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By *iam756 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

somewhere Dublin & Kildare

Hello I’m a discreet guy looking to explore new sexual experiences I’ve tried lots so far but mmf I haven’t yet been in mfm a few times was fun

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By *iam756 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

somewhere Dublin & Kildare

?

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple
36 weeks ago

Cork

If you were a discreet attached lady on here looking for fun , you would be inundated with messages on here, the narrative is different on here for different sexes.

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By *enitMan
36 weeks ago

Galway


"If you were a discreet attached lady on here looking for fun , you would be inundated with messages on here, the narrative is different on here for different sexes."

So true

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
36 weeks ago

Co Antrim

And you are proud of being attached and on here? Most people call that cheating. Consent and respect for your partners is everything. So it's not a good look if you don't respect the person you are with. This isn't a cheating site. It's a swinging site. Look up what it is.

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By *og-ManMan
36 weeks ago

somewhere


"And you are proud of being attached and on here? Most people call that cheating. Consent and respect for your partners is everything. So it's not a good look if you don't respect the person you are with. This isn't a cheating site. It's a swinging site. Look up what it is. "

Hope you write that on all the posts that the female cheaters also write on the forums

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
36 weeks ago

Co Antrim


"And you are proud of being attached and on here? Most people call that cheating. Consent and respect for your partners is everything. So it's not a good look if you don't respect the person you are with. This isn't a cheating site. It's a swinging site. Look up what it is.

Hope you write that on all the posts that the female cheaters also write on the forums "

Yes I would do that if I saw any

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By *ale4U2Man
36 weeks ago

Nearby


"And you are proud of being attached and on here? Most people call that cheating. Consent and respect for your partners is everything. So it's not a good look if you don't respect the person you are with. This isn't a cheating site. It's a swinging site. Look up what it is.

Hope you write that on all the posts that the female cheaters also write on the forums "
This ... and so many women meeting men just because they say SAY theyre single. At least the married guys (and girls) are upfront and honest about it

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"And you are proud of being attached and on here? Most people call that cheating. Consent and respect for your partners is everything. So it's not a good look if you don't respect the person you are with. This isn't a cheating site. It's a swinging site. Look up what it is.

Hope you write that on all the posts that the female cheaters also write on the forums This ... and so many women meeting men just because they say SAY theyre single. At least the married guys (and girls) are upfront and honest about it "

Eh not all men are upfront about it...thats the point 🤦‍♀️

I cant comment on the women as Im not gay xx

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By *man1044Man
36 weeks ago

North Galway

Honesty is the best policy we not here to judge people

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By *ale4U2Man
36 weeks ago

Nearby


"And you are proud of being attached and on here? Most people call that cheating. Consent and respect for your partners is everything. So it's not a good look if you don't respect the person you are with. This isn't a cheating site. It's a swinging site. Look up what it is.

Hope you write that on all the posts that the female cheaters also write on the forums This ... and so many women meeting men just because they say SAY theyre single. At least the married guys (and girls) are upfront and honest about it

Eh not all men are upfront about it...thats the point 🤦‍♀️

I cant comment on the women as Im not gay xx"

Apologies i meant when they state it on their profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

The whole place is awfully judgemental and for everyone its terribly black and white

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Imagine coming on the internet and then sulking because someone judged you.

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By *adger BrocMan
36 weeks ago

North Cork

I was taken to task recently on another thread for being judgemental of people that I thought were being judgemental of others.....

The whole judgy thing is a bit of a rabbit hole or maybe even a badger sett.....🤣😂🤣😂🤣.

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By *he KakapoMan
36 weeks ago

A nice rock


"And you are proud of being attached and on here? Most people call that cheating. Consent and respect for your partners is everything. So it's not a good look if you don't respect the person you are with. This isn't a cheating site. It's a swinging site. Look up what it is.

Hope you write that on all the posts that the female cheaters also write on the forums "

To be fair they have always been consistent in their view of cheating and commentary old ir regardless of gender.

But once again its a male profile raising the subject. And they the male attached singles will complain about the unfair negativity around male attached singles.

The woman just don't bring it up or continuously draw attention to themselves

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By *rsandthecameramanCouple
36 weeks ago

City

Couldn’t care less.

