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By *oungnFit21 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

north dublin

Hi all, I’ve been on this site a couple of weeks now and struggle to get any sort of serious replies and mostly just get left on read. I’m always respectful in my messages so I’m quite sure why I think it might have something to do with my age but idk. Any help with on how to improve my profile or what I should be messaging people would be greatly appreciated thanks.

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
2 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

Personally, I won't interact with a guy who has nothing but dick pics in his profile. It's icky and kind of insulting that guys think that's all a woman wants to see.

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By *estmeathKinkyCoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Westmeath

Don’t take it to heart, there are so many single men on here, inboxes get flooded…I do agree on the dick pic advice, different profile pic should help, message us if you like

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By *heeky_and_TroubleCouple
2 weeks ago

Dublin


"Personally, I won't interact with a guy who has nothing but dick pics in his profile. It's icky and kind of insulting that guys think that's all a woman wants to see.

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Agree with this its a pet hate also the word discrete screams im hiding something from a partner to me anyway. I think most wouldnt take out a billboard notice of their encounters anyway.

Maybe see about some unverified socials or the help a fabber out thread - Trouble

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By *ogladyWoman
2 weeks ago

The bog

I personally think u should put what ever pics u like on your profile.. There are loads of profiles in here that have dick pics as there pfp and have loads of veris... The only thing that would make me not interested is Ur age and that's all... U just do u and u will eventually get there..

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By *oungnFit21 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

north dublin

Ok I understand but I’m 100% single

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By *oungnFit21 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

north dublin

Messaged you there👍

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By *oungnFit21 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

north dublin

Ye that seems to be a big issue a lot of people just say I’m too young when I message them unfortunately

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

Op

Use the reply+quote button each time so people know who you're replying to ...just some advice

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
2 weeks ago

Newry

You're only here a heartbeat...think of Fab as more of a long distance thing.

I'm unsure of what your expectations were but it's always good to temper them a little round here.

You're young, which might put you at a disadvantage, and your username might put some off (it's also a little incongruous with your profile bio).

And lastly, social events are often a better means of connecting with people so perhaps try that.

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By *oungnFit21 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

north dublin


"You're only here a heartbeat...think of Fab as more of a long distance thing.

I'm unsure of what your expectations were but it's always good to temper them a little round here.

You're young, which might put you at a disadvantage, and your username might put some off (it's also a little incongruous with your profile bio).

And lastly, social events are often a better means of connecting with people so perhaps try that."
I mean I’m just looking to gain some experience with people who are willing to help me out, is my new username better?

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By *aughty MilfCouple
2 weeks ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland


"Hi all, I’ve been on this site a couple of weeks now and struggle to get any sort of serious replies and mostly just get left on read. I’m always respectful in my messages so I’m quite sure why I think it might have something to do with my age but idk. Any help with on how to improve my profile or what I should be messaging people would be greatly appreciated thanks."
maybe try attending DV8

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By *he English OneMan
2 weeks ago

west


"Hi all, I’ve been on this site a couple of weeks now and struggle to get any sort of serious replies and mostly just get left on read. I’m always respectful in my messages so I’m quite sure why I think it might have something to do with my age but idk. Any help with on how to improve my profile or what I should be messaging people would be greatly appreciated thanks."

I guess remember no one owes you a reply sometimes no response is a nice way of saying not interested but don't take it personally and it also depends what your saying to them if it's hi think about how many Hi's they get on a daily basis so make your messages standout plus it would help to add more pics not get cock pics and remember everyone has their own preferences so you can't please everyone just carry on being yourself interact with forums here trying not to get into trouble😅

And keep an eye on newbie events

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By *nquisitive LadyWoman
2 weeks ago

Midlands

Newcomers 20th August

Check this out in the Irish Forums. It gives all newcomers a great opportunity to meet people and become verifed.

Best of luck

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By *oungnFit21 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

north dublin


"Newcomers 20th August

Check this out in the Irish Forums. It gives all newcomers a great opportunity to meet people and become verifed.

Best of luck "
ok thanks will do

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By *izzKathrynWoman
2 weeks ago

Drogheda

You need to go to socials so many single men's here. At least st a social you meet people in person, mingle etc. DV8 is a place to check and also check out forum for events and help a fabber out

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
2 weeks ago

Portstewart

Check out the help a fabber thread or try getting to an organised social and try having different pics and good luck

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
2 weeks ago

Waterford


"You're only here a heartbeat...think of Fab as more of a long distance thing.

