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By (user no longer on site) OP   
35 weeks ago

So we all know that women get 1000s of messages on here from Timahoe to Timbuktu. On the surface, it seems that men are really motivated and meeting with men here should be like shooting fish in a barrel for women.

Yet there seems to be also a lot of complaints about men not turning up, ghosting etc.

What's your theory for this mismatch? Are men like a machine gun messaging but then fire blanks when actually asked to meet? I just sense more geneally men are becoming more apathic about dating and even sex so it's funny to read those updates like 'I've a 1000 unread messages, leave me alone'

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By *anesTheNameTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Dublin

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By *anesTheNameTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Dublin

I've never seen it as bad as it is lately, and I don't know what's in the water. The amount of time wasting and flakes I've had lately, never had it when I was previously on fab.

To give an example, one user “verified by meets” tried to lure me out to a hotel. He sent me a video of a hotel bathroom as proof but forgot to mute the audio and was screen recording some YouTuber doing a tour. One I caught it I was inevitably blocked but still… it is MAD!

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By *ust_us999Couple
35 weeks ago

Somewhere


"So we all know that women get 1000s of messages on here from Timahoe to Timbuktu. On the surface, it seems that men are really motivated and meeting with men here should be like shooting fish in a barrel for women.

Yet there seems to be also a lot of complaints about men not turning up, ghosting etc.

What's your theory for this mismatch? Are men like a machine gun messaging but then fire blanks when actually asked to meet? I just sense more geneally men are becoming more apathic about dating and even sex so it's funny to read those updates like 'I've a 1000 unread messages, leave me alone'"

Maybe men that like to "talk the talk, but not walk the walk", or men that couldn't come up with an excuse to leave the house.

That's my theory at least

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

A lot of men just enjoy fab as a fantasy. They'll search and send messages and arrange meets and when the post nut clarity hits all plans go in the bin with the tissue.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I’m still waiting for an invite,

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By *mmortalbMan
35 weeks ago

kildare


"A lot of men just enjoy fab as a fantasy. They'll search and send messages and arrange meets and when the post nut clarity hits all plans go in the bin with the tissue."

I think this is the most likely answer. I couldn't agree to meet someone and not show, even if nerves hit, bit shitty hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Men come on for a filthy chat. Say they will meet and are so sexed up they have a wank after chatting and then its all over. 💧💧

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