Honestly,

Nexxxxt

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By *8redballoonsMan
36 weeks ago

Newcastle

Just popped in for the drama

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By *haddyMan
36 weeks ago

Galway

This whole drama honestly feels like people taking medication for other people's sickness

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By *obbie 99Man
36 weeks ago

Tullamore

I'm drinking Pepsi and eating nachos 🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"And you are proud of being attached and on here? Most people call that cheating. Consent and respect for your partners is everything. So it's not a good look if you don't respect the person you are with. This isn't a cheating site. It's a swinging site. Look up what it is.

Hope you write that on all the posts that the female cheaters also write on the forums This ... and so many women meeting men just because they say SAY theyre single. At least the married guys (and girls) are upfront and honest about it "

Upfront & honest about it ?? Really...it's the internet ..who da F**K knows what ..

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I popped into the Irish forums, and look, drama, ffs. Back I go.

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By *njco64Man
35 weeks ago

Tipperary


"And you are proud of being attached and on here? Most people call that cheating. Consent and respect for your partners is everything. So it's not a good look if you don't respect the person you are with. This isn't a cheating site. It's a swinging site. Look up what it is.

Hope you write that on all the posts that the female cheaters also write on the forums

Yes I would do that if I saw any "

I always find it fascinating how people occupying their position on their moral high ground feel a need to pontificate to others whose position life or situation they know nothing about either male or female I also wonder why they don’t just skip the topic and let others mind their own business instead of needing to offer negative self serving opinions that solidify their position and make them feel and look superior My humble opinion which is probably worthless as I fall under the wicked category that wouldn’t thankfully get me close to the hill never mind occupying the high ground is I’m glad folks enjoy what they have in their life I honestly hope they enjoy it to the max and it gives them everything they always want but for us guys and girls who for whatever reason want but can’t have please just skip past the topic without feeling the need to denigrate our feelings wants and needs if your not in this position you really don’t know what you’re talking about so churning out your stereotypical preaching is worthless makes you look silly. You don’t have the right to judge people you know nothing about. Have a great day folks

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By *om TangoMan
35 weeks ago

Tedavnet Co.Monaghan

I don’t judge. But there is a few attached lady’s in this lifestyle and I call some of them my friends. I myself rejoined this site as an attached male. Well in saying attached I was sharing a house with my now ex wife but we were no longer share a bedroom or not even as much as a hug. So technically I was still attached. Cheating. I highly doubt that because in my head which isn’t always right I was no longer of use to the woman I was apparently attracted too. I was just a pay cheque. I deserved to be seen as much more than just a paycheck. I deserved to experience what it was like to be held, kissed and so on. Now I fully get it why some would jump in saying I was cheating and I respect that. But don’t judge anyone before walking a mile in their shoes. I went about 5 years in the prime of my life without as much as a hug or a thank you for working a 15 hour day away from home. All I needed was a hug and a kiss. The sex bit, was happy to have it every other month.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
35 weeks ago

Castlebar

My philosophy would be

Everybody has a story, don't judge people that you don't know. You may think you understand but you don't know the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I suppose one of the things about looking in from the outside is that the cheater isn't the only one saying walk a mile in my shoe's.

There's also those who's lives have been devastated by an unfaithful partner. And their kids. Some of those judging probably wore those shoes.

There's shoes all round to be walked in

It's easy to say dead bedroom or whatever it takes but the only thing anyone can be sure of is that you are willing to lie to get your hole because you've told everyone in the hopes of getting a pat on the back for being 'honest'.

I do think that every situation is unique and I do think that sex is a basic human need. I just don't understand the need to cry foul when your already offside. Just get on with it without the fanfare and poor me stories.

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By *M 4 FUNMan
35 weeks ago

galway

For a sex site its very judgmental. So many voices always preaching ethics on here to look good. Truth is if a hot woman or man or what ever they into showed interest they wouldnt give 2 fucks if they were married or not and would ride them in a heart beat. Saying otherwise is horse shite. Espicially from single people.Putting on a face to meet the crowd. Get over morals this isnt the site for it. Do what you want to do. Judge not, lest ye be judged.

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By *hantomfemmeWoman
35 weeks ago

Sligo/Galway/limerick depends on the day


"For a sex site its very judgmental. So many voices always preaching ethics on here to look good. Truth is if a hot woman or man or what ever they into showed interest they wouldnt give 2 fucks if they were married or not and would ride them in a heart beat. Saying otherwise is horse shite. Espicially from single people.Putting on a face to meet the crowd. Get over morals this isnt the site for it. Do what you want to do. Judge not, lest ye be judged."