I'm unsure of what your expectations were but it's always good to temper them a little round here.

You're young, which might put you at a disadvantage, and your username might put some off (it's also a little incongruous with your profile bio).

And lastly, social events are often a better means of connecting with people so perhaps try that. I mean I’m just looking to gain some experience with people who are willing to help me out, is my new username better?"

I don't know what your old name was but this one kinda sounds like you're bi or bi curious which will put some people off. Also from previous threads I know some ladies have expressed a reluctant to hook up with people who could be in the same age bracket as their kids

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By *oungnFit21 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

north dublin


"You're only here a heartbeat...think of Fab as more of a long distance thing.

I'm unsure of what your expectations were but it's always good to temper them a little round here.

You're young, which might put you at a disadvantage, and your username might put some off (it's also a little incongruous with your profile bio).

And lastly, social events are often a better means of connecting with people so perhaps try that. I mean I’m just looking to gain some experience with people who are willing to help me out, is my new username better?

I don't know what your old name was but this one kinda sounds like you're bi or bi curious which will put some people off. Also from previous threads I know some ladies have expressed a reluctant to hook up with people who could be in the same age bracket as their kids"
im not bi at all where are you getting that from ahahha

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By *reamerBMan
2 weeks ago

Fantasy


"You're only here a heartbeat...think of Fab as more of a long distance thing.

I'm unsure of what your expectations were but it's always good to temper them a little round here.

You're young, which might put you at a disadvantage, and your username might put some off (it's also a little incongruous with your profile bio).

And lastly, social events are often a better means of connecting with people so perhaps try that. I mean I’m just looking to gain some experience with people who are willing to help me out, is my new username better?

I don't know what your old name was but this one kinda sounds like you're bi or bi curious which will put some people off. Also from previous threads I know some ladies have expressed a reluctant to hook up with people who could be in the same age bracket as their kidsim not bi at all where are you getting that from ahahha"

I'd say it's the curious part in the name. I agree with the socials, I've attended a few and met awesome people and had some great craic. Does be great nights organized.

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By *oungnFit21 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

north dublin


"You're only here a heartbeat...think of Fab as more of a long distance thing.

I'm unsure of what your expectations were but it's always good to temper them a little round here.

You're young, which might put you at a disadvantage, and your username might put some off (it's also a little incongruous with your profile bio).

And lastly, social events are often a better means of connecting with people so perhaps try that. I mean I’m just looking to gain some experience with people who are willing to help me out, is my new username better?

I don't know what your old name was but this one kinda sounds like you're bi or bi curious which will put some people off. Also from previous threads I know some ladies have expressed a reluctant to hook up with people who could be in the same age bracket as their kidsim not bi at all where are you getting that from ahahha

I'd say it's the curious part in the name. I agree with the socials, I've attended a few and met awesome people and had some great craic. Does be great nights organized. "
oh fair enough but I just changed my name ffs

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By *earuisceMan
2 weeks ago

south sligo


"I personally think u should put what ever pics u like on your profile.. There are loads of profiles in here that have dick pics as there pfp and have loads of veris... The only thing that would make me not interested is Ur age and that's all... U just do u and u will eventually get there.. "
Great advice this

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By *he gentleman 1000Man
2 weeks ago

santry


"I personally think u should put what ever pics u like on your profile.. There are loads of profiles in here that have dick pics as there pfp and have loads of veris... The only thing that would make me not interested is Ur age and that's all... U just do u and u will eventually get there.. "
yeah ladies hate dick pics unless they fancy the guy then it's okay lol

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By *he gentleman 1000Man
2 weeks ago

santry


"Newcomers 20th August

Check this out in the Irish Forums. It gives all newcomers a great opportunity to meet people and become verifed.

Best of luck "
I must attend this

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By * BlackMan
2 weeks ago

Laois/ Dublin


"I personally think u should put what ever pics u like on your profile.. There are loads of profiles in here that have dick pics as there pfp and have loads of veris... The only thing that would make me not interested is Ur age and that's all... U just do u and u will eventually get there.. "

This

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