OP Man
28 weeks ago

kilkenny /wex

Yes this thread is for everyone not just for me, enough negativity in life and on this site in general let’s try send some positivity and hope for people.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
28 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Date? I married one!

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By *he KakapoMan
28 weeks ago

A nice rock

I would but I tha chances of meeting someone on here is way lower than other apps

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By *alwaybikerMan
28 weeks ago

Galway

"Date? I married one! "

Fair play.

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By *untimegirl!!!Woman
28 weeks ago

cork

"I would but I tha chances of meeting someone on here is way lower than other apps"

Grab ur coat 😉 uve pulled

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By *he KakapoMan
28 weeks ago

A nice rock

"I would but I tha chances of meeting someone on here is way lower than other apps

Grab ur coat 😉 uve pulled "

Ah but pulling and actual dating are very different things.

Also its fecking baltic I already have my coat

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By *untimegirl!!!Woman
28 weeks ago

cork

"I would but I tha chances of meeting someone on here is way lower than other apps

Grab ur coat 😉 uve pulled

Ah but pulling and actual dating are very different things.

Also its fecking baltic I already have my coat"

Ohhh I was only goin to use u for sex 😂😂

Ok bye now

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

It's as good as any place to find exactly what you're looking for ,after all the person you're looking for is also looking , so you never know the person you seek just might be here too.

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By *potFinder836 OP Man
28 weeks ago

kilkenny /wex

The type of negativity I spoke about no need

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By *potFinder836 OP Man
28 weeks ago

kilkenny /wex

Nice one man nice to hear story as such

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By *potFinder836 OP Man
28 weeks ago

kilkenny /wex

Yea but meeting someone on fabs means you don’t have to alter your self to try fit in. We could just be our naughty selves

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

I wouldn't date them, no.

Fun? Yes.

If I got into a full relationship, I wouldn't want to share my man or be shared.

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By *he KakapoMan
28 weeks ago

A nice rock

"Yea but meeting someone on fabs means you don’t have to alter your self to try fit in. We could just be our naughty selves "

What do you change about youeself elsewhere that you don't have to on here?

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By *wagman32Man
28 weeks ago

Swords

Absolutely, ive met plenty on fab who I would see as dating material in other circumstances

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By *potFinder836 OP Man
28 weeks ago

kilkenny /wex

Well u ain’t gonna bust in to the fact that you enjoying having sex with married couples for the average person that’s mental

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By *otownkid1967Man
28 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Don't see shy not,lots of couples on here who met through fab.

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By *he KakapoMan
28 weeks ago

A nice rock

"Well u ain’t gonna bust in to the fact that you enjoying having sex with married couples for the average person that’s mental

Alot of single people on here don't want to have sex with married couples either.

But fair point I guess if actual swinging is an aspect of your life that's non negotiable then somewhere like fab is the ideal place to look.

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By *aagirlWoman
28 weeks ago

Laois, Carlow, Kildare

"Yea but meeting someone on fabs means you don’t have to alter your self to try fit in. We could just be our naughty selves "

Completely agree with this id love to have a partner in crime here, easier said than done

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By *otownkid1967Man
28 weeks ago

Portlaoise

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By *otownkid1967Man
28 weeks ago

Portlaoise

"Yea but meeting someone on fabs means you don’t have to alter your self to try fit in. We could just be our naughty selves

Completely agree with this id love to have a partner in crime here, easier said than done"

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By *hantomfemmeWoman
28 weeks ago

Sligo/Galway/limerick depends on the day

"Genuinely looking for a like minded lady for more than fun, fed up of getting into sexual desert of relationships. Anyone else looking for their person

Definitely think that id rather date some one on here than some one vanilla. Trouble is decent ppl seem to be very few.