👏 👏

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
35 weeks ago

Galway, Clare


"For a sex site its very judgmental. So many voices always preaching ethics on here to look good. Truth is if a hot woman or man or what ever they into showed interest they wouldnt give 2 fucks if they were married or not and would ride them in a heart beat. Saying otherwise is horse shite. Espicially from single people.Putting on a face to meet the crowd. Get over morals this isnt the site for it. Do what you want to do. Judge not, lest ye be judged."

Can't seem to find the "what a load of bollo×" emoji, so I shall instead.

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By *og-ManMan
35 weeks ago

somewhere


"For a sex site its very judgmental. So many voices always preaching ethics on here to look good. Truth is if a hot woman or man or what ever they into showed interest they wouldnt give 2 fucks if they were married or not and would ride them in a heart beat. Saying otherwise is horse shite. Espicially from single people.Putting on a face to meet the crowd. Get over morals this isnt the site for it. Do what you want to do. Judge not, lest ye be judged.

Can't seem to find the "what a load of bollo×" emoji, so I shall instead."

I'm feckin useless at emoji's

⚽️⚽️🐂🐂

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By *hePixieAndTheBearCouple
35 weeks ago

Galway


"For a sex site its very judgmental. So many voices always preaching ethics on here to look good. Truth is if a hot woman or man or what ever they into showed interest they wouldnt give 2 fucks if they were married or not and would ride them in a heart beat. Saying otherwise is horse shite. Espicially from single people.Putting on a face to meet the crowd. Get over morals this isnt the site for it. Do what you want to do. Judge not, lest ye be judged."

People are welcome to do what they feel like as long as it's not illegal. As it happens, judging is as legal as cheating.

And for the sake of the argument, while it's obviously used for other purposes, the "sex site" in question is a *swinging* site. Swinging being a form of ethical non-monogamy. It's not exactly surprising that part of the community feels strongly about non-consensual fooling around. 🤷

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By *adger BrocMan
35 weeks ago

North Cork


"For a sex site its very judgmental. So many voices always preaching ethics on here to look good. Truth is if a hot woman or man or what ever they into showed interest they wouldnt give 2 fucks if they were married or not and would ride them in a heart beat. Saying otherwise is horse shite. Espicially from single people.Putting on a face to meet the crowd. Get over morals this isnt the site for it. Do what you want to do. Judge not, lest ye be judged.

People are welcome to do what they feel like as long as it's not illegal. As it happens, judging is as legal as cheating.

And for the sake of the argument, while it's obviously used for other purposes, the "sex site" in question is a *swinging* site. Swinging being a form of ethical non-monogamy. It's not exactly surprising that part of the community feels strongly about non-consensual fooling around. 🤷"

....

NCFA.....finally an acronym for the opposite to ENM.

At least this thread has achieved something.

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By *M 4 FUNMan
35 weeks ago

galway


"For a sex site its very judgmental. So many voices always preaching ethics on here to look good. Truth is if a hot woman or man or what ever they into showed interest they wouldnt give 2 fucks if they were married or not and would ride them in a heart beat. Saying otherwise is horse shite. Espicially from single people.Putting on a face to meet the crowd. Get over morals this isnt the site for it. Do what you want to do. Judge not, lest ye be judged.

Can't seem to find the "what a load of bollo×" emoji, so I shall instead."

Really???? Iv been around here on an old account. You say no married men??? So you have never played with a married man????🤔🤔🤔🤔

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By *M 4 FUNMan
35 weeks ago

galway


"For a sex site its very judgmental. So many voices always preaching ethics on here to look good. Truth is if a hot woman or man or what ever they into showed interest they wouldnt give 2 fucks if they were married or not and would ride them in a heart beat. Saying otherwise is horse shite. Espicially from single people.Putting on a face to meet the crowd. Get over morals this isnt the site for it. Do what you want to do. Judge not, lest ye be judged.

Can't seem to find the "what a load of bollo×" emoji, so I shall instead.

I'm feckin useless at emoji's

⚽️⚽️🐂🐂"

Nope just calling out bullshite. Iv been here 4 year and plenty of socials and events to see all these "no married men" in action and they dont practice what they preach. Call me what you will but behind it all ye know im right.

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By *parkie2Man
35 weeks ago

mullingar

You'd have no issue filling a jury panel here

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By *adhatter and coCouple
35 weeks ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

I don’t give a fuck about his relationship status but I do think the impatient question mark when he got no responses was impolite

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