FabSwingers.com forum: Attraction or personality

By *RBDSM79 OP Man
1 week ago

Waterford / Wexford / Kilkenny/ Tipperary

What are we thinking everybody , what's more important , I can only talk from personal experience but some of the best sex I've had has been with people I probably found less attractive than with people I was really into

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By *he KakapoMan
1 week ago

A nice rock

Tbh I don't have enough time to waste having sex with people I'm not attracted to

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By *omebirdWoman
1 week ago

HAVE to have an attraction. Personality enhances that, of course, but you wouldn't entertain someone you weren't attracted to for the purposes of hooking up.

And there are levels of attraction.

Out of ten is a commonly known and utilised unit of measurement.

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By *alted!Man
1 week ago

Cork

Attraction of course when it's no strings fun and not very often.

Personality is for the long term.

Attraction is what opens the door

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By *exyScientistsCouple
1 week ago

Castlebar

"What are we thinking everybody , what's more important , I can only talk from personal experience but some of the best sex I've had has been with people I probably found less attractive than with people I was really into "

I am attracted by someone's personality, so I only have sex with people that I'm attracted to. I don't think I could have sex with someone that I thought was great looking unless I was attracted to the person as a whole 🤔

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By *ealcoupleCouple
1 week ago

There has to be an initial attraction for me, and then the personality has to finalise it. If im attracted and the personality is ugly I wouldn't be taking it further.

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By *oe1977julyMan
1 week ago

Roscommon

I’m Sapio sexual … (only knew there was a term for it when I joined here) so within reason looks are not terible important to me.. all about the intelligence for me

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
1 week ago

Galway, Clare

"Tbh I don't have enough time to waste having sex with people I'm not attracted to"

I've plenty of time just zero inclination to have sex with people I'm not attracted to.

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By *elfastDMan
1 week ago

belfast

It’s a personality that attracts me

So the best sex is with someone I’m attracted to (if you know what I mean)

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
7 days ago

East / North, Cork

I presume you really mean to ask about looks Vs personality. Attraction can be to lots of different things for different people, including to personality.

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By *he gentleman 1000Man
7 days ago

santry

Well suppose you have be some what attracted to them but they need have good personality too makes it better need both basically

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By *outhDublinMan86Man
7 days ago

shankill

Initial looks lure me in, personality hooks me.

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By *ink LipstickWoman
7 days ago

East

It has to be both for me, definitely a physical attraction but the personality has to match it.

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By * DareCouple
7 days ago

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Attraction for sure but personality is the biggest factor, makes you want to know them and be around them. Great when you meet someone with both.

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By *hantomfemmeWoman
7 days ago

Sligo/Galway depends on the day

Personality, if they have a Personality im attracted to then it goes a long way. Physical attraction is great but I find a deeper connection can be important

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By *4thfloorTV/TS
7 days ago

Dublin / Sligo

Nothing worse than someone with model looks who can't fuck!

For me, how someone chooses to present themselves is much more important than their looks in making that first impression. Obviously you can't judge a book by it's cover and every now and again you encounter a dark horse, but for example if someone dresses conservatively or is clearly very invested in their gym routine then that's a pretty good indicator to me that we are living very different lives and are likely incompatible.

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By *indenMan
7 days ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Looks may get me interested, personality may keep me interested…..

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By *he KakapoMan
7 days ago

A nice rock

"Looks may get me interested, personality may keep me interested….."

"May".... you non committal bastard!

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By *parkie2Man
7 days ago

Ratoath

Why choose? I think most of us need and want both. I want the steak and the sizzle but with someone who makes me hard just by walking into the room or before they even arrive. Hot and horny go together like latex and lube, heels and hotel beds, or coppers on a Monday night and bad decisions. But the real magic? When I’m drooling before the clothes even come off and I’m still shaking afterwards. That’s filet mignon with a side of filth, and I’m not settling for toast and water

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By *nquisitive LadyWoman
7 days ago

Midlands

"Why choose? I think most of us need and want both. I want the steak and the sizzle but with someone who makes me hard just by walking into the room or before they even arrive. Hot and horny go together like latex and lube, heels and hotel beds, or coppers on a Monday night and bad decisions. But the real magic? When I’m drooling before the clothes even come off and I’m still shaking afterwards. That’s filet mignon with a side of filth, and I’m not settling for toast and water"

I want the steak with all the extras Sparkie

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By *indenMan
7 days ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"Looks may get me interested, personality may keep me interested…..

"May".... you non committal bastard!"

I know you’re on a time frame so I didn’t want to get you over excited….

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By *on Draper2.0Man
7 days ago

Maynooth

Some of the most outwardly beautiful women I've encountered are horrible people. I have no problem walking away from 10/10 for looks if she can't make me like her for who she is too.

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By *astelloWoman
7 days ago

Far far away

Just wear a paper bag..sorted.

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By *indenMan
7 days ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"Just wear a paper bag..sorted. "

I’ll wear two incase the first one falls off….🫣😂

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