FabSwingers.com forum: can believe how shallow people are on here

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had a friend on here he got sick and deleted his account before he got sick he had a six pack and all that goes with it. He came back with new account didn't tell people just looked for new friends. He put on 3 or 4 stone but was try in to lose it in a big way I know this because I went to the gym with him. He is a sound guy and was only here for fun.I know you need a tick skin to be on here but come on people those that live in glass houses should not throw stones

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By *utdoorsGuy8Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I can relate... I have average looks In my own opinion, I start talking to some on here and they ask for a pic, fair enough.. I send one... some I never hear back from them despite talking to some for hours. Not even a sorry, you're not my type. It's just plain rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happen me a couple of times u be chatting for hours and everything seems fine you and them a face pic and you either get blocked or ignored really irritates me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience size really doesn't matter ... It's what people can do with their bodies counts ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my experience size really doesn't matter ... It's what people can do with their bodies counts ...."
personality wins every time

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By *ushylinWoman
over a year ago

newbridge

every true size doesnt matter just how ya get on wit ppl ere and make friends its nice to be nice

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

have had the same experiences as most here but hsve found out most peeps are ok and yes there a few up there own asses but u get that in every walk of life yes u have to have a relitively good sence of humour and ull do fine

the ones who request a face pic first msg or wont send u one let them slid on there probally not worth it

its meant to be fun so have fun and enjoy if not block

happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect goes a long way ......make a friend before making an enemy.....life is about friendships we make along the way xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can relate...i aint no skinny minny and have had the odd comment but you know what their loss as i am quite a nice person and can have a laugh..and the shallow ones can go f off...if your friend has a good personality people will see that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horses for courses everyone has different preferences here and us girls have too much choice .. Guys need to have a thick skin .. If they are a bit of Craic and here for they right reasons they will get on grand .. If they are here to get their ego massaged .. Alas they have come to the wrong place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont mind what the guy or girl looks like to be honest its all about the personality and respect and if u can chat and have a laugh then its great

the fun is a bonus at the end of the day

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Had a friend on here he got sick and deleted his account before he got sick he had a six pack and all that goes with it. He came back with new account didn't tell people just looked for new friends. He put on 3 or 4 stone but was try in to lose it in a big way I know this because I went to the gym with him. He is a sound guy and was only here for fun.I know you need a tick skin to be on here but come on people those that live in glass houses should not throw stones

You haven't actually said what problems he's having, if indeed any. I've just had a look at your profile, having looked at it once before, and I see I'm blocked, even though I've never messaged you or talked to you through the forum. Is it not a bit rich then to be complaining about others being shallow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I am not a fan of six packs, not always about the way you look on here. Also you say he had a six pack when he deleted his account the first time, so he must not have been having that much luck in the first place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is it being shallow to want to fancy someone you're going to have sex with? You're saying that people should fuck others no matter what? No attraction necessary?!

I like people of all shapes and sizes. Doesn't mean I will fancy everyone though. Personality is only part of the attraction. Looks are only a bit of it.

Attitude... That's another part....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im str8 to the point when a guy emails us if i dont find them attractive i tell them no ta,this is a site to fulfill fantasies and i dont want to make friends just have sex,so got to be good looking for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im str8 to the point when a guy emails us if i dont find them attractive i tell them no ta,this is a site to fulfill fantasies and i dont want to make friends just have sex,so got to be good looking for us."

Well good looking and a dozen other requirements on your profile for what you insist on.

For me sex is 10% physical and 90% brain. I couldn't give a fiddlers if a person looked like Cameron Diaz. If they cant hold a conversation (or indeed have a list of requirements as long as their inflated ego), I walk right on by.

It is a sex site alright. But if all you want is sex based entirely and completely on looks, well then get a ceiling mirror and wank away at your bootifool reflection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not here for lifelong friends either but I have to want to meet someone before I meet them or else where's the excitement, and how I find if I want to meet them is chatting before hand and building up a bit of tension.

