FabSwingers.com forum: Str8 men

By (user no longer on site) OP
34 weeks ago

Can someone explain all the str8 men who want to shag gay men. Is it just the curiosity or what’s the surge.

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By *ob the BMan
34 weeks ago

mullingar

Id say most of them bi .. just won't say it profile .. I've straight guys checking me out all time

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By *exytvlegs 750TV/TS
34 weeks ago

Mario

I have guys all the time message me looking to meet.But stright on there profile.And they do that if they put Bi on there profile females will not meet them

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By *og-ManMan
34 weeks ago

somewhere

There's a thread on here for bi men to meet up that's nearly at the limit of 175 messages

Count how many straight men have posted saying they'd like to join a group for bi men

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By *njco64Man
34 weeks ago

Tipperary

I never understood why guys contact me saying they are genuine and want to meet but their profile says they are straight! Nothing like a good honest start guys well done 🙄

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Its sad that so many guys feel that have to stay in the closet.

Its sad that they get so much shit for it too.

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By *ackandsashaCouple
34 weeks ago

West Dublin

I don't know why so many people worry so much about labels. Some people don't fit into straight/bi/gay categories.

Some men for example are orally bi but don't feel bi. A lot of women will snog other women but don't identify as bi.

If you want to do something with someone else who is also happy with the situation, have fun.

And for the label obsessed folk, hope you have fun too.

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By *4thfloorTV/TS
34 weeks ago

Dublin / Sligo

"I don't know why so many people worry so much about labels. Some people don't fit into straight/bi/gay categories.

Some men for example are orally bi but don't feel bi. A lot of women will snog other women but don't identify as bi.

If you want to do something with someone else who is also happy with the situation, have fun.

And for the label obsessed folk, hope you have fun too.

Sure, but straight is a label too. And as flawed as they are, I find that the label someone is more comfortable identifying with can tell me a lot about how compatible we are likely to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"I don't know why so many people worry so much about labels. Some people don't fit into straight/bi/gay categories.

Some men for example are orally bi but don't feel bi. A lot of women will snog other women but don't identify as bi.

If you want to do something with someone else who is also happy with the situation, have fun.

And for the label obsessed folk, hope you have fun too.

Couldn’t agree more

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By *rnicaMan
34 weeks ago

Cork, Kerry, Waterford and surrounds

I don't really get it either. Used to get plenty one-liner propositions from guys identifying as straight on their profile until I just adjusted my filters accordingly.

I'm 100% straight, but I can empathize with lads that may have other leanings but feel they have to hide them. Living with shame about who you are is something that noone should suffer with needlessly. But being unclear in your intentions via your profile is confusing to people and only serves to amplify that feeling of shame.

True, the categories available on here (straight, bi-curious etc) are a bit limiting if you don't fully align with any particular one. But this is where a considered and well written bio can come in. A few short paragraphs, authentically written can convey so much more about a person and still maintain privacy.

If any bi-curious lads are reading this, maybe try making it more about attraction rather than promotion?

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By *om_UMan
34 weeks ago

Dublin

It so annoying getting hounded with messages from gay men when your profile says straight!

But fyi you can end up on other lads profiles as you are reading their verifications from a female you might be seeing or meeting!

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By *ackandsashaCouple
34 weeks ago

West Dublin

"It so annoying getting hounded with messages from gay men when your profile says straight!

But fyi you can end up on other lads profiles as you are reading their verifications from a female you might be seeing or meeting! "

It must annoying getting hounded by single males. We don't receive any from single males, not one. Here is our message filters by the way.

Females (can mail you) Block them

Males (blocked) Allow them

MF Couples (male, female) (can mail you) Block them

TV/TS/CD (blocked) Allow them

FF Couples (two females) (blocked) Allow them

MM Couples (two males) (blocked) Allow them

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