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"So im new here, was chatting to someone who I think would be well knows on here. Planned to do a video call for verification after chatting for a bit. I got sent a payment link sent to me first and now they won't do the call without payment. I assume this is not normal? " OP course this is not normal report the profile! B x | |||
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"Yeah sorry about that the NCT is due and times are hard plus the dog needs an operation. I'll give you 20% off if you remove the thread thx" Make it 25  | |||
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 wonder who else has been paying for verifications | |||
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"Well known on here wonder who else has been paying for verifications"If I wanted to dig a little I could tell you, verifications often leave a trail. Its just my opinion, but the ladies of this site appear to be particularly guilty of this practice. Numerous times I've came across fake profiles, and if they didn't have their verifications off you could find the culprit easily enough. | |||
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"Veris are hit and miss at the best of times, nobody should be relying on them to be 100% valid. " it's not about hit and miss it's about a genuine meet. It's dangerous for other fabbers to verify someone you've never met, fuck knows who they are and what they're capable of | |||
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"Veris are hit and miss at the best of times, nobody should be relying on them to be 100% valid. it's not about hit and miss it's about a genuine meet. It's dangerous for other fabbers to verify someone you've never met, fuck knows who they are and what they're capable of" And someone who is capable of crazy shit can hide it for a meet to get veried also. So as I said nobody should be relying on veris alone even genuine ones | |||
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"Veris are hit and miss at the best of times, nobody should be relying on them to be 100% valid. it's not about hit and miss it's about a genuine meet. It's dangerous for other fabbers to verify someone you've never met, fuck knows who they are and what they're capable of And someone who is capable of crazy shit can hide it for a meet to get veried also. So as I said nobody should be relying on veris alone even genuine ones " I over think things perhaps but for me social meet verifications only show that a person was cordial and friendly in a public setting often at a group/mass verification event. | |||
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"Veris are hit and miss at the best of times, nobody should be relying on them to be 100% valid. " The only thing a Veri should guarantee is that they exist. But when you have people giving them out for favour/payment then that goes out the window. Many fake accounts have verifications from other fakes that eventually lead back to the originator. They're Veris will tell who sold out. The verifications are usually turned off but I have seen many cases where this has happened on here. | |||
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"Well known on here wonder who else has been paying for verifications"Yeah very interesting 🤔 | |||
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"So im new here, was chatting to someone who I think would be well knows on here. Planned to do a video call for verification after chatting for a bit. I got sent a payment link sent to me first and now they won't do the call without payment. I assume this is not normal? " yeah that's not normal someone on the scam advoid at all cost mate | |||
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"Absolutely not..... report and get them banned. Disgraceful behaviour. " Have them reported to admin. Since been blocked so I assume they have seen my post | |||
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"Absolutely not..... report and get them banned. Disgraceful behaviour. Have them reported to admin. Since been blocked so I assume they have seen my post " That'd happen automatically when you report s profile like that | |||
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"I haven't come across this but I've always said that the only thing that surprised me when joining fab was the effort some people put into being relevant on here and their need for validation. This thread doesn't suprise me and I could easily believe that there are some very real and well thought of profiles behind scams such as this and not all fake profiles. That's just based on conversations over the years with well verified and popular forum users and how they talked about playing the game. " Love to hear their names | |||
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"So im new here, was chatting to someone who I think would be well knows on here. Planned to do a video call for verification after chatting for a bit. I got sent a payment link sent to me first and now they won't do the call without payment. I assume this is not normal? " Haven’t heard of this before but not surprised it’s going on. I saw a status last night of a lady saying she was too lazy to bother going to the hassle of getting site supporter and would someone do It for her. Half an hour later, she was a silver member. The person who bought it for her definitely got something in return. The same with giving your number or messenger handle and all of a sudden, it’s constant scam messages. I also think new members should not be allowed to send or reply to any messages for at least 72 hours until they get a grip of the site to see if they want to stay and if you’ve not got yourself verified as a male, female or couples profile within seven days, your profile should be automatically removed from the site. It would tighten things up a bit for everyone. | |||
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"I haven't come across this but I've always said that the only thing that surprised me when joining fab was the effort some people put into being relevant on here and their need for validation. This thread doesn't suprise me and I could easily believe that there are some very real and well thought of profiles behind scams such as this and not all fake profiles. That's just based on conversations over the years with well verified and popular forum users and how they talked about playing the game. Love to hear their names" I've never given names on here and I won't be starting now. Lots of people will know who they are and are happy to enable them. | |||