Everyone's on here for different things, live and let live to be really clichéd about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how is having a criteria about an inflated ego because last time i looked it was about standards that float our boat if u dont meet it dont get all huffy just move on,we arent gods gift but arent here to shag anyone with a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is it being shallow to want to fancy someone you're going to have sex with? You're saying that people should fuck others no matter what? No attraction necessary?!

I like people of all shapes and sizes. Doesn't mean I will fancy everyone though. Personality is only part of the attraction. Looks are only a bit of it.

Attitude... That's another part....

in other words hed shag a rat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how is having a criteria about an inflated ego because last time i looked it was about standards that float our boat if u dont meet it dont get all huffy just move on,we arent gods gift but arent here to shag anyone with a cock "

Ahem cooie, hello, hi there, Bienvenue

I did say exactly that I move on.

Jaysus its cat that you have to explain everything in a posting to some people......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no u didnt just move on u had to vent using judgmental and some would say a little nasty comment now we have thick skins unlike some,so how about if u have nothing nice to say say nothing? now that would have been moving on!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang on and back it up here and I will leave you at it after this.

YOU GUYS POSTED that you are shallow and look for looks.

I POSTED that if that's your gig that's your gig but that you have other lists of donts as well. Which is your business.

SO I expressed my opinion on your opinion.

That's what forums are for. You might prefer it if you were allowed post away without ever getting a comment back you didn't like.

But hey. Life is shit. And then you die

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

okay folks stop the bickering..lol. its obvious after being on here a while that for the most part looks and body type are one of the main points in deciding on whether or not to meet and get to know people. if that is not your main criteria then I would suggest you are in the minority and fair play to you, but I don't think any of us should judge any others based on their own personal preferences. we are all here for our own reasons and should be allowed to do as we wish without being judged.I ,btw am a people person and don't have a type but know only too well that is not the case with most!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bickering on the forums always happens different opinions wat ever .

Different strokes for different folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"okay folks stop the bickering..lol. its obvious after being on here a while that for the most part looks and body type are one of the main points in deciding on whether or not to meet and get to know people. if that is not your main criteria then I would suggest you are in the minority and fair play to you, but I don't think any of us should judge any others based on their own personal preferences. we are all here for our own reasons and should be allowed to do as we wish without being judged.I ,btw am a people person and don't have a type but know only too well that is not the case with most!!!!!!!!!"

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local

What are u on about ? are u saying its better to put on 4 stone to get 3 or 4 friends,,at that rate putting on 12 stone would make u a magnet for friend requests,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love six packs .... harp magners bud I never show favouritism to any of them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personality wins every time and people that are looking for others with model good looks etc should look in the mirror themselves to make sure they fit the same category themselves before judging them.

We all want our own thing on here and it is supposed to be a fun place and at the same time if u feel that a persons profile is not for you then just move on as there is plenty to go around for ALL here

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By *SinfullyCuriousCouple
over a year ago

Co Antrim, N. Ireland

"How is it being shallow to want to fancy someone you're going to have sex with? You're saying that people should fuck others no matter what? No attraction necessary?!

I like people of all shapes and sizes. Doesn't mean I will fancy everyone though. Personality is only part of the attraction. Looks are only a bit of it.

Attitude... That's another part....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hooked up with an east euro pean. girl in a club ages ago.she looked like a supermodel but she had no english,night was fab but next morning was very hard to deal with. we just couldn't comunicate together no matter how we tried,so a lot more than looks needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a arranged a meet on here, had been talking for a few days, sent a face pic, all was good, day before I was sent a message asking to send body pic, done that, got a message back saying I'm cancelling meet, I only want 6 packs,come back wen u have one, and I am by no means a big lad, since then I've got the stomach flat, no 6 pack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a arranged a meet on here, had been talking for a few days, sent a face pic, all was good, day before I was sent a message asking to send body pic, done that, got a message back saying I'm cancelling meet, I only want 6 packs,come back wen u have one, and I am by no means a big lad, since then I've got the stomach flat, no 6 pack

sounds more like she wimped out and was looking for an excuse cos she didn't have the guts to own up. What an rude idiot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds more like she wimped out and was looking for an excuse cos she didn't have the guts to own up. What an rude idiot."