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By *mmortalbMan
28 weeks ago

kildare

Id like to try. But very hard to meet people off here, or those who are single. Would like to try dating an open minded girl. Even introduce a girlfriend to the scene. But haven't had luck on the dating front anywhere. So I just do my own thing hahaha, attend events and meet people. But from past forums, it does seem many have met their partners here or on other sites. It's lovely to here, especially knowing two like-minded people found each other. Hope for us all yet hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Most on here are already married too so makes it harder . The single men think it means giving up some imaginary freedom when we all kinda embrace the swinging or poly lifestyle anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

No not really, happy as I am. It might change over time or if I met someone but have no intention or desire for a relationship at the moment

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By *allFitBiGuyMan
28 weeks ago

Straffan

Yes I would

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By *opcattMan
28 weeks ago

co down

I'd have fwb for a long time before I dated anyone from fab or anywhere, you get yo tell someone from meeting once in a while a few times what they're like and if your invested in spending more time

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

I know someone that used to be a FB that met someone here and she is still with him so it’s definitely possible

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By *idpunkMan
28 weeks ago

East Antrim

"Genuinely looking for a like minded lady for more than fun, fed up of getting into sexual desert of relationships. Anyone else looking for their person

Yes I’d love to meet someone who suits me here . I have met some but they don’t last "

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By *hunkyRedPandaMan
28 weeks ago

Germany

Yes, I've had a great relationship off another site. Why not. We don't really get to choose who we fancy, i feel it just happens. How many have met and married from these sites?

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
28 weeks ago

Casa Del Fun, Portarlington

We first met on here have been together ever since (7 yrs together now), and not only ‘partners in crime’ but there are wedding bells on the horizon 🥰

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Yeah I'd love to find someone here to potentially explore a relationship. It seems like it might be good given there would be similar sexual interests.

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By *potFinder836 OP Man
28 weeks ago

kilkenny /wex

Amazing genuinely happy to hear this xx

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By *ohnny SMan
28 weeks ago

City Centre

I have tried both. Dated someone from here and also was totally open about it on a vanilla relationship and tried to help them join the lifestyle. The second one is a slow process understandably.

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By *h-to-be-NefertariWoman
28 weeks ago

galway

I’d love to date someone that isn’t vanilla but the right person is hard to find

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By *razy-CplCouple
28 weeks ago

Cork

We met on a different swingers site over 13 years ago ,at a social event , we took a year out to get know eachother and then joined here as a cpl , and havent looked back , we enjoy the scene and love meeting people for fun , mostly at parties

Mrs crazy

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By *om TangoMan
28 weeks ago

Tedavnet Co.Monaghan

Currently dating someone on fab. Going good so far. In saying that we haven’t played or met up with anyone yet so small steps. I’ve had bad and good experiences dating someone from the lifestyle

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By *nythingsoloCouple
28 weeks ago

Sexy town

We met up through fab.6 years together now and going strong

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By *ungry CatCouple
28 weeks ago

Belfast

We met through fab.

Will celebrate our 7th anniversary in March or April (neither of us are sure 😅)

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By *ohnny SMan
28 weeks ago

City Centre

Its great to hear some success stories. Fair play to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"We met through fab.

Will celebrate our 7th anniversary in March or April (neither of us are sure 😅)"

Lovely to hear

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By *otsowickedCouple
28 weeks ago

Galway

We met on here and are coming up on our 1 year anniversary ❤️

We dont share at all but enjoy the socials and have made some lovely friends here too.

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By *heekyfuntimeMan
28 weeks ago

Maynooth

Would have no issues dating somone from here once its open and honest

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By *reckage101Man
28 weeks ago

navan

It’s all about the individual but wouldn’t say no to dates from here, I’m very easy going.

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By *potFinder836 OP Man
28 weeks ago

kilkenny /wex

Some lovely story’s everyone I wish you a long and happy life together

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By *UXEDULUXE25Couple
28 weeks ago

Balbriggan

I would only date someone on here

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By *oyeur83Man
28 weeks ago

galway

Love to meet someone from here and to continue the lifestyle as a couple

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
28 weeks ago

Casa Del Fun, Portarlington

My OH is open to dating someone from here. She has done in the past, even as a couple. She’s always on the lookout for a GF

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By *ol_ieMan
28 weeks ago

Dublin west

Finding someone with the same likes and able to be totally open about it is a great place to start.

