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Let your wife come meet me alone - wtf !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just want to have a we rant here !!

This isnt the first time this has happened, cus, its happened a few times over the years, and I wanna get other couples views on this.

Message from single guy :-

"Im staying at a hotel, would your wife be interested in coming ALONE to meet me."

Firstly, if he had read our profile, he should have known NOT to send that to us..

Secondly, would any other male half of a couple on here be over the moon about a single guy asking for their wife to go along and meet this guy on her own.. a total random stranger.. alone in a hotel.. JAYYYSUSS ??

Swinging for us is something we BOTH enjoy, and not for one of us to be 'fucking off' somewhere alone with a total stranger !!

So guys ( who do this ), do yourselves a favour.. messages like that to couples im sure wont go down well and to be honest, i find it very very fkn rude !!

In closing, i didnt send a rude reply to the guy.. I asked him politely to read our profile again, and, then told him not to contact us ever again.. pity actually.. cus we were gonna invite him along to a party and he could have had his pic of about 7 - 8 girls.

Anyhow.. rant over from a very very pissed off Mr D.

Any thoughts from other couples this has happened to ?

oh and Mrs D views on this... well, i actually couldnt print what her reply was to it cus it was quite rude lol.. but, im sure your imaginations could work it out....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always going to have these persons who are merely chancing their arms in the hopes of maybe getting away with it.

Simply block and move on plenty of genuine and respectful others about who do read profiles and honour individuals wishes.

Then again were u not singing the praises of same single guys only last week? Guess Ur perspective has changed, bad experiences tend to disillusion us all sad as it is that is life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah ill continue to sing the praises og guys who dont ask me to give them my wife for the night lmao !!!

Doesnt change our views on guys.. does piss us off however when we get messages like that..

Not tarring everyone with same brush here.. hell no.. deffo not..

but just v v pissed off

grrrrrrrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah ill continue to sing the praises og guys who dont ask me to give them my wife for the night lmao !!!

Doesnt change our views on guys.. does piss us off however when we get messages like that..

Not tarring everyone with same brush here.. hell no.. deffo not..

but just v v pissed off

grrrrrrrrrrrrr"

Totally get it. I've met some very special single guys who redeem singles in general but have also had dealings with absolute knobheads too

Seen it from a singles profile and a couples point of view and there's always a few bad apples in the barrel sane applies across the board for everybody males females and couples. Just got to be selective I guess and give the benefit of the doubt when possible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In reflection...

I do understand that the guys probably just thinking with his COCK rather than his BRAIN...

still annoying lol...

ah well..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get quite a bit of this actually..even though our profile states that messaging or addressing one of us alone will result in blocking.

We dont get as upset about it anymore, just block and move on.

We do not blame all single guys for this, yesterday we were messaged by three different guys who when told they werent what we were looking for could not have been more polite.

Some sound guys on here aswel, just like in vanillaland there are douchebags everywhere but they are a minority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose god love him some guys do keep their brains in their cocks. Those kind of guys don't hold much attraction for me personally though. I do like a guy who has an actual brain aside from their cocks. Makes for some very enjoyable encounters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My god! Is it any wonder i'm (single guy) having a hard time trying to convince people that i'm just a nice genuine guy looking to explore my sexual desires when there are numptys like that giving single fellas a bad name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My god! Is it any wonder i'm (single guy) having a hard time trying to convince people that i'm just a nice genuine guy looking to explore my sexual desires when there are numptys like that giving single fellas a bad name

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By *ick and sexyCouple
over a year ago

any

This kind of crap happens to us regularly, just hit the block button and move on to the people with a bit of cop on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My god! Is it any wonder i'm (single guy) having a hard time trying to convince people that i'm just a nice genuine guy looking to explore my sexual desires when there are numptys like that giving single fellas a bad name "

Ah I wouldn't worry hun if u approach respectfully and have a little patience,I'm sure u will get a result. It just isn't instant results. Build up a rapport with people and word gets around that u are a genuine decent guy. Best of luck with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some couples do meet alone though, but if its stated on a profile that they don't , the guys an eejit for askin, then again, who reads profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So no chance if I mail the mrs asking a loan of you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some couples do meet alone though, but if its stated on a profile that they don't , the guys an eejit for askin, then again, who reads profiles "
some do but there are always some who won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some couples do meet alone though, but if its stated on a profile that they don't , the guys an eejit for askin, then again, who reads profiles some do but there are always some who won't "

I always read profiles, but that's cos I'm a nosey fecker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My god! Is it any wonder i'm (single guy) having a hard time trying to convince people that i'm just a nice genuine guy looking to explore my sexual desires when there are numptys like that giving single fellas a bad name

Ah I wouldn't worry hun if u approach respectfully and have a little patience,I'm sure u will get a result. It just isn't instant results. Build up a rapport with people and word gets around that u are a genuine decent guy. Best of luck with it "

Thanks

I'm chatting to a few folk on here pretty regular, try not to come across too pushy or desperate just wanna have a good time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lololol nippy... if its the other way around.. shell be glad to get rid of me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some couples do meet alone though, but if its stated on a profile that they don't , the guys an eejit for askin, then again, who reads profiles some do but there are always some who won't

I always read profiles, but that's cos I'm a nosey fecker. "

Lol here's Ur sister then. Can't resist a good snoop in profiles and a Perve at the pics hehehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find that when we get into a message conversation with another couple on the site it very often transpires that it is a male who quickly begins to conduct a conversation as though Mary was the only person in conversation from our end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just want to have a we rant here !!