Was thinking the same there,

As for someone rejecting the ops mate for not having a 6 pack _ I find that a tad far fetched.Whilst there are many classicly beautifully people in here, theres a damn site more that are dead ordinary, with spare tyres and droopy boobs and sagging bums - all getting meets

Perhaps your friend needs to hone up his social skills, get a great profile going, contact women who have a preference for larger guys - and there are many ( not like he sounds as if hes huge anyway)and to grow a pair - or at least go find himself a winning personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all need to step up to the mark at times, even if it means two steps forward three steps back, respect each other along the way, enjoy fruits of labour and all that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each and everyone of us are different in so many ways and personally that's great as life would get very boring.

I like U2, but if they started playing only dance or rave music next week I wouldn't go to their concert as I don't like that, it's not shallow.

Sex with people here, who for the most are strangers, normally only occurs when there is a physical attraction first, but what attracts one may not another.

Also people have busy lives and may not have the time to entertain those they are not attracted to and I understand, there are other social sites if your looking for friends.

Plus if they people who are not attracted to you don't take up your time being friendly and messaging you, it leaves you more time to find those that might be interested in you.

Personally I don't think their shallow, their just not attracted and that's an important part of the deed

Sorry for the rant and go easy on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Each and everyone of us are different in so many ways and personally that's great as life would get very boring.

I like U2, but if they started playing only dance or rave music next week I wouldn't go to their concert as I don't like that, it's not shallow.

Sex with people here, who for the most are strangers, normally only occurs when there is a physical attraction first, but what attracts one may not another.

Also people have busy lives and may not have the time to entertain those they are not attracted to and I understand, there are other social sites if your looking for friends.

Plus if they people who are not attracted to you don't take up your time being friendly and messaging you, it leaves you more time to find those that might be interested in you.

Personally I don't think their shallow, their just not attracted and that's an important part of the deed

Sorry for the rant and go easy on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Each and everyone of us are different in so many ways and personally that's great as life would get very boring.

I like U2, but if they started playing only dance or rave music next week I wouldn't go to their concert as I don't like that, it's not shallow.

Sex with people here, who for the most are strangers, normally only occurs when there is a physical attraction first, but what attracts one may not another.

Also people have busy lives and may not have the time to entertain those they are not attracted to and I understand, there are other social sites if your looking for friends.

Plus if they people who are not attracted to you don't take up your time being friendly and messaging you, it leaves you more time to find those that might be interested in you.

Personally I don't think their shallow, their just not attracted and that's an important part of the deed

Sorry for the rant and go easy on me

Very well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmmm im wondering whoever this "friend" is?im sure he'd be mortified that u posted it on the forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to be thick skinned and accept rejection.. If I message and they don't reply or delete, I simply block them and attach a note saying "did not reply.. Rude" simples..

I do however hate after going to the bother of making an effort with a mail not to receive even a "not interested, thanks" it's just polite in my opinion.

I also don't mail anyone who does not have looking for male in their profile.. I play the game but the game is rigged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't actually mind a guy with a bit of padding as my fwb is twice my weight, gives me something to grab onto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't actually mind a guy with a bit of padding as my fwb is twice my weight, gives me something to grab onto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP hasn't commented since starting this thread and I still dont understand what the point is?????!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's face it, big small, tall or short, there has to be some amount of physical attraction.

You can't have a wank over a personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's the way the world goes I'm afraid. Being big myself I know what this feels like.

But I wouldn't call all the guys who didn't fancy me shallow. Everyone is shallow in their own way... pursuing what they find attractive the most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The OP hasn't commented since starting this thread and I still dont understand what the point is?????!!!!

i reckon the friend is the op!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The OP hasn't commented since starting this thread and I still dont understand what the point is?????!!!!

i reckon the friend is the op!!"

I was thinking the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

sorry for offendind you _ichael mccarthy your married and playing alone its just not my thing

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