So 100% I would.

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By *icouple24Couple
28 weeks ago

north west and Belfast

We met as singles on here and together almost 10 years

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By *icouple24Couple
28 weeks ago

north west and Belfast

"We met through fab.

Will celebrate our 7th anniversary in March or April (neither of us are sure 😅)"

We're 10 years in feb

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By *aidRXTV/TS
28 weeks ago

ashbourne

Amazing to hear all the wonderful stories of people who have met on here or through the scene.... Its amazing to hear and genuinely so so happy for you all to have found someone who shares the same interests.

Absolutely amazing and congratulations to you all

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
27 weeks ago

Casa Del Fun, Portarlington

"Amazing to hear all the wonderful stories of people who have met on here or through the scene.... Its amazing to hear and genuinely so so happy for you all to have found someone who shares the same interests.

Absolutely amazing and congratulations to you all

Rx "

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By *orbiddendelightsMan
27 weeks ago

100% would

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By *urvyLouLouWoman
27 weeks ago

Dungannon/Belfast

Personally, I would.If we click, communicate well, respect each other’s boundaries and want the same things, then yeah, I’d definitely date someone I met on here.

It’s all about the connection.

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By *intan99Man
27 weeks ago

Dublin

Of course. Ultimately, this is just another social network, where sex may be somewhat of a focus. However, as a woman I met here at a party once said to me: if you tell someone about it and their response is completely negative, perhaps you are not meant for each other. I have only had three encounters here, but all three turned out to be intelligent, sensitive women and men who are truly worthwhile.

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By *Js-EmmaCouple
27 weeks ago

dublins fair city

Me too 🤣

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By *razy-CplCouple
27 weeks ago

Cork

"Genuinely looking for a like minded lady for more than fun, fed up of getting into sexual desert of relationships. Anyone else looking for their person

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Biggest thing I've seen down through the years is some singles want to meet someone here but then when they meet them one half doesn't want to share there partner or gets jealous about the fab past , which in turn causes issues . It takes a very stronger relationship to share ur partner with somebody else .

Mr crazy

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By *tockings199Couple
27 weeks ago

Waterford

I would date someone on here gladly if we like the same kinks and had a connection

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By *iscuits8Man
27 weeks ago

Dublin / Meath / Birmingham

God no

Yous are all mental

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
27 weeks ago

Home

Of course I would

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By *marisWoman
27 weeks ago

County Cork not the city

"Date? I married one! "

I met both of them in person at a social, many years ago, lovely people 🤩

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
27 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"Date? I married one!

I met both of them in person at a social, many years ago, lovely people 🤩"

I remember you well

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By *reenie101Man
27 weeks ago

City Center Dublin

Dated and it was totally fab, lasted a year or so, distance killed it in the end.

Hard to go back to “normal” dating after fab (IMO)

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By *otel CaliforniaCouple
27 weeks ago

Dirty old town

Met here, was just supposed to be for a ride, 7 years later, married, mortage and kids! 😂

If you meet someone here, there’s a better chance they’ll have more of an open like-minded mindset!

Less judgment about notches on the bedpost, both of us wanting other women, And less awkward when yas want to indulge in the lifestyle, it’s more enjoyable doing it together! ❤️

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
27 weeks ago

kinkytown

We met each other here nearly 10 years ago. Engaged over 8 now. She might finally get me down the aisle at some stage 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

"Date? I married one! "

lol , lucky you

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By *isses loverMan
27 weeks ago

Naas

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By *rownie03Man
27 weeks ago

somewer

Why wouldn't someone. For me the "fab" lifestyle surprised me not for the fact that there are amazingly hot ladies , sex and fun. But for the fact that how the couples and fabbers are mostly emotionally naked and open. The fact that you can talk to your partner about your darkest fears, fantasies , interests without being fear of judgement . If you cant be your real self in your home wer else will u be. GLad I learned the secret of communication and the true intimacy of being oneself.

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