This isnt the first time this has happened, cus, its happened a few times over the years, and I wanna get other couples views on this.

Message from single guy :-

"Im staying at a hotel, would your wife be interested in coming ALONE to meet me."

Firstly, if he had read our profile, he should have known NOT to send that to us..

Secondly, would any other male half of a couple on here be over the moon about a single guy asking for their wife to go along and meet this guy on her own.. a total random stranger.. alone in a hotel.. JAYYYSUSS ??

Swinging for us is something we BOTH enjoy, and not for one of us to be 'fucking off' somewhere alone with a total stranger !!

So guys ( who do this ), do yourselves a favour.. messages like that to couples im sure wont go down well and to be honest, i find it very very fkn rude !!

In closing, i didnt send a rude reply to the guy.. I asked him politely to read our profile again, and, then told him not to contact us ever again.. pity actually.. cus we were gonna invite him along to a party and he could have had his pic of about 7 - 8 girls.

Anyhow.. rant over from a very very pissed off Mr D.

Any thoughts from other couples this has happened to ?

oh and Mrs D views on this... well, i actually couldnt print what her reply was to it cus it was quite rude lol.. but, im sure your imaginations could work it out.... "

theres always a few chancing their arm. on a lighter note, any1 want MR M for a few hours? i cant get rid of him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first few times this happened to us we answered very politely but after that we now just delete and block them.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

What's a profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mrs m... send him over lol... xbapsx... get your asses out this friday lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs m... send him over lol... xbapsx... get your asses out this friday lol xx"

Yeooooo do u want his bags packed too lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a little bit off topic but you said about a woman meeting a totally strange man in a hotel room.. how do you think single women work it out on here when they dont have a husband going with them.... just thought your reaction to that was a bit much.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I can see where Ur comming from single ladys have to be so much more careful a good reliable safety person is required but the op did say their profile says they don't fly solo and their safety is each other goes for men to a safety is a requirement never know what kind of axe murder u will meet

Best meet I ever had she met me first in public with a guy friend of hers he had a look at me shook hands and left after about half an hour she text him said thanks and see u soon thought it was a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a little bit off topic but you said about a woman meeting a totally strange man in a hotel room.. how do you think single women work it out on here when they dont have a husband going with them.... just thought your reaction to that was a bit much. "

As a single on here now I insist on a prior coffee/drink meet and I neverdo instant meets. I expect to have chatted with a person for a considerable length of time before ill even meet for a coffee never mind a private one to one meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see where Ur comming from single ladys have to be so much more careful a good reliable safety person is required but the op did say their profile says they don't fly solo and their safety is each other goes for men to a safety is a requirement never know what kind of axe murder u will meet

Best meet I ever had she met me first in public with a guy friend of hers he had a look at me shook hands and left after about half an hour she text him said thanks and see u soon thought it was a good idea"

Good idea. Sadly not everyone has a male counterpart that they can bring along. But thankfully my system works for me. And I usually trust a person before I will meet. I suppose past experiences educate us somewhat

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I used to always bring a big axe with me, just in case anyone thought I was a pushover. I don't seem to meet as many these days though.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"I used to always bring a big axe with me, just in case anyone thought I was a pushover. I don't seem to meet as many these days though. "

well ya never know Michael ya never know!!!!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

My biggest problem today is that incessantly grey sky. It's seriously bringing me down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish we could Mr crazy D.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I used to always bring a big axe with me, just in case anyone thought I was a pushover. I don't seem to meet as many these days though. "

Mm a big axe micheal

I think u got it mixed upwhen they say a walk in the woods usualy means outdoor sex not to be felled topped and debranched

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I was kinda wondering if I had misunderstood something alright. There was she taking her kit off and talking about playing safe, and me putting my chainsaw boots on. I thought she seemed a bit surprised.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a little bit off topic but you said about a woman meeting a totally strange man in a hotel room.. how do you think single women work it out on here when they dont have a husband going with them.... just thought your reaction to that was a bit much. "

I dont think my reaction was a bit much....

We get a mail from a guy who we dont know from Adam.. asking to pack my wife off for a night in a Hotel for him?

Any girl who goes to a meet without getting to know a guy or even ask questions.. well, ill b honest, thats just foolish

Before we meet anyone on this site we do get to know them fairly well, and we know well before meeting stage if were compatible..

If girls jump into a hotel with a random stranger with no questions asked.. then.. thats up to them..

WE certainly wont !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lesson here then is that some single guys are dicks, and some single guys aren't dicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lesson here then is that some single guys are dicks, and some single guys aren't dicks"

Lesson two - read the OP before replying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Ah Mr D it's all your own fault for having such a hot wife

(sit back and wait for the brownie points)

So..can I have the lend of her then?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lend ?.... Seeing as I know you..

Take the bitch forever

Teach her to be sumbissive would you please.. cus she wont do a fkn thing i tell her lol !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lend ?.... Seeing as I know you..

Take the bitch forever

Teach her to be sumbissive would you please.. cus she wont do a fkn thing i tell her lol !!! "

Ah, now I see why you like me so much, it's escapism!

Think true submission can't be taught though I'm afraid, you're stuck with an unruly Mrs D. On the plus side, least that way she'll deserve lots of spankings!

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