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"So im new here, was chatting to someone who I think would be well knows on here. Planned to do a video call for verification after chatting for a bit. I got sent a payment link sent to me first and now they won't do the call without payment. I assume this is not normal? Haven’t heard of this before but not surprised it’s going on. I saw a status last night of a lady saying she was too lazy to bother going to the hassle of getting site supporter and would someone do It for her. Half an hour later, she was a silver member. The person who bought it for her definitely got something in return. The same with giving your number or messenger handle and all of a sudden, it’s constant scam messages. I also think new members should not be allowed to send or reply to any messages for at least 72 hours until they get a grip of the site to see if they want to stay and if you’ve not got yourself verified as a male, female or couples profile within seven days, your profile should be automatically removed from the site. It would tighten things up a bit for everyone. " I doubt the person who paid for 'her' got anything in return. Some lads are idiots who'll do anything for a remote chance of the ride. Are you sure it was a woman? Plus we got 6 veris within our first week because we attended a social, so we should have been removed you think? Making the site fully paid would solve many of the sites problems imo  | |||
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"Absolutely not..... report and get them banned. Disgraceful behaviour. Have them reported to admin. Since been blocked so I assume they have seen my post " Admin blocked you from each other, that's what they do when you report another profile. That's why we never report profiles any more, we just hotlist to keep an eye on them | |||
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"So im new here, was chatting to someone who I think would be well knows on here. Planned to do a video call for verification after chatting for a bit. I got sent a payment link sent to me first and now they won't do the call without payment. I assume this is not normal? Haven’t heard of this before but not surprised it’s going on. I saw a status last night of a lady saying she was too lazy to bother going to the hassle of getting site supporter and would someone do It for her. Half an hour later, she was a silver member. The person who bought it for her definitely got something in return. The same with giving your number or messenger handle and all of a sudden, it’s constant scam messages. I also think new members should not be allowed to send or reply to any messages for at least 72 hours until they get a grip of the site to see if they want to stay and if you’ve not got yourself verified as a male, female or couples profile within seven days, your profile should be automatically removed from the site. It would tighten things up a bit for everyone. I doubt the person who paid for 'her' got anything in return. Some lads are idiots who'll do anything for a remote chance of the ride. Are you sure it was a woman? Plus we got 6 veris within our first week because we attended a social, so we should have been removed you think? Making the site fully paid would solve many of the sites problems imo "Im 100 percent sure this person was a woman. They have plenty of verifications from both men and women going back a few years weather they were paid for or not i dont know. | |||
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"Absolutely not..... report and get them banned. Disgraceful behaviour. Have them reported to admin. Since been blocked so I assume they have seen my post Admin blocked you from each other, that's what they do when you report another profile. That's why we never report profiles any more, we just hotlist to keep an eye on them "I realised this is what happens when you report a profile. Hot list and notes do a better job. I had a man blocked here and he kept coming back with a new profile so blocking was useless | |||
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"So im new here, was chatting to someone who I think would be well knows on here. Planned to do a video call for verification after chatting for a bit. I got sent a payment link sent to me first and now they won't do the call without payment. I assume this is not normal? Haven’t heard of this before but not surprised it’s going on. I saw a status last night of a lady saying she was too lazy to bother going to the hassle of getting site supporter and would someone do It for her. Half an hour later, she was a silver member. The person who bought it for her definitely got something in return. The same with giving your number or messenger handle and all of a sudden, it’s constant scam messages. I also think new members should not be allowed to send or reply to any messages for at least 72 hours until they get a grip of the site to see if they want to stay and if you’ve not got yourself verified as a male, female or couples profile within seven days, your profile should be automatically removed from the site. It would tighten things up a bit for everyone. I doubt the person who paid for 'her' got anything in return. Some lads are idiots who'll do anything for a remote chance of the ride. Are you sure it was a woman? Plus we got 6 veris within our first week because we attended a social, so we should have been removed you think? Making the site fully paid would solve many of the sites problems imo "Apologies, my error. I meant they should be photo verified as a man, woman or couples profile within seven days, not an actual verification. My mistake for not reading over what I wrote before posting. | |||
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"The only thing a verification means for me is that the person is real. So it’s the ✅ that matters. And the text is just additional context that can be useful but Ive met well verified people who I “didn’t like” so the verification text is subjective imo " Yes a verification only means that the person you've been chatting to turned up and was who they said they were. | |||
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"So im new here, was chatting to someone who I think would be well knows on here. Planned to do a video call for verification after chatting for a bit. I got sent a payment link sent to me first and now they won't do the call without payment. I assume this is not normal? Haven’t heard of this before but not surprised it’s going on. I saw a status last night of a lady saying she was too lazy to bother going to the hassle of getting site supporter and would someone do It for her. Half an hour later, she was a silver member. The person who bought it for her definitely got something in return. The same with giving your number or messenger handle and all of a sudden, it’s constant scam messages. I also think new members should not be allowed to send or reply to any messages for at least 72 hours until they get a grip of the site to see if they want to stay and if you’ve not got yourself verified as a male, female or couples profile within seven days, your profile should be automatically removed from the site. It would tighten things up a bit for everyone. I doubt the person who paid for 'her' got anything in return. Some lads are idiots who'll do anything for a remote chance of the ride. Are you sure it was a woman? Plus we got 6 veris within our first week because we attended a social, so we should have been removed you think? Making the site fully paid would solve many of the sites problems imo
Apologies, my error. I meant they should be photo verified as a man, woman or couples profile within seven days, not an actual verification. My mistake for not reading over what I wrote before posting. "There should be limited time for an actual verification too...People on here over a year with no verification. Should be something like 12 weeks maximum! | |||
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" There should be limited time for an actual verification too...People on here over a year with no verification. Should be something like 12 weeks maximum!" I disagree, I've been here for years at a time with no verifications, I don't like the whole process. But for those that can't get them your just going to encourage more and more people to go a shady route to get one or lose their profile. Besides as this thread shows they are next to meaningless | |||
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"So im new here, was chatting to someone who I think would be well knows on here. Planned to do a video call for verification after chatting for a bit. I got sent a payment link sent to me first and now they won't do the call without payment. I assume this is not normal? Haven’t heard of this before but not surprised it’s going on. I saw a status last night of a lady saying she was too lazy to bother going to the hassle of getting site supporter and would someone do It for her. Half an hour later, she was a silver member. The person who bought it for her definitely got something in return. The same with giving your number or messenger handle and all of a sudden, it’s constant scam messages. I also think new members should not be allowed to send or reply to any messages for at least 72 hours until they get a grip of the site to see if they want to stay and if you’ve not got yourself verified as a male, female or couples profile within seven days, your profile should be automatically removed from the site. It would tighten things up a bit for everyone. I doubt the person who paid for 'her' got anything in return. Some lads are idiots who'll do anything for a remote chance of the ride. Are you sure it was a woman? Plus we got 6 veris within our first week because we attended a social, so we should have been removed you think? Making the site fully paid would solve many of the sites problems imo
Apologies, my error. I meant they should be photo verified as a man, woman or couples profile within seven days, not an actual verification. My mistake for not reading over what I wrote before posting.
There should be limited time for an actual verification too...People on here over a year with no verification. Should be something like 12 weeks maximum!". No I wouldn't like that. I've met people and we didn't verify each other and I'd hate to feel pressure to get one. | |||
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" There should be limited time for an actual verification too...People on here over a year with no verification. Should be something like 12 weeks maximum! I disagree, I've been here for years at a time with no verifications, I don't like the whole process. But for those that can't get them your just going to encourage more and more people to go a shady route to get one or lose their profile. Besides as this thread shows they are next to meaningless " ...... Not sure that verifications are meaningless. I struggled for a while after joing the site to get a meet. But a Fab angel took pity on me through a "help a fabber" thread and my Fab journey began in earnest. She insisted on paying for her own coffee so no form of payment was involved in getting the verification.....😇 | |||
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"That's a nice little nixer I could put my A in Honors English to good use writing verifications. He stood over me with his massive throbbing tool and I gasped in amazement at its size "I'll give you €25 | |||
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"So im new here, was chatting to someone who I think would be well knows on here. Planned to do a video call for verification after chatting for a bit. I got sent a payment link sent to me first and now they won't do the call without payment. I assume this is not normal? " That’s not normal. And webcam verification are not in person verification. You can go to a social event or go meet people for a coffee. But paying for a webcam verification is a no no !!! However maybe you could also just wind us up 😂😂 so that someone will comment your thread. | |||
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"So im new here, was chatting to someone who I think would be well knows on here. Planned to do a video call for verification after chatting for a bit. I got sent a payment link sent to me first and now they won't do the call without payment. I assume this is not normal? OP course this is not normal report the profile! B x" 100% B. It's not normal and the OP should report the profile! | |||
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"..next thing there will be profiles looking to get paid for sex or used panties...
..or the old chestnut, you will have to pay for half the room, and we need you gone within the hour, it'll be £120... "Do people actually ask someone to pay for half the room if they're not staying | |||
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"..next thing there will be profiles looking to get paid for sex or used panties...
..or the old chestnut, you will have to pay for half the room, and we need you gone within the hour, it'll be £120...
Do people actually ask someone to pay for half the room if they're not staying "Only if they are trying to scam you.....and they have more 'arrivals'. It's an old scam from years ago on here. Quite lucrative from all accounts | |||
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"Think I may have sussed who is leaving fake veris... finally" Well, we've a male and female account blocked that are blatantly either setting up multiple accounts or giving veirs to evey oddball on here! | |||
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"Think I may have sussed who is leaving fake veris... finally Well, we've a male and female account blocked that are blatantly either setting up multiple accounts or giving veirs to evey oddball on here!" I honestly dont talk to enough people to work this one out🤣🤣🤣 But i do know some well verified accounts that are sneaky out. | |||
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"I recently messaged a couple and they sent me back basically a price list for the things they offer as services They were offering massages/ blowjobs with a condom on and a lot more for money!! It’s insane!! I just never texted them back after I found out🤣🤣 " Had the same thing happen, they seem to have disappeared off Fab since then, there must’ve been plenty taking them up on it though with all the verifications they had | |||
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